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Slow and intentional. I never wanted to seem rushed or talk fast. Slow and intentional allowed me to be careful with my words and have someone cling on every word.. I think a good example (although I didn’t reference him) is Harry Styles. Go watch his recent interviews
/r/seduction11/01/22 11:52 AM
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I let go of the relationship once I realized I was with her only because she was physically attractive and we didn’t have any connection… I cared about her enough to end it. I knew she deserves to be with someone who actually connected and cared for her
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:36 AM
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It worked out cause I was slightly popular on social media as well. Times were different on ig though. You’ve got influencers everywhere now
/r/seduction11/01/22 12:29 AM
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Yikes.
/r/seduction10/01/22 09:58 PM
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The latter
/r/seduction10/01/22 08:22 PM
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Watch films or shows that have the dialect or accent or language, and study that. Practice. You’ll be all right
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:19 PM
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Oops sorry. I use TK as like a blank. It’s an editing thing… not tokyo
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:39 PM
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Of course I do. I have them all on Instagram. I chat with them occasionally and see them whenever I fly back out
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:15 PM
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I think reading a lot of books and watching films helped me become a better thinker and conversationalist. And practice, practice, practice. I remember when I was younger, a goal of mine was to never talk about mundane shit like work or school. The conversation always had to be more than that. Short and sweet bio with aesthetic photos on Tinder. Prompts matter more on Hinge and of course I included a voice note response lol
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:09 PM
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Focus on improving yourself as an individual— take on more responsibility, straighten up your act, take care of your appearance and style, and learn how to communicate effectively. What do girls in Paris find attractive in men?
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:06 PM
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I appreciate you and your thoughts, man. Thank you. Seriously
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:04 PM
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Thank you for the comment. I need a therapist. I should look into one for this year.
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:03 PM
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Sex isn't my goal. I like connection. I like good conversation. I treat every person I'm with like they're the only one that matters. I don't get resentful if I don't bed her. But it just so happens that the sex comes...
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:00 PM
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Always try new things. Always. I tried everything and anything until I found what worked for me. Wash>Toner>Serum>Lotion Physiogel face cream and Anadalou products for toner/serum is what I use
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:58 PM
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I just left a comment elsewhere about time and effort. I move quick. I match a girl on Tinder? I'm asking her if she's free tomorrow or this weekend. People suck at texting and keeping up with communication. Just talk to her during dinner. The longer you take, the more likely she'll lose interest. In New York, there's a lot of damn attractive women. In Boston? It just aint the same... but I definitely wouldn't smash someone I wasn't attracted to. She's gotta be cute at least.
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:47 PM
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Please. H&M is fucking gross. Just buy your basics at Uniqlo and buy some nice things off Grailed.com
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:44 PM
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For sure, you hit it right on the nose. But I also included screenshots because if I didn't, you'd probably be the guy saying I'm cappin and trollin ahaha. You can't win!
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:43 PM
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I'd say general lack of attraction. We all have our preferences. I've been with like 2 black girls before. Funnily enough, black girls on Hinge match me like crazy.
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:42 PM
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I said I happened to stumble upon this sub. First time here. Never read it before<3
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:41 PM
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Have you seen the movie? I love Kiko Mizuhara.. she's a babe
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:41 PM
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Go look above the comments. I dropped a voice note
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:40 PM
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90-95% of women I met is probably online dating. And the women I met in real life were either at my fulltime job or when I worked at the restaurant part time.
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:39 PM
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I just run. I'm slim. I take care of my skin with a goddamn routine every morning and night. Take care of your skin bruv
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:38 PM
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Tokyo, Hong Kong, Korea, Paris, London, Spain, Portugal, Ireland, Iceland, Switzerland, New Zealand, Brazil, Canada... still so many more places to see. I'd say the places where I met the most women are: London, Spain, and Canada
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:37 PM
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On tinder? Short and sweet. Nice photos. "Born in TK, lived in TK and TK. Always elsewhere." On hinge? Nice photos, but the prompts matter. Girls typically match me on the prompt where I include my bucket list, the things I need to do before I die.
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:36 PM
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When I was much younger, I'd ghost women and I definitely hurt feelings. A handful of women became resentful, and would even spread rumors. I was young and dumb and naive. I'm older now so I'm all about open communication. The women I meet understand my personality and so they don't take it to heart if I move on. Besides, have you seen the texts I send to girls in the screenshots? I make sure I care. You have to be nice. And I always leave the door open... I don't have the mental capacity to cha…
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:33 PM
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Yes, actually. I think I used to be very intentional with the way I talked until it became natural to me. My voice is probably the number one compliment I'd get from women. And whenever I met someone off a dating app, I'd move her to Instagram or iMessage, and near the beginning of our conversation I'd even send a quick voice note because it was easier for me to converse.
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:29 PM
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iPhone notes. Also I said close to 200... that's nothing to keep track of
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:10 PM
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I’m about to go to bed, but I recorded a quick voice note to answer your question… here ya go
/r/seduction10/01/22 04:51 AM
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Hey man. Looking through your posts, I can see why you’d comment something like this. Sending you blessings bruv. Go read 12 Rules for Life
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:46 AM
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I work 9-5 and I have the night for dinners, as well as the weekend. I run on nights when I’m free Also… we make time for the tings we want 🌹
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:23 AM
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All on tinder/hinge. For a while I was working part time as a hot at a dope restaurant just to socialize, and I was able to meet a lot of women there. I will say that New York is the better place for dating and talking to women
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:21 AM
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I need to pull out of the matrix
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:26 AM
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Shop at Uniqlo bruv
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:19 AM
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My style inspirations are Harry Styles and Kim Taehyung (V from BTS), but more so of their "classic" British style— not the flashy shit. Loose pants, long coats, blank tees, etc.
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:04 AM
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I appreciate the comment. It's awfully hard to come across someone I'd like to spend intimate time with, to be quite frank. I also see how easy it is for others to settle down quickly with whomever they come across and find even slightly attractive. I think the fear of being alone and perhaps not finding your "next lunch" gets to a lot of people.
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:37 AM
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I've heard it all... A while back, I actually picked up a part-time job as a Host at a restaurant because I was tired of the corporate office. And girls would hit on me all the time. Here's some proof lmao: https://imgur.com/a/kbsQqD8 The one thing girls would mention was that they were intrigued by the way I carried myself and talked.... also wanting to know my skincare routine ahaha. Commanding presence in the room and gracefully carrying yourself wherever you are. It's something. Also knowing…
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:34 AM
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It's hard being an introvert in New York. I was constantly exposed to interactions and it was convenient as hell to meet up with someone. It's like exposure therapy— you've just got to always put yourself in situations to overcome the thing you fear. As for height? I went out with a lot of taller girls... so I kind of said to myself, taller girls like you so it's all good. You can't be insecure about it. They'll be able to sense it. Confidence goes a long way. On Tinder I don't put my height, so…
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:28 AM
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When I was in New York, I mainly got together with a lot of Asians (Korean and Chinese Americans). When I moved back to Boston, it's been mainly White and Latina girls. And of course, when I travel to other countries it's whoever is there haha. My style? I'd say my style is quite New York, if that makes sense...
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:23 AM
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I'd love to share what's helped me. But more specific questions would be more useful!
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:20 AM
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I appreciate you and your comment 🌹
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:46 PM
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I reckon it’s strange times for dating in general… just know you aren’t alone
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:38 PM
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I agree with you. I feel like I’m doing the same, just haven’t come across anyone slightly promising. I feel like the crowd where I live isn’t all that great. I miss New York sometimes because of the diversity
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:16 PM
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