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Strong Independent Womanholymotherofbunnies/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/21 06:46 PM
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This is true. My husband doesn't care what the house looks like, aside from basic cleaning, but I do. So I take it upon myself to decorate, organize, and tidy to my own standards. Things like laundry, dishes, etc. are done by both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:38 PM
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Men improving themselves to make themselves more datable is good. Putting up a false image of themselves to lure women into sleeping with them is bad. This is true of both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:12 PM
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You should probably look again. The debate is still going and a lot more comments have been added and the ones saying it's a legitimate exception are highly upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:09 PM
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Yeah, I'm not talking about political parties. Both suck and I hate our system. The pro-life subreddit is debating this exact news story right now. Lots of people are saying the same thing as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:29 PM
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No we're not. That's a clear heath exception for most pro-life people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:20 PM
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I'm pro-life. At 10, that should be a clear case of a life of the mother exception. The human body isn't ready to that age and she wouldn't be able to carry to term without massive risks. There needs to be more clear life/heath exceptions added to the bans and restrictions to make sure doctors don't do stupid shit out of fear or losing their license or bwing jailed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:19 PM
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So glad I never fucked anyone else and don't have to worry about this crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:15 AM
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That only works if people actually want to integrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:26 PM
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They're trash people who should be out in a Woodchipper. But in America and the UK, their behavior had to be hidden because it goes against social norms. When I lived in Pakistan, forced marriages were just the norm for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:12 PM
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They allowed it because they were spineless, lazy, and didn't want to be called racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:06 PM
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So the reason a bunch of men have no respect for western women and view them as fair game can just be blamed on poverty and poor policing? It's a problem of values. Yes, it's also a problem of bad policies. Not properly vetting immigrants is a bad policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:03 PM
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I'm not talking about American cities. That's a whole other can of worms. I'm talking about things like the Rotheram grooming gangs in the UK and the explosion of rapes in Sweden.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:50 PM
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Yes, but why would you import that on purpose? Also some cultures just aren't compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:38 PM
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I know. My fiance is a child of migrants. But there's a difference between vetted integration of skilled workers or needy cases in reasonable numbers and just letting the floodgates open unchecked. The latter just leads to groups isolating themselves and refusing to integrate in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:33 PM
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If you and people who share them don't have kids, they'll die out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:37 AM
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If your only concern is filling jobs. If you care about maintaining your culture, beliefs, and way of life, then no. It doesn't fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:12 AM
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Completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:55 PM
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Only around kids in foster care aren't even up for adoption. Most have parents who are deemed unfit for some reason and the ultimate goal is reunification.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:55 PM
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Importing the third world fixes nothing and creates more problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:44 PM
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The people who make money off cheap labor are fine importing the third world or outsourcing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:41 PM
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Even with good diet and exercise, some girls will never have boobs and ass. And there's stuff like hair thickness and cellulite (yes, even healthy slim women) we just can't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:58 PM
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I guess waist to hip ratio would be a better comparison. There's studies on that. Some ladies are just naturally straight-shaped even at an ideal weight and turn into spheres when they gain weight. Others are blessed to have bodies that distribute weight in the right places.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:25 PM
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As a woman, I think most of us just want a guy to be taller than us. My fiance is 5'7 but I'm 5'4 so IDGAF. It can be a bonus, like big boobs in a woman, but it's not a deal breaker. A lot of it is attitude. Few things are as unattractive as "little man syndrome" where they act all tough and try to compensate for it. My fiance is just a chill, confident guy and I didn't even notice his height when he asked me out. Tinder hoes are a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:51 PM
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Yes, Americans are often obese and need to get their shit together. But the 50% divorce rate is a myth and the younger generation is getting divorced less because they're rushing into marriage less.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:01 PM
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Ok sure. Nothing wrong with cross culture dating. I'm in a mixed relationship myself. But a lot of guys want to date someone in their own culture and a lot of women want their husbands to be from their culture too. Shared values and beliefs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:34 PM
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Why would I want to create a family with a man who can't support one?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:45 PM
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Yeah, different people have different motivations, sometimes more than one. I'm speaking from my own experience. Some people for sure go to the gym in full makeup and sexy workout gear for attention. Doesn't effect my life in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:10 PM
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Yes this is true. It's motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:28 PM
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If you're in a committed relationship, you can work as a team if you end up getting pregnant, either by getting married or co-parenting. I'm not trying to make it illegal at anything, I'm just stating my opinion. Just like I think it's stupid to eat poorly or be an alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:38 PM
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Dang. That's wild. My family was eager for me to date since I didn't date much in highschool. I was just happy to hang out with my friends and the one guy I really liked had a girlfriend. They were relieved when I found my fiance while in college. Then they bugged us to get married, lol. We're getting married in 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:17 PM
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You sound like you're doing great, congrats. Unfortunately, many women are bitter and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:47 PM
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When I was dating, I just was very honest about the fact that I was waiting for marriage. No point in stringing people along. Some guys will walk away, but that just avoids waisting everyone's time. When I told my now fiance, he said "that's going to be a bit hard, but I'm glad you're like that". And it's not like he's some loser who can't get women. He did before he met me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:40 PM
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At least being in a committed relationship lessens the risks and I personally don't have sex out of wedlock. And I judge the men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:27 PM
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Judging negative behavior is a cornerstone of civilization. Casual sex leads to STDs, emotional damage, broken homes, unwanted children, etc. So I'm going to judge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:55 PM
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Yes, I think it's narrow-minded to lump groups of people together and judge them. I'm still going to judge individuals for acting like sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:51 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:39 PM
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Exactly. My fiance is already 32. I'm not waiting much longer. We are getting married in 3 months and decided to wait one year after we're married to start trying. Thankfully he's super energetic and should have no problem being an active dad. My own dad had me in his 40s and while he's an awesome dad and was always super involved in my life, he couldn't run around with me like a young dad. Thankfully I have much older siblings I was able to run around and play with (I was the oops baby long aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:33 PM
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I didn't say 30 year olds were infertile. I said that's when I'm planning to have kids. Having a period sounds mean to will be easy to get pregnant. Chances of conceiving is highly correlated to age. By 40 you only have a 2% chance of conceiving each month. source Women's happiness has decreased sharper than men's. source I just said "it can work with a good supply system" and you took away from that that I underestimate support systems? That's the opposite of what I just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:47 PM
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When you're a part of a group, other members of that group can colour people's perception of you. American tourists make Americans look bad. Misogynists make men look bad. Hoes make women look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:36 AM
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I blame them primarily, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:29 AM
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And then men think you're lying about your own past because some other women are actually like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:37 PM
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Totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:35 PM
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They are ruining their own lives and probably have a lot of issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:35 PM
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That makes a lot of sense and I do not look forward to that part of aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:06 PM
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It's a scientific fact that fertility and egg quality go down over time. Your ovaries don't just shrivel up and die at 35, but risks do increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:37 PM
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I didn't say having kids over 30 wasn't safe. I just know I want to have them while I'm young. But waiting too long and not planning ahead can lead to bad outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:25 PM
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Yeah, people lie and exaggerate on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:58 PM
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I intend to have my first before 30, so I'll probably be done around 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:56 PM
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I'm sure of of them do marry for bad reasons. Same as secular couples. They're still flawed people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:52 PM
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I'm marrying my fiance in 3 months. He's 8 years older than me and I couldn't be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:49 PM
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And yet we report being more unhappy than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:59 PM
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All the young mothers I know are girls I go to church with and are happily married to great guys, so it really depends on what social circles you're in. I've found a great fiance who shares my values. As soon as we got serious we had the talk about kids and how we'd raise them. We agreed on me being a SAHM since his income can support that and my work is something I can freelance from home. I already freelance on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:58 PM
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A lot of women discourage that because they were taught the "you can have it all" mentality and are parroting it to other women. But a lot of us are waking up to the fact that it's a load of crap for many people. Infertility sucks, the double shift of being a working mom is exhausting, paying strangers to raise your kids sucks, women are increasingly unhappy. For some women, like my own breadwinner mother, it can work with a good support system (or a stay at home dad, as was my case) and is fulf…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:18 PM
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"Don't worry, you can always get expensive medical treatments, outsource your reproduction to a rented womb, or just abort the fetuses with defects you're now at a higher risk for." No thanks. I'm having kids before 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:59 AM
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That's really fucked up man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:56 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:53 PM
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So a single mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:41 PM
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This is the way. Men and women are different. We're supposed to compliment each other's natures and work together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:39 PM
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Yeah, it's really dumb. My fiancé is 5'7, but I'm 5'4 so who cares?
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/21 01:34 AM
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I'm just now learning that some people use that as a let down and not a compliment. I guess I'm not friends with dumb sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:16 PM
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Yes. I can overlook a few, but if you're a man-whore, then no thanks. I wouldn't want to deal with the emotional baggage or petri dish dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:39 AM
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That's just stupid and I'm not surprised a professor said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:03 PM
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At least we contribute to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:02 PM
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This is relevant: https://youtu.be/DTsdKycVZZ4
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:09 PM
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This is the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:44 PM
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I find it fascinating, I agree with some points, and modern dating is garbage. It's also nice to be called a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:44 PM
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Didn't know that. So glad my ancestors got the fuck out of Europe. I lived there for a while myself but nothing beats being stateside.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/21 11:16 PM
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Yep. France is a nation of cucks.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/21 06:41 PM
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If you can't be vulnerable with the person your dating, if it's a serious relationship and not just fuckbuddies, something is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:14 PM
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Those women are probably just as messed up as him but also got lucky on looks. Unless they're just stupid. Like attracts like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:38 PM
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Guess you guys had to outsource the virgin sacrifice. Figures.
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/21 04:24 AM
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I'm saying he's only 32 amd I'm in the healthy range, so our risks are fairly low compared to a pair of 40 year olds for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:02 PM
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Same goes for most long term decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:45 AM
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Thanks. Good luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:56 PM
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Yep. Worked for me. I had no interest in casual sex or in playing house with someone who won't actually commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:56 PM
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I chose to protect my interests by waiting for marriage to have sex. I'm getting married in May to a great guy, so it seems to have panned out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:44 PM
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Yeha, my dad's ex was a crazy drug addict and he got full custody. Still went through hell in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:23 PM
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Then you are a better man than most. Any man who doesn't take care of his kids isn't worth any woman's time or his kids respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:21 PM
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Well, I can really only speak for myself, but my fiance is not soft serve ice cream, that's for sure. He's super practical and business minded. He has no inflated ego or temper and takes life as it comes with calm, collected, strategy. He was raised by east Asian immigrants and it shows. As for his romantic history, he was a bit of a party boy in college, but was more focused on fun and friends than women, but never had trouble getting dates. He just has a laid back confidence that I admire. Bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:19 PM
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That's what worked for my mom and dad. Most women aren't the big career-driven people like my mom is. Maybe if a job I was passionate about made me crazy money, I would be fine with my husband being the stay at home parent. But saying that an even income level between partners is necessary for equality or to avoid being creepy/exploitative is just bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:45 PM
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Yeah, I want man to be able to provide for me and my children and give them the best life possible. Doesn't need to be a millionaire, but he needs to be stable and reliable. I don't get how this is in any way a surprise to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:09 PM
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Money is nice for living and eventually providing for a family, but that would definitely not be enough if I didn't like his personality. I have to enjoy being around him, which I do. Plus we share values and beliefs in the areas that it really counts. We have the same/compatible goals in live. He's fun and sweet. I enjoy just hanging out with him and relaxing, just being myself. He has a lot of confidence without any overblown ego or temper. It really seems like nothing bothers or angers him be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:02 AM
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What would be the point of a woman earning the same if the couple agrees that she is going to stay home with the kids? If a successful guy wants a homemaker, why would he go for a lady CEO just so she can give that up? Or the same would be said for the opposite. My dad was a stay at home dad while my mom was making 6 figures. Two income households just for the sake of equality are overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:01 PM
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Yes, but I didn't know he was a dentist when I agreed to go out with him. He was just a dude who came into the library and was nice and asked me out. And I honestly didn't know how much dentists made before I dated him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:54 PM
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Don't lose hope. I listen to my fiance spout off all kind of dental stuff, investing strategies, and philosophy stuff and I love him for it. He doesn't care about movies, barely watches TV, and only follows sports casually. He's a dentist and a total nerd. He found me in a library and asked me out. His intelligence is part of what I find attractive about him. But he also has his softer side. He's really good with animals and is really affectionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:39 PM
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Could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:55 PM
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I dunno man. My parents have been married for almost 30 years and my dad and they still act all flirty. Lots of people are like that. Ever see adorable old couples just absolutely smitten in their old age? It's amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:36 PM
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Women's IQ is less varied then men's. Men are more likely to be either super smart or very dumb, while women tend more toward the average. Exceptions exist for women of course, just look at female computer scientists and entrepreneurs. But I'm guessing men don't care as much about it since there's less of a chance of a woman being outside of the realm of average in either direction. Also, what men have found attractive in women for thousands of years, childbearing and household management, doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:16 PM
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THANK YOU. It's just promiscuous people going at it while most of the population is mostly having sex in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:12 PM
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This is true. My man is only 5'7 but I'm only 5'4, so who gives a shit. Also, I accepted his invitation to go on a date when I thought he was a nurse. Turned out he was a Dentist. As far as splitting bills, we kinda do an adjusted version of that to take our very different incomes into account. He buys our dinner dates, I buy our coffee dates. Plus I cook for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:17 PM
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I already avoid situations that could lead me in a bad direction. That's how I've stayed a virgin until now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:09 PM
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I'll never find myself in a "situation" where I betray my husband and family for some random dick. Not a slave to my emotions and my emotions don't point me in that direction anyways. That's nasty and immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:32 PM
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Thanks! I hope they do work out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:40 AM
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Everything is great. Standards never changed really. I'm engaged to a great guy. He approached me while I was working at the library and asked me out. He's 8 years older than me, a dentist, Christian, and totally cool with me waiting until the wedding to sleep together. We share pet rabbits. The wedding is planned for next year. He has no pill as far as I know. He's isn't a social media person whatsoever so probably has no clue what it even is and would likely have no patience even if I tried to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:34 AM
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You sound just like a younger me (F 25)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:09 AM
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I pity the husbands too. Homerecking whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:43 AM
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I think it's silly to judge them. Some stereotypes exist for a reason, but like all stereotypes, you shouldn't let that warp your judgement of individuals. The only stereotype I get painted with is being kiddish or sheltered. Neither are true. I may look young for my age, but I'm not a child and I'm certainly not sheltered. I know how sex works (the internet made sure of that), no one is forcing me to remain a virgin, I'm not a hideous monster, etc. I'm just abstaining by choice. Probably the bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:31 PM
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Different women with different priorities. Trash recognizes trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:56 PM
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It's not impossible dude. I'm 25. We're just more rare nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:41 PM
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Just because you're good for a fuck or an affair, doesn't make you LTR material. Any woman with moral integrity would hear that and run for the hills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:36 PM
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Dad figured out that he married a psycho drug addict. My mom on the other hand was a divorced mom who had been cheated on by her husband after having his baby. Both were very disillusioned as you can imagine, but they met each other through friends and family. Dad had actually known her family since he was a little kid. That probably helped the trust. Both had custody of their kids and made a family together. I was the bonus oops kid. They've been together around 30 years now. They were always s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:24 PM
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I agree. My dad was totally fucked over by his ex wife before he met my mom, so I'm not unsympathetic to men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:13 PM
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That makes you LV as a LTR prospect, just FYI
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:02 PM
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And if a man leaves me, I'm out the best years of my life and worse prospects going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:56 PM
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If you have kids, you're on the cuff regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:51 PM
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Sure. A lot of people are fine with just a religious ceremony, but a lot of people like the legal benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:54 PM
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A partner to have his kids and spend his life with. Marriage is a risk for both parties. I risk sacrificing my very limited fertile years, potentially wreck my body (or even life) having his kids, put my career on the back burner raising those kids, keeping his house, and cooking for him, only for him to bail or cheat and leave me a single mom in my older years with little hope of restarting while he works on family 2.0. I consider it a worthy risk because I trust my choice of partner and having…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:48 PM
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Judging from your username, that probably works for you, but for a lot of women who want to build a stable family and raise kids, that isn't an attractive option.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:32 PM
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I agree. I would have never chosen a man who wasn't marriage-minded because I don't believe in having premarital sex. Even if I did, I would want the stability and commitment my parents had for the sake of my future kids. My fiance was talking about marriage and what our family would look like in terms of division of labor, discipline, childcare, etc. when our relationship got serious and we were on the same page in every major area. Now we are planning our wedding and have already decided at wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:30 PM
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I agree that die-hard feminists can be just as toxic as super redpill or blackpill men. Both sides need therapy and better relationships with their dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:11 PM
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I agree. I've had red pill dudes straight up tell me I must be lying and that, if I'm not, my "true nature" will come out eventually, like I'm a damn gremlin that they fed after midnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:07 PM
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Keep telling yourself that you understand how women think. Why do you need the "upper hand" in a relationship? Do you not see it as an equal partnership?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:23 PM
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Depends on how far down the rabbit hole you go dude. Self-improvement is good. Going full awalt is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:14 PM
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Yep. It's the wrong solution to a very real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:59 PM
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I agree. In fiction the "bad boy" type can sound exciting, but in real life that shit sounds exhausting and ridiculous. Never found it appealing. Now in 25 and engaged to a dentist who wants and build a life and raise a family with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:36 PM
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Hence the little boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:04 AM
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They have brothels, I assure you. And little boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:54 AM
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Glad I'm not Muslim. I've lived in the middle east and it's not a great place to be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:52 AM
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I don't believe a woman (or any human being) should be the outlet for the pent up frustrations of a bunch of men. That's what masturbation, hobbies, and therapy are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:45 AM
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I agree with all of the above. But I also would not consider a man who views sex and women as a commodity to purchase as a viable candidate for a life partner and father to my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:42 AM
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I don't believe prostitutes provide any value to the community. Quite the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:38 AM
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It's up to you who you respect and why and up to you what you consider a deal breaker in someone's sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:32 AM
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Well I don't believe that. Sex is about pairbonding and procreation. If you want a stable home and family, it's definitely not just a physical thing. Humans naturally ascribe a special value to it because it's such a fundamental part of our evolution. Would you rather be raped or beaten up? Why? What makes rape such a worse crime than other assaults if it's just a physical impulse? And just on a personal level for me, I consider it sacred because I'm Christian. The bible states that "Do you not …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:29 AM
1

Judging something doesn't mean I'm going after them with pitchforks, nor does it really effect my life in any way. I just don't respect or condone it. Simple as that. I'm not interested in moral apathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:23 AM
2

I believe that sex is sacred and personal, not just a physical act. Why would I want to give my virginity to and spend the rest of my life with a man who treats sex like he's paying for an Uber. Why would I respect a man who pays for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:20 AM
1

Yeah, it's disgusting regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:16 AM
2

Still weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:35 AM
2

We obviously have very different ideas of what benefits society. A bunch of women getting paid to fuck some dudes is just degeneracy and you will never convince me that it is a positive thing. Those people should be forming actual relationships and families and should probably be getting some therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 09:07 PM
0

No. Logging and off-shore drilling actually contribute to society. Whores don't deserve medals.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 08:55 PM
4

I disagree that there are no ill effects. There is the risk of disaease, pregnancy, emotional harm, etc. Degrading yourself has consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 08:08 PM
11

Yes, being honest about your intentions is important. In my experience it weeds out the people who wouldn't be right for you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:58 PM
3

I would still be grossed out by it. I'm also grossed out by tinder hookups. I don't go shouting that people are harlots or anything, it's just my opinion. On a personal level I don't believe in sex outside of marriage, so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:29 PM
3

Yes, but I'm not into women, so it doesn't really enter my mind as much. It would make me hesitant to befriend a woman that did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:18 PM
3

Yeah, it's less likely to be exploitative, but it's still fucked up. Viewing sex as a commodity to be purchased makes a man very low in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:16 PM
5

Just from the perspective of a woman, if a guy I was considering dating said something like "it was a classy place, don't worry." I would run the other way. And at least the kids in Nike sweatshops aren't getting literally fucked to make our sneakers. Sex is a whole other level of exploitation. Edit: *aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:01 PM
13

As a woman, that's how I feel. It's disgusting and unethical. How do I know they didn't sleep with a human trafficking victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:40 PM
1

I get that. I'm young looking with a baby face and what some have described as an "innocent" look. I attract the wrong kind of older guy because of that. The kind that want to be a sugar daddy and ask if I ever wear pigtails and stockings. Gag. My fiance on the other hand never brings up my age and it's just a non issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:09 PM
1

Definitely. I think I had one person I know make a negative comment and his friends were joking about it once. No one has an actual issue with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:35 PM
3

I feel like waiting until marriage to have sex gives me an advantage. It acted like a trial run for my fiance and I. When we get married, were going to bone like rabbits, but life is still going to throw us curve balls and we already have a strong intimate bond that goes beyond literal fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:55 PM
1

I am aware. But in both our cases it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:30 PM
2

For some, sure. And while I'm average for a white girl, he's tall for a Vietnamese man. His own parents are both 5'2. That's what growing up in America does to a guy, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:29 PM
-1

This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:20 PM
0

The women marrying dudes in prison as mentally broken people who likely had a POS for a dad that warped their expectations and desires for men. I have an amazing dad and would never tolerate that shit. I'm marrying a dentist in a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:19 PM
-1

Wow, I want to put my body through childbirth and dedicate my best years to rasing his kids. I must just want that sweet sweet cash. Gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:17 PM
1

I feel like an outlier. My fiance is 8 years older than me and we met when I was 21. It helps that he looks young and I didn't even realize how old he was when I agreed to go on a date with him. It's also the same age gap my parents have. My older sister is an actual outlier for marrying a guy around our dad's age. She wasnt in it for the money (he is a cop turned security guard) and he wasn't in it for her fertility or whatever (they didn't want kids). They just work as a couple and are super w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:15 PM
2

Well, 5'6 is still taller than the average woman. Most women want to date someone taller than them. For instance, my fiance is 5'7 but I'm only 5'4, so it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:06 PM
2

I agree. Potheads are obnoxious. Better than alcoholics, but still annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:55 PM
8

Understandable. You just have to keep in mind a lot of childless women have a "no guys with kids" policy, just like men do. I wouldn't want to deal with a baby mama in the picture or play stepmom to some kid that's not mine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 07:10 PM
12

There are some non-crazies out there. My mom left her cheating husband and later married my dad. She legally adopted his two kids and they've been married almost 30 years. Probably won't find that on tinder though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 10:54 AM
10

Yeah, but you can never be as attractive as you were at your peak. How many "trade up" for a hotter, younger spouse when they get rich? I want my relationship to be based on a more stable foundation so we'll still love each other when we're bumping uglies in the nursing home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:42 PM
21

Definitely want a guy to value my personality more. Otherwise, what would we do when we're old and wrinkly? I want my relationship to get better as we grow older, not worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 06:37 PM
8

And sometimes liking him as a person can change how you see him physically. Also personal taste has to be taken into account. My friends and I could never agree on guys we like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 06:34 PM
1

True, but it shouldn't be glorified or encouraged. Plus internet porn is forever and will be found by employers, future partners, friends, their children, etc. whereas a bad sexual encounter with a stranger isn't broadcast to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:19 PM
6

Crime has been on a downward trend for decades and the reason serial killers are fewer nowadays has been theorized to be several things, including the use of advanced foresnics like DNA testing. I also object to the idea that porn is better than imagination. People are developing all kinds of weird ass fetishes by being introduced to porn at a young age. I've known women in real life and read accounts of many women online that porn gave their partners all kinds of weird ideas they wanted to try …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:16 PM
7

Except weed. Legalize that. Stuff that turns you into a rabid zombie with one hit should stay illegal though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:24 PM
11

That's probably better for them. Plus the models in mail order magazines aren't having their lives ruined for the gratification of horny strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:17 PM
4

Yeah, my dentist fiance found me while I was still in college. 8 years older than me and doesn't care that I'm not a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:16 PM
3

Then why did you say LTR/marriage isn't a good end goal for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:24 PM
4

Have fun being the creepy middle aged guy alone at the bar someday while other men are happy married and surrounded by kids and grandkids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:21 PM
6

More reason I'm waiting until I'm married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:19 PM
19

I agree. The only negative experience I have with men are when they happen to be actual creeps/sexual predators. The regular men in my life are great and find said creeps as offensive as I do.
/r/AntiFeminists12/10/21 05:23 PM
1

No. I would have commended him for his decision and dedication to his principles, but I can't build the life and family I want with someone who isn't a Christian. I can (and am) friends with people of all faiths and lack thereof, but I couldn't marry them. Also, to add to my previous points, I didn't wait for the sake of men. Most men don't even seem to care nowadays. I waited for my own mental and physical well-being. I'll never have anyone to compare my husband to. I'll never have to worry abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:39 PM
1

Well, my number one requirement was that my future husband be Christian. No personal or professional qualities would outweigh that. Same is true for a lot of the girls like myself that I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:27 PM
1

It will be a big point against you for a lot of girls who choose to wait, especially for religious reasons. You'll have to make up for it in every other category like my fiance did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:13 PM
1

I suppose it's true. Generally, men are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. If he had still been sleeping around or if I knew him back in his crazy college days, I wouldn't have given him a chance whatsoever. Also, he was never hypocritical or creepy about me being a virgin. He was never like "I had my fun with those dirty chicks, now I need a pure virgin to marry". When I said I was waiting, he just said "it might be a little hard (to wait) but I'm kinda glad you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:03 PM
1

It was a strike against him, but he made up for it by being patient with me. There were other guys that were pushy and one guy who thought it was a good idea during a date to go on about why he could never wait to have sex. Plus my fiance is older, so I wasn't that surprised. If he had been my age when we met, it would have been a much bigger strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:06 PM
1

Unfortunately no, but he's waiting for me now and hasn't complained. He's been a total gentleman and respected my decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:58 AM
1

Thanks. My fiance is a great guy and we plan to try for kids after a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:07 PM
1

Maybe rabid feminists. Personally, I'm losing my virginity to my fiance in a few months and look forward to our wonderful life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:00 PM
1

If the goal is quantity, I think you only like certain parts of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:57 AM
2

Same. I had some dude tell me that might be an innocent virgin NOW, but my TRUE nature would come out eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:35 AM
6

I'm waiting and I have zero regrets. I'm currently engaged to a great guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:32 AM
5

Have fun having a kid that hates you and ends up with mental problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:41 AM
2

I know and women who divorce for stupid reasons also suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 10:23 PM
1

I don't care if an older guy dates a young hot woman. What I don't like is an older man dumping his wife and kids for a hot young woman. Cheaters and deadbeats can go fuck reserves regardless of their income.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:13 PM
3

Nice!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 07:34 PM
13

I totally agree. My fiance isn't 6 foot but he's taller than me, so I dgaf how tall he is. 6 feet cutoff is arbitrary and dumb.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 02:55 PM
16

Thanks, internet stranger.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 02:32 PM
19

Yeah, everyone has some kind of physical requirement. Listing it in a profile and belittling those who don't fit it, that's that spiteful part.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 02:16 PM
33

Yeah, my sense of height is all fucked because I've grown up as an average height girl in a family of tall people. Even my aunt is 6 ft. Also, I've lived in countries where the average is WAY shorter than the American average. Now I'm back in the states and my perception is all wonky, but it doesn't matter to me much anyway. I'm about to marry a guy who's ~5'7.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 02:15 PM
5

My fiance is that height and it doesn't bother me at all. Don't get too down on yourself or lose hope because of a few picky twats on Tinder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 02:11 PM
3

Exactly. I had this conversation with my fiance where we were discussing physical attractiveness and both said we didn't think the other was totally perfect, but we still loved eachother to the point that that doesn't matter. We both have physical flaws. Someone might be a 10/10 but that doesn't count for for anything if they're a total cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:16 AM
6

I don't belive in casual sex, so I guess I should die alone then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:07 AM
3

Exactly. My fiance and I already talked about how many kids we want, how I'm going to stay home with them, how we will discipline them, etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 04:31 PM
1

This is true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:28 PM
1

He isn't, but he's waited patiently for me for 3.5 years with zero complains or pressure for me to change my stance. He's 8 years older than me and was a wild party guy in college. He's thankfully matured. I made it very clear to him that I won't tolerate him being a drunk idiot, and he hasn't been. I also made it very clear that if he were to ever cheat, I would divorce him. He agrees. While his past isn't ideal, he's proven to me that he's a loyal, dedicated partner and all his positive points…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:19 AM
1

He isn't, but he's waited 3 years for me with no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:51 AM
6

Have fun at the sausage fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:07 PM
6

Exactly. It's vile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 05:49 PM
2

Thanks. Living in the middle east when I was a teenage girl gave me a very clear perspective on the whole thing. Shit's fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:18 PM
1

Everything the Taliban does violates the Geneva Convention. We should shoot them on sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:13 AM
13

Trans "women" aren't women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:33 AM
1

Taliban members
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:32 AM
13

Anyone who chooses to become a single parent on purpose is a deluded, shitty person. She literally paid a doctor to fuck up her life and her child's life. Jesus.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 02:47 AM
32

Anyone who chooses to become a single parent on purpose is a deluded, shitty person. She literally paid a doctor to fuck up her life and her child's life. Jesus.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 02:47 AM
1

We should have executed all 5000 of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:39 AM
1

Yeah, I lived in the middle east for a few years (but was very privileged as a foreigner) and that shits brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:37 AM
3

Biden literally abandoned US citizens in Afghanistan.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:34 AM
17

I'm a woman and hate what feminism has become.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:32 AM
9

Islam fucks up everything it touches. It would have been a hellhole regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:31 AM
1

For what it's worth, I met my fiance at a cafe inside a library. I'm usually not very social, but for the most part I'm most social and meet the most people when I go to events or places centered around shared interests, like comic cons, bookstores, movie theaters (talking before or after, not during of course), ren fairs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:19 PM
5

Same. I didn't party in college and I found my fiance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:13 PM
1

I don't think it's creepy to go places with the intent to meet people. If you go out like "let's go get laid" and act like a horndog, then yeah, that's creepy. Execution and intent are key.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:09 PM
2

If you don't put yourself out there, you really can't complain that you're alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:23 AM
3

They aren't defects to me. I'm just pointing out the common disadvantages men claim on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:22 AM
1

*approach someone on your level that you have a chance with. Want to raise your level? Work on your appearance and body language. My fiance is a 5'7 skinny Asian dude, but he keeps himself well groomed, has a flattering haircut, doesn't dress like a child, and generally had a relaxed, approachable demeanor. As a result, he looked cute and I was receptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:58 AM
4

Thats true. You really have to be careful. I was just referring to immediate danger/creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 09:25 PM
4

So have I, I've been hit on by creeps since I was like 13, but I can generally tell the difference between creeps and nice people based on their behavior and body language. If you want to meet people, you have to give them the benefit of the doubt while still being cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 09:10 PM
2

Thats what my fiance did. Just approached me in a cafe, made conversation, and asked for my number. Just don't be creepy or desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 09:06 PM
3

-5 but I'm very right leaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:25 PM
1

Good. You have to teach them reason and good judgment before they can go apply it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:16 AM
1

As a dad, it will be your job to teach her good judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:36 AM
4

Where the heck are you looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:52 PM
2

Yes. I have a great relationship with my dad, always had my emotional needs met, and my parents demonstrated a healthy marriage, so I never pursued or put up with toxic crap. Worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:51 PM
1

That was basically my criteria for my own dating life as a woman. Worked out for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:49 PM
2

That's dumb. I was looking for a guy that met specific criteria for a future husband (emotionally and financially stable, smart, same general beliefs, goals, values as me, etc.) and if they didn't meet that criteria, I didn't waste my damn time. Now I'm happily engaged at 24. Don't waste your youth on some dumbass that you have no future with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:58 AM
2

I'm a woman.
/r/AntiFeminists08/08/21 08:44 PM
1

Can't turn a ho into a housewife. It's a saying for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 08:10 PM
1

He's my fiance, actually, but I was 21 and in college. Also, it's never too late to come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:13 AM
1

I hope that they are coming to that realization.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 11:45 PM
1

I find the debate interesting. And I've seen married guys on here too. Would you rather everything on here be doom and gloom with no successes? Sounds like a circle-jerk of misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 11:41 PM
2

There are definitely crazies at a certain age, but I'd argue men peak later before wthey tip over into crazy land.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:24 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:13 PM
0

We went on the first date before I realized the age gap (he's asian and just generally young-looking) and it didn't bother me. He's established in his career, he has his life together, he wants to start a family, etc. It's all good. Plus I just like older guys I guess. He's mature but still fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:08 PM
4

Most people on this subreddit are far from religious nut jobs and have said basically the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:02 PM
4

Fertility. N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:59 PM
2

Well, I'm a Christian virgin so my chance of divorce is pretty low.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:58 PM
10

I (a woman) am getting married at 25 soon and plan on at least one kid by 30. I know what I want, found a great guy, and I'm not messing around before I "settle down".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:51 PM
15

Yeah, my fiance is 8 years older than me and he said a lot of women his age (early/mid 30s) who are still on the dating market are kinda crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:49 PM
1

"Crib midgets" lol I'm stealing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:04 PM
–

I love kids and want to build a family with my fiance. I just want to hold a little mix of us (or an orphaned child that needs a home) and love and nurture them as they grow up. I want to help raise the next generation and build a legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:01 PM
2

I agree with this as well. But cheating is no way to fix things and isn't excusable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 07:29 PM
1

Yes, it takes two to wreck a home. This hoe and the pos cheater.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 07:25 PM
1

Im saying there are just the genetic risks and not the physical ones. For me, being older would mean higher genetic risks and a harder time bouncing back from the birth. Double whammy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:38 PM
14

Yeah, I'm being overly soft in my language. I agree with you completely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 06:33 PM
18

Yep. Which is why I don't support it. I can support actual causes and people in real life but not some shady organization like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 02:32 PM
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My fiance isn't that old and he isn't the one carrying it, so we're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:16 PM
–

Good for them, but I'm not taking the extra risk of having kids later. I already have my shit together and so does my fiance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:06 PM
36

Yeah, that's a huge part of why I don't support the organization. The pro-black message is just a front for all their woke BS and money-hoarding.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 02:02 PM
3

As a woman, I second bringing back slut shaming. It's fucking disgraceful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 01:40 PM
1

What a loathsome, homewrecking, cunt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 01:38 PM
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I meant waiting a year or so, not like a decade. That's my plan with my fiance. One year of just us to settle in as a couple, then we quit the birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:05 PM
1

Sometimes. I'm in my 20s and always knew what I wanted. I wanted kids before 30 for one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:07 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:06 AM
4

No problem. Thanks for the respectful answers. I only believe in divorce in cases of infidelity or abuse. If that were to happen, I would go back to being celibate until I remarried, if I remarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:15 PM
4

For me, it's mostly a religious thing. I'm Christian and don't believe in premarital sex. Also, I'm just a very private, introverted person and casual sex never appealed to me. I was never really tempted by it, so it's not like I'm repressed. I still have a normal sex drive, I just want it in the context of marriage. It's like, I really love chocolate, but I don't want to eat chocolate I found on the sidewalk. I have sexual urges and desires, but I don't want to mess around with someone that's o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:52 PM
5

Yeah, generally the way they act. I dropped two guys who were just not getting the message that I wasn't crossing certain lines (pressuring me to go home with him, begging for nudes, etc.). For my fiance, we had the talk about sex a little bit into dating. I told him I was waiting and he said he respected that. I asked how many women he had slept with in the past (not in an accusing way, just asking for transparency) and it wasn't that bad. Above average, but not obscene. Also not surprising con…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:05 PM
12

"N-count of 30" made me physically cringe. I'm a virgin waiting for marriage and that would make me run the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:36 PM
20

No pill. My fiance fits the criteria for a HV man, but he's a gentleman who doesn't know what reddit is. I hit the jackpot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:34 PM
1

30s, yes if you get on it really quick. 40+ generally no. If you want to have a lot of time with just your partner, then dating in the 20s makes the most sense. Plus the longer you wait, the harder it is on your body and the more risk you have for complications and defects.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:33 PM
0

Can confirm. I'm in my 20s, dating a guy in his 30s. Older guys who have their life together are more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:30 PM
1

Probably depends on what a guy is looking for. If a guy wants to start a family, he needs to look for younger, fertile women. If he doesn't care about that, or already has kids, then it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:28 PM
1

The only "pill" I've taken is faith in God. All this other stuff just looks like degeneracy based on nuggets of truth taken to a crazy conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 12:54 PM
9

As a Christian virgin woman, a man also being Christian is a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:50 AM
2

If I hear a man call himself a feminist, my pussy dries up like the Sahara.
/r/AntiFeminists01/08/21 08:50 PM
2

To each their own. I want my husband to be the leader of the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:04 PM
3

You can be equal in value and worth while having different roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:20 PM
2

Love, support, contributing to the household (monetarily and/or through homework), being a leader for the family, being a good father to the kids, be willing to make sacrifices for the safety for the family. I'm a Christian, so from my perspective, here's a good list of good qualities for hisbands based on scripture.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:18 PM
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The best thing for it would be being adopted by parents who actually give a damn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 04:01 AM
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One of my favorite tweets ever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 03:59 AM
6

Thats a lot of damage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 03:59 AM
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You make great points here. As an American woman, I was always taught by mainstream media that I "didn't need a man" and all that spiel. Aside from religious institutions, no one is telling me to settle down and form a family nowadays. However, I see that that is the best way to create a stable, happy future for myself and future kids, and so that's what I'm choosing to do. My fiance isn't my boss, he's my partner and him working will allow me to care for our future kids more instead of paying s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 03:16 PM
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I'm a devout Christian. I'm also an adult with a functioning clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:46 AM
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Maybe for some. Personally, I'm a virgin and have a very high sex drive and will enjoy the company of my vibrator until I'm married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:40 AM
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I have plenty of fun as a young virgin, it just doesn't involve dicks inside me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:36 AM
1

As a woman, 10 inches sounds terrifying and painful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/21 03:32 AM
2

Yep. It's nuts and can really mess with your self-perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:15 PM
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I avoid changing my looks in photos. I try to find a good angle/lighting that flatters me and might use the default Instagram filters to make the colors slightly more vibrant or soft. The only time I ever "photoshopped" my appearance was when I removed a horrible red pimple that ruined an otherwise great photo back when I had awful cystic acne (Accutane eventually took care of that problem). When I scroll through social media, I do so with the understanding that a lot of people are photoshopped …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:30 PM
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The lens distorts your appearance. Here's a good explanation with examples: https://www.vgplasticsurgery.com/blogs/phone-cameras-selfies-distort-face-making-face-nose-look-wider-longer/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:25 PM
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Yep. A guy ghosted me after the second date after I made it clear I wasn't going to fuck him. I didn't lose any sleep over it. I'm currently engaged to a great guy who actually respects my boundaries and morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:45 PM
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Which is a bad idea, imo. I could never date a leftist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:53 AM
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Shape. I am a size 4 and have an hourglass figure. My ass is muscle and fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:53 AM
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I agree. I had one friend who didn't find my boyfriend appealing based on my description and said "ew" out loud like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:22 AM
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As a woman, fat and tall just sounds terrifying. I don't want to be crushed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:21 AM
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Some asians do. My asian boyfriend is an ass man and constantly slaps mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:20 AM
3

Probably never met him.
/r/AntiFeminists24/07/21 12:48 AM
2

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:44 PM
1

Not surprising since everything is a "social construct" now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:31 PM
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Yeah, I get that. My own dad was very traditionally masculine. He worked with his hands and more than once designed and built my family a house almost entirely on his own. Very outdoorsy country boy. Also 6'3 and can grow a beard in an instant. His biggest faults are his ego and temper. My fiance is not the traditional performative masculine type. He's a 5'7 Asian dude who can't repair anything. Doesn't even own a drill. Probably the "manliest" thing he does is smoke some great BBQ. But he's a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:27 PM
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As a white woman, I don't get it either. I have nothing against tattoos if they're small and easily covered, but I don't see the appeal. But then again, I am engaged to an Asian dentist with none, so maybe I'm the odd one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:15 PM
1

Billie sounds like an ungrateful cunt. I'd never watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:13 PM
1

Sounds like a DIY insane asylum.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 07:57 PM
1

Here's the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:06 PM
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It depends on how it happened. Did he leave his wife, did his wife die, or is he just someone's baby daddy? The circumstances matter for how I view the situation. As a woman, a guy would have to MASSIVELY make up for it in other ways for me to consider it personally. It's a huge detractor. I want my own kids and I want mine to be his sole focus. Thankfully, my fiance doesn't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:37 AM
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Yep. That's what my parents did and it worked great. Blended family. I wouldn't date a single dad because I am not a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:33 AM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:16 PM
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No. A person's past matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:13 PM
2

No. A person's past matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:13 PM
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People just need to be honest in what they want and be receptive to what other people want. If no one you are attracted to wants you, you may need to adjust your expectations, strategy, or behavior. Different people want Different things and have different ideas of what is feminine and masculine. My parents are traditional in their general values, behavior, and outward presentation (dad's a big macho country guy and mom never left the house without a cohesive outfit and makeup) but my dad was a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:25 PM
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As a woman I agree. I am very feminine in my behavior and interests. I found a guy who is also pretty traditional who wants and can afford a housewife. Like attracts like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:56 PM
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Men have been serfs, have done backbreaking labor, drafted into wars, pressured to be the sole provider for their families, etc since the beginning of civilization. History sucked for everyone but the 0.01% top of society regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:54 PM
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Holy shit, this comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/okrai8/oh_thank_god/h5a4xld?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 Bonus, I was instabanned from the sub when I commented.
/r/AntiFeminists15/07/21 11:22 PM
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That's a bad way to go about it in every sense. Definitely not what I'm doing. I've been dating my fiance for 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:53 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:36 PM
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Nice. I know how to get myself off, so I just gotta figure out how to transfer that to him and vice versa. Emotionally, I find him very satisfying already.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:54 PM
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No problem. Have a nice day, internet stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:16 PM
2

It will be a learning curve to get to know each others bodies I'm sure, but I do believe love and commitment can overcome any hurdles there. We just need to adjust to suit each other and figure out what the other like over the course of the rest of our lives. Plus I'll have no prior men to compare him to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:08 PM
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I wonder how abstinence effects the timeline. I'm in a LTR with my boyfriend and we will be getting married soon. Sex has always been off the table and won't happen until the wedding night. We still have a great relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:53 PM
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Yeah, I do not see the appeal whatsoever to being a sugar baby. But then again, I have a great relationship with my father and actual life goals.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 03:38 AM
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The porn industry is still horrific and exploitative. I just stick to reading erotica. No one is a victim of human trafficking, drug addiction, and mental scars because of smutty words.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:07 AM
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Ok coomer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:58 AM
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Thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 07:38 PM
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link link
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:04 PM
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Porn fucks up your brain. Video games are benign.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:57 PM
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I doubt vudeogames and football will give you Erectile Dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:12 PM
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Yeah, my parents were both single (divorced) parents when they married each other. Mom's ex turned out to be a cheater and dad's ex turned out to be over-all crazy who ran off, leaving him with 4 kids on his own. Both of them maintained a civil relationship with their exes for the sake of the kids and neither used the kids as pawns to get back at them. My parents were definitely the exception to most single parent rules.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 12:02 AM
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Reminds me of the single mom I work with. She told me that her daughter said she wished she had a dad to play catch with. Sad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 11:56 PM
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As an abstinent Christian woman, I have the urge to accuse her of cultural appropriation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 03:57 AM
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Totally agree. How can you build a life together and raise a family if you don't even agree on your life goals and values? Thats how you end up with divorced families where the mom goes nuts and put the kid on hormone blockers and the dad has no legal recourse. That shit isn't happing to my kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 10:44 PM
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Smart man
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 08:50 PM
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If they really wanted a traditional man, they'd act like a traditional lady. I do and I got one. Die mad, hoes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 03:30 PM
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Yeah, girls with daddy-issues who look for male attention in the wrongplaces, women without any kind of moral framework, women who try to trap a guy, etc. You know...morons.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 12:40 PM
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I was working in the public library while in college. It had a small cafe inside and he ordered hot chocolate from me while I was working the counter. After he came in a couple times he asked for my number. He's Asian and very young-looking, so I didn't know he was older. He apologized for having mud on his pants from walking dogs at the local shelter as a volunteer. I thought that was really sweet. He was wearing scrubs so I assumed he was a nurse or nursing student, but it turned out he's a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:31 PM
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It would have been nice if he was a virgin too, but he's 8 years older than me and was a total party animal in college before he calmed down and matured. Not ideal, but he's everything I could want in a partner now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:24 PM
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I guess I can trust that he didn't date rape anyone in college before he met me. I don't have a perfect 1:1 equivalent because he isn't a virgin. My reason for believing that he never did anything like that is that he is always respectful toward me and never pushed me to do anything I didn't want to. All I can do is assess his character and behavior. Same goes for him toward me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:20 PM
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I guess the equivalent in our case is me trusting that his business trips are really business trips and he isn't cheating on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:16 PM
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I dunno. He could probably tell I have no idea what I'm doing when we started kissing. We just kinda have to trust each other and look for red flags. Same way I trust he's not secretly a rapist/murderer/alcoholic/druggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:10 PM
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Well. In general broken homes are bad for kids. And yes. I am a virgin and am going to give it to my boyfriend as soon as we get married soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:01 PM
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I could also get hit by a bus tomorrow. Doesn't mean I'm going to turn into a slut with no morals just it case it all goes to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:50 PM
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That's how you end up with a kid that grows up to be a criminal, mentally ill, or with daddy issues. Parents are there to raise the kid and to model a healthy marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:46 PM
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How is loneliness in old age not applicable? And it's not just loneliness in general, I mean family and legacy-building. It's one thing to have friends, but it's another to have kids and grandkids around you as you get old and passing your knowledge. I've seen how much my parents value that and I remember how much I benefited from my grandparents. It's a beautiful thing and I want to continue it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:42 PM
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I understand that, but what else are we supposed to do? Just give up and live a life of degenerate loneliness? I don't even belive in extramarital sex. I want a husband and kids and am doing what I need to to make that happen and maintain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:35 PM
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Our cultural framework is our supportive but conservative families and our church. Can't really do much about the legal side aside form voting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:31 PM
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Me and my fiance are going with the understanding that chating ir abuse are the only grounds for divorce. We have the same faith and the same principles when it comes to family and relationships. Don't mary a fickle hoe with no principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:28 PM
1

So you juts want to end up like this in your old age instead if being surrounded by the family you built?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:24 PM
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If someone is invested in a person, they can find something they both enjoy or at least support them in their interests. For example, I never cared about true crime documentaries and my boyfriend didn't care about pet rabbits until we got together and shared our interests with each other. We don't have to share every interest though. He's never going to like fantasy literature and I'm never going to enjoy football and that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:17 PM
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Fixed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 01:26 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:07 PM
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I try. Coincidentally, today I had my comment removed when I said a fictional character was irresponsible by having a kid out of wedlock. Mods are degenerate pussies. Edit: I was referring to a different sub that is centered around literature. The mods on THAT sub are degenerate pussies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 01:50 AM
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Same. I weep for the state of society. It's awful. I'm glad I found a good man. Hanging on till death do us part.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 01:28 AM
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I'm waiting until I'm married, I dunno about the rest of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:49 PM
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That's called a bad decision. Don't put out in hopes of turning it into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:33 PM
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Seriously. Single motherhood is a blight on society.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/21 07:48 PM
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I didn't say I would be super strict. Just no social media until they can handle it. 12 year olds don't belong on most of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:37 PM
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Yep. I found weird porn at 12, but thankfully noped out of there pretty quick and decided to avoid it altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:59 PM
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I wish my parents had put some controls in place so I didn't come across degenerate porn as a confused preteen and generally act like an idiot on the internet. The only thing my parents monitored was Facebook because they were on there as well. Little kids need to be protected online. Are they going to "hate me" if I don't like them have sex or do drugs in the house?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:54 PM
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I agree and the test is looking pretty grim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:48 PM
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In their late teens they can make more decisions for themselves, but I'm not giving little kids free reign of the internet. Saying they'll just do it anyway to rebel so I should just give up is a crap argument and you wouldn't use it in regards to something like drugs. I'm not going to be a prison warden, I'm just not going to let them have social media accounts until they are old enough to understand the consequences of what they put on the internet and what they consume on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:50 PM
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They will surely see some things no matter what, but im not going to allow them to shut themselves in their room amd watch porn or make an ass of themselves on Twitter. I'm talking about little kids, not young adults who can make their own decisions. Kids don't belong on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:45 PM
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No internet unsupervised until they are old enough to be trusted and some kind of non-smartphone. Social media just leads to eating disorders, porn-addiction, depression, and all kinds of shit kids don't need.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:45 PM
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I believe both sexes need to be kept in line. We are all sinful, fallen creatures that will hurt ourselves and other without a moral framework to restrain us. But the secual revolution decided women should never be criticized, even in they ruin the lives of their children and partners in the process. It's disgusting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 04:04 PM
1

Playing outside is better than leaning to shake their ass on tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:02 PM
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They will probably come across stuff, but I won't let them have free run of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:34 AM
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Yup. Not letting my kids near social media when I have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:07 AM
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Eh, I'm not taking the lord's name in vain. I believe swearing in a humorous way is just harmless fun as long as it isn't taken too far.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 01:58 AM
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Don't marry someone without seeing them without makeup I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:16 PM
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If they aren't average women, why would they marry average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:06 PM
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Yeah, I know my lizard brain is an idiot I need to keep in it's cage. The dumb shit stays in fantasyland. Same goes for guys feeling the need to spread their genes. In the real world I know to have actual morals and standards for myself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 08:55 PM
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I've been to college. Not touching dick was definitely a choice. I'm engaged now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 04:55 PM
23

Eh, I'm strictly religious and never touched a dick in my life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 04:02 PM
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The fuck is wrong with this hoe? Jesus. So glad I'm not having sex until I marry my fiance and won't have this kind of baggage weighing me down for the rest of my life. This shit is bananas. FWB is gross on its own, but while you are "dating" another guy? WTF. This woman is emotionally crippled.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 04:01 PM
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Im glad you found your wife. About your former friend...Yeah, having sex with someone won't bring anyone to the lord, my goodness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 12:34 AM
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Oh, I know. But those girls are less likely to be actual active members or involved in any bible study groups, which is mainly how I made nice friends in college that weren't crazy. Actually having to put in time and effort is a great way to weed out people who are "Christian". My Bible study group was actual great for support, accountability, and wholesome fun. We would take trips together, have movie nights, cook, and just generally hang out. It was a great alternative to college partying for …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 10:27 PM
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Church.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 10:12 PM
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These are all warnings to me as a woman as well to not associate. Most of my actual friends actual friends are happily married or at the very least not thots.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 09:54 PM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:52 PM
3

Yikes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 12:30 AM
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She's upset that men hook up with her without a proper date. Do they just show up without pants and so she just shrugs and thinks "Fooled again. Guess I have to fuck him." They can't use you for sex if you don't give them that option. Heck, I didn't even kiss my fiance until a couple dates in. What's wrong with these hoes?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 12:29 AM
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Yeah, I "modeled" for a charity fashion event once, but that doesn't make me an actual model.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 09:16 PM
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Yeah, the modern age has me questioning the title of "model" more and more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 09:07 PM
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This. I knew I wanted to be a wife so I wasn't a hoe in college and found a good man instead. I'm almost 25 now and engaged to a sweet, fun, handsome, dentist who has values that align with mine and wants a family as much as I do. No regrets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 09:06 PM
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Worse, she actively hinders the functioning of society.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 04:19 AM
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She decided to fuck other dudes for a living and he didn't want to stay with her. Big shock, lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 04:18 AM
10

Oh I totally will when I marry my fiance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 02:18 AM
1

I'm waiting until I'm married to my fiance to lose my virginity. Meanwhile I use my vibrator about 4 times a week at least.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre18/06/21 10:49 PM
13

I totally agree.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 05:16 PM
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Glad to be of service.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 05:15 PM
12

I preach where I can.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 05:14 PM
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I dunno man, my attachment to my vibrator said otherwise. Some women have very high sex drives.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre18/06/21 04:41 PM
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I acknowledge that part of my brain as a woman but purposefully leave it in the realm of fantasy. I will read erotic fiction of really messed-up dudes and situations, but I'm not so deluded as to seek that out in real life. That kind of stuff doesn't lead to a happily ever after in real life. That's like a guy expecting situations from porn to just happen in real life. It's fantasy rooted in our caveman brains.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 04:28 PM
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I'm a woman. I'm speaking from experience from what I see. Not all women are like this, but a lot of women on dating apps are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:37 PM
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Yes, a lot of women have been raised to be entitled princesses with no long term plan or ability to delay gratification. If they want to be loved by a partner when they're old and gray (no longer hookup magerial) and also have children that aren't emotionally crippled, they need to grow the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:10 PM
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This is true. There are limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:06 PM
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Yeah, my mom and dad were both single (divorced) parents of small kids and happily married each other and made a new blended family. Because they aren't hypocritical morons. This bitch clearly is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 02:26 AM
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As a woman, I agree. This is madness. "Stepping up" used to mean providing for and raising your kids and ideally marrying their mother. This is the exact fucking opposite.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 07:55 PM
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More women need to give their kids up for adoption. She has no business raising a goldfish.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 07:52 PM
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I overheard my brother talking about how sexy he found his wife while she was pregnant. Very sweet, just wish I hadn't overhead that as a sister.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 02:36 AM
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Some people are genuine exceptions. I switched and want kids while my sister didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:21 PM
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Maybe because that "plain" woman isn't a money-grubbing shrew? My fiance makes great money, especially for our area, and one of the things he told me that made me attractive as a long-term partner was that I wasn't materialistic and always asking for stupid shit like designer handbags. My parents didn't raise a leech.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 01:16 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:13 PM
0

Yeah, I get that a lot. Like "I don't belive you!" "you exist?" "Are there more of you?" LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:01 PM
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Just because women are given "be yourself" advice doesn't mean pressure doesn't exist. It's more like "be yourself....BUT!". This kinda shows what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:54 PM
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That's so sweet and I totally agree. My BF is short, skinny, ADHD, and nerdy. But he's adorable, kind, funny, aligns with my values, total genius, and takes everything in life in stride. I wouldn't trade him for the world. And yeah, I never asked friends for their opinion on him. I just hyped him up and introduced him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:48 PM
8

Unless your Fat Walda of house Frey.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/21 03:40 AM
9

Thanks random internet stranger. I was raised religious and am religious myself as an adult. Plus I just didn't really date in high-school. In college I went on a few dates that didn't really go anywhere before meeting my boyfriend, who was the first man I ever kissed on the mouth. He's cool with waiting and we plan to get married soon. Already asked my parents for their blessing and bought a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:38 PM
2

I don't know about an overall trend, but I made the same decision to wait until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:58 PM
9

I'm 24 and never touched a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:54 PM
5

It's actually above average. 5'4 is average for women in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:25 PM
2

Maybe they misread it as 4'7
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:11 PM
1

I know, right? It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:06 PM
3

I'm very lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:10 AM
9

Lol. He's still taller than I am, so idgaf. He's cute, sweet, brilliant, funny, and our over all values and life goals are compatible. I'm set.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:05 AM
2

He understands it, but doesn't speak it really.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:24 AM
4

He's the first generation American son of Vietnamese immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:03 AM
2

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:36 AM
2

No. Full white. What made you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:24 AM
12

No, but my future father in law is 5'2. When our dads meet face to face it will be the funniest shit ever. My boyfriend and I have joked that our kids could miraculously get my dad's height genes and end up the next Yao Ming, lol. Seriously, they will probably be average, but with the massive disparity in our families, who knows how they'll turn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:06 AM
30

That's what my dad told me in a joking way. He's 6'3 and my mom is 5'7 but I ended up 5'4 somehow. My dad's side of the family is just freakishly tall. Even my Aunt is 6'. My dad would always make jokes about being short (even though I'm average) and once suggested I date one of the guys on the basketball team so his grandkids could be "normal sized". Jokes on him, I'm getting married to a 5'7 Vietnamese man, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:46 AM
11

Summed it up perfectly
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 06:44 PM
42

As a woman, I agree. The only thing we are taught to fix is our appearance and even then, lot of other women are going on about body positivity. Thankfully my parents gave a shit and didn't raise a ditzy bitch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 12:35 PM
2

I can take my own pictures just fine and other photographers have done a great job. I actually had my pictures taken for my college's brochures and ads and they turned out really nice. My boyfriend just doesn't know what he's doing, nor does he really care. The fact that he isn't egotistical or image-obsessed is one of his strong points, but I wish he would learn to not hold the phone at texting level and look down at the camera to take a selfie. It makes him look like a thumb with hair on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:45 AM
3

True. I'm just trying to get my boyfriend to wear some fucking sunscreen so he doesn't turn into a rasin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:34 PM
14

My boyfriend can't take a decent selfie to save his life. Doesn't know wtf good lighting is. He also refuses to wear sunscreen, to my continued dismay. He also didn't have well-fitting jeans until I got ahold of him. He buys cheap white t-shirts in a 4 pack and wears them ALL THE TIME. But he's kind, funny, affectionate, smart, and will agree to let me pick his shirt on date nights, so he gets away with it. Most men are fucking neanderthals when it comes to appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:28 PM
4

My mom was a single Christian mom after her ex cheated on her. Hiqever, she didnt pull this bushit. She met and married my dad, also single and divorced, and even legally adopted his kids once his psycho ex relinquished her parental rights. They've been happily married almost 30 years now. You gotta find someone on your level and make it work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 08:54 PM
5

Some churches are still good. Our pastor still calls out porn and premarital sex in his sermons. There was one recent incident where a girl got knocked up and kept coming to church with the baby. There was some talk about escaping her abusive boyfriend, so he might have raped her for all I know. Not opening that can of worms by asking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 08:49 PM
13

This is true. If I was a widow in this dating market (if I even wanted to date after losing my spouse) I would be writing that shit in my bio to make the distinction clear.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 08:44 PM
12

This is an interesting observation. It reeks of overcompensation. I am personally very Christian and have been practically my whole life since I was raised in the church. My faith is central to my life and values, but that doesn't mean I don't have hobbies and fun, nor is I the entirety of my personality. It just shaped my personality. I never had a rebellious phase where I went out and did stupid shit. I just had fun doing other things that didn't involve drinking or dicks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 08:42 PM
1

Get off apps. People are on there to fuck, so of course they only care about looks. My boyfriend found me at the library and asked me out. Been together 3 years and are planning our future together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:10 PM
26

Flair checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:15 AM
0

This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 04:47 AM
14

Yes, Christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 05:24 PM
6

Oh totally. The man-hating, "girl power" circle-jerking is tiring. All people can be garbage regardless of genitalia.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 02:51 AM
13

Eh, I have thick skin and most of the critiques here don't apply to me personally. I get fed up with my own sex pretty regularly, tbh. Bitches be crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 02:44 AM
9

If they do find the guy they want, they bleeding them dry. Usually the guy has some issues if he falls for it though. Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 02:11 AM
3

Our statistical chances look pretty good to me. We have the same religion, mostly agree on politics, have discussed children and how we will raise them, have similar attitudes toward finances, and I'm a virgin.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 04:40 AM
40

I don't know. Flat earther might narrow that down more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/21 06:06 PM
3

That's why I plan to continue freelancing while I'm at home. For instance, I run all the visual media for an international scholarship program on the side while I have a regular 9-5 design job. It's usually a small project every week or so, along with managing the website.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/21 02:30 AM
1

Israel bombs the rocket launching sites while Hamas bombs targets civilian areas indiscriminately. The Iron dome isn't foolproof and some still get through, so they can't let the rocket launching go unchecked.
/r/AntiFeminists13/05/21 02:42 PM
4

The only reason there are so few Israeli deaths is because they have the Iron dome defence system. Because Israel actually gives a shit about their citizens, unlike hamas, which uses their citizens as meat shields.
/r/AntiFeminists13/05/21 01:47 PM
48

Your second sentence covers half of Tumblr "sexualities" and "genders".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 01:43 PM
7

Nope. Just opinionated. This is reddit after all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 03:29 AM
12

Thanks. This place is cesspool, that's for sure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 08:00 PM
27

Thanks! We actually have 3 real bunnies together, lol. They have their own bedroom at his place and are pampered little fuzzballs. We want at least 2 kids and agree that I will stay home with them when they are small. He works in medicine and can support us both when that happens and my career (graphic designer and freelance artist) allows for a lot of flexibility for when they are a little older. Family is really important to us both.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 04:34 PM
76

I'm 24 and have been dating my 32 year old boyfriend for 3 years and we plan to get married soon. The age gap is working just fine. These bitches are just jealous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 03:24 PM
3

I'm glad you found each other.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 08:15 PM
3

At least you turned things around! (Especially before things got as bad as this girl).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 07:50 PM
3

Lord almighty... Thankfully most of the girls I grew up with at church weren't like this. Most of them were super wholesome.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 07:18 PM
2

Amen, sis.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 07:15 PM
3

I'm glad I've never heard my pastor say shit like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 05:23 PM
17

Im a woman and I haven't spontaneously combusted from being here.
/r/AntiFeminists29/04/21 12:01 AM
5

As a woman, I second the thrift shopping! It's awesome.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 05:27 PM
2

Nice
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 11:30 AM
11

To be fair, I was raised all over the globe by my conservative Christian parents (not that I was sheltered, I was just given a very good moral upbringing in a stable family unit) and only moved back to the US during high-school. And just in general I'm a pretty no-nonsense person. My boyfriend found me at the library and we very quickly vetted one another for bullshit. He too is very straightforward and realistic, while still being nice and affectionate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 08:59 PM
33

As a woman, I can't stand the disingenuous circlejerk. No, not every woman is beautiful. At least not physically. Obese is obese.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 08:10 PM
4

Hence why I'm on reddit and call shit out when I see it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/21 02:07 PM
3

Yeah, they are great. My dad's ex wasn't much of a co-parent, but my mom was a cordial co-parent with her ex that cheated on her. Looking back as an adult I'm amazing at how well they handled it all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 03:01 AM
2

I was born after all the shit had already hit the fan and my siblings were already adopted by my mom, so I was the lucky one in my family. The ex/birthmom actually died when I was about 10 and I only met her a few times. I made it a point to learn from my parents mistakes so I don't have to make as many of my own. They were always open about what when wrong. It essentially taught me to take things like sex, marriage, and parenthood seriously.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 09:02 PM
5

My mom adopted my dad's two kids when they got together after their mother signed away her parental rights. The ex was crazy and unfit to parent. She almost ruined my dad's life and disappointed my siblings at every turn. But even then, there was a house rule that bad-talking her was off limits. They didn't act like she was a good person, but we didn't dog-pile and further hurt my siblings.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 08:28 PM
13

Yeah, that's how my very Christian mom ended up a single mother. My dad's wife did drugs and shit, so he ended up a single dad. Then they got together, combined their broods, and had me. Seeing all the fallout of their previous divorces made me grow up to have a visceral hatred for cheaters, addiction, and divorce in general.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 08:19 PM
2

I agree both are delusional. The only things I really wanted to change in my boyfriend are his fashion choices and interior decorating skills.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 09:19 PM
4

Yep. Never be captain save-a-hoe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 06:35 PM
5

That's awesome
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 11:18 PM
26

Thanks. More of us exist, we just aren't screeching or popping off on Twitter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 09:23 PM
21

And that baby boy will cost the justice system even more in a few years no doubt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 09:03 PM
28

Unless your parents are complete monsters, I agree. My guy had to get my dad's approval and it was nice. We are supposed to be joining our familys after all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 09:02 PM
24

I will never understand a woman who wants to make a man a project. I had a guy once send me dick pics and then when I wasn't into that, he went on this inane rant about how I could make him a better person. He needed a therapist, not a girlfriend. I never ran so damn fast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 08:59 PM
5

I totally agree. I can sympathize with the guy for having his feelings unrequited and the girl for losing a friendship (assuming she didn't intentionally lead him on). It's a sucky situation and I've seen it happen. Also, hello fellow female!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 12:44 AM
9

Makes sense. It's obvious this dude was very emotional about the situation, which I sympathize with, so hyperbole is not surprising. Unrequited feelings suck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 11:36 PM
16

That makes sense. In high school my friend group was a mix of guys and girls. In college I had a good male friend who had a lot of interests in common with me (same major, both like animals, similar sense of humor) but it was plain that we were not compatible in any romantic sense (different religion, politics, etc) and it never came up. At church I always had some friends in youth group and bible study that were guys, but kind of like high school, that's a mixed group in general. I guess the co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 08:38 PM
16

So I can't have a male friend because that's "friendzoning" and I can't have a female friend without it being a "frienemy"? I'm genuinely confused. I have male and female friends and so does my boyfriend and no issues have arisen thus far. However, friendships with other women are generally deeper since we relate more and can share in the girly stuff a guy wouldn't care about/understand. I assume male friendships are better for men for the same reason as female friendships are generally better f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 08:22 PM
60

This is correct. The girls who claim they can't be friends with other girls are usually a walking red flag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 08:15 PM
8

I would have guessed 35-40. Dang.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 09:40 PM
2

White.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 07:45 PM
28

Well, her husband is old and overweight, so I think it evens out, lol. They are still happily married in their 60s and surrounded by a giant herd of adorable grandkids. I doubt they would trade anything for what they got. We will all be flabby flesh sacks one day. Might as well find someone awesome to decompose with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 05:47 PM
14

Some people have amazing genes and take good care of themselves. I know one woman who had 10 kids, no joke, and was like a size 4-6 at most. It was mind-blowing. Her husband is a very lucky man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 05:38 PM
15

My parents are happily married, hence my tag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 05:46 AM
58

Yeah, my mom is almost 60 and looks waaaay better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 09:12 PM
8

I asked a point to thank him even for the little things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 06:35 PM
10

I agree. He has all the subtly and eloquence of a backyard fireworks display, but I love him and he is very much appreciated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 05:09 PM
2

He's not the most eloquent man, but I think your description fits what he was trying to say.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 04:27 PM
15

My boyfriend once told me he found it attractive how low maintenance I am. Looking at this shit, I finally understand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 02:26 PM
5

This is just depressing. If I was in her position I would just give up and forcus on myself and my hobbies/career/pets/extended family instead of fishing for cock on the internet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 11:10 PM
2

My boyfriend weighs like 150 (skinny Asian dude). I just see it as extra incentive to never let myself go and weight more than him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 12:02 AM
2

Probably round and hairy like a peach.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 11:59 PM
3

Yikes. My boyfriend is short and slim, but so am I, so idgaf.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 11:57 PM
1

Yikes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 01:34 PM
8

I get what you mean. Initial attraction, I have always preferred Asian guys. And I am definitely a rare sight on this sub, lol. But I am very annoyed with the state of western women, especially on dating sites. I don't like being lumped in with them, trust me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/21 05:04 PM
3

I'm a woman who's always been into Asian men. I'm attracted to different races as well and went on dates with them, but Asian always comes out on top for me. My boyfriend of 3 years is Vietnamese and he's cute af and I'm very happy. But compatability of personality and values counts for more than what race someone is, so it's not like I just grabbed a random Asian dude. We have the same life goals, religion, and general worldview.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/21 01:05 PM
5

Maybe gay?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 07:03 PM
7

In previous generations, those kids would have been more likely to be adopted by a loving family that couldn't have their own kids and would have had a chance at normalcy. Now they're just stuck in the clusterfuck and the cycle continues.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 09:26 PM
6

Basically. Some babies are really easy and engaging. Some have a million health issues and can barely sleep through nap time. My dad said my older brother was the latter and even had issues drinking milk and breathing at the same time and that it was a miracle he ever had more kids. His second kid was so good she wouldn't even cry when she woke up, she'd just lay there waiting until someone came and picked her up. Total angel baby.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 09:24 PM
3

That costs more than my engagement ring. Damn.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/01/21 06:48 PM
-10

Ok i guess a better phrasing is "i made good choices and was rewarded". The luck was being born into a loving family that set a good example for relationships and it was lucky i was at the library on the right say and time to run into my fiance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/21 11:28 PM
-16

I am lucky. I'm in a loving long-term relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/21 10:28 PM
-28

Or you could find someone who is genuinely affectionate and not a narcissist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/21 09:41 PM
4

That shit is scary. I can't fathom having a one night stand in the first place and then there's this bitch. I'm ashamed to share a species.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 06:13 PM
3

I agree.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/01/21 08:19 PM
3

I'm glad my mom and dad found each other when they were both divorced single parents. They were in the same situation and it worked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 05:31 PM
27

No one can shit on a girl like other girls. Shit like this reflects badly on all of us.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/01/21 05:11 PM
8

Same. Crazy bitches drag us all down.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/21 04:24 AM
2

TBF, depending on the field of study, some of them may have felt extra pressure if there were fewer women, making them eager to prove themselves by acting a certain way. It could be partially based on some personal experience they had or based on what other people told them they needed to do to prove themselves. My experience is just anecdotal.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/11/20 01:12 PM
1

That's good. My experience is completely anecdotal.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/11/20 01:03 PM
11

Truth.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/11/20 03:47 AM
39

Lol that was one time. I'm a graphic designer at a packaging company and a couple of the warehouse workers got into a fight. One time thing as far as I know.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/11/20 03:00 AM
3

I totally agree. It's all generalizations and trends. I try to treat everyone individually even if I have the statistics in the back of my mind.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/11/20 02:47 AM
22

Probably. One was married in her late 30s with no kids. Her husband was actually really nice and funnily enough was my boss at my part time job. Another one was in her 60s with cats and possibly a lesbian. Another two that were less scary but still had their excentricities and touchy points were a divorced woman in her late 30s and a woman in her 50s who was married to another professor and had adult children. Generally, they were all either tolerable or downright fun outside of the classroom an…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/11/20 01:51 AM
106

The one female boss I had was actually very nice. I haven't had a bad boss really, but female coworkers gossip and judge each other like crazy. However, none of my female coworkers has ever been fired or written up for sexual harassment or getting into a fist fight in the work parking lot like some of my male coworkers have, so it's a mixed bag either way. (not that women don't harass and get away with it, I just haven't see it personally yet. I'm only 24, so who knows what I'll witness in the f…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/11/20 01:24 AM
423

When I was in university, my female professors were mostly terrifying. The men were all sweet and understanding. (I'm a woman btw)
/r/PussyPassDenied26/11/20 12:20 AM
15

Preach. Dick is free and every woman knows it. It's the quality guys that you have to put effort in for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/20 04:41 AM
4

It baffles me that people can be so baffled by being told to take care of themselves. If I ate too much as a kid (and very skinny) my dad would make fat jokes to my face.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/20 04:39 AM
12

I'm new
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/20 06:25 PM
28

So glad I never bought into this crap. Then again, I have a great relationship with my dad, so I had no inclination to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/20 02:22 PM
1

The clit is the key to everything. There's a reason they make so many vibrators that don't go inside.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/20 07:51 PM
2

Now that's a good way to get an UTI
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/20 07:49 PM
0

Maybe like 99.9% or something if you factor in trafficking victims and abused minors.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/10/20 11:13 PM
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