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LTR/MARRIAGEhonestruism/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 03:50 AM
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My heart goes out to you. I too am quite concerned of the effect of my being pregnant will have on my husband. He isn't too keen on children. I too find I am tired a lot, although for health reasons. And I too am at home right now. I am glad you were able to keep the baby.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 08:43 PM
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Good: I finished The Surrendered Wife last night, and I am inspired to communicate with women more so first, to communicate by telling of my feelings, and also look into doing enriching activities that I used to love! I am perfecting my skin routine--drinking green tea, switching my pillowcase before bedtime, using toner and oils and masks regularly. And I see a great difference. I am thinking about how worn down I feel throughout the day and keeping in mind I need to be available to be fresh, r…
/r/RedPillWives16/01/17 04:04 PM
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I need to hear this.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 03:19 PM
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I wish I could go back in time and absorb these from a person in real life. So much of my life has been wasted on not being kind like this. Thank you guys. (I still think we should reinstate charm school for adult women in this subreddit! I'd be the first to sign up!)
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 03:42 AM
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I wanted to quote his sentence: "you're finding it difficult to disengage from the corporate dreams you thought you wanted before," because bingo, that is me and, I think, most women who did not marry and have kids immediately after school. I think my whole generation of fellow women find it hard to disengage from those corporate dreams that I took for granted as my dream for the future. I'm so happy for you. So glad. Do it and don't look back. Of course I am biased because as I walked into the …
/r/RedPillWives10/01/17 03:30 AM
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We should talk later about being tall RPWomen because I'm 5'10" too!
/r/RedPillWives09/01/17 04:13 PM
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Your reply is wonderful. Thanks for giving me very specific tips. I am going to put together a collection of meals this week. I have a good ATK Cooking School cookbook to learn from that I got over the holidays. I have a list of standard favorites. And I will write them down like you advised to utilize the ingredients throughout the week. I love the idea of starting with separate meat + potatoes/vegetable, and then combining them together the second time into soup or casserole or whatever. So si…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 12:35 AM
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I also want to work very hard on improving my complexion and skin. Do you have any ideas for how? Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 09:07 AM
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Should I wear heels if my man is about three inches shorter than I am? For the time we've been together (8 + years), I've worn ballet flats. I feel uncomfortable being taller than him for unknown, possibly unreasonable reasons. Should I try wearing heels--to feel more feminine, to be more attractive? (Note: I have always felt strange being the center of attention, but because of my height and reasonably good looks, I think this subreddit is increasing my confidence.)
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 09:03 AM
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The closer I get to an older age, the more I can see myself want to overcome the struggles to enjoy the benefits of parenting a child. Especially after I lost a father unexpectedly. And especially when you realize that your parents will not always be around. I think of the nice bonding memories I've had with my own parents (and not every time was awesome of course), and I want to talk to my child on car rides, show them the world, and show them how much I enjoy certain things. I want to be able …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 03:46 AM
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You're right! I am taking your words to heart. I am going to make a list of those favorites and try to master them! I too like to work from recipes (although you might check out The Flavor Bible for winging it, as I love that book). I love feeling confident about making food that is liked. :) Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 03:06 AM
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Yes, so so true. I am so glad for your encouragement. I love reading and writing, and I'm going to try hanging out in my kitchen while I do these things. (I think some writer sits on the kitchen counter to write.) I have to cook everything from scratch because I am allergic to many foods. So it takes a long to make regular things even for myself, so yeah... I'll make peace with the fact that I have to cook in order for us to be healthy and happiest. And to make peace with the fact that it takes …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 03:01 AM
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Ironically, I remember reading this book as a teenager and in college. And it is quite helpful! Need to crack that one open again to reread.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 01:11 AM
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Thanks for the reply and your advice. I will look into those books and continue reading here. I guess I should clarify that when I wrote that "my mind is filled with these ideals of highly educated women who work full-time or win the bread," I meant that those ideals never got me a ton throughout my life. I think women should be educated and be able to make decisions with their husbands. I just didn't see it done with much balance. Hope this makes better sense.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 08:53 PM
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Basically, I'd love to become a domestic apprentice under someone who has these habits kind of internalized. Do RPW tutors exist? :).
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 05:12 PM
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