| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Rejected a relationship with an LVM disguising as an HVM & he sent me this: How desperate can they be? (More in comments) | LIES MEN TELL | honeydaisycake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 12:33 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 356 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭The irony is… I think men are the ones getting replaced by the robots (sex toys). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 08:27 PM |
| 48 | LVM hero Dave Portnoy revealed for being an extremely predatory, hateful, psychotic freak who lures teenage girls to his place for violent, humiliating sexI knew Barstool seemed so frat-y but I never realized how bad it was until this article. To be fair, I never looked into it & my bf’s an avid fan/loyal supporter. Guess that’s a 🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 09:58 PM |
| 51 | The IckFor me it was the following that built up: first was that he followed 30+ accounts of instagram “models” aka thirst traps then him mentioning how he goes to strip clubs & then eventually him staring at girls when we were at dinner while I was seated next to him. 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?I like giving them cause I’ve an oral fixation BUT it’s only triggered when I actually like someone. If I’m not emotionally invested/connected, it’s almost repulsive & intrusive for a guy to ask for it. If I’m turned on, I always want something on my mouth & it’s just connected to that. For context: I quit the bottle really late, at 8 yrs old hence the oral fixation. Edit: I know it’s special circumstance but if you also have an oral fixation like me, be VERY careful telling this to guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 09:44 PM |
| 131 | Ageism on a dating appThis right here. This scares me. If this is the norm today, what more in the next few years? The blatant pedophilia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:00 PM |
| 118 | Wild Take I received while vetting:I was gonna say 😂 THAT was the red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:48 PM |
| 2 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.Girl, same. I dated a guy for 3 whole weeks who wanted me to dye my hair blonde & go to the gym more often (I was already going 3-4x/wk & I’m a relatively fit girl). First of all, the AUDACITY. Second of all, most toxic man I’ve ever met in my entire life. If they want you to change 1 thing from the get go, more often than not it’s about control AND/or pornsick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:36 PM |
| 96 | This reminds me of the slug storyWtf I’m so sorry that happened to you. More like these men just wanna murder their girlfriends/wives for their pride. (Before any scrotes try to say I’m exaggerating, dumping anything more than water on someone can be tried as a murder attempt esp if that person’s allergic to a certain food/drink). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:12 PM |
| 38 | Hmmm.. I wonder why this is?I read this in Girls & Sex by Peggy Orenstein!!! Man, that book REALLY made me angry, opened my eyes to the hard truth... & buy my own vibrator cause these men are truly useless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Why are relationship-seeking attractive men on OLD single? What’s the catch?I have matched with AMAZING men (on paper) on OLD but lemme tell you a bit about them: Early 20s, made 6 figures, bought his own 3 bedroom place already, fit, attractive. - was a virgin who had never had his first kiss yet due to his daddy issues, would neg me constantly & tell me I should dye my hair blonde again, heavily insecure... PSYCHOPATH Early 30s VERY fit, 6’3 (accdg to his profile - was actually just 6’0), vice president of a finance company - was just looking for a hookup & did not ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 07:05 PM |
| 32 | Yes you CAN be intimidatingly beautiful and that's why scrotes don't approach you (a blessing in disguise)!Same here!! 5’0 & I’m always suspicious of men who wanna date me 😂 like sir, are you a predator or do you like me for me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 06:57 PM |
| 47 | Why FDS will improve your looksHonestly, once I stopped accepting those “let’s go for a drink” dates & having MAYBE a glass of wine during dinner dates is 👍🏻 Less stress from guys, working out more, not drinking as much unlike these men & it’s been INSANE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Rejected a relationship with an LVM disguising as an HVM & he sent me this: How desperate can they be? (More in comments)I was dating before what I thought was an HVM. He bought his own place at 24, was understanding & would listen (aka used my vulnerability against me). However, my gut feeling was screaming no & I was always sad when I was with him. Turns out, he was a manipulative control freak & faked a scenario so I would panic & commit. (Swipe to see image) It was a few months ago & yesterday, scrolling through instagram, I saw this meme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 12:35 AM |
| 28 | How to cope with knowing you’ve let yourself downYou are def not alone. I’m going through the same thing. Having an emotionally manipulative man & then looking back, you see how well it worked & you just see how you reacted to it. It’s hard to see yourself so low, even harder to forgive yourself for it. What’s been helping me though is knowing that I left. I walked out of that situation. That it’s over & that it’s never going to happen again. Plus, time. Take some time, journal, separate yourself from what happened. That was you before, comple… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 12:30 AM |
| 1 | I say this with all my heart, with all my soul: All men have is the audacity (more details in comments)I’m a short, skinny Asian girl with blonde hair & guess who decided to swipe right on me. I’ve dedicated a whole yr to stay single but sometimes, not gonna lie, I get bored & just want to check it out. & this is why I instantly deleted again. For context: I’m a half-Asian who lived in Asia prior to moving to the US & WOW, I’ve never felt more fetishized. The men here have zero respect & blatant disregard to how disgusting they look when they show this in their profiles. I’ve also tried to date l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | I'm 17 and I am tired by relationships but can't give it upEverything FDS stands for & more + studies & statistics to back it up (but worded in the most interesting but also alarming way). The “orgasm gap” - how girls/teenagers are so repressed because of the sex education that the boys only need to nut & THAT’s it. Oral Sex as a gateway to get out of a scary situation for girls when boys should learn to take no as an answer Recent sexual liberation based on pop culture is misleading as it teaches girls that taking your clothes off can mean sensuality b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:59 AM |
| 3 | I'm 17 and I am tired by relationships but can't give it upRead Girls & Sex! I’m 23 & I read that book 10yrs too late. It’s an eye opener, I recommend it to everyone. (Girl or guy) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 08:19 PM |
| 12 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.Oh, MULTIPLE! Recent ex made me think I had trust issues & commitment issues cause I couldn’t trust him, wouldn’t disclose all personal experiences to him & not agree to being his girlfriend. Dropped him within 3 weeks. Avoidant college ex who made me drink plan B & take birth control when I didn’t need them, then proceeded to call me “crazy”. Well, try having unsolicited hormones pumped into you so the guy you like can take a load off in you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 07:56 AM |
| 7 | How has your cultural background shaped your view towards men, women, and your journey to FDS?I’m mixed Asian/white but grew up mostly in Singapore, Philippines & Abu Dhabi but recently moved to the US. There, in Asia, I used to not pay for shit during dates. Online dating wasn’t a “come over” or “coffee date” thing, it was a dinner date. If they made me pay half (which RARELY happened), they automatically wouldn’t get a second date. Also, I would only need to get ready (makeup, outfit) & everything would be planned out. Either they pick me up or call an uber for me. They would pull the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 05:56 AM |
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