honeysherbert Archive

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2	How do you feel comfortable being intimate and getting naked with men when you are over 30? Or when you are post-wall? Hey, while there is plenty of truth to TRP, men aren't all a bunch of NPC's with pre-programmed preferences and values. Men are human people. While we shouldn't ignore that age and beauty are important, they're not scanning you like the terminator, registering "above 25" and yeeting out of there. I was literally so dumb and insane when I was 23. Don't let TRP make you dumb and insane and instead use this sub to your advantage at such a young age. You probably see attractive women around all the …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/24 02:07 AM
3	Partner doesn’t compliment my appearance? That is cute! LOL yes it could be a bit awkward, I think the key is to lay it on thick so it's obvious you're being silly haha. It may not work for everyone 😂 Have you looked into Fascinating Womanhood and their explanation of girlishness? There's a good breakdown of the chapter on it in the books section of this sub's wiki. They also have a YouTube channel with in depth videos on it. Might be of interest! I've totally been there at certain points with my husband where I kind of feel like he has…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 08:10 AM
20	Partner doesn’t compliment my appearance? Some guys think and observe and make note of things without ever vocalising them, but it is disheartening to never get any compliments at all from him... Do his actions in other areas of the relationship communicate his attraction to you? Eg. The binoculars thing (cute). Have you tried being playful/girlish about it? Like, sometimes I compliment fish from my husband by acting silly and exaggerated, twirling, shaking my hair out, just being corny to make it obvious I want him to notice something.…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/24 04:59 AM
10	Struggling to be a good wife while trying to be a good mum? It might help to remember that prioritising your bond with your husband is beneficial to your daughter? She needs to see you guys model a loving relationship for her own development and her own future relationships. Seeing her parents happy and healthy together is more beneficial to her than almost anything else you could do for her.	/r/RedPillWives	31/01/24 10:36 AM
1	What changes have you seen in your man since RP? So true, hopefully you'll have an easy time, but if you do have issues make sure you don't put off seeing a specialist. It can happen so quickly once you bite the bullet and start treatment! It did for me but only after I took way too long to accept that I had to get help. Best of luck 💕	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/24 08:00 AM
1	What changes have you seen in your man since RP? Best of luck! and sending pregnant princess vibes your way!! 😆 hope you have a lovely ttc journey ❤	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/24 12:48 AM
4	What changes have you seen in your man since RP? He is soooo attentive to my needs and definitely more affectionate. Actually, when I had my baby I was a little sad I wasn't getting the pregnant princess treatment anymore LOL, but since actively incorporating RPW principles I feel like that level of care and affection is slowly becoming the norm for him now. I was just working hard on my own behaviour and one day I thought "wait was he always like this?"	/r/RedPillWomen	07/01/24 10:06 PM
3	I am back. Everything I learned. Congrats :) love the reminder about grace, I feel so wildly out of control when I'm reacting impulsively and emotionally to everything, which is absolutely my natural state lol. Such a game changer and really important for raising children too.	/r/RedPillWives	19/11/23 01:32 AM
2	How do you handle the pain? I don't think every relationship will be the same, this guy sounds particularly uncaring about your discomfort. The "say yes" advice is also about making him feel loved and desired, spreading your legs and enduring him is probably worse than saying no to a lot of men. How would you rate your physical health? Hormonal cycle? It might be hard to face, but libido is truly a health marker. Even if it has always been low, lifestyle changes can work wonders. I really hope you figure this out OP!	/r/RedPillWomen	16/11/23 10:45 PM
1	How do you handle the pain? Saying yes even when you hate it and it hurts you isn't "being a good girlfriend" and you know it. Are you reading the comments? Everyone is trying to tell you that this frequency of pain and not being able to get aroused often is not common and you may have a solvable problem here, but you won't believe anyone. Be it hormonal, physical, or some mental block, I'm sure you can get some help. If you get to the bottom of it you won't need to worry so much about your next relationship breaking down …	/r/RedPillWomen	16/11/23 08:41 AM
2	I desparately want a baby but husband isn't ready I know its so hard but you really don't want to push him into it. You want your husband to be all in and excited when the time comes. TTC and pregnancy are so hard but it's just a bit easier with a supportive and excited man by your side, and it sounds like he isn't there yet. I understand the pain of waiting as I had fertility issues and it took about 3 years for us, and we started trying fairly young. It was an awful wait but I'm so glad I had that extra time to mature and really sort myself o…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/23 11:01 PM
1	How can I change my personality to be more feminine? Not mac's mom, my god 😭 I'd just add that It's likely the people around you will notice any changes you make towards femininity, but getting comments about it just means you're going in the right direction.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/23 11:11 AM
15	Stressed out stay at home mom needing marriage advice Hey, I'm sorry you're going through this at the moment. I just have one baby so I definitely can't speak on the chaos of two right now, but I was struggling with my husband kind of escaping us after work rather than helping me for a while. Some things that might help bridge the gap for you: Focus on filling your own cup every day so that you aren't pouring from an empty one. Yeah, easier said than done when you literally have no time or personal space. Don't feel selfish about dropping a house d…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/10/23 01:31 AM
2	Grocery shopping nightmare This sounds frustrating but its all really erring on the side of badmouthing your boyfriend, "he'll screw it up" "I want him to be a man" "zapping the joy out of it" etc. It might be helpful for you to stop allowing yourself to speak about him in this way, as a first step towards solving this. It sounds like you're frustrated to see yourself doing/controlling everything but at the same time can't see why he isn't stepping up. Well, could you be in his way? You can't expect a man to step up take …	/r/RedPillWomen	17/10/23 03:47 AM
3	I (18f) am confused on how to do my food shop / meal planning whatever... Posted here because I just want some kind woman to guide me. 😊 Honestly just follow recipes until you can confidently get the flavours to your liking, you don't have to start from scratch. Pick ones from popular blogs with lots of good reviews! I started gathering all my staple ingredients together by picking up whatever I needed for a recipe that week, and one day I just had a stocked pantry and knew what needed replacing that week etc. Just take it one step at a time! After a few months of following recipes you'll figure out how to tweak flavours to your …	/r/RedPillWives	13/10/23 08:03 AM