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Oh, ok so that's what you meant. Thanks for that long explanation. Yeah I think I agree with probably everything, though I think it's understandable if someone sometimes happen to vent excessively, it's just important to take other person's feelings into consideration and work on it so it happens as rarely as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:33 AM
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Yeah, I have trouble understanding what do you mean by "they need to be able to self-soothe/self-regulate". How is soothing someone different from emotionally supporting that person? I understood it as: a man can be emotionally open but he needs to be able to move on from his negative emotions on his own without requiring help from others, or at least from his partner. But if you're willing to support your partner emotionally either way, then what's the difference if he gets better with or witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:07 AM
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So, basically you can't offer emotional support for your male partner? Genuine question, because it's kinda confusing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:52 PM
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I don't understand, you're not gonna have a kid unless you want to, no other person decides about your pregnancy, so why would a man have to compensate for your child birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:41 PM
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There are deegres of good though. Something may be good as it provides some pleasurable stimulation but the stimulation that the other thing provides is excellent in comparison (it kinda sounds stupid in context of dick size but whatever, I don't know how to put it better) and there's a vast difference between the two. I don't think any man wants to be subpar in bed to some of the woman's previous partner and it's more risky when your partner feels like they could have something better. And you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:56 PM
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So you just insist that size doesn't matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:32 AM
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He also could have had an 8 inch dick and known what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:26 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:24 PM
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It's more of an equivalent of shoulder width and bone thickness in men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:20 PM
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lol you're fragile af
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:52 AM
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I think she doesn't even need to work on looks to find a partner. She could probably get a looksmatch quite easily. For unconfident guy it will be usually hard to find anybody interested in him who's not a woman significantly uglier than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:49 PM
1

It's incredible and depressing how women will treat you completely differently if they perceive you as high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:41 PM
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Most of the so called "pesonality" that women value in men is just socio-economic status and usefulness. Women whine about men not seeing people in them but you're no better at all if not worse. Men will welcome whatever your personality is as long as you're not unpleasant or extremely needy, or very bland if they have higher standards (and obviously if you pass their looks threshold, but that's true for both sexes) while a lot of women will expect their man to grind their whole life and be non …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:44 PM
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I'm not sure if men's N count preferences matter, women are also pickier when choosing a man for relationship, even if men are willing to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:19 AM
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building up positive energy between you but husband shoudn't be the only one responsible for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:06 PM
3

So sex is a reward for doing what you want? Men just should monkey-dance otherwise we don't deserve a relationship with woman in your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:16 PM
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If women expect to be courted then they should compensate it somehow for example stop complaining about doing more household chores. Or they should care about their romantic lives too and plan dates and shit as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:05 PM
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Women don't bear this particular burden, but they bear plenty of their own gender specific ones. Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:22 PM
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Body > face if the face is at least 6/10 And I agree that boobs > butt
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:28 AM
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Men may not care about women being independent because they're fine with being a provider, or supporting his not so independent wife in whatever way. It doesn't necessarily imply that they want to trap a woman in relationship without a chance to leave or whatever you want to believe. It may as well mean that they just don't care, especially if it's descibed as "top quality" (if I haven't misunderstood meaning of this). Same applies to strength. Men don't care as much about woman being strong whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:58 PM
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Every woman who complain about fragile men's egos should see this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:24 PM
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Being pleasant person is easier than being confident, strong, skilled, stoic, good social skill, having high social status and whatever I forgot because the list is so long lol. even if ur attractive men will always want more, just like women Yeah, however men are easier to satisfy because threshold is lower and we don't expect as many things so we have less incentive to move to another woman. edit: On a side note we don't want fake pleasant woman lol same as women don't want a man who is faking…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:23 PM
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Women don’t just cry because you call them a hypocrite. It’s clear he said some stupid disrespect shit and that’s why she cried. How do you know that? Women are not a monolith. What else was she supposed to tell him? Some men can approach women at work but not you? That’s better? Why so black and white? She could probably tell it to him respectfully. You can't expect people to read your mind so if you go that way don't be surprised that men get mad at women, ignore what they say and call them hy…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:29 PM
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men have nothing that compensates for their nature Threshold for women to be considered physically attractive is lower than for men. And beyond physical attractiveness men don't require much. Just pleasant personality and being somewhat self-reliable. Women's threshold to consider a man physically attractive is higher and having attractive personality for men requires more character development. So to me it seems like men have it at least a little bit worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:16 PM
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Lmao, no. You can't just say it's never ok to approach women in work, make exception for some men and then make surprised pikachu face because you got called out for being hypocrite. Also crying in that situation was pathetic as fuck. that’s why she seems like a hypocrite to you. She is a hypocrite because her actions don't match her words.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:03 AM
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You just cherry picked types of cruelty done more by men and claim it as a proof. Women are less capable of commiting crime. Obviously women will rarely rape men if they're not sexually interested in majority of them and a man is stronger than a woman most of the time, so he can defend himself. Do you see women whining and hating on men to the same extend that men do. Yes, there is just fewer women than men here. Also speaking of one gender hating another lemme introduce you to r/fourthwavewomen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:13 PM
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Men talk shit women put it into action
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:01 PM
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Half a year for me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:54 PM
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He strikes a lot or is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:07 PM
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Guys on here who can’t handle the thought that their GF / wife might have “desired” another guy more than them. Because her lack of desire at this point results in vastly different treatment - that's the main problem. The gap in desire is too big in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:52 PM
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Central Europe here People have casual sex here, though I don't think it's as prevalent as in US, most people search for LTR. So it's not necessarily sex and boom relationship, but yeah if you're dating multiple people at the same time you will be accused of being a player. There's exclusivity from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:25 PM
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"Gee, sorry man you aren't slaying a bunch of pussy, that must suck!" Strawman. Exactly like other commenter pointed out...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:48 PM
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Yeah, we know that actually. Women like masculine men with slightly emotional side which allows them to show more positive emotions and passion. However I think most emotional people are overally more sensitive, and most women would rather pick emotionally unavailable and tough guy over someone emotional and vulnerable, at least according to PPD lore. So I don't think you can really say that women like emotional men and your post doesn't bring anything new.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:25 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:48 PM
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Why it's deleted
/r/MensRights19/08/22 01:46 PM
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Yeah, when most women act entitled men stop liking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:30 PM
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Bonus points if they let me win at Mortal Kombat and Mario Kart I'll never understand this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:14 AM
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Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place Doesn't it work like that for every human relations basically (except parents)?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:41 PM
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I wish i could give it multiple upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:39 PM
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That circumference is fucking big. Nowhere near average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:47 PM
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I'm not saying I believe that, I didn't write that comment to argue about that. It's something I noticed about discussions on the topic. Men often bring up arguments to back their claim when arguing about it, yet you're talking like they always only invalidate women's issues. Also when it's not met with hostility and deflect, there comes "I guess both men and women have issues and it's hard to compare", no way there is acknowledgment that maybe there's something to it and men may have it actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:17 AM
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‘men die too yknow’ Most women in this sub (and feminists) don't deserve that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:29 AM
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Saying that men suffer more than women (or that women have it easier than men) is not invalidating women's issues if it's not a baseless claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:02 AM
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Women are not privileged? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:31 PM
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Allow me to introduce you to the concept of falsely cultivating empathy. Ummm I assume that staff knew those men were felons. You're trying to tell that just falsely cultivating empathy were enough to make all that unimportant so women had decided to have sex with them? There's still something wrong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:41 PM
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A bad day at work falls under the realm of “personal struggles.” I thought that it may be but "personal struggles" is just very vague description. What about other examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 12:22 PM
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This should be the top comment of this thread. Hell, the part starting from "It's taboo to bring up women's toxic traits" should be on the fucking top of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:59 AM
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Is she? Her husband was crying about quite heavy stuff. If he cried about something that would make him look incompetent or weak, he still might be dumped in the blink of an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:29 AM
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There are many similar takes like yours whenever the topic of male vulnerability is brought up, and the thing that is always suspicious to me is strinking contrast between examples which are used. There's a man crying about pretty heavy stuff imo, like death of the relative or death of his dog. Then there's a whiny guy who is constantly sobbing and venting. But I think there's a lot inbetween that's being left out. For example what about man crying because of overwhelming day at work? Or because…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:38 AM
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Well, if they just want to be around confident people then that's not a big problem but I just feel there's something more to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 11:10 AM
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I've seen women saying that insecure, unconfident etc. men repulse them multiple times so that's why I assume these negative feelings. There are also multiple threads here and in others parts of reddit where guys complain about getting left as soon as they let some of their weaknesess to leak out or if it was a married couple woman was avoiding a man until he got his shit together [EDIT: until he got his shit together emotionally]. You probably have seen those. Ngl, I'm not really into obese wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:50 AM
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As an anxious and awkward guy, the notion that women are repulsed by unconfident guys is quite disheartening. Even if I improve, how can I respect and love the person who would look down upon me and be disgusted by me in the past because I had some issues? Eh, maybe I'm whiny but it messes my head a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:20 AM
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Where women are honest? (lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:54 PM
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Why care about what some stranger w🤢men may talk about you on anonymous forum though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:30 PM
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Yas kween 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:10 PM
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You can't be serious comparing hook-ups to watching porn like they're the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:02 PM
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There is disproportionately bigger number of women who don't care compared to men. Hence the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:56 PM
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Yes - would be but women themselves choose to not care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:03 AM
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Yeah, but women don't care about men's n-count (as long as he's not a virgin), or even prefer partners with more expierience and that's why we have this inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:47 AM
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Almost.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:23 AM
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They're more attracted to purpose-driven men than status-driven, but they're simultanously care more about man's status than his purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:43 PM
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How does sex debase a woman? "Debase" because it lowers her RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:02 AM
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Willingness to have casual sex also makes women less valuable not only the act itself. So it's not men who debase women by having casul sex with them, but women agreeing for a fling debase themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:36 AM
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You gave an idea how men can test women for that shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:55 PM
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This is such a nonsense. It was said many times before - nobody wants redpill to be true. Imagine you desire relationship with woman. What is harder pill to swallow? Knowing that you have issues that you can probably work on, or knowing that women are hard to deal with or even ruthless toward men by default because that's their nature, which is completely outside of your control. Redpill is not only "go hit the gym". In addition to this, when you get the redpill, femininity as society and cultur…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:34 PM
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Yet I'm scrolling through this thread and all men that women prefer are really similar. Fuck outta here with this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:05 PM
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How is this any different than a woman ranting about how men all go for slim hot young women with big tits? (...) We all know the sexy stereotype kind of woman men love, the same way we all-know the sexy stereotype men than women love. Yes, people are attracted to other people with attractive physical traits. This applies to ALL people. However when men here are talking about hive-mind, they refer to influence of pre-approval on women's mating decisions (and also women's bias toward their own ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:40 AM
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ALL women WANT jason mamoa MOST men WOULD LOVE to have hot successful model So women need jason mamoa tier guy to be 100% satisfied and for men having model tier woman is just a nice option? Doesn't sound that good either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 12:00 PM
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Why would he treat them with respect if they are fucking bitches lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:27 AM
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I've always kinda thought that what men often name as sex is not only sex but generally intimacy, they just don't say that explicitly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:18 PM
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I've just become redpill aware and more cautious (or paranoid)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:52 AM
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damn...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 12:45 PM
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Because it's not about sexual act itself I guess. The problem here is that her husband is treated differently than the dude she was having sex before. He may be satisfied with vanilla sex even though he would prefer to be more adventurous in bed - he love his girlfriend so it's not such a big deal for him. Or they may even be sexually compatible but the fact alone that this girl was more horny with other dude so she did shit she doesn't do normally is problematic for him. It raises suspicion tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:57 PM
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Like we could control what all other man do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:16 PM
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Also jobs which are lower status than hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:51 AM
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IDK, the way a man is presented in this comic always leaves me with impression that you're only allowed to be vulnerable if you are already being conventionally masculine. I also don't necessarily like how it seems to kind of romanticize the idea of male vulnerability. Maybe I'm just overthinking though...
/r/MensRights06/03/22 11:15 PM
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lmao hotwife, sub where half of the posts are husbands getting cucked
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:41 PM
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Yeah but sometimes I find it hard to tell if I'm improving myself for myself and because I want it, or because of some implicit desire to get approval from women and I want it since it could help me with women. It's like, the desire to be appealing to opposite gender is so hardwired that even if you don't think about pussy conscioulsy, you still consider it at the back of your mind. It's confusing and kinda conflicting. I suppose that others also feel that way from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:32 PM
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WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:38 PM
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So you just don't get into relationship with higher n-count woman, or flee when you're convinced that her past is slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:31 PM
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And this insecurity is completly rational. Why would a man want to put himself at risk of getting burned?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:20 AM
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Sex speed is important because they want to be sure about desire that is fundamental for romantic love and that relationship will last without ending in a dead bedroom. No contradiction there. They assume most women are doing hook ups (AWALT), therefore if they don't want to have sex early, the relationship will be transactional, with a man probably getting shorter end of the stick. They're ignoring possibility of encountering a woman that doesn't do hook ups because they see it as too risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:37 AM
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Yeah it's irrelevant because men are supposed to be human doings and dancing monkeys who the fuck cares about what he likes or what hobbies he has? Only thing that counts is what he can provide and his ability to entertain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:59 PM
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I kinda agree, however attraction of these cute girls to these odd looking guys is more dependent on their performance, in comparison to better looking dudes. So I'm not sure if it's so much better for them especially if they're looking for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:43 PM

If there is no reason, then she just isn’t that into you. Case very much closed. Yeah, that's what I'm talking about. There are reasons to conclude that if there's no attraction then relationship is doomed. So if your partner isn't enthusiastic about having sex with you and you think reason is lack of attraction, leave her. And that's what men here advocate most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:53 PM
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and 'I am OWED anal sex NOW' Why the fuck women keep bringing this shit so often lol. From what I've seen here, most men are not arguing about "not getting a sex I want whenever I want", but about lack of sexual enthusiasm. "Anal" is only brought as an example, like if your girlfriend enjoyed having anal sex with previous partners but now doesn't want to do the same with you. There's something wrong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:50 PM
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ok woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:30 PM
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Typical offended woman response
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:46 PM
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Yes. 🗿
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:48 PM
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nothing indicates women lie about it being lower and men lie about it being higher https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn3936-fake-lie-detector-reveals-womens-sex-lies/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:19 PM
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because their love life and personal life are great. Or it's just optimism bias and they're not aware how bluepilled they are and not aware about redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:54 PM
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Me, I'll be 21 at the end of this month.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:59 AM
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B, but only if she is as unenthusiastic towards other men as she's unenthusiastic towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:49 PM
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Yeah I think it is even the opposite, men are less attracted to women that are popular among dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:06 PM
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Women care more about dating taller men than men care about dating shorter women. And if some girl takes it too seriously it is really great because she is shoving her red flag early on. Kinda agree with this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:03 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:20 AM
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Doesn't matter who is doing it to who. The point is that it's just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:48 PM
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Getting hit by men as woman is not the same thing like getting hit by women as man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:46 AM
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How you're so certain that they were just horny though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:35 AM
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You think that men who get into LTRs with women only do it for potential sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:40 PM
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I mean men fall in women and idealise them which expose them to getting used and taken advantage of. That's part of the reason why men get bitter and use this shady tactics. The fact that redpillers advocate for these doesn't negate that men generally love more romantically. It may even prove that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:40 PM
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I always laugh at this red pill claim that men love from a romantic pov while also advocating for men to treat women like plates, never get emotionally attached, never commit, and make sure she knows she can be replaced if she doesn’t submit but using manipulation tactics like dread If men didn't love from romantic POV redpill wouldn't advocate for men to treat women like plates, never get emotionally attached, never commit, and make sure she knows she can be replaced if she doesn’t submit but u…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:01 PM
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1) Imo TRP is bunch of ideas and what you take out of it is on individual. There are things that generally redpillers agree but there is also variation to it. I don't think you can say that RP suggest to be manipulative and lie and shit but yeah there are guys who do it. Also it kinda depends on what you consider manipulative (in morally wrong way). 2) That's just because TRP is pretty pessimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:27 PM
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apples to oranges
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:41 PM
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I didn't downvote you. I found your opinion not that convincing so I wanted you to provide more detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:34 AM
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"There are many other examples" is hazy statement. What examples? Have you been seeing it in real life? Read about it somewhere in internet, heard in media? Or have you just assumed that this happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:20 AM
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You know one woman who was treated badly when there are many men here who were treated like that because of showing their emotions and you're saying that "it's not gendered thing" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:27 PM
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Of other people, ok. But have you seen them doing that for their partners? I mean not exactly taking too much but generally being emotionally supportive for their partners and not judgmental about their weaknessess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:57 AM
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Grass is Greener on the Other Side: The Thread
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:56 AM
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Do you need to date women that expect you to use your resources? Find somebody who will be fine with some simple date like idk coffe or smth like that. Even if they would be a minority, why you want to date entitled bitches who expects you to invest your money into them so early on? It's so stupid to expect guys to pay in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:29 AM
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Hard to have normal loving relationship with a woman as a man when they're only capable of genuinely loving ummm... 20%? 10%? 5%?! of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:27 PM
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This is hilarious example of just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:52 PM

Yeah, they are insecure and what? They care about they sexual performance and quality of it depends not only on their effort but also on things that they have little to no control like their attractiveness or penis size or even behavior because it affects woman's desire and you can't flip your personality that easily. It's valid reason to be insecure. It's not like you women like to describe it, gaslithing us that we are selfish and we worry about someone's else better performance because we jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:27 PM
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Maybe man's feeling are not easier to hurt and women and men worry about different things. You see men as easily hurted because they get hurt about things that you don't care about or you don't understand because they're just not women's issues. Also I see here comments like this really often getting thrown in a way that it feels like an attempt of shaming, ain't it a prove that women are cold towards male vulnerability when simultaneously many women seem trying to disprove that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:44 PM
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women are the primarily viewers and target audience of big dick porn Can you give a source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:05 PM
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There is pretty big difference between "prefered" and "bare minimum"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:40 PM
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wtf are you talking about I've seen here plenty of men past relationship and/or talking their expieriences you're making the narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:31 AM
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So you can make an argument that women kinda shoot themselves in the foot because they would want to be validated for their reliability (career woman) as men but also want men to still earn more wich may motivate men to put more work into career and get more bread and that contributes to "strong independent woman" having not much value.
/r/BlackPillScience06/11/21 01:54 AM
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What do you exactly mean by being asshole and stepping on women's boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:59 PM
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Caring about someone is not necessarily equal to being desperate. I can't believe that so many women don't get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:09 AM
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this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:39 AM
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I don't really know. But there is clearly more tolerance towards women with these qualities than men. Didn't you notice that? I don't remember any man considering confidence as really attractive trait in a women when the same is highly desirable in a men. Social awkwardness/not well developed social skill/shyness is also more tolerated in women. To me it seems like one of the reasons is that women care more about how their partner presents themself to the outside world. That's also why females a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:40 PM
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Crying over stupid shit is for the girls only, not the guys. Nice double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:21 PM
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And you're assuming this based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:23 AM
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"No one wants to date someone who is socially awkward, doesn't have interest and lacks self-confidence" Most men wouldn't have a problem dating women like this (maybe exclude not having interests; depends what you mean).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:11 AM
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There is distinction between being attracted to someone/admiring someone's looks and willing to fuck them if you only get a chance. You seem mixing up this two things. Maybe also that's why you claim people are freaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:30 PM
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lmao wanting to fuck other people while being in relationship is normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:20 PM
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What you percieve as reality doesn't have to be reality in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:16 AM
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From what I'm reading here, it's more about technology that allows fast online dating and hook-up culture than women themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:47 PM
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It's being unresponsible that causes these, not just playing video games lmao. If somebody prioritize games over their household there's simply something wrong with them, not with games. Or sometimes partners may have conflicting views how things should be (e.g. one is pedantic, other not so much).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:40 PM
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I think this so called "uconditional love" is just that men are more constant in their feeling, whereas womens' love is more dependent on variables thus their falling out of love easier. In other words I would say, men are just more tolerant and women more picky/rigid. Still sucks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:44 AM
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You acting like humans don't rate others on a daily basis. It's just putting it into somewhat objective scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:22 PM
1

just don't settle
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 04:11 PM
1

If they want to fuck them, that means she's physically attractive to them. Isn't physical attractivenes the thing that sparks people's romantic interest into someone? What's the problem here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:15 PM
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Best reply in this thread. I sometimes wonder if that whole Nice Guys™ is not just a giga cope because women don't want to admit that being nice don't mean shit for them, at least don't attract them. It's because women seem to automatically without much thinking make an assumption that if a man is nice to them he just wants to get to their pants and they simultaneously justify an asshole, that at least he is honest about his intentions, and it's like they would pick him anyday over nice guy desp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:13 AM
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Reading this is funny to remind yourself what many women believe that women don't have higher standards than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:26 PM
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Would you want a man that can't do shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:26 PM
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It's not only women are attracted to attractive men. The argument is, men are open to more options than only the best available. It is said over and over again on ppd and I don't know how women here still come up with this shit talk you must be playin
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:58 AM
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what hamster? the fuck you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:03 AM
1

Maybe it's just a metaphor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:11 PM
1

Tbh redpiller might unitentionally reveal his disgust towards women in contrary to assholes which haven't ever had problem with women because they fuck them on daily basis (assuming that's true), so they don't feel disgust therefore they could sense that guy is RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:04 PM
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Nazi: I sleep Says anything about women that's not positive: REAL SHIT
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:12 PM
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