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| 17 | "I appreciate modesty in a woman" - says the man who watches porn.I remember I was once walking back from the gym in the rain (mask, XXL hoodie with the hood up, loose shorts not far above my knees, completely sweaty hair and face) and received the most disgusting/graphic harassment of my life from someone while at a crosswalk from a guy 2-3x my age. (I’m from NYC and already immune to most standard catcalls, so that’s saying something.) Could not have looked any less sexually appealing, and yet I’ve been told by multiple men that I must get harassed regularly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 12:29 AM |
| 5 | Talk of wealth is a redflagOh my god the Starbucks thing reminds me so much of one guy I know. We matched on an app where it wasn’t quite as obvious, but on his IG… oh my god. It was NEVERENDING stories and posts every single day trying to flaunt how “luxurious and expensive” his life is. He then proceeded to suggest a “first date” that was just me coming over to eat takeout because his “condo was way better than [restaurant I suggested] anyway.” When he realized how turned off I was by that, he switched to suggesting a r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 01:30 AM |
| 76 | "Do you want to hang out?" Vs "Can I take you out on a date?The gray area also stresses me out because I have some more distant male friends who I’d love to actually platonically talk and get dinner with, but I worry that asking to “hang out” will come off the wrong way sometimes. I already had one guy even ask me “Are you asking me out on a date?” after I just asked him to come to a cafe with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 01:20 AM |
| 20 | EXPLAINING WHY 50/50 IS BAD FOR YOUNGER GENERATION OF WOMEN (TEENS)Yes, I've found that it fully sets the tone for how they'll treat you in the future too. When I was younger, my exes didn't offer to pay on the first date, and that continued for the entire span of our actual relationships (which weren't exactly long term, thankfully, but...). If they show that they don't even want to make the most obvious, simple effort towards impressing you in the very beginning, they DEFINITELY will never try to treat you or plan special things once you're exclusive. I have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 05:17 PM |
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