hobomojo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	girl i’m talking to sent nudes too fast and i don’t know what to think Have y’all only been talking, or have you gone on any dates yet with her? If so, how many? 3 weeks can be a very short time or a long time depending on how frequently y’all are actually meeting in person.	/r/seduction	16/06/22 03:41 PM
4	So I am a police officer, very pretty girl, no BS. I was told I am 8-9. Why guys are afraid to approach me and just say hi, or is it the idea of dating a cop is scary? I wouldn’t want to date a cop because they have a high rate of spousal abuse among them, with little to no accountability. Also, I enjoy going to parties and doing other fun things that cops seem to not like. I just can’t imagine having fun being around a cop.	/r/seduction	07/06/22 01:33 PM
1	Guys who used to be rejected by women but worked on themselves and now are successful, do you feel little disgusted by the change in behaviour of women? No, because that’s just human nature. I like penguins but I don’t call a sea lion evil when it eats them, it’s just in its nature to do that. Women are more attracted to men who can provide (have their shit together) and are physically in shape as that provides a better chance that their potential child will be better off for it. Better just to accept the animal nature in all of us and adapt with it than to rail against evolution and go extinct.	/r/seduction	15/04/22 09:14 PM
84	Why are the single mums more receptive? Then why are you dating women with kids? That’s gonna be the end result, unless you’re just looking for a one night stand.	/r/seduction	11/02/22 05:35 PM
1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material Yes I would. I said I understand their motive, not that I condone it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 10:12 PM
1	Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners? If she’s had more partners than she’s old in years, that’s an easy choice, next her. OF virgin for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 08:52 PM
65	What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count? “Done playing games, looking for a REAL man” etc.	/r/seduction	03/02/22 12:00 AM
3	What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count? If she has a Tinder account	/r/seduction	02/02/22 11:56 PM
93	[deleted by user] “You’re gonna have to pay if you want a picture, but you can see it in person for free”	/r/seduction	26/01/22 06:00 PM
1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material If you think the initial stages of dating are “effortless” on the guy’s part, then you really have no idea how much effort he really puts into it. Unless of course you only date players who have been dating a lot of women, then I assume with that much practice it does start to become effortless on his part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 12:37 AM
0	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material You’re gonna wind up without any potential dates if you sort out all the guys that want to get laid. That’s kinda the main reason we go on dates lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 11:11 PM
2	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material Yeah, I may have phrased it a bit clumsily. I suppose “motivation” is more accurate than “logic” since it’s not very logical to begin a LTR through deception. It would be like if the guy lied about his job/income, sooner or later the truth will come out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 09:48 PM
8	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material What does “m/w” mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 07:26 PM
2	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material I think it’s more the feeling of unfairness than feeling of being punished. It doesn’t feel good to be the guy having to put a lot of effort into something that another guy gets for minimal effort. Like being charged $20 for a beer, then the next guy behind you is given a beer for free. Just doesn’t feel fair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 06:26 PM
123	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material I understand the logic behind it (not wanting to appear too easy) however, I feel like all this behavior does is incentivize men to behave more poorly (less than boyfriend material) so they can get laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 06:21 PM
1	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are I think it’s usually used as a cope, and not meant to be taken seriously. Instead of addressing the real issue (attitude, appearance, etc.) they can say “they just can’t handle my intellect” and then move on with life without actually having to do the hard work of being introspective and fixing one’s flaws.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 06:12 PM
3	Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is? Considering how Tinder is a site for one night stands, I don’t see anything wrong with checking if you both meet each other’s physical standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:15 PM
2	Shooting your shot at someone “out of your league”? There aren’t leagues. The only thing you need to be concerned about is if the other party is attracted to you, and you won’t know that until you talk to them. Remember, the idea of ‘leagues’ is basically just you self selecting yourself out of the gene pool, don’t fall into that trap	/r/seduction	20/12/21 04:20 PM
1	Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value? Fat, has a kid, old, high n count, and argumentative	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 10:47 PM
1	Gender professor claims men can never truly "Like" woman. Do you Agree? Men are willing to bet half their wealth on a woman that they love, yet they are also incapable of loving women? Because society wants men to hate women? Why would any society intentionally try to drive men and women apart? This argument jumps to a lot of conclusions really quick	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/21 10:13 PM
131	[Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience? I assumed that since women kept saying I would be good husband material that meant they desired me. Turned out they just wanted to reject me politely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/21 11:16 PM
1	Would a guy feel compelled to have sex with me if I bought him dinner? Unfortunately for a lot of guys, the only kinds of relationships they can understand are transactional ones. The smarter move is to not lead with your wallet and to start with a more casual, laid back kind of date over drinks	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 10:11 PM
1	Do womens level of intelligence mean nothing? That’s not correct. Just look at any species that exhibits dimorphism, such as the peacock.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/21 06:18 PM
2	Most guys aren't really trying that hard Imagine thinking you need to use steroids to get laid in college, that’s like bringing a rocket launcher in order to shoot fish in a barrel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/21 05:41 PM
1	Q4M: Would you still be happy fucking a woman who "wants to put a paper bag over your head", i.e. is repulsed by you but fucks you out of horniness anyway? Easy hook up with no strings attached and she is attractive? Sounds pretty great IMO	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/21 03:00 PM
1	For ppl who get anxious about the idea that their SO enjoyed sexual intimacy with another person, is “low n” or “virgin” your preference? Would prefer a virgin, but in this modern world that’s highly unrealistic so I just stick to a don’t ask, don’t tell policy and try to focus on the present.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/21 07:10 PM
0	Is body count a part of modern dating culture? Yup, I keep to the policy of don’t ask don’t tell when it comes to this topic. The only point to bringing up this topic is if you want to find an excuse to break up with them	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 04:04 PM
3	Men complaining about women who complain about age gaps are just shifting the blame. I feel like the only people that care about age gaps are people on Reddit. Never encountered this issue in the real world	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 09:25 PM
12	Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender roles That’s assuming you only date people your exact same age. I know this sub hates age gaps, but you can always date someone younger than you	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 11:15 PM
62	Dating women forces men to be superficial This ignores one big thing in the male world: hobbies. A guy will spend tons of his hard earned money on the latest thing when it concerns a hobby he is interested in, not to impress other women, but to impress the other guys that share in that hobby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 06:05 PM
-1	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. It’s not manipulation, it’s just the truth. The longer a woman holds out the more it indicates to the man that she’s not interested. I’m not saying they have to have sex the first date, or after every date. Just that he will eventually start looking elsewhere so long as he has options, and if she is not interested in sex in general then she shouldn’t be wasting the man’s time and should avoid dating for a bit until she is ready	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 04:54 PM
1	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. From the guy’s perspective, a woman withholding sex is her manipulating him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 04:15 PM
1	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. If she’s not ready for sex, then she probably shouldn’t be looking for a romantic relationship in the first place and focus on improving herself and develop healthy platonic relationships. I do agree that someone shouldn’t be forced into doing something they aren’t ready for, but you can’t deny that sex is an important part of any healthy romantic relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 04:09 PM
2	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. As long as both parties are willing to say what they want up front, I see no problem in saving sex till both are comfortable. However, a lot of women will withhold sex from men in order to string them along for more free dates and gifts, or men will lie about wanting a LTR when they are just looking for something casual. In a perfect world where everyone could be honest from the beginning things would definitely be a lot better, but we don’t live in a perfect world. So, for men at least, the bes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 04:00 PM
2	Do you feel bad for only having sex with a girl who clearly wants commitment from you? As long as your honest about your intentions (just looking for something casual, etc) then you shouldn’t feel bad cause if she’s wanting more, than that’s on her for chasing someone who made it clear what they want. We’re all adults here, and that means respecting each other’s decisions as well as boundaries	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 05:34 PM
2	We don’t recruit, we just... Just because you weren’t wrong doesn’t mean it wasn’t a traumatic experience, he should definitely get some therapy. I know I would be a wreck if my family excommunicated me like that without even giving me a chance to defend myself. That’s just brutally unfair	/r/MGTOW2	07/06/21 03:38 PM
16	We don’t recruit, we just... They just want the benefits of a relationship without the downside of being only able to sleep with one person. IMO it’s an extremely selfish way to live life	/r/MGTOW2	07/06/21 03:17 PM
23	For the Redpillers who learned the hard way to watch what women do, not what they say- what was your story of learning the hard way? Idk if I’d consider myself redpiller, but I did have a pretty eye opening experience with how women behave when they don’t think there are any straight guys around to listen. A friend of mine was visiting town with a group (5 people) of his friends and we all stayed at an air BnB for the weekend. My friend and the only other guy in the group are both gay, I am not however. I didn’t try to flirt with anyone in the group, so they must have assumed I was also gay. So when the girls in the group wer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 03:20 AM
2	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? Why should I put more effort in? To be another toy in a woman’s personal harem? Not going through that drama again. I’d rather just earn enough to pay the bills and put some into savings/investments than work myself to the bone for a woman that views me as replaceable. Simply put, the cheese at the finish line is no longer worth the rat race. Also, the women getting more degrees is a pointless statistic when a lot of those degrees aren’t worth the debt incurred to get them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 01:29 PM
1	How to be more interesting I whole heartedly agree with your point about work. I hate my job and I hate answering questions about it. I guess I just thought I was the only one though.	/r/seduction	26/02/20 06:02 PM