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Red Pill Theoryholmesjp/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 08:36 PM
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Red Pill Theoryholmesjp/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 05:15 PM
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Red Pill Theoryholmesjp/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 09:28 PM
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holmesjp/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 10:28 PM
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Blue Pill Exampleholmesjp/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 08:50 PM
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Red Pill Theoryholmesjp/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 06:25 PM
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As I said, I took my own advice and cleaned up three situations. First was a guitar teacher trying to guilt trip me to give back to him. I have already found another guitar teacher. Second was a female psychologist who tried to get me back at $400 per 2 hour sessions. Enough with the female perspective. The third was a soon ex who was dragging out my separation agreement and divorce for almost two years. A marriage I should never have started (I was 20 and stupid), or let drag in so long. But th…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 12:51 AM
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Takes discipline, but stfu rules. Hamsters can run rampant in the beta male minds as well as women. It took me a while to develop this discipline, and I still slip up from time-to-time. Every time I backslide, I have a chant, stfu, stfu, stfu. Drill it into my head. Use texting for its main purpose, arranging shit. Women will try and drag you into their drama induced, shit testing world. It alleviates boredom. Do you want to be some woman’s entertainment?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 11:16 PM
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Very true. I've walked when women tried to set the frame. Just really stupid shit. Like how much money would I give her every month; I'm paying her to be my LTR girlfriend/wife. Blatant. The author goes on to say sex with prostitutes is the 'best buy' in the marketplace, but claims it's the most remote from genuine sexuality, claiming men appease their desire by quasi-mechanical means.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 11:17 PM
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It can be made to work in some situations. Will depend on the woman's agenda. If she's not trying to nail a provider, and she's an equal (adult not woman-child) and there's strong polarity, and you maintain frame and your terms...it can work.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 03:30 AM
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She argues that men have a dual need. A need to nurture and a sexual need. I've been there. Raised two children along with a wife-child. I enjoyed raising the kids, stayed full term. But the sex disappeared. Starfish variety on the few times. I mean sex once every few months. Found another woman for sex. But later she tried to get me to be her provider.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 12:40 AM
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Men take two women. One as wife-child, the other as sex partner. The wife-child will never be the second partner as long as she doesn't take an adult role. Leading to the continuing complaints about dead bedrooms.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 12:37 AM
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I read pook and everything else, wondered if there was something else he was sourcing
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 03:15 PM

Actually I got her to dump me. I went back to dance lessons without her. But the truth is that I'm just a plate she's spinning, as one responder pointed out. Example, her son's wedding is coming up this weekend. She made a point of telling me that I'm not invited, even though her son asked her to invite me. Can't be just a plate if I'm her man at the wedding. So instead of getting butt hurt about being excluded, I'm cycling all weekend with some outdoor buddies.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:14 PM

Good advice. Example, she would say "don't put that used kleenex back in your pocket, I told you before to throw it away right away"
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 02:56 PM
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You nailed it. I stupidly thought I could beat her at her own game. You captured her frame perfectly. She's been casually doing the dread game for a while, poking at me every so often. I have to give her this, she's good at holding her frame and playing the dread game, also milking a seemingly stable provider. What I didn't mention is that her last husband died suddenly at the end of 2015, leaving her the assets. That's the reason she's on the market. Which means seeking stable provider makes to…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 02:54 PM

She threatened to leave me if I kept doing dance lessons on my own. I stopped for a month to see what would happen. Nothing much. Her wasting my time with all the useless shit women do, like endless shopping, TV watching, complaining about who know what. With me on standby in case she 'needed' me. So I went back to dancing and regular lifting again. Investing in myself. Call it a beta experiment. I am thinking of writing another post on that topic. There's nothing like opening your eyes to Red P…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 04:57 AM
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It's a frog in boiling water thing. Happened over time and subtly, until I looked up one day and realized I became her provider male. I was happily spinning plates and dancing but she started laying small things onto me. Before I knew it. I had agreed to exclusivity. Sold out for pussy. But I'm waking up and taking control of my life back.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 03:03 AM

I'm 65, but as said earlier in great shape make $150k a year and done daily workouts for past 23 years
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 01:54 AM

She is high maintenance, that much I'm learning. I thought about plating her, but why not going to work?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 12:21 AM

I am 65 next month. I've been working out at the gym for 23 years. Recently switched to more strength from cardio. I look about younger, good genes and disciples workouts. I've read everything in the sidebar and more. I was married for 43 years until I found Red Pill and tried to reset my terms and frame. That blew up in me. One other thing, I can dance pretty good, been doing that for more than 10 years. I'm on a hard core men's team to help with my shit. I don't know why the weakness. I get th…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 12:20 AM

I have dated many Chinese women. In my experience, they are more mercenary than white women. I had one Chinese girl explain to me the way it works. The man shows how much he loves the woman by giving her money. The more money he gives her, the more he loves her. This girl who lives in shanghai told me that's their culture. It's understood by the Chinese men and they conform to the expectation. It's all about money. When going out on a date, the man is always expected to pay. With white women, it…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 05:58 PM
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