| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 54 | Some thoughts from a fairly successful man | holdyourthrow | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 05:59 PM | |
| 5 | Q4women: will this bother you.... | Question For Women | holdyourthrow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Don’t zone yourself into friend zone | holdyourthrow | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 05:19 PM | |
| 1 | Anyone watched the show “Love is Blind” | holdyourthrow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 03:14 AM | |
| 1 | Dating preference of UMC man: My thought and observations. | Discussion and thoughts | holdyourthrow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/19 11:20 AM |
| 1 | An UMC single man's thought on dating and marriage | Discussion | holdyourthrow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/19 03:34 AM |
| 0 | Some thoughts and observation from an upper middle class man who is looking for marriage. | holdyourthrow | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 11:40 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?Most male doctors marry other doctors or people with similar income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Women don't owe men "sexual equality"It’s not a dehumanizing thing. My point is that one side of the equation (the male support / affection side) is seen as natural by society and is not taboo to give to a spouse. The other side of equation (extreme kink/sex act) is seen as taboo and not easy to give to a spouse. I can guarantee you there are far more men providing more support to their wives (like buying a house) then women sharing extreme sex act with their husband, simply because being in a monogamous relationship (the norm of m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:03 PM |
| – | Women don't owe men "sexual equality"I am not a redpiller and actually have been on both side of the equation (I’ve had sex with women that their future spouse wont experience and my wife done similar stuff that it’s going to be almost impossible to replicate). I can understand why redpiller have this sentiment. Basically, for a man to go into a marriage, it should be an escalating level of support (financial and emotional) and increased compared to just being bf/gf. However this doesnt work sexually, because a lot of the most extr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 03:08 PM |
| – | A Glimpse into the MatriarchyGod made men different than women. John moses browning made them equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 04:40 AM |
| 2 | The ability to find FWBs, not relationships, is the measure of how sexually attractive a man is.For a white man in America, yes. For a minority interested in white women, many white women will experiment with a minority (aka fwb) but in my experience it’s difficult. I gone through multiple fwbs before finding someone willing to settle down. And yes, I am conventionally successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Why is the message given to men and women completely different? Men are told to improve themselves, women are told they are perfect just the way they areHere's some thoughts from a man who's doing fairly well in life and probably make top 5% income in a small metro area: if I am hooking up with a woman, I really don't care what she looks like. It adds variety. I tell them however they are is perfect for what they are and what I want (casual sex). However, for my significant others, it absolutely matters. All my past SOs had doctoral degrees, BMI less than 19 (except one who's a daily runner). I expect them to work to improve themselves as much a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/19 11:14 AM |
| 4 | Q4Men: What would you say are the MUST-HAVE traits of a "LTR-worthy" woman? How rare is it for you to find someone with all those traits?There’s just one trait. She must LOVE you. Not love as in saying she loves you. Love you by action. It’s the type of love that you’ll know it when you see it. It’s the type of love that make you want to commit and trust her. I can think of a couple examples. My ex once gave me her remaining bottle of malaria med in Africa because I lost mine. A woman that will denote her own body parts to you to keep you alive like a kidney or liver. I’ll had many girlfriends since. Exchanged some i love yous, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 10:57 AM |
| 1 | For guys who are not religious or tradcon, does a woman’s “n” count matter to you at all?I prefer a woman who had a lot of sex, ideally with a few partners, before me. After deflowering two women I am too tired of teaching people to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/19 10:49 PM |
| -1 | Some thoughts and observation from an upper middle class man who is looking for marriage.Regretable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 02:07 PM |
| 0 | Some thoughts and observation from an upper middle class man who is looking for marriage.Pornstar sex and good sex aren't synonymous. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Dating preference of UMC man: My thought and observations.my experience is by definition not widely generalizable but I'll post over to RPW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/19 11:37 AM |
| 1 | An UMC single man's thought on dating and marriageauto-mod, i don't post here much. Please let me know if I can edit this post for it to be acceptable to this subreddit if it's deemed to be not acceptable. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/19 03:51 AM |
| – | How does a woman attract an UC man for marriage?As a doc, I tend to only seriously consider marriage to other docs or women in my SES. A lot of male docs are wised up and would not marry down anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | The types of guys women go for at 20 are the guys women are truly attracted toThe youngest woman I’ve ever dated was 19. It happened when I am done with my medical training at 32. I am not a partier or a frat bro, not any more, but being able to show a young woman fun and more upscale experiences definitely made me pull harder. And no, this is not a sugar baby thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 11:36 AM |
| 1 | The notion that men are the gate keepers of commitment is laughable.Just been talking to my doctor buddies. We are all young in our 30s and fit. If I want to get laid, I can get laid any time (and I do). But I don’t because I rather find a wife. Women want to have relationship with Chad. Chad gate keeps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 02:51 AM |
| 8 | Girls who I tutor.Not creepy. You can flirt. If they don’t like it they don’t need to come to you, as long as you don’t flirt too hard | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 06:52 PM |
| – | Some thoughts from a fairly successful manResist the urge to make seduction your whole life. By all means, get into whatever technique that help you get over your shyness or anxiety, but has a purpose in life. Once you find your purpose (that is not just to be with a woman), they will come | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Some thoughts from a fairly successful manThanks for the gold kind stranger. First golded comment for me. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 10:30 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The feminist/media reaction to the cancellation of a male BC trial is evidence that feminism is a female superiority movement.My two cents as a medical doctor (not an reproductive endocrinologist). This med as I understand is progestin, a natural analogue of a female hormone. It is not a naturally occuring hormone in a male's body. While female cc pills trick the body into thinking it's in a certain stage of the natural cycle, the male cc pill does something unnatural and feminizing. I am not a transgender person and i would not subject my body to female hormone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/16 09:28 AM |
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