honut1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits... Is this real??? It can’t be real....and yet I fear it is...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/20 11:26 PM
1	Know yourself This is really accurate. I’m not sure how to scan for avoidant attachment because you can’t just straight up ask someone if they are an avoidant. They probably have no idea, or would never say so. The next man I meet, I will be taking notes and checking in with my therapist often. I only want a healthy connection or none at all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/20 10:08 PM
2	Don't date men who are mentally ill Just getting out of a very similar situation and now feel like a weight (200lbs) has been lifted off me. You stated better than I can. I can take responsibility for my actions and work very hard on self improvement but he just blamed me for all his shortcomings and made me feel clingy and needy for wanting to have a connection beyond watching tv on the couch once a week together. So happy it’s over and I can continue to work on myself. The wrong relationship really will deteriorate your mental h…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/20 11:36 PM