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I don’t put that much thought into it. A guy can use those names toward you in a non sexual way. It doesn’t mean he’s interested in you or hitting on you. Same for women, I say honey a lot but not because I want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:22 AM
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Yeah but I don’t mind it. When a guy makes you happy you want to tell someone. I like hearing about the nice things their bf does for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:59 AM
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I like simple. Friendly. Just come up to me and comment on something. I’m chatty so I’d think he’s starting a conversation with me. After we chat a little. I will tell him to take my number, or he can tell me. Then we say gtg bye and we will text or call later that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:48 AM
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I mean, the 2nd guys hair is falling out. He would be hotter if he just shaved bald. I don’t see why it’s so shocking to you that they rated him lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:25 PM
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Yes I’m taking about them too. guy friends, acquaintances, whatever disappear when you make it known that you won’t sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:25 PM
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Not unreasonable and most women already know that guy friends disappear when you make it clear that you don’t want to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:19 AM
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It’s fun being single because it feels free and you don’t have any boy problems. I guess once those women deal with the reality of being married, they’re over it. I think men are more likely to want relationships because it’s basically guaranteed sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:05 AM
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Why should it be like that in theory? Men like to pay on dates. Most are still traditional when it comes to dating and/or they say they were just raised like that. I just don’t see why I would pay on a date when I’m with a man who asked me out. I don’t think that a man would invite me out in a romantic way if he didn’t have me covered, that sounds embarrassing for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:58 PM
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I don’t think I agree with you when you said the best guys are scarce. I’ve met a lot of guys where I’m thinking “he’s single???”. I can tell we have different definitions of “average men”. You can still get favors from average men. That’s significant to me because I always need help with something. I haven’t had to deal with too many pornsick creepy guys, I’m happy about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:43 PM
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Well it’s not completely out of the question. I know women who still go to the grocery store to find their next relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:22 PM
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That’s not completely true since someone I find good looking will be ugly to my friends and vice versa. and sometimes you just don’t want to be approached at all or you already have a bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:21 PM
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I did but he became really attractive to me when we started dating. It started when his drunk uncle (50s-60s) started flirting with me and calling me his girl and told him to meet his girl(me). While his uncle was distracted, he basically asked me out and told me to put my number in his phone. He called it while I was standing there LOL. It was great in the first month then it turned bad after that. He’s a psychopath and we are not together anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:40 PM
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I’m not sure about the title but the description sounds a lot like my experiences. I ask them questions and I’m showing interest in what they’re saying but it usually isn’t reciprocated and I’m being cut off when I’m responding. They end up saying we have great conversations and that I’m such a cool girl or whatever but I wonder how? Since I hardly said anything or shared anything about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:20 PM
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Money, gifts, favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:19 PM
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As a 22 year old that dates older men I would say maturity, experience, and avoiding judgement from your friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:03 PM
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Definitely the health conscious guy, I don’t drink or smoke and guys who do think it’s lame. I’ll end up fat dating guy 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:09 AM
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When I’m open to cold approaches I’m usually going for a walk in a park or downtown during the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:02 PM
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I get that, and it makes sense in theory but having more potential partners doesn’t make that much of a difference in real life. Skinny women are still having the same dating problems/complaints as fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:49 AM
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Okay but I don’t see why a fat woman would care about the stats when her dating life is just fine irl. You don’t need a lot of potential partners to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:23 PM
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Fat women don’t care. There are men that are attracted to them and prefer them. Plenty of fat women are married or doing really well dating. I don’t know why Reddit thinks dating is better for skinny women. I can assure you that it isn’t that spectacular
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:36 PM
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Tiktok is an app full of teenagers and early 20s. And there are plenty of women who want to be pickmes regardless so don’t worry, you’ll find yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:17 PM
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Okay, I could’ve been a little more specific. By “not interested” I mean interested in more than just getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:39 AM
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The truth ruins their revenge fantasy haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:42 PM
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Yes they would. They have, and also decided they wouldn’t do it again. What’s the point in having friends if you can’t be honest with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:59 PM
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I’m not sure what is entitled and cowardly about only talking to guys who are interested in you. You sound frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:57 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:49 AM
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I have male friends because I’m into mma, boxing, and video games and those are mostly male hobbies. They aren’t orbiting me and I’ve never thought to compare them to other guys. I’d like to think our friendship is genuine because it’s genuine on my end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:05 AM
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It works like that for the most part. I didn’t hear that from a movie, it’s my experience and my friend’s experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:51 AM
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Approaching a man is such a bad idea as a woman. If a man likes you, he’s going to initiate. If I want to talk to him but he still hasn’t come over to talk me, he’s probably not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:06 PM
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21 f still a virgin. I want to get married in the next few years, I’ll probably lose it to my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:08 AM
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Why is PPD completely obsessed with these two groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 05:38 PM
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I don’t understand why your mentor feels sorry. That sounds like a good thing. Why would you (guys in general) want someone harassing you for a relationship after sleeping with them once? Does it boost your ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:08 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:29 PM
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I honestly see no difference in my interactions with men before and after “me too” became popular. guys on the internet are always bringing it up as if it made some revolutionary change in society where men are suddenly afraid of women. It definitely hasn’t changed things for “good men” …unless you have a different meaning for “good men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:35 AM
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If I have everything I wanted in the marriage I wouldn’t care. A comfortable life to do/have whatever I want/whatever my future kids wants is more important. I don’t fear being settled for because I can always divorce and start dating again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:25 AM
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I’ve dated men where I was way out of their league in looks, financial, pretty much everything else still had a bad outcome haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:43 PM
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Some of us didn’t realize. I just came to this realization recently. Phew
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:40 AM
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I understand and I still don’t care since they’re choosing to jump through hurdles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:33 AM
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Stop calling them beta. A man who raises his family isn’t beta. wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 03:24 AM
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All of this because women don’t want to fuck you? Ok. lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:42 PM
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Men don’t have the funds to support a trad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:58 AM
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You guys really want to make the most vile pill seem like sunshine and rainbows. It’s still gross after being revised a hundred times and coded with different terms. The community knows it’s concerning which is why they have to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:56 AM
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Trp is really bad but I don’t obsess over it the way you guys obsess over women having standards that you don’t meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:51 AM
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It’s interesting the way males here find everything wrong with FDS but you choose not to see how gross/sick trp is. You’re just helping the sub grow by making 20 posts per week about FDS. More women are going to click to see why you all are so upset with it and join.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:18 PM
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Pickme wasn’t created by FDS. I remember watching the woman who coined the term on YouTube in 2016. Her impact is incredible, everyone is using her lingo now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:45 AM
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Yes it’s this easy. You can make friends this way as well, just start out with a compliment. It’s simple because you don’t have to worry about your safety when a woman approaches you. I can list a million dangers that you have to watch out for as a woman when a man shows interest in you the way she’s doing in the video. I’m sure every woman has personal experiences and have heard horror stories from other women that they keep in the back of their minds which keeps their guard up around men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:45 AM
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I have a couple male friends that I chat with here and there but I keep it minimal because they’ll try to pursue you. I don’t go out to socialize with men. I prefer expanding my friendship circle of women. I have male coworkers, clients, a few classmates, and I’m a fan of a male dominated sport so that’s more than enough male interaction for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:20 AM
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Other males don’t view boys who were molested by women as victims. Every time a story comes out on YouTube or any social media site, you see men in the comments talking shit about victim for doing the right thing. Ask other men irl what they think and you’ll have your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:09 AM
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I love that her friends are there for support! 🤣 her captions are richhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:36 AM
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Ew you guys always get personal. I didn’t include myself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:15 PM
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So sweet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:03 PM
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You can disagree with me if you want but it’s already common knowledge that women actually like maintaining their looks for themselves and their man. I can tell that it kills you to know that these women are preferred by some men and encouraged to maintain their looks. There’s nothing you can say that will stop men from being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:48 PM
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It’s your opinion that it’s selfish but it’s strange that you’re so upset over someone else’s life choices. There are men who prefer women that “keep themselves up” and if you don’t, why does it bother you so much? The only people affected are the women who put effort into keeping up their appearance up and the men who date them. Instead of shaming those women, why don’t you pursue women who don’t care about that stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:22 PM
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Yep, it’s m my #1 question now. So many seemingly decent guys were into some really sick and twisted porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:01 PM
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I didn’t say I was entitled to anything and I’ve never had a guy who asked me out to dinner, demand sex afterwards. Selfishly invested? You just don’t understand lol! These guys love looking at pretty women, they notice when it’s time to get your brows, nails, or hair retouched and will even give you money to get it done. They aren’t crazy rich or super attractive guys either, they’re blue collar and even making minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:54 PM
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Just ask them when they’re comfortable with you. They’ll probably think it’s hot and assume you do too and tell you. Now you know and you can move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:10 PM
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Guys always do that pathetic thing where they insult women they’re interested in because they can’t have them. I doubt calling beautiful women prostitutes hurts their feelings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:08 PM
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It’s completely pointless to try to explain this to guys. Just let them wonder why those beautiful women aren’t dating poor men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:48 AM
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It’s not supposed to be fair to women, the goal is to get as much sex as you can from women by any means necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:46 AM
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Oh god, I almost stopped watching at the hysterectomy part. The theme of little girls being abused and taken advantage of really upset me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 07:59 PM
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I think it’s a mixture of them not putting themselves out there enough and also young women being busy with school, work, and other activities. I have guy friends who are literally dyingggg to have a gf and they’re all decent, hygienic, not hideous. Some of them are have degrees, in grad school or have jobs that make decent money so I don’t think it’s them personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:30 PM
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Of course youd say that. I’m not projecting and I don’t see myself as the victim. Projection is when you guys always assume women want to be the victim while you’re playing the victim on ppd 24/7. Your post is a question about a random comment that triggered you but if you think logically based on what you’ve read from fds you can answer it yourself. Women don’t want to control men that they don’t want to breed with, the goal is to avoid those men. There are way too many comments to quote, it wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:36 AM
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I’ve heard male dating gurus say certain males don’t deserve to be in the gene pool but none of you had an issue with it until a woman said it. They’re saying they’d rather be alone than date or have children with a bad guy. Why is that so bad? It’s her fault if she ends up in an abusive relationship and she’s an angry bitch if she chooses not to date them? Women can’t win here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:44 AM
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This is so true! So much progress can be made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:16 PM
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Yep, a guy texted me the same thing and I never responded again. I’m so much better than that. He keeps saying he only did it to get my attention and he’s asking me why I’m “punishing” him? Stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:22 PM
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This is very common actually. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:40 PM
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Hoping there will be more women’s only gyms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:24 AM
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The named and unnamed victim’s childhoods are ruined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 10:32 PM
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The male is beyond eww to me but it’ll work as long as she remains attracted to him and doesn’t find out about this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:19 PM
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It seems like men really want this to be true. I’ve had women tell me to hold off as long as I can because they wish they would’ve traveled more and went to school instead. So this entire post truly creeps me out. Why are men so obsessed with wanting women they don’t know, to have children? Whenever women say they’re happy alone, men are seething. It’s like you guys are taking it personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:56 PM
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The wife is a dummy. Having girls block him won’t stop him from trying again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:40 PM
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Women discussing their standards in dating just triggers men. They can’t just not date them and move on, they have to harp on it constantly. I have seen and heard some extremely foul stuff from red pill but it isn’t on my mind 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:22 PM
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That wasn’t created by FDS. Anyway, It sounds silly to you but it works. You make better choices in dating (and everything else) when you believe that you deserve better. I wasn’t convinced by your post. It reads salty from the beginning. and it just sounds like men are afraid that more women will start thinking they’re too good to screw them. If it isn’t harming you or anyone else, let it be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:18 AM
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I don’t understand this lol. Rolling their D’s up? and stuffing them in women like sleeping bags?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:34 PM
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I have below average male family members who seduce fat women in time for tax return season. Or just fat women with jobs in general. They’d always get spoiled. It’s harsh but I’d do that if I were a male gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:55 AM
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To spread misery because it’s more fun when everyone is miserable with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:40 AM
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They aren’t okay. Knowing that women are doing their own thing and aren’t worried about dating causes them to have legit meltdowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:19 AM
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Yes, it seems like that is their goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:35 AM
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Yeah it’s not fun at all when you have to be on high alert the entire time making sure you aren’t being preyed upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:21 AM
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I don’t go to bars and clubs in my free time because I have to be on high alert 24/7 to make sure creeps aren’t slipping drugs into my drink or following me. That isn’t fun. So it’s school, studying at home, work, hobbies, volunteering, hanging with family/friends and running errands. Dating is just not a priority right now because it’s such a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:20 AM
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WHAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:02 AM
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I won’t belittle him but I’d quietly dump him. I was interested in this guy but he said he’d want to be a stay at home dad if I want to be a working woman. Sickening. I didn’t even think he was attractive after that. He doesn’t have the ability to bear children or menstruate, he’s able bodied, physiologically stronger, and chooses to be femme. A man that doesn’t work is a waste of space so I won’t pretend like he’s still masculine or hand him my card to pay for things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:08 PM
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I can’t date a guy with a body count over 3. I prefer zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:12 AM
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If he’s going bald, I’d just hope he’ll shave it off (before I suggest it and sound like jerk) instead of hanging on forever. There is a such thing as “husband/boyfriend goggles”. I have no idea what how my friends find their husbands or bfs attractive but they’re insanely attracted to them. I’m the same way when I’m in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:30 AM
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When I was in elementary school, my substitute music teacher was so proud to say that she was there when rkelly and Aaliyah got married. He was surrounded by enablers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:34 AM
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FDS is the only place where creepy shit like this is pointed out. This sub is a breath of fresh air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:10 AM
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This happened to me too! Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:27 PM
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Wow I’m so excited for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:20 AM
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It’s disgusting to me when his body count is over 2. But dating shouldn’t be a problem for a guy with a high body count because they’ll lie/withhold information from their partner. Your sex diary is pretty disgusting, but I’m sure you’re not the only man that keeps something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:35 AM
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So what if you believe the risk of dying during childbirth is low?? Women who are hesitant about having children because they are scared are allowed to be. They can be scared of having children and choose not to, no matter what your numbers say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:21 PM
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It’s not just about keeping up their current lifestyle. Motherhood is incredibly difficult and there’s a possibility that you’ll die while giving birth. The perineal tear, stretch marks, and deflated boobies after the baby sucks, even worse when you have postpartum depression. I’m really glad women are thinking twice before having a baby instead of popping out one or two and realizing later that they can’t take care of their babies or that they could’ve waited a little longer. Not sure why it bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:14 PM
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Just to add on: A man’s larynx is naturally larger and protrudes more than a woman’s larynx. Theirs is more visible than a woman’s even when they aren’t flexing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:06 PM
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and it’s full of guys, of course. I don’t think they realize that they’re actually spreading it further and making FDS “a thing” now that it has its own hate subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:50 AM
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she’s hoping her WAP makes him want to marry her or see her outside of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:06 PM
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The only way I can see someone choosing the first guy is if they’re hoping he commits. He sounds super boring, it doesn’t matter if he’s attractive. I would never have a fwb and I don’t care about his status. So I’m choosing the second scenario of course. His personality is similar to the guy I’m dating now, yayy. The guy that I’m interested in/fall in love with will always be the most attractive guy in the world to me even if other people thinks he’s average (great! more of him for me)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:04 PM
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If you guys hate the FDS sub so much, stop advertising it 24/7, you’re helping the sub grow larger. You’re not doing a good enough job bashing it. Women will still visit and see for themselves because we can tell that it provokes so much emotion in you all. I actually found it after reading posts and comments in this sub that were trashing FDS. Thanks btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:22 PM
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She answers your question in the video. She isn’t wasting more time by answering “come over and watch Netflix” or “let’s hang out at my place”. Just say that and you’ll never hear from girls like her again. What she brings to the relationship is for the guy she’s dating to decide. That shouldn’t piss you off unless you want to date her. All she’s really saying is she wants a real relationship with a guy she can have fun with instead of being asked to “hang out”. It sounds like women with expecta…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:19 PM
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I’m 21. I think it is SO important for women to secure a career before starting their family. Your career gives you your own identity/purpose & financial independence. You’ll be shit outta luck when your bf/husband cheats or loses interest if you’re completely dependent on him for everything. It’s such a tough position to be in especially if you have children. I know I can live without a man and having children because I’ve seen how difficult and unfair motherhood/marriage is. I’m really glad to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:57 AM
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Very important. I’m so attracted to guys that are intelligent or smarter than me in some subjects.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:28 AM
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This is incredibly sad but true. Ask any woman who works in women’s health centers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:06 AM
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The ideal male body type to me is someone who is fit and/or looks strong but not a meathead. The only male body types I’m not attracted to are slender and weak, twinkish/male kpop idols, or fat and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:02 PM
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Yes! Exactly! I’m so glad women are catching on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:58 PM
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I never offer to pay anything. Money never comes up when a man asks me to go in a date. If I’m going out with a friend, I’ll pay for myself unless he’s already paid for me. I’d never split the bill with a guy who’s interested in me because I have enough friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:25 PM
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I try to tell my guy friends this all the time. I created a dating profile before and I had over 100 likes and open conversations at the end of the day. It’s exhausting and it feels pretty bad to not respond to someone. You can’t tell which guys are interested in you or which ones are casting a wide net, so I’m done with apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:34 AM
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I would sell sex because I’d rather be paid for it since I’m being used either way. I’ll have cash to go shopping or pay bills after. worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:43 AM
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Celibacy is better than a bad choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:30 AM
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I think platforms should stop censoring them. I wish TRP would be a little louder so more women can hear what they’re saying. Women won’t believe it until they see/read it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:45 AM
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Idk, I don’t think of them. Maybe they’re having a hard time attracting their type. The traits you listed aren’t going to keep men away irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:37 PM
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If he wants to and if it’ll make him happy, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:04 PM
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98%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:36 AM
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sucking dick is pretty lame either way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:04 AM
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This tweet is a few years old. I bet they’re not even together anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:02 AM
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Good lord oh my god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:36 PM
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Grow a beard
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 08:12 PM
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For the love of god, stop sending nudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:14 PM
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It doesn’t matter if a man is rich or poor, he will cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:25 AM
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I’m a fit woman who dates men with dad bods and I can tell you right now that they are also judgmental. Men will be men. Lots of chubby guys have high standards for women even though they’re out of shape. Overweight men have told me “skinny women are better for my OCD” and “i can’t date women with breasts bigger than DDs because they tend to get fat sooner”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:58 AM
1

Absolutely. I’ve dated guys that other people would consider hideous but I thought he was the sexiest man alive. My friends as well. I don’t see what they see (physically) in their bfs but they’re sooo in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 05:33 AM
25

Never ever ever. I grew up around brothers and male cousins. They’ll share your nudes with their friends and compare you to other women. They’ll say really hurtful and dehumanizing things with their friends while sweet talking you. Stop. Sharing. Nudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:53 AM
27

Thanks for censoring the word. It makes me cringe when I read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:51 AM
53

My brother is the same way! I don’t know why, he’s an intimidating looking guy. Literally all he has to do is not sugar coat shit. It drives me nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:37 PM
3

I’d understand if he just wants to relax sometimes. I think both of the guys you described are stereotypical archetypes. We’re filling in the blanks because there isn’t enough information about each guy to choose one. What makes you think I want him to initiate every activity? I’m usually the one dragging people out of the house and trying to convince them it’ll be fun. But it would be nice if he was just as interested in fun things as I am. Yes, he’s almost perfect but his boring characteristic…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 05:26 AM
2

I’m 21. Guy A is nearly perfect but I wouldn’t want to have to try to lure him out of his comfort zone every time I wanted to do something fun. I want him to try new things with me and visit new places. I think we’d have plenty of sweet moments but he sounds like he’d suck the fun out of everything. I’d rather be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 04:11 AM
2

I’m attracted to guys that look like fat Chris Pratt and Zach Galafianakis. I’m not attracted to tall, muscular, guys with sharp jawlines and big dikcs. It’s too extreme. I don’t like/want sex just as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:37 AM
1

no thanks. My ass is good and my waist to hip ratio is outstanding. I’m very active, I love being thin. I’m not going to gain fat to attract more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:00 AM
121

Yes, I’ve realized this a long time ago. It’s so obvious that men generally don’t care. They’re friends with rapists and abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:29 PM
1

I like the look of men with red hair but not as femme as the guy in the picture. freckles are a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 05:12 AM
1

I don’t see women hating sex workers. I do see men hating sex work in every form (only fans, sugar babies, escorts, etc.), but it’s probably because they think they they’re entitled to women’s bodies and should be able to use women freely. I’m happy to see sex workers earning money from sex work. It is a hard job and men are very unsafe, they deserve every penny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 07:48 PM
10

I am so angry and hurt that subs like that are allowed to exist. Screw quarantining it, end it now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:39 PM
15

Except it’s real life too... 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:38 PM
13

I’m not surprised and I am SURE there are more places where this is discussed. You wouldn’t believe how many friends and women I’ve spoken with that were abused by the moms bf growing up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:37 PM
12

To not mess things up with the second guy that you really want. I’ve never done it, but that would be my thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:38 PM
4

I remember my mother doing this. I thought she was such an idiot. I tried to point out how stupid it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:08 PM
8

That’s so true. I’m a thin woman and my body type hasn’t made dating better for me as Reddit suggests. Fat women are dating and marrying just fine IRL. “Thick” is more attractive than thin to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:16 PM
2

I’d prefer to date male virgins actually. I think it would be nice to finally date a guy that understands and isn’t pushy. I want to marry a virgin like myself because we’re both inexperienced but we’d be able to learn together. But they’re pretty much unicorns. All of the guys that I’ve gotten to know have had numerous partners and they seem...jaded in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:23 AM
1

There wasn’t a connection in the 20th century. Maybe you’re mistaking financial dependence in non-western countries for connection. Men still do those things, but doesn’t matter to most women now anyway. I’m just glad that in the 21st century, I don’t have to date/marry for survival or status.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 09:18 AM
5

When in history was there ever connection between men and women? The dating scene now isn't the best for everyone but as a woman I prefer dating now, over the way it was in history. There wasn't some magical connection and understanding between men and women even 6 years ago before your long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:35 AM
7

I was going to seriously give you an answer but the things you wrote about breeding, dick size, and anal were really disturbing. I’m not sure if this is a troll post or what.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 06:28 AM
1

Yeah well, i only meet guys that pretend to like me to try to sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 06:54 AM
3

Yes! I want romance, dates, gifts, and cuddling without the pressure of having to please him sexually. It sucks to know that a guy is only treating you nicely because he’s trying to get laid and not because he actually likes you as a person. This kind of relationship would eliminate that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 07:29 AM
9

As a thin woman, seeing men on Reddit talk crap about overweight women doesn’t inflate my ego at all. I personally have never been placed on a pedestal (romantic & social life) for being skinny in the same way that plus sized women are celebrated for their body type. Irl I only hear men fawning over “curves” and I see plus sized women getting married all the time, having numerous relationships, and being spoiled by their loving bfs or husbands. Also, the media for the past few years has been all…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:18 AM
15

This is a question that would be best answered by men since men generally value different things but if this is causing you stress, remember that no one is forcing you to date women. No one would care if you stopped dating women. You’re able to make your own choices in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:22 PM
2

Because most women (including myself) just find them attractive not unconventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 06:12 PM
4

David Harbor, Peter Dinklage, Pedro Pascal, Adam driver, Christopher Meloni, and Steve Buscemi. I like unconventionally attractive features but I don’t consider most of the guys you listed to be unconventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:35 AM
3

I am fawning over this <3333
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:19 AM
1

I don’t know. Why is the a Q4W? It’s oddly specific. You’d probably get a better answer from rpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 06:41 AM
3

Whenever my coworkers and I talk about marriage at work my boss tells us about her LV husband. One time she told us he thinks washing dishes ONCE is a gift. LOL I feel so bad for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:58 PM
11

Girls will watch this and still think “noooo I’m special, this is just a meme” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:15 PM
3

Yes. After I masturbate I realize that the guy I thought I was into before is repulsive, boring, annoying, etc. The things I overlooked before like his baggage/dating history, kids, debt, hygiene, being unemployed/low income, are deal breakers for me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:19 PM
9

I love that so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:11 PM
6

This is such a great idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:48 PM
25

Yes exactly. The “nice” unattractive guys are JUST AS BAD as the “chads”. Men will be men regardless of what they look like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:46 PM
16

Im not surprised by men anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:44 PM
1

I would love to live separately but I haven’t met a guy that is okay with that. They start pressuring you to move in after a couple of months and hinting towards getting a place together. I can’t even get one to agree to let me have a separate room.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:49 AM
1

They’re comfortable where they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:38 AM
1

I can’t think of anything because I’ve seen women of all backgrounds and varying baggage from the past, still date decent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:10 AM
2

I wouldn’t enjoy casual sex so I’d feel used since he’s enjoying himself and I’m not. I don’t gain anything from having sex with him. It’s like my value was lowered after that. It is a haunting feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:08 AM
3

I never feel a spark. Guys are either awkward and i feel no connection or they’re too cocky and sounds like they’ve rehearsed their lines 100 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:01 AM
1

No, its SUPER cute and shows humanity. If a guy is overly confident I’m not going to want to see him again. It shows he’s had too much practice or he’s a player. I find it unattractive if a guy has had too many partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:44 AM
1

Yes, absolutely yes! This is the perfect relationship. There’s no pressure for me to please him all the time and we can spend time doing other things in life. I’m satisfied long as there’s romance and compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 01:40 AM
1

I think its funny. cardi is making a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:30 PM
27

What the hell??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:32 PM
5

What a mess. I feel for the poor girl who had a kid with this pos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:51 PM
12

That is brutal. I have brothers and grew up around male family members so I’m already familiar with this. I wish I could warn women but they don’t believe me LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:05 AM
4

Wowwww!! It’s so gorgeous!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:35 PM
1

I would get an abortion by any means necessary but I’ll answer the question the way you want: id rather stay single than marry someone that doesn’t love me/I don’t love. We’d coparent or I’d do the single mom thing since it isn’t as bad as people say it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:47 AM
1

Guy A constantly screws other women so I’d be disgusted by him and I’d have to suffer a lot of embarrassment being in a relationship with him so the only thing that makes the relationship worth it for me, is the money but I’m sure I’ll get sick of it sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:53 PM
2

Being a girlfriend is not the same as being a sugar baby. I said I’d be in a relationship with someone that was in a relationship with other people and I wouldn’t care that he was sleeping with other people as long as my needs are met.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 02:18 AM
3

I’d do it for the money and security. I’d probably change my mind if he came home with stds but i would never date someone with bad hygiene (ever again) and a cringe personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:41 AM
3

A rich man is the man of my dreams, not exactly the guy described in the op. I don’t believe polyamory is a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:37 AM
2

I’d share a rich man if it meant I’d have access to his money. I wouldn’t care if he sleeps with other women, we can live separate lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:08 AM
6

Omg! He looks like my ex also, not even kidding. What the hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:24 PM
3

They can open pickle jars, move furniture, they have attractive voices, they don’t mind helping you or giving advice when you look lost, hugs from men feel gr8, somethng about the male scent, and they’re good problem solvers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:57 AM
2

Awwwwww!! They’re so cute!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:30 AM
4

I only see fat women hate on Reddit. IRL, thick/bbw is hot. Being not fat doesn’t really give you better dating options. (This isn’t cope, I’m thin)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:59 AM
1

I am also tired of it. This is why I take long breaks from dating to focus on school, work, and my hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 12:03 AM
2

Niceee
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:46 PM
3

No...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 11:41 PM
2

They’re soft, warm, and cuddly. They enjoy food so if I don’t finish mine, he’ll eat it so it doesn’t go to waste. I would be miserable if both of us were on a diet. Since he’s not, I get to watch him enjoy all of the foods I can’t have. Fatness attractive imo, also comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:44 PM
6

The fact that iggy is 30 something and got knocked up by a 22 year old rapper known for abusing his exes...the only victim here is the child involved in this mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:45 PM
14

Iggy is in her 30s and got pregnant by a 22 year old rapper with a bad reputation. I’m not excusing Carti but she should have known better. Don’t attack me- this is what FDS preaches. She has access to better men but she chose him. I’m honestly embarrassed for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:42 PM
2

1.) Yes, this info isn’t new to me as a size 0-2 woman. I’m always reminded of it when dating. I thought it was common knowledge that men love big boobs, big butts, and thighs. I find it hard to believe that women actually thought men were attracted to the bodies of fashion models. 2.) Not every woman likes chads, her ideal version of chad is probably hideous to me and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 01:06 AM
1

When he has gone through puberty and has a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 02:00 AM
2

I was 9
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 01:56 AM
1

This would be amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 05:33 AM
1

Yes exactly. Still aware that money doesn't make him a good person its just that, if you're going to get used by this man, you should at least get something valuable out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 11:40 PM
32

You should make sure you know where he stands on this before you agree to go on a date. It'll become obvious to the point where you can filter them out. I'd be so offended if a guy ever suggested this to my face. I look this good, how DARE you? lol the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:04 AM
2

This is disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:11 AM
1

I can't speak for all, but my friends would not be supportive. They think it's gross or pathetic to date a guy older than you and that there's no reason to since there are plenty of guys our age. It's only acceptable if he's rich or generous. For example my friends husband (regular guy, had kids from past situationship) is in his 40s and my other friend makes jokes about his age whenever she brings him up, says things like she'll be his caregiver in a few years, "is he wearing diapers?", "he's u…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 11:27 PM
2

When I block a guys number I don't want him to dm me on IG saying "why did you block me lol?" and write comments under my pictures. Or all of a sudden I'll have a new mysterious follow on IG. Some guys really study your posts and it makes me so uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 11:04 PM
6

hehe I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:46 PM
7

YES. Income = Freedom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:36 PM
1

I don't think I would mind, assuming he is an adult that is capable of making his own decisions. It's not like I could stop him anyway, telling him "no' wouldn't do much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 01:14 PM
2

I mentally break up with him before actually breaking up with him. I take note of things he says/does and determine whether I want to put up with it in the future. When it's time to break up, initial attraction is gone and I have a list of reasons to support my decision so that I won't go back on it. It doesn't make me feel bad because guys are simple, they'll be upset for a little while because no gf = no sex, until they find their next hook up. I value my time more than their temporary feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 01:08 PM
3

I can’t get validation from having sex with a guy that will happily screw anything his dick will fit into. I get dick pics from men I don’t even know on a daily basis and I feel nothing. They share lines and moves with their friends and use them on every girl they approach. I compare text messages and interactions I have had with different guys to my friends’ and they all look and sound the same. Dick isn’t valuable, it’s everywhere and available to anyone that wants it. Receiving money and gift…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:37 AM
1

I think, “wow good for her” and that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:19 AM
2

Single dads have zero dating value. This is common knowledge in my friend group and most women my age. They’re already tied down and they are off limits. They have too many issues, instead of making your life better they make it worse. They come with family drama, baby mama drama and you’ll end up wrapped up in it somehow or babysitting for him. It creeps me out when guys show interest in me and I find out they have a brand new baby that is only a few weeks or months old. Like why are you trying…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:00 AM
47

And “What do you bring to the table?” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:21 PM
7

Oh my god I am so sorry. I’m glad you’re on the road to recovery, I wish you well! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 01:26 AM
13

Writing a well written response explaining how you feel is entertaining him no matter what you write. She’s not listening to you because her emotions are clouding her judgment. Cutting communication without a warning is the best way. Just. Stop. Responding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:03 PM
5

It makes sense. Men are perfect for each other in so many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:17 AM
7

Yeah not the first bi/gay guy to say he resents women. If you dislike women and have better experiences with men, doesn’t it make more sense to be gay? You don’t have to date women, no one is forcing you to like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:04 AM
11

Wow today I learned about “negging”. I’ve noticed this but didn’t have a name for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:59 PM
30

i find it funny when they backtrack or change the subject to avoid explaining/repeating themselves, because they know they shouldn’t have said it at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:57 PM
1

WHAT
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:24 PM
7

Oop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 01:28 AM
18

Stabbing someone over NBA herpes boy??? He was caught beating up his girlfriend and had 4 kids by different women by the time he was 18. She’s psychotic just like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 01:27 AM
8

Thanks Nana, I needed this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:53 AM
2

Well, maybe. It depends on what what he did. I need an example of what you’re talking about. If he was spooked by a bug or something I’d laugh and tease a little, it’s no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:09 PM
3

I meant it’ll be easier for an older man, to date someone his age than being rejected, used or toyed with by young girls. Young men aren’t the only ones that pump and dump, older men would pump and dump young women just as much if they had the chance. A woman that rejected a guy when she was 18 but became interested in him later when they’re both 30 actually sounds more realistic than trying to tie down a beautiful teenaged/20 year old fantasy when he’s 30-60+.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 07:07 PM
4

I’m not jealous, I’m just saying it’s very unlikely. I could string along 100 geriatric boyfriends and collect all their checks if I wanted. You guys say you want women to be honest in this sub but when we give our honest input you don’t want to hear it. Suddenly we’re jealous, we’re lying or whatever. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 06:22 PM
10

Ugh it’s so creepy when older men are interested in girls in their teens - 20s. You sound like a predator. It’ll be easier for you to date someone your own age. Young gold diggers aren’t very common unless she is from a third world country, desperate and you are her only chance at a better life. It’s not realistic to think healthy, beautiful young girls would suddenly change and become attracted to creepy old men for you to have a shot. There‘s no reason for her to date you when she is getting a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 03:42 PM
11

No no she didn’t. She came close to doing it until she saw shit in his butt crack. Imagine if the lights were off gags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:38 PM
40

Foul. And the fact that she went for it because she felt bad...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:06 AM
8

I wonder how they thought it was different from succeeding with blondes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:10 AM
67

When I was a teenager this was apart of the “boy talk” my mother had with me. She told me they‘re called “skid marks” and that men leave them in their underwear. She also told me that her mother had to take care of it for her stepfather too...she bought him panty liners. I wish I was joking. I’ve never lived with a man but I will not tolerate bad hygiene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:46 AM
10

They don’t care. It doesn’t matter to them why the woman agreed. As long as RPillers are getting sex, their objective is complete.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 11:20 PM
24

Friends :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:38 PM
2

Omg Yes!! All. the. time. There have been really hot guys that I’d be so interested in until I get to know him more. After I see that he’s a jerk, he’s rude to others, he’s pushy, he flexes too much, he’s constantly making the conversation sexual, he makes jokes about awful things, etc. It turns me off completely and I stop replying to texts and calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 09:10 PM
9

This question is getting old but I find it interesting that you’re the one asking this, since you admit you are below average in looks and attracted to high value women. The comments I’ve seen from you consist of whining about women you are attracted to being out of your league so maybe the answer to your question is the same reason you feel like you deserve to date/casually screw beautiful women. What valuable traits do you have that they should ignore your below average height and looks for?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:36 PM
6

I agree, I’ve never watched the show but the way Brienne is described in the books is tragic. It’s like she’s the ugliest creature on earth. Here’s something: “A thousand freckles speckled her cheeks and brow, and her nose had been broken more than once. Pity filled Catelyn’s heart. Is there any creature on earth as unfortunate as an ugly woman?”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:08 AM
21

Oh my god I know exactly what you mean. This has been bothering me for a while. Lately I’ve been frustrated with the travel influencers. They’re standing in front of beautiful scenery in something skimpy or tooting their asses out on a mountain top with breath taking views. It’s so unnecessary and it just ruins it for me. I love travel content but really sick of everything being overly sexualized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 07:15 AM
4

He knows he’d rather be with 29 out of 30 women like normal men instead of wasting his life working and playing video games but he can’t, so he has to lie to himself to feel better lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:25 PM
5

He’s definitely not worth the time and energy you used to reply. Don’t entertain him. If he’s a redditor in those subs he was probably only amused by your rant. Say nothing and unmatch. I know it feels good to tell him off but you’re just giving him the satisfaction of getting you angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:03 PM
8

My teenaged brother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:11 PM
9

I thought it was another way of saying “pretty boy”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:09 AM
29

Why do men use age as an insult and try to scare us into being desperate. It’s annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:42 AM
63

He only said “connection, communication and effort” because that’s what he thinks women want to hear. Don’t message guys first. It’s the easiest way to tell if the guy is even remotely interested in you. That way, you’re not giving these ding dongs the opportunity to be so cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 02:56 PM
35

Pretty sad when she’s already emotionally invested but he’s just not that into her. Cancels right before or doesn’t even care to show up and then has the nerve to text her like nothing happened instead offering of an apology. Really shows what he thinks of her :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:55 AM
2

It’s time to log off from the internet for a while. Take a break. Go outside, go for a walk, go to the gym. You’re making yourself miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 10:04 AM
1

This is amazing news!! Congratulations!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:59 AM
3

20yo Female: We don’t have to hide random boners. No one will know if we’re turned on in normal or awkward situations because we don’t have a thingy that sticks out and shows through our pants. Larger variety of products and wardrobe items available.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:24 PM
45

It’s amazing how men always defend and side with each other even when they are DEAD wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:36 PM
12

Follow your intuition. I think he’s lying too from what you wrote in your post. I’ve met guys like this where I felt unsure about him and he turned out to be just as I thought in the beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:43 AM
45

We love facts! And these are the guys that think gold diggers are after them! LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:26 AM
25

Posting in here attracts creepy mgtow/TRP/incel cyber stalkers. I’ve been getting downvoted too lol I get a notification that says my comment has reached a certain amount of upvotes but when I go see it I notice the upvotes have decreased. It’s funny that they think their little downvotes mean anything here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:08 AM
46

More women should do this! Knowing how fucked up the man is before we even engage in conversation saves us from confusion and issues later on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:26 AM
67

I hate when couples fight in front of me, it makes things so uncomfortable. Usually the guy says something extremely rude or like what “Connor” says in this post and his girlfriend/wife is trying to play it off like it was a joke... and they stay together after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:55 AM
5

Oh you poor silly girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:51 AM
10

God, my heart breaks for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 11:53 PM
1

I am not outwardly offering anything to a man. I don’t get into relationships and ask myself what I can do for him or how I can make his life better because he sought-after me, not the other way around. Men that want to date me know I am the addition that makes his life better. I’m only using him in the same way he’s using me. I know men that pursue me aren’t after my kind heart or big brain haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 08:46 PM
4

I can provide for myself, I just don’t see the point in dating a man that doesn’t add to my life or make it better. I only value men based on their ability to provide and if he can’t do that, he’s not attractive to me. I don’t need companionship or love from a man because I can get that from my friends/family & pet. Time wasted in a relationship could be spent somewhere else doing something productive or fun instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 08:09 PM
1

No. If he can’t provide for me, he’s not my ideal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 06:08 PM
70

This is my new FAVORITE post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 05:07 AM
12

This is something I’ve been thinking about but couldn’t quiet put it in words! Thank you for sharing! I have to read this book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:57 AM
30

This is from my perspective as a gold digger: 1. I remind myself that I have 9 other men (& counting) in the roster. 2. There are too many men in the world for me to be upset over one. 3. I don’t emotionally invest in a man until he has given me a certain amount of gifts, money, access to connections, etc. 4. I never direct all my time and energy to only 1 man so it doesn’t make me feel bad when it doesn’t work out. 5. I don’t think of myself as one of his options but instead he’s one of MY opti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:23 AM
66

They’re miserable and they want others to be miserable with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 02:39 AM
5

Now that I know what beta traits are, I’m surprised. When people mention beta they’re usually saying something negative but all of these traits are great! I’m more attracted to those traits than anything else. Guys that I like to date are usually masculine with all the beta traits, my favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 10:09 PM
142

I don’t understand how men think FDS is equivalent to Red Pill, MGTOW & “Alpha” male strategies dating advice when those guys are literal PREDATORS. I’ve watched a few red pill videos and the guys always say go for women aged 18-25 no matter how old you are, the younger the better and share tactics to help each other take advantage of women. They suggest violence like it’s nbd and even if there are some “sane” people following these platforms, they never tell each other when they’re going too fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:35 PM
1

It’s no secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 02:58 AM
60

It hurts at first but the sooner women realize, the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:08 AM
15

Such a crappy situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:23 AM
21

yay abuse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:10 PM
9

Ew!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:08 PM
-8

Eh, I don’t think her attraction to dad bods make her a pick me. Her reasons for being attracted to dad bods would make her a pick me. Is she only saying this for male validation or is this just her type? Some women like me (gold diggers) aren’t as concerned with the mans physical appearance and are more attracted to his education, career, wealth, character, connections, the lifestyle he can provide for us, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:07 PM
23

COME AGAIN???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:43 AM
27

No. If a man doesn’t want to be locked down he’s not going to, whether there are “hoes” available to him or not. It’s easier to blame “hoes” instead of accepting that he just doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:04 PM
1

It doesn’t make me mad since I’ve accepted it as the truth. As long as there are LVW there will continue to be LVM. Oh well. I don’t waste energy on being mad at something I have no control over. Observing is better without emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 06:55 PM
3

Yes. After observing how badly women were mistreated by men throughout history up until now, it’s clear that men despise women. If most men were gay maybe the number of women murdered by their male s/o will be reduced. Edit: I would switch to being lesbian if I could. I’m not saying they have no issues but I’d rather date someone similar to me so I don’t have to explain certain things because they understand. I love common female instincts/personality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:41 AM
2

You should join a team sport club/group. Like tennis, volleyball, running, etc. people in those groups tend to get really close.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:27 AM
5

I don’t think he was ever a good boyfriend if he makes less than you and has you split the rent with him....That is such a bad agreement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:54 AM
8

That’s sweet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 10:14 PM
1

This is so true. They’re sickos.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 07:51 PM
3

No guy dares to challenge Chad. It’s no use, he’s too big and strong and handsome. He can’t help that he’s better than every guy on the planet in every way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 07:48 PM
34

Thank. You. I am sick of seeing reddit blame women and “society” this was created and enforced by MEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:14 PM
24

Ooof -big face palm- this is going to haunt her later on when she realizes who actually benefited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:10 PM
74

I can’t be mad at him because there’s some LVW who will give it up to this guy. This advice will never work on HVW. Notice how he has the big macho guy attitude to brag about his sad, pathetic dating life. Soon, he’ll become bitter and angry at the world because he can’t get the top tier women he really wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:48 PM
3

You should see a therapist. But this is a good thing (in my obviously useless opinion lol) you don’t need the mushy gushy love/trust anyway, it clouds your judgement and gets in the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:18 PM
1

As soon as I see her profile pic I look elsewhere because I’ve seen so many of her tweets reposted here I just know it’ll be something dumb. I’m pretty sure it’s a troll account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:14 PM
2

Woman. No. The idea creeps me out so much. I couldn’t do it even if it was extremely human like. I need my partner to have a life outside of our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:25 PM
7

He’s a jerk but this can be a good thing...some women need to realize this and stop chasing men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:38 AM
7

My favorite methods are fasting and veganism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 09:40 PM
47

That poor girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 11:21 PM
13

You’re brave. Men have fragile egos, they’ll kill a girl that rejects them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 11:16 PM
6

We don’t need to be with a man for survival or to provide protection and stability because we can do that ourselves. All we have to do is go to the store and buy whatever we need, use money to hire someone to do handy work, learn skills from the internet, go to the sperm bank to start a family, buy toys to satisfy needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:24 AM
7

Me too...I kinda wish I could unsee/unhear the things that are said in red pill, mgtow, incel posts and youtube videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:28 AM
3

Fitness goals, education, career, Cooking, community service, BOOKS, art projects, nature
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:27 AM
13

The funniest part is that they aren’t going their own way, they’re still completely obsessed with women. We are constantly on their minds and they can’t function without our attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:01 PM
1

Jokes on them because this looks like fun. I’d love to do this now, I just need to make some girl friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:46 PM
3

It seems those women have neglected themselves and put their all into that man who seems unchanged before and after the baby. How sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:27 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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