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| 1 | I'm a known people pleaser/yes man, and I want to take things farther (relationally) with a woman I've been dating...and it feels like things have fallen off a bit... | holdingaces_35 | /r/seduction | 07/01/18 09:08 PM |
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| 53 | Is anyone else experiencing less interest in seduction over time?Idk if this relates, but I'm 31 and have been divorced/separated for about two years now. Long story short, she left me but no love was lost, it was amicable and our child (my life) is much better for it. So I reentered "the scene" with a clear conscience and excitement at the new opportunities. I had in my mind I'd return to my horndog college days mentality when in reality it's no longer as fulfilling. Don't get me wrong, it's always fun to flirt, date and hookup. But ultimately I'm increasing… | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Why do some PUAs and some of this subreddit preach "alpha male" mentality and think women like objects? These two mentalities are the main obstacles when approaching womenJesus. | /r/seduction | 23/11/18 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do some PUAs and some of this subreddit preach "alpha male" mentality and think women like objects? These two mentalities are the main obstacles when approaching womenIn my mind the "Alpha" you're referring to is a douchebag with frosted tips, a soul patch and Jersey accent. Aka an often associated type with the term. But I think that in many of the articles "Alpha" is used to mean someone confident and comfortable in their own skin. Someone who doesn't let insecurities and anxious fears control themselves. Maybe there's a better term, but I don't think there's a Greek letter between alpha and beta lol | /r/seduction | 23/11/18 11:25 PM |
| 4 | How to stop being the friend who gets picked onDon't accept the role you've been unwilling given. And snap back at them. A quick sense of humor is definitely learnable. | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 02:49 PM |
| – | How do you open conversations with girls at bars/pubs?Truth. Having honed sarcasm, dark humor and smart assery after over a decade in the fire service I find that it blends perfectly. The bluntness catches women off guard, they wrestle with a ton of internal surface emotions in a very short span of time, "I can't believe he said that/wait is he joking/why would anyone say something like that/etc." Ultimately it begins to cascade and build before they bring it under control. The trick is to give them that reassuring smile or wink before they get a g… | /r/seduction | 26/08/18 03:15 AM |
| 4 | [FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again.Man I'm 31, embrace it. Life experience is huge in developing confidence. And confidence is absolutely key. You'll be fine, 30 is the new 20 as I tell everyone haha. I just wish I hadn't relied on life experiences/circumstances as a crutch to develop that confidence. But now that I have, dating women my age, with similar confidence and experience, is incredibly fulfilling and freaking hot! There's so much more depth to relationships and interaction. It's amazing! | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:31 PM |
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