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| 3 | q4men: what contradictions do you see in women?Oh, ok so that's what you meant. Thanks for that long explanation. Yeah I think I agree with probably everything, though I think it's understandable if someone sometimes happen to vent excessively, it's just important to take other person's feelings into consideration and work on it so it happens as rarely as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 12:33 AM |
| 3 | q4men: what contradictions do you see in women?Yeah, I have trouble understanding what do you mean by "they need to be able to self-soothe/self-regulate". How is soothing someone different from emotionally supporting that person? I understood it as: a man can be emotionally open but he needs to be able to move on from his negative emotions on his own without requiring help from others, or at least from his partner. But if you're willing to support your partner emotionally either way, then what's the difference if he gets better with or witho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 12:07 AM |
| 10 | q4men: what contradictions do you see in women?So, basically you can't offer emotional support for your male partner? Genuine question, because it's kinda confusing to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Men who are 50/50, how do you plan to compensate for child birth?I don't understand, you're not gonna have a kid unless you want to, no other person decides about your pregnancy, so why would a man have to compensate for your child birth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 12:41 PM |
| 0 | If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on?There are deegres of good though. Something may be good as it provides some pleasurable stimulation but the stimulation that the other thing provides is excellent in comparison (it kinda sounds stupid in context of dick size but whatever, I don't know how to put it better) and there's a vast difference between the two. I don't think any man wants to be subpar in bed to some of the woman's previous partner and it's more risky when your partner feels like they could have something better. And you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 12:56 PM |
| 2 | If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on?So you just insist that size doesn't matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 11:32 AM |
| 2 | If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on?He also could have had an 8 inch dick and known what to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 11:26 AM |
| 2 | How many women expect their partners to do unreasonable amounts of housework?Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of height on a guy?It's more of an equivalent of shoulder width and bone thickness in men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | bro the recent posts on the sub are so low qualitylol you're fragile af | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 10:52 AM |
| 5 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?I think she doesn't even need to work on looks to find a partner. She could probably get a looksmatch quite easily. For unconfident guy it will be usually hard to find anybody interested in him who's not a woman significantly uglier than him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's incredible and depressing how women will treat you completely differently if they perceive you as high value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 02:41 PM |
| 10 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?Most of the so called "pesonality" that women value in men is just socio-economic status and usefulness. Women whine about men not seeing people in them but you're no better at all if not worse. Men will welcome whatever your personality is as long as you're not unpleasant or extremely needy, or very bland if they have higher standards (and obviously if you pass their looks threshold, but that's true for both sexes) while a lot of women will expect their man to grind their whole life and be non … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Women want to make all of these ridiculous rules, be insanely selective and play well above their league but then refuse to acknowledge that the ONLY thing affording them this luxury is that men are significantly hornierI'm not sure if men's N count preferences matter, women are also pickier when choosing a man for relationship, even if men are willing to wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:19 AM |
| 3 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?building up positive energy between you but husband shoudn't be the only one responsible for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?So sex is a reward for doing what you want? Men just should monkey-dance otherwise we don't deserve a relationship with woman in your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?If women expect to be courted then they should compensate it somehow for example stop complaining about doing more household chores. Or they should care about their romantic lives too and plan dates and shit as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 01:05 PM |
| 6 | When women say they want a man to show more emotion, what they are really asking for is healthier emotional communicationWomen don't bear this particular burden, but they bear plenty of their own gender specific ones. Like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBody > face if the face is at least 6/10 And I agree that boobs > butt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 12:28 AM |
| -1 | The traits men want in a DAUGHTER vs WIFEMen may not care about women being independent because they're fine with being a provider, or supporting his not so independent wife in whatever way. It doesn't necessarily imply that they want to trap a woman in relationship without a chance to leave or whatever you want to believe. It may as well mean that they just don't care, especially if it's descibed as "top quality" (if I haven't misunderstood meaning of this). Same applies to strength. Men don't care as much about woman being strong whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEvery woman who complain about fragile men's egos should see this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:24 PM |
| 6 | Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships?Being pleasant person is easier than being confident, strong, skilled, stoic, good social skill, having high social status and whatever I forgot because the list is so long lol. even if ur attractive men will always want more, just like women Yeah, however men are easier to satisfy because threshold is lower and we don't expect as many things so we have less incentive to move to another woman. edit: On a side note we don't want fake pleasant woman lol same as women don't want a man who is faking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:23 PM |
| 6 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellWomen don’t just cry because you call them a hypocrite. It’s clear he said some stupid disrespect shit and that’s why she cried. How do you know that? Women are not a monolith. What else was she supposed to tell him? Some men can approach women at work but not you? That’s better? Why so black and white? She could probably tell it to him respectfully. You can't expect people to read your mind so if you go that way don't be surprised that men get mad at women, ignore what they say and call them hy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:29 PM |
| 14 | Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships?men have nothing that compensates for their nature Threshold for women to be considered physically attractive is lower than for men. And beyond physical attractiveness men don't require much. Just pleasant personality and being somewhat self-reliable. Women's threshold to consider a man physically attractive is higher and having attractive personality for men requires more character development. So to me it seems like men have it at least a little bit worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 03:16 PM |
| 13 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellLmao, no. You can't just say it's never ok to approach women in work, make exception for some men and then make surprised pikachu face because you got called out for being hypocrite. Also crying in that situation was pathetic as fuck. that’s why she seems like a hypocrite to you. She is a hypocrite because her actions don't match her words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 11:03 AM |
| 4 | Are women just as cruel as men?You just cherry picked types of cruelty done more by men and claim it as a proof. Women are less capable of commiting crime. Obviously women will rarely rape men if they're not sexually interested in majority of them and a man is stronger than a woman most of the time, so he can defend himself. Do you see women whining and hating on men to the same extend that men do. Yes, there is just fewer women than men here. Also speaking of one gender hating another lemme introduce you to r/fourthwavewomen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 12:13 PM |
| 0 | Tinder is effectively broken already.Men talk shit women put it into action | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHalf a year for me 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 01:54 PM |
| 0 | Men's greatest desire is to feel desired and special, that's why AFBB even exists as a topic of discussion.He strikes a lot or is hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 11:07 PM |
| 9 | Men's greatest desire is to feel desired and special, that's why AFBB even exists as a topic of discussion.Guys on here who can’t handle the thought that their GF / wife might have “desired” another guy more than them. Because her lack of desire at this point results in vastly different treatment - that's the main problem. The gap in desire is too big in that situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCentral Europe here People have casual sex here, though I don't think it's as prevalent as in US, most people search for LTR. So it's not necessarily sex and boom relationship, but yeah if you're dating multiple people at the same time you will be accused of being a player. There's exclusivity from the get go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believe"Gee, sorry man you aren't slaying a bunch of pussy, that must suck!" Strawman. Exactly like other commenter pointed out... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 12:48 PM |
| 8 | Women actually like emotional guysYeah, we know that actually. Women like masculine men with slightly emotional side which allows them to show more positive emotions and passion. However I think most emotional people are overally more sensitive, and most women would rather pick emotionally unavailable and tough guy over someone emotional and vulnerable, at least according to PPD lore. So I don't think you can really say that women like emotional men and your post doesn't bring anything new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:25 AM |
| 3 | How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Women and girls are kept in complete darkness about the society they live in and become hate machines based on distorted depictions of their reality. Here is a list of lies and the corrections. The more women and girls as well as boys and men become aware of them, the better.Why it's deleted | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?Yeah, when most women act entitled men stop liking them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Women don’t want “cute”.Bonus points if they let me win at Mortal Kombat and Mario Kart I'll never understand this nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Women control how men act in datingWhere the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place Doesn't it work like that for every human relations basically (except parents)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 10:41 PM |
| 5 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleI wish i could give it multiple upvotes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 01:39 PM |
| 10 | What’s the best size?That circumference is fucking big. Nowhere near average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: How would you view a man who is vocal about men's rights and struggles as a dating prospect?I'm not saying I believe that, I didn't write that comment to argue about that. It's something I noticed about discussions on the topic. Men often bring up arguments to back their claim when arguing about it, yet you're talking like they always only invalidate women's issues. Also when it's not met with hostility and deflect, there comes "I guess both men and women have issues and it's hard to compare", no way there is acknowledgment that maybe there's something to it and men may have it actuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 11:17 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: How would you view a man who is vocal about men's rights and struggles as a dating prospect?‘men die too yknow’ Most women in this sub (and feminists) don't deserve that guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How would you view a man who is vocal about men's rights and struggles as a dating prospect?Saying that men suffer more than women (or that women have it easier than men) is not invalidating women's issues if it's not a baseless claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 10:02 AM |
| 0 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menWomen are not privileged? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 06:31 PM |
| 0 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'Allow me to introduce you to the concept of falsely cultivating empathy. Ummm I assume that staff knew those men were felons. You're trying to tell that just falsely cultivating empathy were enough to make all that unimportant so women had decided to have sex with them? There's still something wrong here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Why is there a discrepancy in what men believe how women respond to men crying in relationships compared to what women believe how women respond?A bad day at work falls under the realm of “personal struggles.” I thought that it may be but "personal struggles" is just very vague description. What about other examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Why is there a discrepancy in what men believe how women respond to men crying in relationships compared to what women believe how women respond?This should be the top comment of this thread. Hell, the part starting from "It's taboo to bring up women's toxic traits" should be on the fucking top of this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 11:59 AM |
| 0 | Why is there a discrepancy in what men believe how women respond to men crying in relationships compared to what women believe how women respond?Is she? Her husband was crying about quite heavy stuff. If he cried about something that would make him look incompetent or weak, he still might be dumped in the blink of an eye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 11:29 AM |
| 4 | Why is there a discrepancy in what men believe how women respond to men crying in relationships compared to what women believe how women respond?There are many similar takes like yours whenever the topic of male vulnerability is brought up, and the thing that is always suspicious to me is strinking contrast between examples which are used. There's a man crying about pretty heavy stuff imo, like death of the relative or death of his dog. Then there's a whiny guy who is constantly sobbing and venting. But I think there's a lot inbetween that's being left out. For example what about man crying because of overwhelming day at work? Or because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 10:38 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, if they just want to be around confident people then that's not a big problem but I just feel there's something more to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 11:10 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've seen women saying that insecure, unconfident etc. men repulse them multiple times so that's why I assume these negative feelings. There are also multiple threads here and in others parts of reddit where guys complain about getting left as soon as they let some of their weaknesess to leak out or if it was a married couple woman was avoiding a man until he got his shit together [EDIT: until he got his shit together emotionally]. You probably have seen those. Ngl, I'm not really into obese wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 10:50 AM |
| 13 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAs an anxious and awkward guy, the notion that women are repulsed by unconfident guys is quite disheartening. Even if I improve, how can I respect and love the person who would look down upon me and be disgusted by me in the past because I had some issues? Eh, maybe I'm whiny but it messes my head a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Most men don't understand that women's standards are like a barrier, not a sum, so a man cannot compensate for bad traits.Where women are honest? (lol) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Lurker Welcome Mega-ThreadWhy care about what some stranger w🤢men may talk about you on anonymous forum though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 04:30 PM |
| -1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYas kween 💅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou can't be serious comparing hook-ups to watching porn like they're the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 01:02 PM |
| 2 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beThere is disproportionately bigger number of women who don't care compared to men. Hence the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 02:56 PM |
| 3 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beYes - would be but women themselves choose to not care about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 10:03 AM |
| 2 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beYeah, but women don't care about men's n-count (as long as he's not a virgin), or even prefer partners with more expierience and that's why we have this inequality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 09:47 AM |
| 3 | Women often like guys who treat them as disposableAlmost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Women: Are you more attracted to a status-driven man or a purpose-driven man?They're more attracted to purpose-driven men than status-driven, but they're simultanously care more about man's status than his purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women?How does sex debase a woman? "Debase" because it lowers her RMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women?Willingness to have casual sex also makes women less valuable not only the act itself. So it's not men who debase women by having casul sex with them, but women agreeing for a fling debase themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what did you open up to her about?You gave an idea how men can test women for that shit lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 11:55 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.This is such a nonsense. It was said many times before - nobody wants redpill to be true. Imagine you desire relationship with woman. What is harder pill to swallow? Knowing that you have issues that you can probably work on, or knowing that women are hard to deal with or even ruthless toward men by default because that's their nature, which is completely outside of your control. Redpill is not only "go hit the gym". In addition to this, when you get the redpill, femininity as society and cultur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you?Yet I'm scrolling through this thread and all men that women prefer are really similar. Fuck outta here with this bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Men are constantly reminded that “women are not a hive mind” yet they consistently demonstrate the exact opposite when it comes to mate selection - they are heavily influenced by their peers and base their opinions of men on what their friends and other women thinkHow is this any different than a woman ranting about how men all go for slim hot young women with big tits? (...) We all know the sexy stereotype kind of woman men love, the same way we all-know the sexy stereotype men than women love. Yes, people are attracted to other people with attractive physical traits. This applies to ALL people. However when men here are talking about hive-mind, they refer to influence of pre-approval on women's mating decisions (and also women's bias toward their own ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 09:40 AM |
| 4 | Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasyALL women WANT jason mamoa MOST men WOULD LOVE to have hot successful model So women need jason mamoa tier guy to be 100% satisfied and for men having model tier woman is just a nice option? Doesn't sound that good either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 12:00 PM |
| -1 | Men are basically treated as an employee in relation to women, most of the time.Why would he treat them with respect if they are fucking bitches lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 10:27 AM |
| 10 | Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful?I've always kinda thought that what men often name as sex is not only sex but generally intimacy, they just don't say that explicitly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 01:18 PM |
| 8 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDI've just become redpill aware and more cautious (or paranoid) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 10:52 AM |
| 6 | Blowjob Barometerdamn... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Because it's not about sexual act itself I guess. The problem here is that her husband is treated differently than the dude she was having sex before. He may be satisfied with vanilla sex even though he would prefer to be more adventurous in bed - he love his girlfriend so it's not such a big deal for him. Or they may even be sexually compatible but the fact alone that this girl was more horny with other dude so she did shit she doesn't do normally is problematic for him. It raises suspicion tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | I think it's high time the men in this subreddit learn to accept reality.Like we could control what all other man do lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingAlso jobs which are lower status than hers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 11:51 AM |
| 30 | The right to not be okay. The right to a hug. The right to be the little spoon.IDK, the way a man is presented in this comic always leaves me with impression that you're only allowed to be vulnerable if you are already being conventionally masculine. I also don't necessarily like how it seems to kind of romanticize the idea of male vulnerability. Maybe I'm just overthinking though... | /r/MensRights | 06/03/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | The female sexual strategy (hypergamy) cannot be understood without reference to the male sexual strategy (polygamy).lmao hotwife, sub where half of the posts are husbands getting cucked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Are most males left in the dark on their level of physical attractiveness?Yeah but sometimes I find it hard to tell if I'm improving myself for myself and because I want it, or because of some implicit desire to get approval from women and I want it since it could help me with women. It's like, the desire to be appealing to opposite gender is so hardwired that even if you don't think about pussy conscioulsy, you still consider it at the back of your mind. It's confusing and kinda conflicting. I suppose that others also feel that way from time to time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 08:32 PM |
| 2 | If a man is not the best his woman has ever had, he should not be in that relationship.WTF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?So you just don't get into relationship with higher n-count woman, or flee when you're convinced that her past is slutty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 03:31 PM |
| 9 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?And this insecurity is completly rational. Why would a man want to put himself at risk of getting burned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesSex speed is important because they want to be sure about desire that is fundamental for romantic love and that relationship will last without ending in a dead bedroom. No contradiction there. They assume most women are doing hook ups (AWALT), therefore if they don't want to have sex early, the relationship will be transactional, with a man probably getting shorter end of the stick. They're ignoring possibility of encountering a woman that doesn't do hook ups because they see it as too risky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 01:37 AM |
| 0 | Hinge experiment analysis. Are men on dating apps really as bad as what women describe?Yeah it's irrelevant because men are supposed to be human doings and dancing monkeys who the fuck cares about what he likes or what hobbies he has? Only thing that counts is what he can provide and his ability to entertain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 12:59 PM |
| 2 | META-ANALYSIS: Many studies show that adult virgins (and late bloomers) are unpopular, bullied, ostracized, socially isolated, have low status, etc.I kinda agree, however attraction of these cute girls to these odd looking guys is more dependent on their performance, in comparison to better looking dudes. So I'm not sure if it's so much better for them especially if they're looking for LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 02:43 PM |
| – | Every regular here holds a deep resentment for the opposite sex and it makes any 'debate' worthlessIf there is no reason, then she just isn’t that into you. Case very much closed. Yeah, that's what I'm talking about. There are reasons to conclude that if there's no attraction then relationship is doomed. So if your partner isn't enthusiastic about having sex with you and you think reason is lack of attraction, leave her. And that's what men here advocate most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 11:53 PM |
| 4 | Every regular here holds a deep resentment for the opposite sex and it makes any 'debate' worthlessand 'I am OWED anal sex NOW' Why the fuck women keep bringing this shit so often lol. From what I've seen here, most men are not arguing about "not getting a sex I want whenever I want", but about lack of sexual enthusiasm. "Anal" is only brought as an example, like if your girlfriend enjoyed having anal sex with previous partners but now doesn't want to do the same with you. There's something wrong here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?ok woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Typical offended woman response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 01:46 PM |
| 10 | It is NOT INSECURITY to want to be the best sex your partner has ever had. Period.Yes. 🗿 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckiernothing indicates women lie about it being lower and men lie about it being higher https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn3936-fake-lie-detector-reveals-womens-sex-lies/amp/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | 'Men' on this sub are constantly bitching over women and projectingbecause their love life and personal life are great. Or it's just optimism bias and they're not aware how bluepilled they are and not aware about redpill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | How many of y'all are virgins?Me, I'll be 21 at the end of this month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 12:59 AM |
| 8 | would you rather date...B, but only if she is as unenthusiastic towards other men as she's unenthusiastic towards me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Preselection and female mate-choice copying FTWYeah I think it is even the opposite, men are less attracted to women that are popular among dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 06:06 PM |
| 3 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.Women care more about dating taller men than men care about dating shorter women. And if some girl takes it too seriously it is really great because she is shoving her red flag early on. Kinda agree with this though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:03 PM |
| 6 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:20 AM |
| 11 | Why do incels enrage woman so much? Aren’t they literally doing what they wanted? Who gives a fuck if they hate woman if they don’t get dates in the first place?Doesn't matter who is doing it to who. The point is that it's just stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:48 PM |
| 14 | Women in a nutshellGetting hit by men as woman is not the same thing like getting hit by women as man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:46 AM |
| 11 | Women in a nutshellHow you're so certain that they were just horny though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Men need to stop explaining themselves to women on forums like this and expecting any sort of validation.You think that men who get into LTRs with women only do it for potential sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 01:40 PM |
| 7 | Do women believe TRP ideas of 'women can only love men for what they provide'?I mean men fall in women and idealise them which expose them to getting used and taken advantage of. That's part of the reason why men get bitter and use this shady tactics. The fact that redpillers advocate for these doesn't negate that men generally love more romantically. It may even prove that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 03:40 PM |
| 7 | Do women believe TRP ideas of 'women can only love men for what they provide'?I always laugh at this red pill claim that men love from a romantic pov while also advocating for men to treat women like plates, never get emotionally attached, never commit, and make sure she knows she can be replaced if she doesn’t submit but using manipulation tactics like dread If men didn't love from romantic POV redpill wouldn't advocate for men to treat women like plates, never get emotionally attached, never commit, and make sure she knows she can be replaced if she doesn’t submit but u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP?1) Imo TRP is bunch of ideas and what you take out of it is on individual. There are things that generally redpillers agree but there is also variation to it. I don't think you can say that RP suggest to be manipulative and lie and shit but yeah there are guys who do it. Also it kinda depends on what you consider manipulative (in morally wrong way). 2) That's just because TRP is pretty pessimistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How tf can such a huge and widely dissatisfaction of women with their sex life even be a thing?!apples to oranges | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 02:41 PM |
| 1 | If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reasonI didn't downvote you. I found your opinion not that convincing so I wanted you to provide more detail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 07:34 AM |
| 1 | If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reason"There are many other examples" is hazy statement. What examples? Have you been seeing it in real life? Read about it somewhere in internet, heard in media? Or have you just assumed that this happens? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 02:20 AM |
| 3 | If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reasonYou know one woman who was treated badly when there are many men here who were treated like that because of showing their emotions and you're saying that "it's not gendered thing" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 07:27 PM |
| 4 | If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reasonOf other people, ok. But have you seen them doing that for their partners? I mean not exactly taking too much but generally being emotionally supportive for their partners and not judgmental about their weaknessess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 10:57 AM |
| 2 | As a woman which would be worse for you, to be solely valued as a success object or as a sex object?Grass is Greener on the Other Side: The Thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 01:56 AM |
| 1 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.Do you need to date women that expect you to use your resources? Find somebody who will be fine with some simple date like idk coffe or smth like that. Even if they would be a minority, why you want to date entitled bitches who expects you to invest your money into them so early on? It's so stupid to expect guys to pay in this day and age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 02:29 AM |
| 0 | Proof that this sub is mostly red-pillers and not truly a purple pill debate?Hard to have normal loving relationship with a woman as a man when they're only capable of genuinely loving ummm... 20%? 10%? 5%?! of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Does someone being dismissive make you more interested in them?This is hilarious example of just world fallacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:52 PM |
| – | Men still don't know how women decide their mate.Yeah, they are insecure and what? They care about they sexual performance and quality of it depends not only on their effort but also on things that they have little to no control like their attractiveness or penis size or even behavior because it affects woman's desire and you can't flip your personality that easily. It's valid reason to be insecure. It's not like you women like to describe it, gaslithing us that we are selfish and we worry about someone's else better performance because we jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?Maybe man's feeling are not easier to hurt and women and men worry about different things. You see men as easily hurted because they get hurt about things that you don't care about or you don't understand because they're just not women's issues. Also I see here comments like this really often getting thrown in a way that it feels like an attempt of shaming, ain't it a prove that women are cold towards male vulnerability when simultaneously many women seem trying to disprove that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?women are the primarily viewers and target audience of big dick porn Can you give a source for this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 11:05 PM |
| 2 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?There is pretty big difference between "prefered" and "bare minimum" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 10:40 PM |
| 0 | Have you ever been in love before?wtf are you talking about I've seen here plenty of men past relationship and/or talking their expieriences you're making the narrative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 09:31 AM |
| 1 | In men, higher wages predicted a higher proportion of being married, whereas in women higher wages were associated with a lower proportion of being married.So you can make an argument that women kinda shoot themselves in the foot because they would want to be validated for their reliability (career woman) as men but also want men to still earn more wich may motivate men to put more work into career and get more bread and that contributes to "strong independent woman" having not much value. | /r/BlackPillScience | 06/11/21 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Women don't like bad boys. They just like hot boys, and it turns out many of these hot boys can also afford to be bad boys because of their looks.What do you exactly mean by being asshole and stepping on women's boundaries? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 12:59 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Caring about someone is not necessarily equal to being desperate. I can't believe that so many women don't get this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Women have several options to appear more attrctive and arousing towards their spouses, what options do men have?this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Your dating woes are probably your fault.I don't really know. But there is clearly more tolerance towards women with these qualities than men. Didn't you notice that? I don't remember any man considering confidence as really attractive trait in a women when the same is highly desirable in a men. Social awkwardness/not well developed social skill/shyness is also more tolerated in women. To me it seems like one of the reasons is that women care more about how their partner presents themself to the outside world. That's also why females a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 01:40 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: How would you feel if you saw your male love interest/boyfriend/husband cryingCrying over stupid shit is for the girls only, not the guys. Nice double standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Your dating woes are probably your fault.And you're assuming this based on what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Your dating woes are probably your fault."No one wants to date someone who is socially awkward, doesn't have interest and lacks self-confidence" Most men wouldn't have a problem dating women like this (maybe exclude not having interests; depends what you mean). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 11:11 AM |
| 2 | The way women see men on TV, movies, Netflix or any medium to show off your status, proves that women only appreciate what they can get but will always want more if it's attainableThere is distinction between being attracted to someone/admiring someone's looks and willing to fuck them if you only get a chance. You seem mixing up this two things. Maybe also that's why you claim people are freaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 06:30 PM |
| 5 | The way women see men on TV, movies, Netflix or any medium to show off your status, proves that women only appreciate what they can get but will always want more if it's attainablelmao wanting to fuck other people while being in relationship is normal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 03:20 PM |
| 4 | Women, how many female friends do you know that have had casual sex while on a trip?What you percieve as reality doesn't have to be reality in fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Modern dating and the Laffer Curve.From what I'm reading here, it's more about technology that allows fast online dating and hook-up culture than women themself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Do modern women overestimate their attractiveness? Or is it that they underestimate it?It's being unresponsible that causes these, not just playing video games lmao. If somebody prioritize games over their household there's simply something wrong with them, not with games. Or sometimes partners may have conflicting views how things should be (e.g. one is pedantic, other not so much). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Men are generally more romantic than womenI think this so called "uconditional love" is just that men are more constant in their feeling, whereas womens' love is more dependent on variables thus their falling out of love easier. In other words I would say, men are just more tolerant and women more picky/rigid. Still sucks though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 10:44 AM |
| 13 | [Q4All]How high is the bar for being “girlfriend material”?You acting like humans don't rate others on a daily basis. It's just putting it into somewhat objective scale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Men, does this sound logical to you?just don't settle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | A transgender man describes what it was like experiencing high levels of testosterone for the first timeIf they want to fuck them, that means she's physically attractive to them. Isn't physical attractivenes the thing that sparks people's romantic interest into someone? What's the problem here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 01:15 PM |
| 6 | Men on here confuse assertiveness with being an assholeBest reply in this thread. I sometimes wonder if that whole Nice Guys™ is not just a giga cope because women don't want to admit that being nice don't mean shit for them, at least don't attract them. It's because women seem to automatically without much thinking make an assumption that if a man is nice to them he just wants to get to their pants and they simultaneously justify an asshole, that at least he is honest about his intentions, and it's like they would pick him anyday over nice guy desp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Men on here confuse assertiveness with being an assholeReading this is funny to remind yourself what many women believe that women don't have higher standards than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 10:26 PM |
| 5 | Girl on the left cooks, cleans, loves and respects you and is loyal...girl on right fucks your brains out daily but can't cook or clean and is a huge cheating risk, who you choosing?Would you want a man that can't do shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Women prefer all kinds of menIt's not only women are attracted to attractive men. The argument is, men are open to more options than only the best available. It is said over and over again on ppd and I don't know how women here still come up with this shit talk you must be playin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 01:58 AM |
| 1 | A female friend took offense when I said her boyfriend looked like "relationship" materialwhat hamster? the fuck you talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 12:03 AM |
| 1 | POV: She is ready to settle downMaybe it's just a metaphor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | A female friend took offense when I said her boyfriend looked like "relationship" materialTbh redpiller might unitentionally reveal his disgust towards women in contrary to assholes which haven't ever had problem with women because they fuck them on daily basis (assuming that's true), so they don't feel disgust therefore they could sense that guy is RP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:04 PM |
| 17 | Just be nazi theoryNazi: I sleep Says anything about women that's not positive: REAL SHIT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 08:12 PM |
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