homesick1210 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	My boyfriend of 12years doesn't want to get married.	LTR/MARRIAGE	homesick1210	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/19 03:40 AM

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2	My boyfriend of 12years doesn't want to get married. It's true that I would be lying if I said that part of me didn't look at marriage with "rose tinted view of romance"! I am religious, so the ceremony is a meaningful one to me. The other big draw is having that legal status internationally. Our families live in two different continents, so we spend a lot of time traveling, and while we currently live in a country that gives common law status partners a lot of recognition, it's not the case everywhere. I would like to know that if anything were t…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/10/19 02:29 AM
1	Let's talk about nails! I used to get a shellac manicure every 2-3 weeks but found that it too big a chunk in my budget. My nails grow very quickly so by week 3 they looked awful. Long term I did find the gel damaged my nails a little, they seemed to break more easily in the months after I stopped. There's something gorgeous about a manicured hand, but I find that natural nails with clean, shaped nails is also lovely. So now I keep them fairly short, shape them, moisturize them and keep them clean. When I'm the mood fo…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/10/19 01:49 AM
8	Homemaking on a Budget If you can afford it, invest in some high quality cooking supplies you will be able to keep for years. I got several cast iron pans during a sale on amazon. They last forever and I use them almost every night! It seems counter intuitive, but buying cheap stuff can end up being expensive, because you have to replace it regularly. If you're looking for affordable wall decor, try buying digital art and getting a local printer to print it. Saves a ton and you will be able to print the art as many ti…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/10/19 12:39 AM
2	My boyfriend of 12years doesn't want to get married. Good question. I am religious, so the ceremony is very meaningful to me. We are talking about starting a family in the next few years, and I would like to have the same name as them (we both agree they will carry his last name). We travel because our families live on different continents, and I want to know that if anything were to happen outside of our home country that I would be able to make medical decisions for him and him for me.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/10/19 11:15 PM
1	My boyfriend of 12years doesn't want to get married. Thank you so much for your insight! Your message is a real comfort. It's good to know this might be a possibility in the future. On another note, congratulations on your engagement!	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/19 09:44 PM
6	My boyfriend of 12years doesn't want to get married. Thank you so much for sharing your advice. Ultimately I am leaning towards option 1, and have been for awhile, but it's been painful.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/19 04:41 PM
3	My boyfriend of 12years doesn't want to get married. He has a couple of reasons, some of it is the anxiety of the logistics, we are of two different faiths, our families live in two different countries and speak different languages. Planning a ceremony that would make us and them happy would be extremely challenging. He also feels we do not need a ceremony and contract to commit to one and another. Both of his points are valid, and I'm trying to be respectful of his feelings. Ultimately I don't want to lose him over this, so I'd rather make my pea…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/19 04:37 PM
2	My boyfriend of 12years doesn't want to get married. Good point, thank you for sharing your experience!	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/19 12:32 PM
4	My boyfriend of 12years doesn't want to get married. I'd like to get married because I want to be able to call him my husband, to share the same name, and because in the not so distant future we'd like to start a family. I don't want to barter a wedding though, so I'm hoping to get over it. I'm at the age where I have very few married friends, but I get your point!	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/19 12:31 PM
1	My boyfriend of 12years doesn't want to get married. I asked about that, but he brushed it off. I don't have any reason to believe that's a concern.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/19 12:26 PM
1	My boyfriend of 12years doesn't want to get married. Thank you, you're right. I don't want to force him, or even talk him into it. From our conversations, he just doesn't see the point: we are happy and committed and a ceremony won't change that.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/19 12:23 PM
5	My boyfriend of 12years doesn't want to get married. We both want kids, and will probably be trying for them in the next few years. You're absolutely right, when I've asked him about it, he didn't see the point. We are committed and happy, and he doesn't really believe marriage will add to that. I don't think it will make a huge difference either, symbolically I want to be able to call him my husband, share the same name.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/19 12:20 PM