honeybrrrd Archive

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1	The sleeping with 50 women theory No. There is middle ground between arguing and being a doormat. If somebody tells you something you don't like, it's very possible to just talk it out with the person. Arguing is an emotional response and usually isn't productive. Having a discussion, not responding defensively, actually listening to the person's concerns and working towards a solution is very different than arguing.	/r/ExRedPill	07/06/23 01:33 PM
2	With "pretty privilege" being pushed more and more by society, should it be our responsibility to simply looksmax to fit in? I can't tell if this is a genuine question or not so I'm going to respond as if it is. Some will. Some won't. It's literally that simple. Red pill thinking is really good at making attraction seem like it's entirely dependent on women being shallow (whether that's looks or money) which is a copout because it absolves men from addressing their own problems. Suddenly the dude that can't respect women as friends or who doesn't bathe regularly or has a serious drinking problem or whatever doesn't ha…	/r/ExRedPill	06/06/23 10:30 PM
10	With "pretty privilege" being pushed more and more by society, should it be our responsibility to simply looksmax to fit in? Eh, you'll find just as many studies showing that women are attracted to men based on emotional connection, trustworthiness, age, intelligence, etc. The point is... Different people prioritize different things. If you prioritize what's important to YOU, you will attract a partner who appreciates those things. But if you're prioritizing traits because you think that's what all women want, it comes across as disingenuous and, frankly, a turn off.	/r/ExRedPill	06/06/23 02:46 PM
16	With "pretty privilege" being pushed more and more by society, should it be our responsibility to simply looksmax to fit in? WHO is saying that ripped men are more attractive to women? Is it men saying that? Or is it women? Maybe you should pay attention to what women say they find attractive instead of the agendas that some men are pushing to create a narrative around what women like. Super cut men who are sponsored (or hoping to become sponsored) by various fitness/supplement companies are hardly a reliable source of information on this topic. You'll find a few things to be true, the most important being that women …	/r/ExRedPill	06/06/23 01:29 PM
3	Thought on Casey Zander? Also, anybody who suggests that all women want the same thing. They are not a monolith. They're humans and humans have different needs and desires.	/r/ExRedPill	05/06/23 02:14 PM
11	Don't understand why y'all hate redpill when everything they say is not all false They are often so set on self-pity and misogyny that their personalities become the biggest drawbacks about them as people. This is the key. The self-pity and blaming others/women for their lack of success comes across to potential partners as somebody they're going to have to "fix" and who doesn't take personal accountability. Those are both unattractive qualities to healthy people. Everybody has preferences. Most people are willing to compromise on those to some degree when other, more importa…	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/23 05:21 PM
18	Is it true women with high body counts are unable to truly commit to their long term partners? You can't ask questions that are rooted in dehumanizing people without expecting some hostility. Attempting to police people's responses to these kinds of questions is not a good look. If you're going to do the work to detox your beliefs, you need to be prepared to receive responses that make you uncomfortable, and you need to be able to sit with that discomfort so you can analyze the source of it.	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/23 03:56 PM
1	Men here who fully left the red pill, how is dating for you now? All I know is what you've written here in these comment threads. What I'm seeing is defensive responses, unwillingness to look at your own actions but more than willing to place blame on your partners, and lack of accountability. The exact opposite traits that healthy people look for in relationships. You said so yourself that this is becoming a pattern. What is the one factor that's consistent in all those failed relationships? That would be you. Do the work, my dude. Otherwise you're going to …	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/23 01:33 PM
1	Men here who fully left the red pill, how is dating for you now? Time for introspection instead of placing blame on everybody you've been dating. Who's the common denominator across those relationships? If she had too many walls, for whatever reason you did not make her feel safe enough to let them down. Based on your other comments towards women here, it's not hard to see why. Assuming that she said this in order to let you down gently is significant. Either it's true, which indicates you're not a person that she felt would handle the truth very well or it's…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/23 12:12 PM