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hombre_rojo/r/askMRP19/07/21 04:23 PM
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911hombre_rojo/r/askMRP04/08/21 06:21 PM
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Short, to the point and 100% true. Thanks for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/22 05:03 PM
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OYS #10 My stats: 45, 1.77 mts. 65 kilos. 18.3% body fat. 1 child. 9 years married. Wife is 35. My lifts (in pounds): BR: 135 Bp: 125 SQ: 145 OP: 65 DL: 185. Diet: Keto with sporadic cheats. I need to stop cheating with this. Read: NMMNGx2, TRM, WISNIFG, MMSLP, 16 comm. of Poon. Currently reading WISNIFG again. No excuse for why I haven't finished reading WISNIFG by now. ​ Vision: I'll be an accomplished writer. I'll lead my family. I'll have a passionate marriage with a traditional woman, D/s. …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/22 03:09 PM
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Thanks, u/Along-The-Reeds and u/The_Red_Letters for pointing out my own BS. The goal of the OYS is precisely that. I'll correct the course.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/22 01:59 PM
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OYS #9 First of all, thanks, R288DRO, for your comment https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/u1u5ps/comment/i4po9c4/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 My stats (corrected): 45, 1.77 mts. 65 kilos. 18.3% body fat (at least according to this https://www.calculator.net/body-fat-calculator.html?ctype=metric&csex=m&cage=45&cweightlbs=152&cheightfeet=5&cheightinch=10.5&cneckfeet=1&cneckinch=7.5&cwaistfeet=3&cwaistinch=1.5&chipfeet=2&chipinch=10.5&cweightkgs=65&cheightmeter=176&cne…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/22 09:46 PM
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OYS #8 My stats: 46, 1.80 mts. 68 kilos. 20% body fat. 1 toddler. 9 years married. Wife is 36. Read: NMMNGx2, TRM, WISNIFG, MMSLP, 16 comm. of Poon. Currently reading WISNIFG again. Vision: I'll be an accomplished writer. I'll lead my family. I'll have a passionate marriage, D/s. I'm here because I am a drunk captain and I am not having sex at all. I hate my situation and have contemplated divorce, but I simply don't want to give up that easily, although I'll give up if MRP doesn't work. This is…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/22 08:04 PM
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Handle the stuff that you should be doing that ends up on your wife’s plate. Thank you very much. This will be my goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 03:29 PM
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OYS #7. After a large gap and a nightmare season, I'm restarting. My stats: 46, 1.80 mts. 68 kilos. 20% body fat. 1 toddler. 9 years married. Wife is 36. Read: NMMNGx2, TRM, WISNIFG, MMSLP, 16 comm. of Poon. Currently reading WISNIFG again. Vision: I'll be an accomplished writer. I'll lead my family. I'll have a passionate marriage, D/s. I'm here because I am a drunk captain and I am not having sex, and the little I have is not good. I am aware I am kilometers away from my goal but I am willing …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 02:09 PM
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OYS #6 ​ My stats: 46, 1.80 mts. 68 kilos. 20% body fat. 1 toddler. 9 years married. Wife is 36. Read: NMMNGx2, TRM, WISNIFG, MMSLP. Currently reading MMSLP again. ​ I softened myself by the end of last year, and abandoned the red pill for a while but now I am back. ​ Plan: TO BE READY. Ready for an awesome future in which art, creativity and quality sex abound. My life is my boat. My family is my boat. ​ General: Absolutely terrible situation at home. Wife despises me. My friends tell me to lea…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 11:22 PM
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OYS #5 My stats: 45, 1.75 mts. ~73 kilos. 1 toddler daughter. 8 years married. Wife is 35. Read: NMMNG, TRM, WISNIFG, MMSLP. Currently reading NMMNG again. And I mean READING it, not mindlessly listening to it in the car. I have been reading 15 min. every day, although I have been LAZY to do the homeworks. Plan: TO BE READY. Ready for an awesome future in which art, creativity and quality sex abound. With or without my wife. That's my plan. General: Dude, I get so distracted by anything! From Go…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/21 05:15 PM
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Thanks for your honest reply. Lots to think about.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/21 03:53 PM
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OYS #4 ​ 45, 1.75 mts. ~73 kilos. 1 toddler daughter. 8 years married. Wife is 35. ​ Read: NMMNG, TRM, WISNIFG, MMSLP. Reading MMSLP again. ​ My goals: I am chasing my own self in 5 years. This is the vision: I own my life. I have published at least one book, and I am writing another one. I have a D/s relationship, with frequent sex with a submissive partner. Nothing is off the table. I do daily mental prayer. My family and I pray the rosary together. I have at least 2 more kids.I kick butt at w…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/21 02:54 PM
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I do entertain that possibility, unfortunately.
/r/askMRP10/08/21 06:08 PM
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Thanks for your answer.
/r/askMRP10/08/21 06:07 PM
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You did, and it's fucking hard because she hates my guts and despises me. God, I hate my life.
/r/askMRP10/08/21 06:06 PM
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Awesome answer. Thanks.
/r/askMRP10/08/21 06:05 PM
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We were living separately for two years. It' over and she' back now. She didn't get the D from anyone, but she' angry and frustrated, and she hates me.
/r/askMRP10/08/21 06:04 PM
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Still just do this and count to 28 days. Count to 4 days, more like. She's coming next week. At the same time talk to a lawyer about the abandonment thing What abandonment thing? get a paternity test for the child. No need. I am 1000% sure the child is mine. She's my spitting image.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 10:43 PM
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I will never get married again. I don't believe in marriage in the 21st century America. I used to, obviously. I'm hitting the gym anyways.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 10:39 PM
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She hasn't cheated on me at least physically; I don't know if mentally. Thanks for your advice.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 10:38 PM
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Yes, she's my kid.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 10:37 PM
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She hasn't cheated on me; at least not in reality. I don't know if mentally.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 10:36 PM
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I think she has NPD, but I also believe I am the reason for it, as u/HornsOfApathy wisely indicated.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 10:35 PM
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What value is she bringing to your life? As I explain in my OYS, she is running the finances. Plus she takes the kid to her classes. Plus she used to cook for me sometimes. I'd rather say the truth. I know I'm fucked and that's why I'm here. I know it's pathetic and need to take over, especially finances.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 10:32 PM
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Holy shit. Thanks for this answer.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 07:57 PM
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Spar it is then. At least for now.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 07:34 PM
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OYS #3 45, 1.75 mts. ~76 kilos (skinny fat). 1 toddler daughter. 8 years married. Wife is 35. Read: NMMNG, TRM, WISNIFG, MMSLP. Reading MMSLP again. ​ My goal: Own my life. Be mentally strong. Leave a legacy to the world. Desired: Have a submissive wife. Have more kids. ​ General: After a long trip, I finally got to my state and my house last week. My wife stayed but is supposed to fly back with our kid early next week. I have a truckload of cleaning to do. I finished working on the yard (that w…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 07:29 PM
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No; no fue un matrimonio arreglado. De hecho fue un noviazgo corto, bonito y de ensueño, sin ni una sola pelea. ¡Mala señal! But let's go back to English before they kick us out.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 07:26 PM
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So, not seeing where the dramatic scene is. She yelled. You yelled. You both suck as people and made a kid. Having her a sparring partner would be worthwhile as you work on yourself however I don’t see this relationship lasting. Likely she’s cheating or will cheat. She’s disgusted and despises you. Yes, she is. So either 1) use her to spar with or 2) chock up the loss and end it. Excuse my poor English, but what is "spar" here? An euphemism for screwing? As a side note: is she convinced you’re p…
/r/askMRP04/08/21 07:24 PM
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What value is she bringing to your life. I don't want our daughter to live with divorced parents. Plus I am one of those Christians who believe that marriage is forever. I know; ridiculous. Plus divorce is an ugly, ugly monster. What i know for sure is that if I get divorced I will never ever ever get married again.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 07:20 PM
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I know it's my fault. And even if hers, the only one who can change things is myself.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 07:16 PM
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Thanks for being the only one here giving a straight, to the point, answer to the question. Muchas gracias, Alejandro. Let me go one by one of your paragraphs because I have somethings to say: Depending on what you did there are rarer stances where you may consider saying you are sorry. Agreed, and I am not sorry for anything. This was a frigging accident that can happen to anyone. What scares me is that she's gonna do that drama scene once she's here, dammit. Ugh. When she comes you keep your f…
/r/askMRP04/08/21 07:14 PM
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Thanks. The right answer is 1). Ah, and thanks for your permission. Yes, I am working on myself.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 07:05 PM
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I know this forum enough as to know that you're being ironic. Thanks, I guess.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 06:59 PM
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Huh? No.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 06:58 PM
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Ah, and something else. She is a narcissist. She does these to a T: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wKxtuFEcm7I
/r/askMRP04/08/21 06:58 PM
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She is just dreading the idea of having to come back to you. If she was really that into you, she wouldn't have left for two years. Yes, she is. I know it. Looking forward, the best plan of action is STFU, lift, read and all that. I know. I also know that the stay plan must be the go plan. I am paying for everything, yes. And I guess she'll start paying for some things once she starts working. The only question I am asking is if giving her an ultimatum like "Hey don' disrespect me or else don't …
/r/askMRP04/08/21 06:56 PM
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​ You want an explanation? Here it is. ​ Yeah, just checked your account. Your OYS and past post don't read like your wife live in a different state. That's because she wasn't then. All last month, when I wrote my OYS, I was on her parents' house. I just arrived last week to our house (hers and mine) in a different state. She' still at her parents'. You're in a dead bedroom 100% but she still hints at sex and pulls away when you initiate from a different state while living with her parents someh…
/r/askMRP04/08/21 06:51 PM
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I am STFU, lifting, reading, etc. no matter what. The question here is if this situation merits a direct call of attention/warning to my wife.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 06:44 PM
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Hi, Horns. Thanks a lot for your answer. Well, I guess I'll just do my thing and keep waiting.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 06:42 PM
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Thanks for your answer. I'm figuring it out. All my body and mind says "No, no, nooooo!!". I'll check the posts on custody and all that. My god, I cannot believe this. But at the same time, I cannot control her.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 06:40 PM
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A good way to earn a bit of approval or self-assuredness from yourself is to set a concrete goal and knock it out this week and from now on. You're 100% right. Thanks for this advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/21 09:45 PM
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OYS #245, 1.75 mts. ~76 kilos (skinny fat). 1 toddler daughter. 8 years married. Wife is 35. Read: NMMNG, TRM, WISNIFG, MMSLP. Reading MMSLP again.My goal: Own my life. Be mentally strong. Leave a legacy to the world. Desired: Have a submissive wife. Have more kids. ​ Fitness: I did 35 laps in the pool, which is more than my desired goal of 30. Also, I borrowed dumbbells from an in-law and did a total of 80 concentration curls. Not in a gym because I am temporarily at my in-laws. Should be back …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/21 03:08 PM
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i hope I don't get to that point, buddy, but we'll see. Thanks for sharing.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 11:59 PM
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Holy cow, man! Thanks for this reply! ​ I agree!! Be SEXUAL all the time. Flirt. Because that's who you are. Start early. HAVE FUN WITH IT. Outcome independence. ​ So much wisdom in your post!! Thanks!
/r/askMRP21/07/21 10:14 PM
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read the article "Mindset of a man who fucks" and "You're not that funny" Will do. Thanks.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 10:08 PM
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Thanks a lot for your honest answer.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 10:08 PM
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You can't negotiate genuine desire. It's over. Ask me how I know. Yeah; I think she doesn't desire me. As I previously noted, it's my lack of frame. How do you know? Did she divorce you or something?
/r/askMRP21/07/21 10:04 PM
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Hell yeah. Thanks.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 10:02 PM
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Agreed.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 10:00 PM
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I am paying attention. She's a rape victim At first I was startled by this, but now I understand what u/Tyred_Biggums means.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 09:59 PM
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Thanks! "Game for gaming sake; Game until she seduces you..." Words to live by. "This is the behavior of a horny woman who can't bring herself to fuck you": I don't know, man. I want to believe this. And, yes, if no fucking, then goodbye.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 09:54 PM
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Hi, Rian. Thanks for your reply. Your videos have inspired me to take this red pill path. ​ ​ Of course, she knows if she gets mad, you back off. Same way you train a dog, repition. Indeed. Ugh. As for what to do, a few things Look in the mirror. Is it that your wife won't fuck you, or that no woman would fuck you? Depending on the answer you'll know some stuff to work on i actually did this. Other women would fuck me. I am convinced it's not my physique (although, mind you, I am working out), b…
/r/askMRP21/07/21 09:45 PM
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Express your dissent by removing your Attention, Affection and Resources from her. That is the only way the modern man sets and enforces boundaries. Thanks for your answer, and in particular for this comment.
/r/askMRP19/07/21 03:40 PM
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Nobody gets BJs on command. I've read that from other redditors on this sub, so I think (thought?) it' possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/21 02:40 PM
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I don't understand the point on comments like these. Look at the number of the OYS. 1. I'm beginning. Obviously I'm pussy-whipped. I know it. That's why I'm here. I'm reading, listening and doing the work.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/21 02:38 PM
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Yes, it is scary and also my primary concern right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/21 02:58 PM
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My goal: Have a submissive wife. I think this is going to be a problem for you. Having your wife’s state of being as a goal is going to have you acting all sorts of ways to try and change her which isn’t much different from just being in her frame. Dude, you just hit the nail with this comment. You're right. Thanks. So when I wrote it, I was thinking of MMSLP, in which Athol Kay says (paraphrased) that "You will have your sex eventually, but I don't assure it will be with your current wife". So …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/21 12:59 AM
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OYS #1 ​ I am 45. 1.75 mts. ~76 kilos (skinny fat). 1 toddler daughter. 8 years married. Wife is 35. Read: NMMNG, TRM, WISNIFG, MMSLP. Reading MMSLP again. I have known the Red Pill for way too long, and I have adapted some of its contents to my marriage. I know most of the theory. Unfortunately, I have never been as decisive as I should with it. I have been LARPing this stuff for way too long, and I do want to get serious with this now. My goal: Own my life. Be mentally strong. Leave a legacy t…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 05:52 PM
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