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| 19 | LOCK THEM ALL AWAY! Time to celebrate this success!Maybe post a pic? A lot of the jan 6 terrorists were IDed by passing their photos around the internet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 10:57 PM |
| 5 | How abusers use your anger against youIn my experience this is as common as calling women crazy to get out of trouble.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Check-InYeah I love the idea, it’s just harder than I thought in practice not because I even like the guy but because I’m still stuck in the mindset of trying to de-escalate men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 05:26 AM |
| 103 | Nah sis 🤢🤢Also if the man is a predator himself it’s like a wild animal smelling blood. They’ll think you’re wounded and thus easy prey. Better to not reveal until you are truly in the deep trust long term zone with a HVM and even then I would not go into detail | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 04:44 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Check-InDoes anyone ever get worried blocking? I always have this fear it will bring out an even worse response than whatever already made me decide to hit the brakes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 09:35 PM |
| 10 | Nothing but factsJust look at Josh Duggar for an example of the protection a nuclear family gives you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 07:26 PM |
| 19 | So you don’t want to date women who strip or do porn? That’s fair. We don’t want to date men who go to strip clubs or who watch porn.Wow she’s my new girl crush yesss!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 06:03 AM |
| 6 | Things I didn’t know I needHonestly I want them. I think it’s something a sex pest wouldn’t see coming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 09:29 PM |
| 12 | Friendly reminder: we don’t have an expiration dateIdk!! I look back at my early 20s and cringe a bit because I was still such a child and so immature and I really thought i was an adult. I thought I knew EVERYTHING back then. In my 30s I know I know nothing and have chilled out immensely, released a lot of the expectations I had of other ppl and the world and have followed the open doors in front of me and found a really good place. 23 you are really just beginning!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 10:24 PM |
| 36 | Best post in the history of reddit. Not for the audacity of this POS, but the backlash he got from the replies. He really thought he could use this baby to control her and it backfired HORRIBLY. Love to men getting a taste of their own medicine. I hope this woman is great and doing well 🎉🙏🏼Only problem is he’s probably going to raise his son to be just like him and the cycle continues | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:38 PM |
| 7 | Of course Reddit somehow convinced her this obvious case of porn sickness is ok...This. But it’s women too sometimes. Got in an argument with another woman the other day because she thinks it’s totally normal and natural for her boyfriend to masturbate to her friends photos. A lot of urges are “natural” doesn’t mean we should always act on them or that higher values like ummm respect can’t come into play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 04:32 AM |
| 15 | We all know it. If he wanted to, he WOULD.Seriously give it time and focus on building a life you enjoy. I’m to the point now where not being single is the thing I can’t wrap my head around and give up, even when i date a HVM my heels just dig in like is it really worth giving up single life?! but if you had asked me several years ago I would have struggled with it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 07:32 PM |
| 15 | Pregnancy and Its DiscontentsLet’s not forget all the super painful things that can happen with breast feeding. Also my friend had an epidural and her lower back has never been the same since. She’s like an old lady has a hard time sitting for too long on certain surfaces. I swear I find out a new thing about the horrors of childbirth every week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:35 AM |
| 154 | Women deal with so much shitYeah being a woman is so easy because men buy us drinks. What more could we want /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 05:23 PM |
| 13 | Sexual coercion is SEXUAL ASSAULT. Not all sexual assaults are violent and it often happens in relationshipsThe way you described speaking to him is literally how my siblings talk to their kids ages 2-5 wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:31 PM |
| 100 | If your partner does this, RUN in the opposite direction. This is abuse and a power play.It kills me when I see women in heels being forced to scurry along. She wore those to look good for the date and the scrote is so unappreciative | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 10:26 PM |
| 15 | Making fun of "daddy issues" as if it was the girl's fault that her father failed herSadly it’s also used a lot when a woman is engaging in what is deemed as “promiscuous behavior” regardless of if that’s the reason or not (I mean, I know plenty of girls with great fathers who go through wild phases sexually, it’s not always a sign someone is damaged they might just be horny LOL). It’s used as a way to shame women about their sexuality like they were raised poorly or must be damaged to have a healthy appetite for sex. Sigh. Sadly I have heard it used to put down interracial rela… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleI would reach out to local and national preas and influential feminists on Twitter etc to post about it and get it to be a big story. If that school is doing it others are too. Women should always be able to say no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 05:33 PM |
| 22 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.There’s so many divide and conquer tactics used on women it’s sad. It’s like an abuser but on a national scale- “make sure this group of women hates this other group of women so we have them isolated to brain wash!” I’m not surprised we don’t come together better, but it seems to be improving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 12:40 AM |
| 6 | TV shows with strong woman energy?Ginny and Georgia. It’s new on Netflix. It does a really good job of illustrating low value behavior and also high value behavior. It feels a little more up to date than most shows I’ve watched recently in this arena. And Georgia... oh man she’s a great woman character. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 09:46 PM |
| 118 | A man with self awareness realizing men are the problem? This is rare.It’s so weird to me how everyone just throws up their hands about it like oh nothing to do! I bet if the govt said FB, YouTube, pornhub, etc can’t operate until they have 0 child porn, 0 rape porn, 0 whatever else weird toxic sh*t is out there, they would find an algorithm to scrub those videos from sites faster than we got a covid vaccine. The whole thing with pornhub acting like there’s just too many videos for them to possibly moderate... gtfo! Then you shouldn’t be operating. End of story. E… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 08:36 PM |
| 5 | Men aren’t active parents. In fact, many of them are burdens to the women they’re married to. Their lives get easier when married, but the women’s lives come to a complete standstill.Hoping it’s just a scare! My friend actually went thru cancer and it was very much her female friends who were there for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 05:43 PM |
| 25 | Ladies, take note of the men around you who are saying "not all men". They are promoting a pro-femicide agenda. Don't have sex with them, don't give them your attention, and don't patron their businesses #BoycottNAMALTI’ve felt so beaten down this week and demoralized by the conversations I’ve seen and had. I’m so glad I logged in and this was the first thing I saw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Other Women’s Subs Are Starting to Slowly Figure Out What We’ve Been Saying All Along About Males In Women’s Spaces. It’s Starting to look a little FDS-y out here.She’s saying the post didn’t go through but means the comments she made didn’t go through. The phrasing isn’t the best I read it the same way too at first and had to reread it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 08:14 AM |
| 8 | Other Women’s Subs Are Starting to Slowly Figure Out What We’ve Been Saying All Along About Males In Women’s Spaces. It’s Starting to look a little FDS-y out here.I don’t think there’s a law. There was a chain of women’s only gyms for awhile, and there are some women’s only coworking spaces/clubs that couldn’t exist if there was. Men aren’t a protected class so.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 07:57 AM |
| 54 | Even the men on Twitter are defending FDS over Dominque. Regarding the whole Vice article, this was one of the responsens on the Vice twitter. Meanwhile not a single person has been patting her on the back and told her she did a great job- quite the opposite.Soooo they’re basically treating her in the ways we try to avoid by being selective and vetting, proving we are right to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inHow many times have you met up in the two weeks? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inJust take baby steps. Try setting a boundary with someone over something small and inconsequential. Do it again, and pick something a little bigger. The more I set boundaries and the more I had confrontations the easier it got and I realized it wasn’t a big deal and the world wouldn’t end- even if the other person got pissed at me who cares? At least I can still respect myself. One thing I wish I had done differently was not be so naive about men. All they really do care about is sex and they wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI would honestly ask if he thinks I’m stupid? Because I feel like that’s what he’s trying to do. Like pull the wool over your eyes like you wouldn’t be able to tell it was a fake. It seems manipulative to me tbh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inHonestly if they want advice I speak my mind but I try to do so tactfully. There is a bit of a shoot the messenger risk even though it’s something they NEED to hear. But other than when specifically asked I don’t bother because I always get the “well you don’t know him like I do he does try...” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inYesss! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inLook at that sub past couple of days! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 12:04 AM |
| 12 | I love it when men recognise LVM!Bahahaha yesss! Maybe if they hear it from other men?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 11:35 PM |
| 6 | Advice for a man who married a gorgeous woman with whom he has nothing in common. I loved her response.I snort laughed. This is so true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:52 AM |
| 19 | He was not amused and blocked meI’ve noticed with some liberal men they think because they are liberal that somehow the effects of their privilege and rape culture just passed them by. So they don’t actually do the work to root out their own shit because they think they don’t have it. But what happens is they only hold those beliefs in theory and when faced with them in practice- like working for a woman boss, or having to equally co-parent, paying female employees the same, or whatever- they find it very upsetting. And then i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 09:41 PM |
| 49 | Imagine trying to find a gynecologist in network and these are the only options 😭😭🥺Idk but I met a male gyn once back when I bartender and he basically used his occupation as a pick up line. “I’m a gyno so I know what I’m doing” kinda line. It was gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:55 AM |
| 41 | Imagine trying to find a gynecologist in network and these are the only options 😭😭🥺He didn’t want to ruin his love of the vagina?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:52 AM |
| 4 | I don't have a good title this is just hilariousEeeww honestly the seat and cover should be put down every time so when it gets flushed poo particles don’t go all over the bathroom. How do so many men not know toilets have covers for a reason?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:34 PM |
| 3 | I don't have a good title this is just hilariousOh wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:31 PM |
| 7 | HVM will be CONFUSED when you thank them for their basic decencyDamn you’re right. That’s exactly it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:24 PM |
| 21 | HVM will be CONFUSED when you thank them for their basic decencyI honestly wish these dudes moms would write parenting books or something. Like how do so many guys turn out so horrible... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:22 PM |
| 41 | I don't have a good title this is just hilariousWait they don’t?! I’m still new here. Yuuuuuuck!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:49 AM |
| 30 | I have no words... Hope she will leave and get him arrested.I’m in my mid 30s and I think it’s because FB became a thing right as ppl my age were entering college. MySpace existed before that but that really marked the explosion of social media and of course smart phones came around a couple years later. There was a big gap of time where like... morality/consent messaging/the law hadn’t caught up to to the technology. I remember most of my male friends throughout my 20s showing me nudes etc from the girls they dated like it was no big deal. Now we have t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:33 AM |
| 12 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseThis is why I stopped dating. They’re all like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 06:59 PM |
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