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holyshitbarf/r/askTRP20/11/15 04:58 AM
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holyshitbarf/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 05:09 AM
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Many times, and it's always "I'm sorry I've been a cunt." He says this is the most serious relationship he has been in. He wants to date but I think he's inconsiderate sometimes.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/16 11:51 AM
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I didn't look too far into this because I didn't have time this morning, but it is an interesting study. https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn28582-scans-prove-theres-no-such-thing-as-a-male-or-female-brain/ I also think it's reasonable to think about who that viewpoint benefits. There are parts of the brain we try to classify as male or female in order to make sense of anatomy, however in practice these parts are used in a wide range of ways across both genders, meaning gender is not a signif…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/15 12:58 PM
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I agree, if this is important to her she should ask him what he really thinks. I think the key to not dragging it out is to have a plan for possible responses. Like don't put a weird conditional probation on it, don't make him guess you want to break up after a long series of hints. Be responsible for the decision and ask the questions. Being honest about the possibility of breaking up before you actually cut it off is manipulative itself. Your partner should never have to be involved, they shou…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/15 02:04 AM
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From what you've written there, I get the sense that you've got a lot of options and you're getting cold feet about this relationship because of some things you said at the start which your boyfriend believed. It sounds like you want a blank slate where you can put your eating disorder behind you, or your boyfriend has been insensitive about bringing up the fact he is apprehensive due to an illness you're trying to recover from. The issue is those things aren't just going to go away immediately,…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 08:39 AM
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Their reaction was strange considering how health conscious they are. If they don't count calories they're probably only eating certain foods, but that doesn't mean your way is more unhealthy than theirs. People keep track of things in different ways and if it was me I would've responded nicely and mentioned how much gym time I'd have to put in to counter what I'm about to eat. I just think the comment may have made them feel insecure and they didn't handle it very gracefully. Straight up accusa…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 07:20 AM
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It's hard to tell from what you've written. It sounds like you're uncertain about the direction of the relationship due to his lack of keen-ness. It's probably best to be open about you what you want, but that's hard if you're not on the same level of keen. You can bring someone up to your level but the whole marriage kids thing is a huge decision. If I were you, I'd focus on getting where you want to be in life. Get the job you want, be the kind of person you want to be. Slowly start gauging hi…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 07:10 AM
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Talking about how many calories you eat is like talking about what you've planned for your week down to the last minute. People become intimidated because it shows you're organised and goal oriented. Mentioning that you're not eating a whole meal at a place your friends routinely dine at is going to make them self conscious, especially if they're about to chow down on a starter and a main. You can ask your friends discreetly whether they'll share a main with you due to generous sizing. If people…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 06:57 AM
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I think it's harder for men to have sexual encounters than it is for women due to the ingrained expectation that a man does the wooing. When an interested woman appears on the scene, she's quickly snapped up as she is novel. You're not his first choice but he acknowledges that it will be difficult to replace you. You don't have to reply if you don't want to. If you've already discussed your incompatibility, your silence will end it. What is it that you want out of a concrete 'breakup' from casua…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/15 06:47 AM
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To me, long texts scream desperation. I cringe whenever I think about the long argumentative texts I used to send to my boyfriend whenever he'd fail to follow up on our plans and do something else instead. It becomes less important as you become more secure.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/15 06:38 AM
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What a doozy! The fact that he couldn't grasp the severity of the situation when someone was telling him not to get in the car is a red flag. Not only did he fail to listen to the person obviously trying to stop him from getting in the car again, he called them an a-hole and proceeded to put countless lives in danger by driving drunk. It's a serious offence that a friend of mine was recently jailed for because it ended horribly. It doesn't matter that he's nice to you all the time, because he co…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/15 06:27 AM
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Yeah, me too. I just look at it like, I'll probably never see you again, might as well use this opportunity to get to know you as much as possible. If someone was sarcastic around me I'd be all over it, but yeah alternatives as I see them: ask how they're going, give them a hypothetical situation (e.g. would you rather have dick sized nipples or nipple sized dick..but more appropriate or relevant to situation), ask what they are planning to do in the next year, month, day, how they know everyone…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/15 01:42 AM
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Whenever I meet a mean/sarcastic person I automatically think they're trying to impress me with their quirkiness because they're awkward. Then I remember that that person is me and that the roles have been reversed. That's embarrassing after the fact but you can't escape it, because absolutely everything you say can be interpreted in many different ways. IMO it's a good way to weed out people you don't want to talk to, and maybe some that you do. It is tempting to be overwhelmingly yourself when…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/15 10:41 AM
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Thanks a lot. We're already both teaming up to get more fit/energetic so we can accomplish the things we want. I actually suggested a protein/fat diet because that's my jam, and he reluctantly started cutting out concentrated carbs and controlling portion sizes. I have asked about him seeing a doctor about testosterone but it was ages ago and he thought it was out of line, so I let it go. At the time he was going through a rough patch so I felt like I couldn't pry too much. All good suggestions,…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/15 09:48 AM
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Trying to be as neutral as possible, I decided to become more communicative about what I wanted when I realised he couldn't make me come. He'd come easily so that became the default. Due to a few things he had asked for, I thought he was leaning more towards wanting to be submissive so I tried stepping up to be dominant, but wasn't well received. I tried hard to not emasculate him by bringing up sex stuff in a non sexual environment when trying to guide him didn't work. I can see how it may have…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/15 12:34 PM
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Not so. I tried to be as blunt as possible to get my point across. I wouldn't even be posting here if I thought it was a list cause. Just need a better strategy to get us both what we want.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 12:12 PM
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Ok, question. If he's shiiiit in bed, how can I help move things along? How can I communicate if it's emasculating? Also, I'm fit. I'm quite tall and athletic, and my style is generally good.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 06:33 AM
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Thanks, did post but because I have little karma was redirected here. :( not sure what asktrpwomen url is
/r/askTRP20/11/15 05:12 AM
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