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They basically PR the shit out of their ‘community’ and cover up anything that makes them look bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:37 AM
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The second link is broken BTW!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:04 AM
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I’m so sorry you went through that and I’m so glad you survived and got out the other side ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 04:12 AM
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Literally! It’s so frustrating. Libfems love to say ‘listen to sex workers! … but not THOSE ones’ 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 04:10 AM
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I used to be a SW. Every other girl I knew involved in that ‘industry’ have drug addictions and mental health issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 09:58 AM
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This is so true. I used to be a sugar baby at age 16. My sugar daddy very clearly knew my age. He wanted me to call him ‘daddy’ and act as through we had a father/daughter relationship. A few years later I looked him up and found his daughter’s Instagram, who was the same age as me. So many men are paedophilic and incestuous and porn fuels these paraphilias, while ‘sex work’ allows men to indulge in their sick fantasies. These industries hurt and exploit ALL women, not just the workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 09:57 AM
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I love Miss Fisher! Such an easy, wholesome watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 07:48 PM
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I’ve become increasingly blackpilled wrt men tbh. Luckily I’m bi 😂 but seriously - I don’t doubt there are HVM out there, but they’ve still be socialised under and live within a patriarchy, so my hopes aren’t too high
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:43 AM
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That breaks me heart. Stay safe babe ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:44 PM
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She’s not, I guarantee it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:42 PM
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‘Literal shit crumbs’ I’m dying 💀 that post was so gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 08:05 AM
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This!!! So sad because this used to be me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:22 AM
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This is such a cope, and I would know because I used to say this myself! I used to say this to cope with the fact that my orgasms, and female orgasms in general, are not valued in hetero relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:20 AM
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Don’t be embarrassed - you survived. You did what you could at that time, and you are the person you are today because of it. You’re so strong and things only get better from here on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 03:05 AM
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Exactly! Older women are the largest growing homeless population in my country for these very reasons. Out of the workforce for years during their prime to raise children for some scrote who divorces her for a younger model when they’re near their retirement years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:48 AM
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Yep. Women’s spaces are always colonised by men. Men’s spaces aren’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:08 AM
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Yep. Young white men/teenagers are especially vulnerable to the alt right/anti-feminist pipeline
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:43 AM
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You can find PDF of some of her books online!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:53 PM
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Make sure you join the FDS discord! It takes awhile to get in and everyone is vetted, but it’s great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:35 PM
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Men don’t even consider unattractive women to be human!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:48 AM
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I would be so offended! Fuck those fake ass friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:43 AM
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This!! So many men wonder why their wives no longer want to have sex with them... when they act like a man-child. No women finds that attractive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:11 AM
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I follow a lot of a van life people and apparently having a toilet in the van which you use for both number 1 and 2 makes the van smell all the time too 🤢 I love the idea of van life but the bathroom situation is a hard no for me hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:45 PM
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Same girl. The guys at my high school literally shared child porn of other girls with each other in huge group chats and shared photo albums. It was like a game to them to manipulate girls into sending photos just so they could all look at them. And the way they talked about and treated girls was just so cruel....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:48 AM
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Same! I finally downloaded TikTok and I see FDS rhetoric everywhere, it’s crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:53 AM
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Legit..... WHY DID I PUT UP WITH THIS SHIT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:38 AM
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You’re in the right place. You will level up and become the best version of yourself ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:59 PM
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Similarly here, Saying it out loud makes me feel like an idiot, but the fact this is so common says a lot about inequality in the bedroom. Here’s to our future orgasms with HVM sis 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:50 PM
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Same. I have never cum with a man before.. I always thought, ‘I can live with this’. But after finding this sub and reading other women’s stories of their HVM it gives me hope. I’m not dating right now but I will never put up with any men who does not make me cum in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:43 PM
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My friend found others through various single mum by choice groups, try looking at some on Facebook as that can be more region specific. I’m glad you found a subreddit for it too. I wish you luck in your journey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:18 AM
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Good for you! My best friend went this route and used the sperm from a man in a couple she is friends with. Her daughter is 3 now and she’s so happy with her decision!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:07 AM
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THIS! This is so on the money, thanks for posting it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:29 AM
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“That being said, this "researcher" fails to acknowledge the vastly different goals and strategies between the manosphere and FDS. Manosphere "self help" is about strategizing how to dominate, control, exploit, emotionally manipulate, rape, and even murder women. In contrast, FDS self help is about women who want to avoid being dominated, controlled, exploited, emotionally manipulated, raped, and murdered. These goals are NOT of equal moral weight.” THIS! It is so disingenuous to attempt to comp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:11 AM
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Same 😅 so please, keep bashing us so that more women wander over to see what this ‘terrible’ group is all about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:02 AM
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As FDS gets more popular, new women join, a lot of whom likely aren’t even feminist. Hopefully they will learn though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:33 AM
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I’m sorry for your experience too <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:35 AM
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I was r*ped and it went to court. They subpoenaed all my medical records (mental health) - went through every page of notes from all therapists and doctors I had seen to find anything to use against me, to paint me as unreliable or a liar. When it comes to convicting rapists, it’s extremely hard to get a guilty verdict. These crimes are often committed in private - most of the time it’s down to your word against his, which is why they will try to discredit you through any means necessary. Physic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:13 AM
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Just wanted to add: being logical is not a masculine trait and it’s time we stop seeing it as one! Many women I know are very logical and successful in all aspects of their life and they are still feminine women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:50 AM
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Oh god, and there are FDS Trump supporters too 😬. Anyone who supports that man is an embarrassment, but you’d think FDS women would know better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:47 AM
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Thank you! I much prefer reading text posts here from all the insightful ladies here ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:26 AM
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And don’t fake orgasms for men! I’m sure all of us here know not to do this, but unfortunately this is so common due to our socialisation and this has led to men having huge egos yet being terrible at sex. If he doesn’t make an effort and doesn’t give you an orgasm, boy BYE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:15 AM
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I really enjoyed it aside from that, however they ruined it anyway. I’d love some fantasy recommendations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 09:38 AM
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I hate how many r*pe scenes were in GOT. There is NO need for it. I don’t care if it’s ‘realistic’ and anyway it’s a FANTASY world. They do it because they know men want to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:57 AM
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I’m so sorry that happened to you. He raped you. He got off on hurting you. The text he sent was that extra slice of the knife. What a horrible predator. I hope you are able to heal from that experience...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:26 AM
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Girl, same. Never again! If they can’t make me cum with their tongue or fingers the first time we have sex months into seeing one another.... BOY BYE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:07 AM
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Reminder to the ladies here: a man has to PROVE he’s a HVM. No, the guy you just matched with on Tinder is not a HVM. They are ALL LVM until PROVEN otherwise!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:55 AM
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Mine broke up with me right before I went to trial as a witness in my rape case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 11:09 PM
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Who is it, Sarah Vargas?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:00 PM
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Never ever listen to men for dating advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:25 PM
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This is the psychology of so called ‘family annihilators’ who end up murdering their wife and children. See: Christopher Watts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:36 AM
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Uh I would say that makes him a bad person. And that age gap 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:18 AM
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Same 😅 I cringe at what I used to put up with - one guy was notoriously late, like HOURS late, to every ‘date’. Never ever again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:39 AM
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Thanks, I appreciate it! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:49 PM
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Thanks so much for this answer! I’ve saved it. From the looks of it, I have actually already started thinking in this way in a lot of areas, and I think it’s really something I could get more into. Especially as I have anxiety and I find it really hard to be outside around people for example, it’s partly a safety thing but it is also, idk, not wanting to be ‘seen’ by others... I think trying to practice this way of thinking could possibly help with that. Thanks again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:31 PM
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When I was growing up in my teens and very early 20s (24 now), I really sabotaged myself in every way because of mental illness and substance abuse. I still have scars from that, I mean literally, all down my arms. But I have realised that things do get better, and it’s no use to just give up. We’re here, might as well make the most of it. There is no mistake that can’t be learnt from and grown from, TRUST me, because I have made many!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:51 PM
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I’ve been interested in stoicism, do you have any readings or anything like that which you found interesting about it? How did you get into it? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:48 PM
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I think phrasing it exactly how you did here is good and clear. I’m happy you are working on this with your therapist ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:58 PM
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Poor girl. In my country, we had a woman who left her abusive husband. They had 3 kids. She was driving with the kids one day and he ambushed her, doused them with petrol/gas, then lit them on fire. The woman and her kids died. Fuck abusive men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:18 PM
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My NV ex had a queen size bed that was thicker than normal with a bottom sheet (1) that didn’t fit it so it would constantly ride up 😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:38 AM
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Things are falling apart in America. The world is watching. I feel horrible for you guys and I hope you can get Trump out come November.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:13 AM
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What is a P shaped girl? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:31 PM
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Yes Queen I’m happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:30 PM
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Facts 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:23 PM
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Yesss 👏👏 Ugh I hope things like this dont blindside me one day. I’d like to think there would be signs beforehand that they are a LVM but it scares me that one day, your husband could just pull this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:13 PM
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Yes exactly this! That’s why they rely on their girlfriends so much bc their friendships are so shallow. Then they get depressed when they no longer have their emotional support gf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:29 PM
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Seriously, whenever I see men going ‘ahhh we’re not able to show emotions/people don’t take men’s abuse seriously/etc’ it’s like.... who is it that is perpetuating those attitudes? Other men! Always! UGH and when they say ‘no one compliments men’ it’s like... women compliment women.,. So maybe the solution is for men to take these issues into their own hands to try change things!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:27 PM
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Love this type of content!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:25 PM
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Omg HAHA that is so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:44 PM
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For real, my ex used this ‘men are visual’ excuse as to why he watched porn 🙄🙄 I think it’s simply an excuse for bad LVM behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:58 AM
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What’d he say after your last message? The screenshot must’ve killed him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:40 PM
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Same with women. Legit idk what it is about poly people but they are ugly af....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:25 PM
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I remember reading something on TRP/some pick up site, which was explaining ‘soft no’s’, which essentially meant, if she says no to sex in a ‘soft’ way, as in quietly, or turns away, pushes your hands away, then she actually means yes. And so you keep trying until she gives up. Only stop if there is a ‘hard no’ which was more forceful, though I can’t remember the exact terminology. It was so fucked up reading that, because I know a lot of women can find it hard to very forcefully say no. So it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:35 PM
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Ugh yes I have witnessed this too, they had a group chat or something where they all shared girls’ nude photos. And it has happened to me in the past too, when I was ‘cool girl’, I imagine some guys still have my underage photos too. It’s disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:17 AM
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Yeah and it’s about what is important to your partner. If your partner wants an expensive, classy ring... then you get that ring because it’s obviously important to them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:05 AM
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Wow! Your voice is so beautiful. Please keep on singing ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:24 PM
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Literally every single time I’ve acted against my intuition, some bad shit happens. Our subconscious picks up on a lot and it’s always wise to listen to your gut feelings, especially as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:57 PM
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This is probably the thing that most annoys me, like how can someone just have NO perspective, no empathy for others? I feel like most people are like this. They don’t even see that people have different life experiences than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:39 AM
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The best anti aging is looking after your skin now, sun screen is so important! Even though I have barely left the house this year..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:35 AM
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It’s legit annoying that so many people seem to think this sub is us just trying to marry a rich man... like no, I want someone on MY level!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:33 AM
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One of my professors who used to work in Child protection would always make a point of saying, you cannot care for others if you’re not caring for yourself! It’s so true and self care is extremely important to avoid burn out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:54 AM
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I was accepted on the website but I’m still waiting for discord, I haven’t posted enough here apparently :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:30 AM
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Ugh yeah I commented in another sub to correct people who were saying this sub is basically incel, TRP, TERF, racist etc etc. Must be some angry males who think women joking about men and calling them scrotes is the EXACT same at sexism and misogyny. 🙄 Like, why lie and spread misinformation and lies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:10 AM
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I am SO glad this space is women only. It is exceedingly rare to have that online these days. THANK YOU mods 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:11 AM
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You deserve better! We all do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:00 PM
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Same :( I have literally NEVER cum with a male partner... why did I put up with it for so long and continue sleeping with guys?!? Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:59 AM
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Same, and I want to protect my assets. I think a pre nup is good for that, and AFAIK there are clauses so you can have the pre nup set for a certain amount of years, and if you divorce before that time, your assets will remain yours so they don’t get half of everything you already owned prior to the marriage. Hope that makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:03 AM
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EXACTLY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:34 PM
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Legit!! ‘What do you mean enthusiastic consent?! How am I meant to know?!?’ Fuckin rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:32 AM
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They’re so hypocritical as well. They want attractive women yet they get so ANGRY when women have preferences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:29 AM
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And listening to your partner!! So many men are completely dismissive to our wants and needs, then wonder why their partner no longer wants to have sex anymore. R/deadbedroom in a nutshell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:24 AM
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Spot on observations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:29 PM
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Messaged on Twitter! Great job mods 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:23 AM
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Girl leave your husband!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:09 AM
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That is horrific, I’m sorry you experienced that! Are gangs prevalent in the UK? I have never heard of rape gangs, although I live in Australia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:27 PM
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