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| 1 | Any advice for rookies in a new city?ATL native- it's not dead, you're probably just going to the wrong places, and being from somewhere else, you should be killing it (way ahead of guys moving hear from rural South). Let me know if you want to go out. There's more here than you think. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 05:40 PM |
| 63 | Women need to ask men out moreYes but also, females should know some guys might be oblivious and not pick up on just "hi". I've missed signals the first six times until the poor girl dragged out a neon sign. | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Am I in the friend zone?From your story, sounds like she does know you like her, or at least is confident in her ability to seduce you. Except she's not sure she wants to go for it. In general, if you have to ask you're in the friend zone. Your best bet here is pull away and see if she chases you. You'll have your answer either way. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | I am so confused right now.... Was there a chance of me banging?Additionally, its actually harder in a way that you aren't strangers. If she initiates, and you aren't into it, she's scared of rejection just as you are, but she has to see you around afterwards. Pull her aside and just say something! | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 05:49 PM |
| 4 | My girlfriend is not hot but was/is fun to be around. Do I dump her and go for better?While I agree with the general assessment here, I do understand a little bit where OP is coming from. When you have something going it can be easy to justify doing nothing because change is hard. But here's the thing- you said yourself you think you can do better. You're thinking about what else is out there. You've already dumped her, at least mentally/emotionally. So end it. For her sake, and because you clearly have some growth to do yourself. I dated an older girl for awhile too. It was fun.… | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 05:40 PM |
| 1 | (27/m) The last couple tinder dates I’ve gotten ended with little interest and I get a text the next day saying “I didn’t feel much of a spark” or just that they don’t feel interested.At least if you're in a major city with reliable trains (not buses...buses have a negative vibe). Or Uber/Lyft. Definitely don't ask her for a ride. Super weird and comes across as beta. How are you explaining to these women (either directly or indirectly) that you can (to some extent) take care of them? They don't want to be your mom. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Meet this girl at the club on Saturday and Sunday we have each other on instagram? What is the next step?Make sure your IG is in good shape. Archive posts with exes. Post some cool things today or tomorrow, IG's algorithm will prioritize recently added friends' posts. Example: If you go out to eat at a trendy dinner place this week, that's a good go-to. Meet some friends for drinks or something. And post. She'll see it. It's Monday as I am writing this. Late Wednesday, ask her out for Thursday. Just drinks- dinner seems like a larger committment and you don't want to freak her out. My favorite thin… | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Instagram can help your Dating LifeSeeing a lot of hate here, and I don't get it. OP is definitely right, based on my personal experience. Once I added in IG, I got a ton more matches on the Apps- Hinge, Bumble, Tinder. I've found Hinge the most beneficial, tinder the least. But I digress. It doesn't have to be that difficult. If you go out to eat with friends, take a picture-shows you have friends. If you travel (Even for work) take a picture of something while you're there, and tag the location. Go do SOMETHING in your city, an… | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Advice for first date ever!This. If it's going well, you can suggest eating and changing the venue to show initiative. But it needs to seem spontaneous to show you're in control of the situation. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Text or ghost?This is the best summary, but everyone here agrees. Once you sent "you can tell me if you don't want to hangout" you lost it, if not before. And how do you know she copied and pasted the short text then the long one? Were you just watching your phone for her to text back? That's not good either, man. A word of advice from someone else who thinks and observes and analyzes. Shut that shit down- I know that's hard but really it only is a distraction. | /r/seduction | 22/12/17 01:10 PM |
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