hooksarchives9303 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	How to stand up for yourself in the moment?	SEEKING ADVICE	hooksarchives9303	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/20 05:56 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	What are your thoughts on Cardi B & Meg thee Stallion’s WAP? “Watch out for your man, he buys me fancy things and I let him hit it” “I can switch it up real quick, don’t get comfortable” ... proceeds to get cheated on and only says, “don’t do it again”. Lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 02:13 PM
1	Confused: a man who made me feel so loved and cherished, but then also made me feel very betrayed. Amazing qualities+ adorable moments but still a lot of disappointment No one who cares about you would ever put themselves in a position that could lose you. If you wouldn’t treat someone that way, why are you allowing them to treat you that way?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 11:34 AM
2	What’s something that you did with good intention, too early for a man, and now look back in it with so much regret? I bought a man (10 years older than me) nearly all his weed, and when the person tried handing back cash change HE PUT HIS HAND OUT FOR IT and wouldn’t put it down even when I had my hand out. That poor cashier lol, I didn’t put my hand down either.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 11:00 AM
5	Boyfriend of three years still refuses to give me his passcode to his phone. Is this a red flag? My boyfriend and I have shared our passcodes, and we just don’t check each other’s phones. We leave them unlocked around each other too, nothing to hide. If he’s hiding it, that makes me curious.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 10:23 AM
9	Am I pursuing him? How do I proceed? It’s weird that you took the middle school “telling your crush you like him through a friend” route rather than talking to him yourself. I personally wouldn’t put more into it until he emotionally/communicatively gets off his ass.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 10:12 AM
7	Get the cat, ditch the bf That scared me a bit too, but I talked to my gyno about it and she reassured me really well. I trust her, and I’m glad I did it. If what you’re doing works for you, then that’s great! No need to change it up for shits and gigs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 10:24 PM
9	Get the cat, ditch the bf I used to take the pill, but then I got into an abusive marriage where we could afford their $80/wk voice lessons but not grocery money, or a coffee once a week for me, or a little thing of eyeliner, or a new book. Then I decided to switch to an IUD, so I’d be safe for ~5 years. That marriage ended (thank god) and I’m happy with my choice. Getting it put in was painful but my period is way lighter and shorter now and I don’t have to think about BC or taking a pill everyday. It worked for me, I j…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 09:08 PM
1	How do I close the date with the kiss? My boyfriend was too nervous to kiss me on our first date, but he kissed me on our second, and now we’ve been together for about 6 months. Sometimes waiting makes you want it more.	/r/seduction	12/05/20 05:37 PM
7	Once you're together how are you supposed to escalate sex every time? My partner and I usually hang out with friends/roommates so our only alone time is going to bed or waking up. We take our opportunities where we can, lol and we’ll make a coffee run and I give him road head. Or when we watch movies I know he likes when I kiss his earlobe and it escalates from there.	/r/seduction	05/05/20 07:14 AM
7	Men remain in possession of the absolute audacity My ex boyfriend texted me a similar thing, this coming from a man who cheated on me and wouldn’t let me out of his car when I was breaking up with him. Hard pass.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/20 06:11 PM
16	Find a man who gets off on your pleasure, not your pain. The guy I’m with rn is the first one to always eat me out before sex, every time, and he loves it. This is the most satisfied I’ve ever been. 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/20 07:48 AM
1	How to stand up for yourself in the moment? Thank you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/20 09:43 PM
4	How to stand up for yourself in the moment? Thank you 💖	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/20 04:42 PM
3	How to stand up for yourself in the moment? Yes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/20 04:31 PM
10	How to stand up for yourself in the moment? He is, he implied that I couldn’t handle reading a book he recommended, he embarrassed me in front of my friends, and he talks like his taste in music and movies and books are way better than mine. TO THE POINT of him making me so uncomfortable over me not liking a book he loves, that during a dinner out with his friends he tried to publicly shame me about it and actually, seriously had a problem with me. I considered just getting a lyft home because he made it so uncomfortable. I’m just working…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/20 07:06 AM
5	How to stand up for yourself in the moment? I think it’s harder for me because he’s much kinder than any other partner I’ve had and yet this keeps happening. I’m working on not caring if it gets uncomfortable, it’s not me, it’s his comments that ruined the social mood. Your words gave me something to think about, thank you for commenting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/20 07:00 AM