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| 2 | any luck on hinge? | honeydewgeneralstore | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 08:01 AM |
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| 3 | Shedding the shackles of virginity in my mid 20sAre there any other clubs or groups you can join at school? Girls you can meet in class? I know law school is tough but there has to be some way to meet women at the university. | /r/seduction | 05/06/17 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Matching with girl I am already seeing - how do I respond?I think it would be a little weird for her to match w me but me not match her back since we have already been seeing each other. Idk man, I guess I'm just thinking too much about this and wanted some advice. What would you do? | /r/seduction | 04/01/17 01:33 AM |
| – | Matching with girl I am already seeing - how do I respond?So I hear you saying that I just ignore that she matched with me? I wasn't planning on using the app to ask her out, we are way past that. I thought that I should match her back to acknowledge that she matched me and do it in a funny way. | /r/seduction | 04/01/17 01:06 AM |
| 1 | I have begun falling for a co-worker and wanted to give her a ride home today - only to realise I was showing stalker-ish behaviourDude don't beat yourself up so much, that won't do much good. So you wanted to give your coworker a ride home, missed her, then saw her and honked, so that you could offer her a ride? Big deal dude. Ever think she might have appreciated the ride? I don't think it's wrong at all and there's also no need to mention this to her. Mentioning that could come off as a little weird, not what you did but telling her this. This whole story about this experience is just in your head. You could just as well… | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 07:33 AM |
| 1 | M/29, living with 2 other roommates: Bad for dating?Where you live, is it normal for people your age to have their own place? Everyone rents and has roommates where I live, so no it doesn't impact me. I think the bigger question is about if you should have roommates in general. It sounds like you have been pretty fair to them overall and I think you should really evaluate whether you want roommates after they move out. Dude while you are the owner, if they are paying rent, it's their place too and should have the ability to have people over witho… | /r/seduction | 23/10/16 11:40 PM |
| 1 | I feel like every time I like a girl, I'm too needy. Every time I don't like a girl, they're too needy.Yup. In the same boat. Here are my thoughts: Don't be attached to the outcome. If it works out, great but if not that's ok too. This might be a little out there for this sub but this phrase had helped me: Each of us has our own plan, and the universe has its plan, all you can do is laugh when your plan doesn't happen. There will be other women, don't sweat it if it doesn't work with one woman. Chicks like to have a challenge, if they know that they have you wrapped around their finger that doesn… | /r/seduction | 23/10/16 10:39 PM |
| 1 | 2 year dry spellFind your hobbies, meet chicks through them, ask them out. Important: when asking, specify that you want to "take them out", not "hang out" so that they know it's a date and not just meeting up as friends. On first date, if things seem to go well, kiss her. The only way to avoid friend zone is by kissing her. If she responds well, repeat and escalate. If she isn't feeling it, move on. | /r/seduction | 02/10/16 07:57 PM |
| 2 | What is a good first message to send?Well, here is mine to give you an idea. Basically just showing that I have hobbies and like to have fun. My pictures are of me doing some of the things I mention. Went from barely matching with anyone to lots of matches, including girls messaging me first a lot. Note that my pictures were the exact same ones before I wrote this bio. Hence I'm convinced that having a good bio makes a big difference. I think the more important thing is to just have good hobbies in the first place. Here it is: Week… | /r/seduction | 05/08/15 05:20 PM |
| 2 | What is a good first message to send?This. Recently created a clever bio and it has made a huge difference. Night and day. | /r/seduction | 05/08/15 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Is directly asking a girl on a date a bad idea?I think it is a good move because you are stating your intentions from the start. If your ask to meet up is vague she may think that you just want to be friends. | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Is the friend circle the only hope for an ugly guy to meet and actually start dating girls?Dude until you see yourself as attractive it won't matter whether you're meeting girls at bars or through a friend group. And by attractive I mean more than looks, it's about having a high level of self esteem, confidence, and self worth. The combination of getting in shape, eating right, and developing hobbies will do wonders. Highly recommend the book Models by Mark Manson. | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 06:25 PM |
| 4 | Today I negotiated my salary to +300%. I want to thank this sub for giving me the confidence and making me a better person!Until you share more details I'm just going to assume that you are mowing lawns and went from doing your parent's lawn at $25 per time, to you doing your parent's lawn and your two neighbors lawns for a total of $75. | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Let's say a girl liked you at a party because you had a high energy and you were funny. But when you take her out you're not gonna be that guy at the party. Solution?Keep partying, all the time. | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 06:24 AM |
| 5 | f-closingCongrats on getting these chicks back to your place and getting them naked. Maybe just don't drink as much? That might help with your performance. | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 07:01 AM |
| 38 | FR: Tinder Date. First time meet up. F close.A female friend posted on fb that she saw this Tinder description "Looking for Times New Roman in the streets and Windings in the sheets." Pretty funny. All her friends seemed to like it. | /r/seduction | 12/12/13 10:55 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate when on a date?Arm around around her during movie, when movie ends, make out begins. | /r/seduction | 30/11/13 06:40 PM |
| 3 | [FR] How I busted my way out of the friendzoneWell done, sir! Thank you for sharing that was a good read. | /r/seduction | 17/09/13 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Making conversation after a direct approach: how do I stop it going into 'interview mode?'Whenever a girl asks me what I do (clearly asking about my job) I answer with my hobbies, such as surfing, bike riding, camping, etc. It throws girls off a bit and they usually get a kick out of it. | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone ever moved to a new city, knowing nobody, in their mid-to-late 20's and successfully made -real- friends? If so, how did you do it?Develop your hobbies. There are websites where people can meet up to do activities together (hiking, practicing Spanish, snowboarding, just about anything). Also, consider that there are a bunch of other people out there who are in the same situation and want to make friends. | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 02:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] How I completely broke down.You should start doing the exact opposite of what you are currently doing. | /r/seduction | 03/08/13 04:30 AM |
| 25 | Sexual energy "he said hello like he could fuck me through a wall"Dude. 100% this. Exercise = pussy = life. | /r/seduction | 26/07/13 04:55 AM |
| 2 | [FR] ACHIEVEMENT UNLOCKED: At a stoplight, get the girl's phone number in the car next to me...You didn't get with them, did you? | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 06:23 PM |
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