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| 2 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotBest advice is literally to just get out of the house and fail. fail at approaching and talking to girls for a few weeks or months getting blown out and rejected. No really. You need to just start talking to girls. When you see a pretty girl, go talk to her. I'm not trying to be negative, but anyone should expect >90% "rejection"/blow outs at first. Meaning you won't get a date OR a number. finding your sea legs is the main goal here - getting used to putting your self out there and finding your… | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 06:19 PM |
| 4 | How to create sexual tension?lol you're reading way too far into it, im simply advocating to not be constantly affirming nice guy which is the op's problem. in order to get out of that habit which is a strong one its best to try out a few things that will help you have more fun with each other, lol | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 05:58 AM |
| 2 | How to create sexual tension?there's no need for the content of your speech to be explicitly or even remotely sexual at first. insinuendos are classier, more poetic, sexier and more effective at building a little something called tension. i'd give examples but at that point i'd have to start charging $900/hr | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 05:51 AM |
| 4 | How to create sexual tension?i think the op is looking for something a little more specific than just "try to see if there is a physical vibe that will lead to sex" followed by how to touch a girl in various settings. she's usually not going to touch you or laugh and smile at everything you say if you're boring af and the vibe hasn't even been built up or established yet. Tension occurs through inspiring uncertainty, doubt, challenging, or other forms of friction that keep her engaged and somewhat on guard; not through cons… | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 05:38 AM |
| 8 | How to create sexual tension?nodding actually initiates the copious leaking of a faint but grotesque smelling anti-mating pheromone from your forehead region which after significant accumulation levels are achieved in the immediate area lead her to desperately seek the closest exit. for why no nodding: basically the same reasons for why over smiling or over affirming aren't going to help you or her | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 04:55 PM |
| 8 | How to create sexual tension?smile with your eyes yes but even that can be overdone. over smiling is a thing, at least in how i'm picturing it. sure it's nice to smile, but not to everything the other person says or does. smile back at what genuinely enchants you: when you can't help it - almost like a cry. Or to finally release that tension. don't just give them out willy nilly. that will cheapen your smile's worth and your face will hurt and get muscle spasms. in the context of dating and sex appeal, smiles are given out … | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 04:27 PM |
| 145 | How to create sexual tension?I've always had the same problem, here's what helped me. Just start doing these and see how they feel (at first they will feel very unnatural and awkward because your gauge for healthy natural tension is way off right now): Never nod your head to her speech. Ever Respond after a few beats of blank->curious stare. with more silence in between than youre used to. it will create tension. Don't over compliment (especially about her looks) or agree with everything she says. in general get comfortable… | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 01:31 PM |
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