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Women still do it for the possibility they can change his mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:39 AM
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I've seen a general reversal of feminine/masculine bevahiors over the last 30 years. Many men are more feminine than I have ever seen and many women are more masculine. Films now even show women in this role reversal. I think declining testosterone levels are involved with men - and women often have to be the breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:23 PM
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This is nothing new - we just have better data now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:24 PM
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How is the statement of a literal fact (bad boys) considered any pill? It's just true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:02 PM
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It’s no easy out. Most shit their pants at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:20 AM
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They would give you a shot if you show some promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:19 AM
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You sound fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:07 AM
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American society is perhaps at an all-time low for considerate and compassionate loving relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:29 AM
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Go watch Mad Men and how things were. This is what that fool Trump calls being ‘Great Again’. As a white man…. Well… it looked pretty good to me. Yet 1/2 the women are voting for Trump?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:00 PM
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Not with that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:57 PM
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No these were more girlfriends / agree 3rd date would be suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:05 PM
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Used to take girls I had been dating to female clubs - it always ended well when we got home.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:40 PM
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This is a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:43 PM
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Lol that was more 1970s - in the 80s when things started for me in high school girls kept it trim. Honestly I've never cared - just happy to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:07 PM
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I've experienced more than one woman using this technique believing things will evolve and I will catch feelings. Sometimes I have - actually more often than not. It's a smart strategy in my opinion after over 2 decades of messing about (I'm happily married now and a lot of this was mostly pre-social media thank god). Basically 1990-2010.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:16 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:22 PM
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Animals get intoxicated on various naturally occurring things. We’re not the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:52 AM
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Well covered in the book 'The Selfish Gene'
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:36 PM
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Who knows these days - likely no way I can give you my honest definition of male nature without downvotes so this is the world we live in. It works for me in my marriage. For reference I'm a liberal far-left leaning democrat not some conservative idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:39 PM
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Yet you are writing erotic literature?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:28 PM
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If you have to ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:30 PM
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Men should lean into their masculine nature, not further emasculate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:49 AM
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US culture is garbage. So many reasons to leave beyond just the women. I’ll take a Buddhist culture if I had the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:17 AM
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Celibacy worked great for Morrissey - he’s been very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:39 PM
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This might be why men struggle. Make it fun for you and let the women join in on your fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:05 PM
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I think there is also the same issue for men gauging their attractiveness. Most dudes are just fine but think they’re hideous monsters or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:53 PM
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Lots and lots of single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:25 AM
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Rent the best quality gear - you won’t use it as often as you think. Wait… what are we talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:27 AM
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Perhaps treat really unattractive men as super hot. That should fix things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:00 AM
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Actually only 6 month or so of that year would be abortion free,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:18 PM
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This sounds like a man wrote this to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:55 PM
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And it was pretty easy to get laid in the 70s (I was too young but heard), 80s was a hump fest but aids made coverage imperative and the 90s was the decade of the bone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:04 AM
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Not in your 30s but definitely in your 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:43 PM
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I recently gave some advice to a much younger colleague. "Marry the woman who is just barely good looking enough for you to be interested in sexually and is literally your best friend. Any attractiveness above your bare minimum will likely cause serious issues" My wife is Korean and is the sweetest person I've ever met. Was your wife young? I think I've lucked out because I'm older. She is 'old school korean' in her belief that the man is truly the head of the house. Treats me like a king. She's…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:24 PM
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That's really rough. Sorry to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:04 PM
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This is the right answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:01 PM
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I've seen this trend over the last 30 years. Average men need to finally accept that to be happy you may need to settle for an average girl (shriek!)… The good news is average women are far less hassle and more fun compared to the real beauties. I've somehow pulled off relationships with 9s and they ended in misery - mostly mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:32 AM
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Worst part is even average nice guys can’t even get with average nice girls. Average nice girls have hookups with men out of their league and average men get nothing. I’m not sure which is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:23 AM
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Try meetup.com if that is still a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:20 AM
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I’m so glad my prime years of scandalous male behavior was before social media. Probably no way I could pull most of it off today and certainly wouldn’t be employable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:19 AM
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Dating pretty much sucks for everyone. But for men who fundamentally cannot date at all, it’s far worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:08 AM
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Guarantee a super fit guy can get laid if he has the right attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:27 PM
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female sexual strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:21 PM
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Entertain yourself - fuck what women want - do what you want and get really good at it. Women usually follow. Don’t ever do something expecting an outcome from a woman - they can sense when you are looking for a reward from them. Looks don’t matter for the guy who deeply believes he’s awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:06 AM
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The only flaw is in the mind of a man who believes he is flawed. Be relentlessly genuine and who gives a fuck what others think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:41 AM
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Totally like you do that 2-3 times. Now doing shots with an actual date? That’s a different story. It’s like ‘hey let’s go to a strip bar’ with a bunch of dudes. Not fun. Do that with a date where she wants lap dances? That’s fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:25 AM
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I think the right vilifies poverty more than the left. To the right, poor people just need to get desperate enough so they can use their bootstraps to course correct. In either case there is no party representing people with no power or influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:57 AM
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A woman can have sex with just about any man once. Compare that to who she could marry. So marry the provider and reproduce with the hot tall guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:47 AM
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Don't forget Paternity Fraud - paternity fraud I've heard it argued this is the best possible female strategy for reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:56 PM
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If you are a leader of men women notice. For example when going out with a group of friends if you are treated as the highest status by other men, even if you are not the best looking, it draws women in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:17 PM
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It's more about control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:46 PM
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A woman’s enthusiasm for you can dramatically shift up or down based on how her friends perceive you. Winning over her friends goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:07 PM
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Sure! It’s actually pretty easy / live below your means - save everything - get assets that produce income and asset appreciation early in life. It’s basically ignoring everything the media and culture wants you to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:41 PM
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Korean - she’s in her early 50s but looks much younger. She just retired from work and is so thrilled to just be a homemaker for the first time. We have no kids (on purpose) / just our dog and cat. Collectively we’re in the top .5% of wealth in the US, and she brought about 40% to our total via the homes she owns and rents. I’m a software entrepreneur.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:23 PM
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Good news - this describes my wife. Want what you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:49 PM
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Dark - Asian Brown - Asian 5’5 or below Slightly chubby but not obese / not skinny Highly educated (Ivy League is ideal) I like professional highly educated women Not my business - >1 Not my business - >1 Atheists or Agnostic Straight or bi 35-50 - younger then I am Absolutely must be liberal - no republicans or conservatives
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:34 PM
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Lol like women are this logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:30 AM
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I was a stay at home passport bro. I only dated women in New York City who were from Japan, China, Korea, Thailand or the Philippines. Best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:42 AM
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Just don’t pursue the girls everyone is attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:34 AM
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I just haven’t earned it yet baby - but I actually have - very little left to prove. I could die tomorrow and people would say ‘yup he killed it’. As for my wife, to die by her side, we’ll the pleasure and privilege is mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:16 PM
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I think you will find plenty of amazing women if your ok with 5s and 6s - it’s the hot ones that society warps into believing they can get a celebrity or billionaire. Why even waste the energy. And keep in mind you don’t have to prove anything to anyone but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:13 PM
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I’m not CHAD not even close and I’d also probably be dead without Morrissey. Louder then Bombs is the soundtrack to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:13 PM
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The bottom line is I was striving HARD to get 8s. Once I was happy with 6-7s all my issues went away. The most important lesson is know where you sit in the pecking order. And you know what? 6-7s are so much better in bed and as humans in general as that intense female evolutionary pressure is not as intense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:10 PM
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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:54 PM
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You mean how he lived? What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:45 AM
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Lol my wife is quite happy as am I. We all have a past.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:44 AM
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Yeah you’re right. Sorry I’m just so jaded - I’ve seen the worst possible behavior from women so I’m starting to see how warped my thinking is. I’m married now after 2 fiancés over the years broke my heart. I simply became a person incapable of trusting women and instead used them for my entertainment (and I hope theirs). Looking back you guys are showing me it’s not good at all to think like that. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:39 AM
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You are right. I apologize - my comments were insensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:35 AM
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The Smiths and Morrissey happen to be my all time favorite. That’s a weird coincidence that you even know them. I would listen to ‘Meat is Murder’ laying face down crying on my bed as a teenager. I’m sensitive as hell actually but not when it comes to how women make me feel. I’ve been through some horrible situations with women and you learn to not take it personally. When I was 24 my heart was broken so severely I had to go on Zoloft to recover. So I get it - you are right that my perspective i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:33 AM
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Read some Nietzsche.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:22 PM
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As an older man I am shocked at how sensitive younger men are. It's not good or bad, just different. This happened to me many times in the 90s and 2000s - it was just bonus on top of whatever else was going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:21 PM
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This is a great example of where you could have found a way to try to make something happen. Write her a thoughtful note how you are not looking for anything serious but really liked her, and at the very least would like to stay friends. It's amazing how many these situations get repeated. You could have a repeat session or two and work on her getting to know you. I've heard marriages happen in these situations where the girl was not all that enthusiastic at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:20 PM
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Oh my god yes - so much! Women are the best wingmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:16 PM
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Have you humby been vulnerable with one of your female friends? Really asked in a genuine way for help? I think you might be amazed how they will respond to a humble ask for help. Here are some ideas on the things you mention: Height - buy some lift shoes - there are a ton of options. Check out https://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Body structure - Gym, jog, etc. face structure - Facial hair - you can dramatically improve a weak chin for example by growing out a beard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:11 PM
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Are you improving yourself with the objective to get women? That doesn’t work - you’ll end up killing attraction by qualifying yourself. Anything you achieve should be for your own pleasure and satisfaction full stop. If you don’t want to improve don’t. A woman will respect you more for living authentically. This is not a job interview this is an emotional obstacle course meant to weed most men out. The world won’t pat you on the back - if anything people try to tear you down when you get a bit …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:20 AM
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You guys need to get out and meet women - just as friends. Try to have at least one female friend and let her make you her project to fix up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:48 AM
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As a man who at multiple times in my life (for various reasons) had near unlimited sex options I can confirm. It gets fucking old and worse - depressing. I even got sick of MFF threesomes thanks to a very kinky lady friend. I distinctly remember thinking ‘this is a lot of work and I have work tomorrow’. I can think about it now however and really wish I could get that back. Nope - wife is not down. The thirst is BAD when you can’t get any though. It gets so bad that it gets disproportionate to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:45 AM
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As a short ugly guy I can attest that social skills absolutely will get you laid - a lot. You just have to learn - take an improv class perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:09 AM
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This is kind of messed up but it works - the hotter the girl the more you have to act like she’s not quite good enough for you. The most beautiful girlfriend I ever had was a British girl (solid 9) who I was ‘set up’ with at a group function. I was extra charismatic to everyone BUT her, especially her friends. This was the opposite of what she was used to and I could see her confusion. I already knew her life was non-stop male attention and I told myself “don’t even engage”. It was not an act. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:01 AM
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MALE: I think this is an over-generalization. Women are attracted to men who are self-directed and do not place their own value on the value women give them. It looks to the outside observer that these guys are 'bad' because they live life on their own terms. It's not about a woman's safety - it's about how much a man is fully confident in his life and in no way will compromise his goals and objectives for a woman. Looks are just a part of this - i've seen very average guys do very well when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:52 PM
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Women control sexual choice - men control relationship choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:16 PM
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Hockey is an incredibly elegant complex game. The stereotype of the goon is mostly over. My theory on the shorter guys (myself included) is we have to develop our personalities to be extra large. The shorter guys are the biggest characters. They are the funniest and loudest. For me psychedelics are a performance enhancing drug. Life is enhanced especially with psilocybin. There is a long history of extreme sports with magic mushrooms at lower doses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:39 AM
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That’s a good question on when. I didn’t know them before but I would bet years of playing had a lot to do with it. There is a kind of personality that develops. Confidence without arrogance. Constantly knocking teammates down in a playful way. Willing to fight any person at any time if it was needed (even if they couldn’t fight that great). Never ever being intimidated by any woman. And genuinely not caring if they bomb. There is a kind of clean cut look combined with an edge. Mustaches and bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:26 AM
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I like it. I like it a lot. It seems like men are just not having fun. If you’re not having fun it shows, and it’s not very attractive I can imagine. The guys I’ve played with were pretty intense characters. Very entertaining (except for goalies lol). Women were everywhere trying to join our party. I’m married now thank god. And we were never near pro-level.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:59 PM
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As a woman, how might we teach that to more men without requiring them to lace up the skates? I bet there is money to be made. I hear so much pointless pain in the men writing on here. I genuinely want them to find happiness and lose the bitter anger that causes a cycle of disappointment and more anger. Something about ‘danger and play’ as I heard it described by some blogger.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:38 PM
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Whenever I see men with their shirts off it's a hockey team. We all are physically active but perhaps 1 out of 20 looks all that great. Lots have beer bellies and dad-bods. Also almost every non-married guy does very well for himself with the ladies. They also just don't give a shit in relation to women. If you have a real ‘fuck it’ confidence and find your happiness regardless of female attraction that seems to cause attraction. It really is about truly not giving a fuck and having intense pass…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:10 PM
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There's nothing I can think of 'for sale' that is targeted to your happiness - it's just not profitable to tell people 'want what you have' and 'you are already enough'. Perhaps buying a home would be the closest thing as you need shelter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:40 PM
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I'm working on growing taller / should start any decade now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:33 AM
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I’d appreciate she has excellent taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:25 PM
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That’s so easy. I’d bone the shit out of the fat 50 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:59 AM
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The 10% of the men getting all the sex have us covered.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:58 AM
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Lying. Guys says X to get her in bed - turns out he is Y. Oldest routine in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:55 AM
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Nothing new there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:48 AM
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If judged superficially you’d have to be above average in looks/wealth to even get started. It’s not about ugly it’s how much are you above average. The top 15% of men are the target even for below average women. That’s just evolutionary psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:46 AM
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I though that was code for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:15 AM
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