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Thrift store
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 12:58 AM
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She will find a new guy and weekend responsibilities will be inconvenient, you’ll have every other weekend sooner than you think.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 09:01 PM
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It’s an overplayed term, ranks right there with another overused term…. Narcissist.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 02:10 PM
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It all depends on how you feel. I’ll forewarn you though… there are a lot of broken people in the world and the dating scene is crazy, while loaded with crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 12:31 AM
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Because you are high on Hopium and doing the pick me dance, hoping she sees your value as a man and takes you back. The next guy will appreciate the work you put into her house.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 01:29 PM
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Mine was $7500 and reilled every 3-6 weeks. Brutal.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 04:54 PM
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Dhe can fileca motion to modify child support based off of your income only
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 04:51 PM
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File & have her served. Its not that difficult.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 02:33 PM
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The $2500 is really tough. Whats even tougher is continuously refilling that retainer many times throughiut the divorce process an realizing you spent several thousand dollars.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 11:09 AM
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She is committing what is called Parental Alienation. Look it up, it’s serious & is devastating to relationships with your child.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 06:16 PM
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You are sad & weeping because you are mourning the person you THOUGHT your wife was, and all the hopes and dreams attached to her. Sadly, your wife was/is not that person. The pain will get easier over time but it will never completely go away.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 05:43 PM
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NOT YOUR MONKEY, NOT YOUR CIRCUS!!
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 05:24 PM
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Take them to a dollar store & let each of them pick a gift.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/24 11:52 PM
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ALWAYS fight for 50/50… you & your kids both need it.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/24 04:44 PM
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Once you file with the courts they will schedule a status conference where you will be instructed to continue paying the bills as you were during the marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 05:28 PM
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You are NOT the “love of his life”, you are his Plan B… remember that when he tries to comeback. Be somebody’s Grand Prize, not the consolation prize.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/24 08:14 PM
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She had ZERO long term friends and very few regular friends. She took pride in describing herself as bitchy.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/24 05:30 PM
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Keep in mind that you will most likely be paying 100% child support with zero custody for the first few years of the baby’s life for nursing. Don’t take my word for it. Don’t take Reddits word for it. Ask an attorney….. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 02:28 PM
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You don’t see it now but she is actually doing you a favor. Imagine having multiple children & being 15-20 years older. She is a piece of shit that isn’t worthy of your love.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 03:33 PM
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Keep. Moving. Forward.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/24 02:04 PM
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Do it!
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/24 01:41 PM
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He is speaking the truth, you are just wanting him to speak a version of truth that you want to believe in.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 09:33 PM
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I WISH she did, she doesn’t deserve the honor to carry my last name. Fuck her!
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 01:19 AM
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I bought out the Ex and paid her part of the equity. I'm in Colorado & it's not cheap but it was well worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 10:13 PM
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You are handling it the best you can. Start the process, it’s a shitty journey but you will find yourself in the process and come out the other side a stronger man.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 10:38 PM
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You had expectations of somebody that has always let you down…. Think about that for a moment and let it sink in.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 04:59 PM
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You’ll still feel better even if it’s an ugly woman playing with your penis
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/24 10:43 PM
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GET A MEDIATOR!
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 02:33 PM
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Sorry, I just saw it was a 5 year marriage. You wont pay alimony. Sorry you are going through this, divorce is tough
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 11:30 PM
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Then be prepared for her to ask for alimony. You both should have tried a mediator first. If you are in a no-fault state, you both will end up with 50/50 custody w/ joint decision making. Divorce is always a lose/lose, the attorneys are the ones who win.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 10:34 PM
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Not responding to her text will be the most powerful message you could send. Grey rock her, do not respond because she is fishing for something.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 04:56 PM
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Finalize the divorce… then date her. You will understand real quick that the divorce was the correct option. That Leopard didn’t just change her spots.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/24 02:48 PM
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You love a person that doesn’t exist. You need to properly mourn the death of that imaginary person & move forward because she never existed. She is what she is. Or you can live with the hope of always being her plan B. Time to Man up, DAD up! You are the fucking GRAND PRIZE, not the consolation prize! Time to buckle up and do the hard work at being the best parent possible for your children without this co-parenting “support” nonsense. You are a co-parent, that’s it. There isn’t going to be any…
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/24 06:34 PM
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This will not work out the way you think it will. Doing the pick me dance, rugsweeping, minimizing, blame shifting etc… it’s all a recipe for disaster. Dont worry, we will be here for you when it happens again & again & again etc. Updateme! 1 year
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/24 05:10 PM
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It’s all good. You are at the age where you need to date quality over quantity. Don’t settle & don’t rush. You got this!
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 11:16 PM
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I was 41 when my first was born. 4 total. You will be fine.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 04:17 PM
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You’re not going to want to hear this right now but she is actually doing you a favor by deciding to keep finances separate, talk to a lawyer, she might be on the hook for all $50K. She would bankrupt you in the long haul. Your daughters NEED you, all kids need their Dad. Be the emotional foundation that they need and set an example of what a healthy parent should be. You deserve better.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 02:25 PM
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My Ex was too. My lawyer broke it down to me, every single email was billed at $50. My ex cheated ALOT & my attorney told me point blank “she could be in a 50 man gangbang & the judge won’t care”. I live in a no fault state & everything is split 50/50 so it really didn’t matter if my voice was heard regarding her cheating, that’s when I went grey rock on her and my life completely changed for the better.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 04:37 AM
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Honestly, Lawyers LOVE clients like you & your STBXW because the senseless bickering and one upping puts more money in their pocket.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 12:39 AM
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Did she “confess” because the other betrayed spouse found out & was going to expose her anyway?
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 11:52 PM
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You are not going to receive the closure you are seeking. Your wife wasnt the special person you described early in this post, but she is exactly the person you described in the latter part of this post. People are what they are in their core
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 02:02 PM
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Record every interaction with her.
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/24 04:32 PM
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Its referred to as Hysterical Bonding, its a thing, it clouds your judgement and fucks with your emotions. Been there. Done that. Wasnt worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 02:00 AM
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Its a Mod projecting their own marriage failure.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/24 03:45 PM
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Updateme!
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/24 12:00 PM
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Furnish basic necessities from second-hand thrift stores. The best advice I can give you is to make your place a comfortable 2nd home that your kids will want to visit and be comfortable/safe while visiting.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 01:16 PM
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I had the same exact peoblem with Viagra, I switched to Cialis and that worked perfect for me.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 05:56 PM
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You might re-verify your statement.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 08:43 PM
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Most State websites have a child support calculator and an alimony calculator.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 09:31 PM
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Go on a double date with her & her new boyfriend, that will end any idealization that you can be friends going forward.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 04:42 PM
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There will always be another man in the picture whether you divorce or not. Think about it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 03:12 PM
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You are Plan B. Carry yourself like you are the Grand Prize & not the consolation prize. She has done absolutely nothing to change, nothing.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 02:45 PM
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Start your parenting plan NOW My X and I followed a one week on/ one week off plan.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/23 12:35 AM
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I’m not sure which of you committed the infidelity, but I will assume it is her. What kind of wife will you be getting back? The version you loved cheated. Know what true remorse looks like, not regret at getting caught. For your emotional health, I hope she is remorseful & things work out but I also know the odds of that are really low and it feels like you are rug sweeping this and that will always come back to haunt you. I speak from experience. I’m sorry you are going through this.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 02:26 AM
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What was their reason for needing a continuance?
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/23 11:47 PM
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You should have told her, “no thank you, your pussy is dirty”
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/23 04:53 PM
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It’s a world of broken people. In the dating world, you are just exchanging this set of baggage for somebody else’s baggage. Everybody dating in their 50’s has baggage. It just is what it is.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 01:18 AM
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Do an internet search of chump lady, doing the 180, GAL (get a life), grey rock, rug sweeping, survivinginfidelity dotcom.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/23 01:21 PM
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You are masterfully performing the “pick me” dance. STOP. You are literally doing everything you’re not supposed to do in this situation.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 08:49 AM
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Be ready for the “we just kissed” defense. Followed by the “it was just one blow job, only oral”. Followed by……..
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 08:28 AM
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Your wife is seen as an easy target. When I was in my 20’s, divorcées & soon to be divorcees were the easiest to smooth talk & get laid. I’m not saying it was right, but I was young and loved the ladies.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 10:07 PM
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Be prepared to meet MANY emotionally broken women. If you’re looking for just “physical” connections, it will be an endless supply like shooting fish in a barrel. Deeper emotional connections? those are like hunting for Unicorns. It’s not impossible to find what you’re looking for but the journey can be somewhat frustrating. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 07:41 PM
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Her attorney is getting the best deal for their client… YOUR WIFE! Retain your own attorney!
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 10:49 AM
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Good luck in your new rebound relationship
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 06:59 PM
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It’s a classic case of walk away wife syndrome. You need to do a hard 180, search it if you aren’t sure how to do it. Do what I’d best for YOU. Work on being the best version of YOU. Go full grey rock & show her what life without you actually looks like.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/23 03:24 PM
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Well, then don’t leave her. Let her continue sleeping with the other guy and you can maybe sleep with her sometimes too. The kids will be happy, Mom & Dad & Mommy’s friend all living in harmony. Is there any way to trade places with him & he can stay in the home while you stay in the trailer? It will give you some peace & quiet. Maybe take the kids to a movie so that they can really get in some sexy time without worrying about the kids hearing them. Then you all can go to church together so ever…
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 10:20 AM
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You need to step up, be a man & advocate for yourself. She is literally cucking you right in front of your face and you are still clinging to your Christian hopes & Christian denial. THE GUY LIVING IN YOUR PROPERTY IS IN AN ACTIVE PHYSICAL AFFAIR WITH YOUR WIFE!
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 02:54 AM
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Nesting is a great option until divorce is final. Many people can't afford two mortgages or renting two homes.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 10:33 PM
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I totally agree with you. She is desperate to find the same stability you offered and will believe anything a guy tells her… including an old flame from her childhood. Pop some popcorn and watch her shitshow of a life unfold.. Be the stable parent your kids need because she is the asshole that is mindfucking your kids while trying to mindfuck you. She is a special kind of piece of shit.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 10:00 PM
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The easiest pieces of ass to target are divorced single Moms. When I was younger, they were pure gold. She will be a play toy for many for awhile. I just hope she keeps the kids out of the picture or they will be meeting lots of “Mommies friends” for awhile.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 05:28 PM
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Complacency is a problem in most marriages by both parties. Separation should give both of you individually time to reflect on where you have failed the marriage. She isn't taking the time to reflect on her shortcomings and is deflecting the blame on you. Research “Doing the 180” and “Walk Away Wife Syndrome” Since you are already employing the “nesting” method of separation with the kids staying in the marital home, you need to grey rock her and let her experience what life really looks like wi…
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 03:24 PM
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Check your State website & search for child support calculator & alimony calculator. Most states follow these.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 10:36 PM
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Find a divorce mediator. Cheapest option.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 10:35 PM
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