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To piggyback on this. I met my ex when I was 27. He told me he was 23. I thought this was a bit young for me but he and I got along really well, so I thought ‘why not?’ (This was before I found FDS)....turns out for months I was dating a 20 year old. I found out on his birthday when his friends congratulated him on being able to legally drink now. I was baffled and embarrassed. Suddenly all of his friends jokes about me being a cougar made so much more sense. Bottom line check his ID for so many…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:40 PM
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Also DC doesn’t have bail...so maybe he’s just trying to get money from you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:02 AM
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What is this from? I’d love to read more 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:53 PM
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My ex has said literally all but two of these. I’m so glad he’s out of my life. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:34 PM
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Something I like to do is imagine my ideal perfect self and use her as a guide for goals of improvement. That way I’m not idolizing anyone but myself and my future self. It’s better motivation for me because I can see clearly the things I need to do to get where I want to be and once I accomplish those goals I feel extra badass! It boosts my confidence and it makes me want to add more to my self improvement checklist bc it makes me feel so good to be becoming my ideal perfect self!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 02:13 PM
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I recently read about ROCD (Romantic Obsessive Compulsive Disorder), you might look into that as well. Overall though, I would suggest seeing a therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:26 AM
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I needed to see this! I was definitely thinking about reaching out to my ex husband to check on our dogs that he kept and while I do still wonder about them and hope they’re well...I do not want to talk to him. I know he’s decent enough of a human to take care of them and there’s nothing more I can do for them at this moment in my life so imma keep moving forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:19 PM
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As a woman, I have to disagree with part of this. Yes, you should conduct yourself confidently and disclose your intentions early on...but not because she needs or wants someone to follow. I need/want to know that my man can take care of himself because I know I can take care if myself. I want a man that I can confidently walk next to, not follow. I have my own dreams to execute, I don't need to follow someone else while they execute theirs.
/r/seduction25/01/20 03:09 PM
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I love this with every fiber of my being. ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:18 AM
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My way of coping with my circumstance has been to imagine my life in the most ideal way possible where I'm living for and with me and only me. If I am alone forever, how do I want to be? I think of what a strong woman I will be and I have been moving forward with that. In the meantime, I have attracted someone that I believe to be HV, it's still early to tell but so far so good. :) Basically, my advice to you is to work on you and being the best you possible. If someone comes along that you want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:30 AM
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Of course ♡ Girls gotta help each other to do better, it's just what's right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:56 PM
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If you need someone to talk you through it when you feel like unblocking him and apologizing, hmu. I know how helpful it can be to have someone talk you through it when you first start this whole mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:24 PM
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I'm not saying that I want them going through my phone or that I'm going to go through theirs. That level of suspicion and monitoring isn't healthy, of course. If I am in a serious relationship with someone, however, I expect that trust to be there. If it's not serious or I'm dating around then absolutely not, because that level of trust simply isn't there. For me, at least, it's circumstantial to what kind of relationship we are in. To each their own though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:33 PM
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For me it's not a lack of privacy. I'm not saying I go thru his phone or he goes thru mine reading every little thing or searching for something. There's just no need for the secrecy. To me, it's about mutual trust. I trust him with what's on my phone, sure there are things I'd rather him not see/read/whatever but if he does it's not that deep. I feel like my partner should feel the same and if he didn't I would definitely think he was hiding something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:21 PM
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Imo, you shouldn't have to have him unlock it for you, he should have told you the password. Any guy I've ever been serious with knows my password and I know his. Not bc we need to check up on each other but out of convenience. I cant find my phone, lemme grab yours to call it. My hands are full and I need to text my mom something? Hey, grab my phone and text her for me. If you cant trust me with your password, I dont trust you, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:30 PM
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My ex did this exactly. In the beginning he wanted me to tell him any problems I had and he would say sweet things and try to help and I told him I wanted to do the same for him when/if he had any problems. Then he started getting dramatic whenever I brought a problem to him, especially if it was something we already talked about that he wasn't working on. Before we broke up he started citing all the problems he had with me that he never told me about and I was just like "wtf how do you expect m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 04:25 PM
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