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Gaza tends to come up pretty quickly. That aside you said 'any of the women I have dated or slept with' I can understand like if you said 'in the first few weeks' after that, but you didn't. Or did you just mean to say to quality that for only the early stages?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:19 AM
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This sounds crazy to me... Do you even talk to the women you date lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:55 AM
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This isn't a man thing both genders want this.. This is just what modern western expectations are.. My manager is a female director that makes 200k+/yr.. Her husband makes just as much if not more and could financially support the family if she quit, but why give up that income to stay at home? Even if you're at a median income breaking even on daycare, most people understand that daycare is a short term investment so that you can maintain your career.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:04 AM
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Are you this gullible about everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:39 AM
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Why you think you would be into nerdy east/south asian men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:19 AM
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Society doesn't call it lookmaxxing.. Incels do, it's their term lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:54 AM
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Fighting ghosts.. When people think 'looksmaxxing' as a negative they're thinking absurd things like mewing, bonesmashing, leg extensions, etc.. Working out, taking care of your skin/hair, dressing better is just taking care of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:26 AM
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Are you being silly? Men initiate and drive the initial relationship most of time. How many men have you asked out or planned dates for? As a man you can't be a passive actor and expect women to just do something, if you want to date as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:58 AM
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I'm skeptical, but regardless she is going around making massive public announcements about it inviting comments..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:52 AM
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Virgin men aren't overthrowing governments be fucking real..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:52 AM
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Women are passive and more reactive when it comes to relationships/romance, not strange at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:23 PM
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Women are even outcompeting men in white collar fields thanks to better college attendance. That's because the scale is heavily tilted in their favor. Men don't get gender based scholarships, when a major is majority men there are huge subsidies to push women into them. When a major is majority women, the answer is that men are defective that's why they're less of them there. Major post grad programs are strictly 50% minimum, men at the higher ends outperform women on standardized tests, GMAT, M…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:56 AM
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Yeah most people are pretty transparent about wanting kids or not. It's a pretty common dealbreaker that if you're not aligned on wanting kids the relationship is over. Which is why it's an early dating question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:05 AM
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Are you misinterpreting what they're saying? Yeah a lot people would consider a relationship less serious until kids are involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:53 AM
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The vast majority of 'bi women' somehow always end up dating men in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:53 AM
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Married women with families do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:52 AM
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Only if they don't have a real career. Because then you know someone else is paying for it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:59 AM
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Yeah everyone knows this.. Which is why I emphasize to men be more proactive and don't expect equality in the realm of dating. Men at least have a chance of being taught to be more forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:51 AM
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A people who were oppressed for 2000 years and finally got thier homeland back 7 decades ago are being shit on for fighting for thier survival. Brother I hope you don't live in America..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:35 AM
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And as usual, I’m left wondering how we survived for this long as a species when the ritual of seduction look similar to trying to juggle with powered chainsaws while reciting the alphabet backwards. Well fucking up in the past didn't mean you risked social ostracization or losing your livelihood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:31 PM
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No you're overthinking it, women just hate being active decision makers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:29 PM
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It's not left leaning men trying to take womens rights away because they're undateable losers Yeah it's mostly married men and married women who vote most conservatively..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:20 AM
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Because it's not a realistic proposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:39 PM
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Women who somehow always end up in exclusively straight relationships will identify as 'bi'. I know at least 5 women that identify as bi that have dated exclusively men their whole lives. I think there is a funny stat out there that young lesbian/bi identifying women are more likely to get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:23 AM
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Unless you count initiating on IG or dating apps IG is counts, but if they actually do something beyond follow you and like a few random stories lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:41 AM
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its so blatantly ignorant of the reality of womens agency Most women give this up in the dating space. High agency women are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:38 AM
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? Insurance is just spreading the risk around. i.e. I personally cannot deal with the 1% risk of losing a $1M home by 'self-insuring' by saving money down monthly. But if I pool together my money with a bunch of people and we all contribute to a shared pool, we no longer need to worry about such a large loss wiping us out, as long as the risk is properly identified.. Things like car insurance are mandatory because a driver can literally caused hundreds of thousands of dollars in damages easily, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:41 AM
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Proximity and conversation mean there already has been an approach. Eh not enough, because they're still trying to gauge if the other person would be okay with escalating. Guys will start up conversations with a woman and then look for signals to see if she's actually down for a date. Until someone actually escalates to asking for a date it's not really an approach. There is no risk in going up and chatting to a stranger for a bit. If guys say 'hey' and she responds coldly or plainly then they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:49 PM
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I don't go to gay bars but I do go to events with a lot of queer people at them (EDM scene). Gay guys have always been nice. Back when I was a noob I thought they were asking for my instagram as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:41 PM
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I’ve heard women explain why they don’t do it and honestly, the amount of mental gymnastics and odd reasoning I’ve heard makes me just accept it as an innate thing. That aside.. And she was being genuine. So- what are the signals a guy that wants women to approach them doing? The same kind of thing women would do where men have to navigate if she has any romantic interest. Eye contact, proximity, conversation, etc.. That aside you could also approach based on what you want and not wait on any si…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:34 PM
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I mean.. in a childless relationship sure maybe.. But if your expectation is to date the future mother of your children you have to do that stuff and more. Pregnancy and giving birth aren't some walk in the park, intelligent women demand a high premium for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:06 AM
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If you hang out around the kind of guys who get liad a lot and if they feel comfortable treating you like a bro you will experience a level of chauvinism that blows gamer/weeb culture out of the water. I don't think it's that ridiculous. The men I know that are most successful in the dating/relationship sphere don't mince words about gender equality being a farce. No that doesn't mean treat women like they're subhumans, but certainly don't expect them to act like men. There is a level of higher …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:02 AM
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Lmao you live in a really interesting part of the country. These guys are the biggest leftists generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:59 AM
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Women that will take a passive role in their dating lives will lead to some version of this. Because at best they're just saying no until the right guy shows up instead of actively doing some vetting on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:04 PM
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Most notorious victim I can think of is Mckenzie Bezos, poor lady went for a short ugly broke dude and the SECOND he had access to women he actually wanted, she got cheated on Really? That's your 'notorious victim'? Jeff Bezos was never a guy with zero options, he was a well spoken high earning guy from an excellent school. His wife was also not some 10/10 model, she was mid, just like him. That aside Bezos isn't really a good example of a guy cheating the first opportunity he got... He cheated …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:56 AM
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Women, especially feminists are scared that men will realise the price of sex is low and are worried that men will generally disregard most of them giving up on dating and opting for hookers. That’s why they mostly try to make it illegal. How much different is life for men in countries where it is effectively legal/decriminalized? Doesn't seem that different for men dating in Canada, Germany, Australia, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:36 AM
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I know men that happily pay for their dates when all they date are plain girls.. They're just normal dudes though as well. OP is settings up expectations in their head more of what women care about than men tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:00 AM
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Hair This matters a lot for men too.. Except we have to deal with a high risk of balding Skin care regimen Everyone should have one. Botox Fillers Lipo Breast augmentation BBLs I wonder if there are more men under 25 that use TRT/some kind of gear than women under 25 that have any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:56 AM
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The only thing 'left wing' about most women are the feel good policies. But most prefer to live a traditionally male led relationship style and want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:55 AM
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Most women are clueless about average male experience and don't want to know. Yep, unless they have a lot of male friends struggling most think the average male experience on tinder/hinge/etc.. is like theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:06 PM
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Birth and marriage rates aren’t declining either too I guess. Have been declining in countries the most that literally are the best places in the world to be women. Unless Scandinavia is some hell hole for women that I was unaware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:02 PM
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Dating apps have literally always been minority women. Most women never needed dating apps to constantly be in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:06 PM
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Being a passive agent in your own life sounds terrible. Yeah and the faster young men realize the power in being active the better. Literally solves all of your problems. I don't think this gender role is going away any time soon either. Even the most progressive woman demands men take the lead and will make excuses why they won't do anything about it (see most of the replies in this thread lmao).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:42 AM
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Start lifting weights and try to keep eating the same amount you usually do. It'll increase your resting burn rate while making you look better. Eventually you'll recomp to a slightly more fit build. Yeah I get you're a small woman, but you won't actually look 'too big' or worse or whatever, as long as you're not takin the opportunity to overeat like many people do. You might find yourself stop fixating on weight then, you'll look better at a trained 120lbs than purely skinny 100lbs..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:19 AM
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The idea that gender roles ever ended was fantasy. Especially when it comes to romance, dispose of that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:08 PM
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This false equivalence is brought up almost every time this discussion pops up. Probably the most defining trait between the genders tbh and the biggest difference in how they date. Not a false equivalence at all, and men need to know they have to overcome it if they want any semblance of suscess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:43 PM
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Any man building their perceptions of women based on how less than 1% of the female population lives is a straight up moron; porn stars, sex workers, etc.. are not a significant portion of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:28 PM
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I'm in my early 30s in corporate finance for a large company, middle management. Not that impressive, just been steadily working since I graduated from college ~12 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:16 PM
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He's an awesome dude, luckily a nice asian girl in our group took note and now he's happily engaged, only girl he's been with but she's a catch so it worked out well. The problem is that he couldn't even ever get the chance to make an impression on women to show how great of a guy he is. My very attractive friends could be doing literally nothing, mumble their answers, ghost women for months and then pop back up and these ladies will still make time for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:15 PM
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If you're not flexing it how will women know? What does a guy making $175K+ look like vs a guy making $60K+ at a bar? As a guy on the edge (~$165K a year), money has never been a factor me or my friends. My shorter programmer friend making $200k+/yr couldn't even get his foot in the door of even maintaining a woman's interest. A more strategic proactive woman could probably parse this all out, but in every case I've been out vibes/looks comes first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:09 PM
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Most women are me-too bombs for men they aren't attracted to. Nah or men they were spurned by. Chris Avellone's career was ruined over a woman that was bitter he was never into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:05 PM
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In the same way 'heartbreaker' is an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:31 PM
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I think there is plenty of casual misogyny on the internet too.. The bigger issue is that casual misandry is accepted and almost encouraged in the mainstream. In pop culture, mass media, even in school/work you can get away with so much casual misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:21 PM
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Or it could be because I know how to communicate, be respectful, and treat women like the literal people they are. I'd often ask, what was it about me that got your attention, and literally 100% of the answers were you're just a normal dude that didn't just want to get in my pants. Absolutely delusional. You don't garner attention by interacting like a normal polite person, that's 99% of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:08 AM
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Maybe, but they seem to be fine complaining about their awful relationships/dates. A 'defeat' in another sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:43 AM
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I see this sentiment online magnified, but in real life I have absolutely never heard one woman complain about not getting approached, only complain about being approached. I think for women that fail at dating, they don't even know that was an option and they just purely cycle through the same 10% of men on apps. This whole complaining about not being approached seems to be online rage bait material used to get clicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:43 AM
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Like I know more than a few women who just aren't into casual sex like that, these people seem to think that every single woman lives like a Sex & The City character. Who said anything about casual sex? Women will put you in the non-sexual box even if they're not about casual sex if you treat them simply 'like anyone else'. Women who don't have casual sex still date and have interest in men, they just wait longer to have sex with someone they know a bit better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:46 PM
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every 3 days for 1.5hrs isn't bad at all.. Especially if you're very intentional about working out when you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:45 PM
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i've seen multiple posts on /r/dating with women asking why do all the men that approach them they're into aren't serious, and you go into the thread and it's exclusively guys approaching them over instagram. Seems like that's the play for young people now..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:15 AM
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Lmao, as a guy this goes for me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:05 PM
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Women who act with agency in dating generally aren't single very long for this reason. But most women can't bring themselves to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:37 AM
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Tbh I think both genders prefer to enjoy the company with their specific gender. Only when you're single does this change. Men (who aren't single) are more ambivalent about women being there, but women can often see men as a negative due to bad actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:36 AM
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People are overdramatizing the gender war bullshit. It comes down to quality of life. Education culture in Korea is needlessly overbearing and high pressure. Work culture in Korea is needlessly overbearing and high pressure. There is no respect for work-life balance. Of course people are going to elect out of having children. Taiwan has a similarly low fertility rate to Korea, people aren't blaming the gender war for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:32 AM
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Guilt by association. His audience is made up of poorly raised young men. Which of course deserve nothing but the the utmost derision.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:56 PM
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Celebrating manufactured corporate holidays are the text book definition of 'boring'
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:51 PM
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34+47 is pretty good number tbh.. They find the right partner they will have kids. Men can say 80% confidently because the worst consequences of kids they have to deal with is a little bit of money. My female friends failing at life are pretty realistic about not wanting/being able to take care of kids, my male friends that are complete fuck ups and not ready to be parents at all are super confident about definitely wanting kids one day..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:27 AM
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In summary: Gender roles aren't going away any time soon
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:14 AM
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This, it's already trivial to have a locally hosted LLM that does this on your local machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:02 AM
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The fat powerlifter will also collapse with a little bit of cardio.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:20 PM
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Man honestly, asking a guy if he's single is pretty much that, that would make even the most respectful shy guy ask a girl out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:39 AM
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Silly and irrelevant to 99% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:37 AM
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Yes. My nerdy tech bro friend worships the first girl who game him a real chance. It's honestly a little scary because she has too much power over his happiness, thankfully she seems like a good egg and was never the type to chase toxic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:53 AM
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This is ludicrous. First off "most" American men do not own guns. Sorry only 40%, but that number will go up if people smell instability. Secondly, you MASSIVELY downplay the reality of living in a patriotic country in an existential war. If it wasn't obvious that's not on the table, no one is going to attack the continental US. We weren't in Vietnam because it was an existential war. The only way we're going into war is if we start one and feel like another random country on the other side of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:50 AM
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I see videos of Ukrainians getting dragged off the street to be conscripted. I don't see that happening in America where most young men have guns and the social contract has been sufficiently broken. Unless you can sell the populace on a war. Imagine letting yourself get drafted for Israel/Ukraine. Absurd. Also most women don't care about your veteran status, these men get cheated on even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:23 PM
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My narc friend (didn't realize he was a narc before) is spiraling out of control ever since his GF finally left his abusive ass. He's a literal 10/10 but he's losing grip on reality, heavy into conspiracy shit, women let him get away with shit for long until he tried fucking with the wrong one. I'm starting to distance myself from him but now he's sending me messages like how he never realized how awesome of a friend I've always been and that he apologizes for how awful he's been, etc.. etc.. Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:49 PM
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The secret ingredient is lying and being with women who are fine seeing you a few times a month for years and calling it dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:35 AM
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Have your partner work a 9-5 job making $250k a year, contribute financially to the house, and split all chores and homemaking duties 50/50. This is a stupid idea. If you're making this much money you hire out all the chores/homemaking duties. Nearly every couple I know that makes 250k+ combined does this.. Once you start having this much money your time has so much value that you hire out all these small little things.. The most valuable thing is time you spend with your spouse and kids, everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:25 PM
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Healthy, stable, women seem to not even like sex. Maybe that's the antidepressants and other pysch meds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:35 PM
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Sound like a couple of frat boys attempting some culture that doesn't really exist. Just by looking at data men in these industry tend to have low divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:27 AM
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They do it for themselves bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:34 AM
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Level of development. But they're developing fast, birth control is easier to get, more people are educated, people have a choice. Which is why they're leveling off at ~2 fertility rates now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:03 AM
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How old are you? Bullying nerds is a bit of a bygone thing but for certain older generations it was real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:30 AM
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Brutal what, Mick Jagger is having the time of his life being high as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:28 AM
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Unless you work out and have a decent chunk of muscle. 180 at 5'7 is straight up fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:40 AM
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It really isn't redpill to say women are passive actors in dating. Even the most ardent feminist isn't going to pretend that women equally pursue and ask out men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:35 AM
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Are things changing? Yes, but the way people talk here in this form you'd think society has gone from 8/10 people dating and marrying down to 1/10 people dating and marrying. When it's probably more like 7.5/10 people are now dating and marrying instead if 8. It's a slight shift in our society that is way over blown in internet discussions. Huh... 'dating' maybe but family formation is at all time lows.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:37 AM
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but as an egalitarian, I think women should be held to the same standards as men, so they should rid themselves of these idiotic assumptions. lol come on man, we all know that's not happening any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:41 AM
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Some chubby single mom would be all over both of you in a split second. Instant adoration and genuine deep affection. Genuine deep affection? No that's reserved for the kinds of men that make single moms and abandon them. Practical use they can squeeze out of, that's OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:53 PM
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Heard is bad, most people don't have a handle on the data and are swindled by stupid headlines and memetic jokes. Japan has family formation that exceeds most developed western European countries..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:44 PM
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Why would you want that curse. One of the unhealthiest calorie dense things you can eat..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:00 AM
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Easy to sound calm when it's a bullshit rehearsed script. Ensure the 'stability' of the oil markets lmao. Saudi Arabia knows they no longer can unilaterally control the oil markets and they're fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:58 AM
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Everyone would like to do nothing for a comfortable life, that's not controversial.. But most women would rather work a job than be effectively raped for the rest of their lives. Because that exchange comes with a lot of strings in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:56 AM
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Okay man great, you've covered the .1%. How about reasonable normal well to do people?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 10:29 AM
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Start taking finasteride before it gets to that point and don't bother with all of that other bullshit he's doing unless you're really desperate. Finasteride should be the first step the second you see your hairline thinning/receding, everything else he was doing should be attempted if you want more and are desperate. I personally don't like mixodil because it's a lot easier to take a pill every day for the rest of your life rather than keep that routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:40 AM
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lmao why do you care if it looks gay to you when you're not even gay or a woman..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:52 AM
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I'm willing to bet the person you currently work for (even if it's yourself) has said dumb shit in the past as well Yeah not on my public facing social media accounts..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:29 AM
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I decided to look into this guy and found a bunch of old Facebook posts where he made racist anti-black and anti-AAPI comments Bro is a dumbass. I wouldn't professionally engage with a guy like that just because he's actually dumb enough to say this shit out loud where anyone can read/hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:29 AM
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Yea I know. 50% of people are overweight in the west Nah only in the anglosphere lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:30 AM
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Eh 25%+ of young women are on SSRIs, I'm sure if men did the same they would report more 'happiness'.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:37 PM
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I disagree. The only men who struggle are men who expect to date like women and act passively in their lives. Women of all classes adopt mostly passive dating habits and that's why it's not uncommon to see lackluster men with women. Be an active participant in your life and things change dramatically as a man. I personally struggled with this for years for a while, I will admit it was not any easy thing to get over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:24 PM
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Huh? But did he cheat to get those kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:28 AM
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8 dates in two months is once a week, how do you plan on having a relationship if you can't see someone at least once a week? Most people I know manage at least 2 a week once they figure they actually like the person and get beyond the initial talking stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:00 AM
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Bro.. the vast majority of problems women have with men have nothing to with dating..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:42 PM
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Why the hell are you even posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:29 PM
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Maybe you can't empathize. Speaking as a man who wants to have kids but doesn't have to deal with the physical burdens, if I had to go through what women had to for kids I probably wouldn't go through with it (that's without the strong hormones coursing through my male body of course).. Women aren't stupid, they have access to information about childbirth, pregnancy, etc.. affect their bodies. And hearing from men critiquing their bodies constantly isn't going to help them feel secure in underta…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:49 PM
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I think what she means is that women don’t discuss men’s bodies as nauseam like men do for women’s bodies Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:53 AM
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Do you work your upper body out? Creating that upper shelf with developed pecs/shoulders is imperative. Your pecs should stick out more than your 'belly'.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:30 PM
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You will fall off a cliff on dating apps because many men up to like 35 turn set their age limit sharp at 29. But in public it'll be the same until you really visibly age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:01 PM
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It's not something I think about.. that's such an infinitesimally small amount of people..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:46 AM
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I understand negative media perception.. But do women in real life really treat you like shit?..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:57 AM
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Hah, I don't think it's much about physical attractiveness as it's much about being attracted to 'toxic' behaviors that are immediately attractive but bad long term partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:28 AM
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I find it confusing, because those are things I do with my friends regularly. You regularly take your friends out to eat without them ever reciprocating?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:57 AM
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Take them out to dinner? Eh.. we go out to eat together but don't really pay for each other outside of birthdays. Flowers? Nah, guys don't give a fuck about that. Unless your bro is into gardening and you get something specific, flowers are just.. nothing. If I see something like a t-shirt my bros will like I'll buy it, I love seeing them wear the things I picked out. Or maybe a gadget that they're missing out on that will make their lives easier. This part I do for the few female friends in my …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:56 AM
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I think it's a good idea if you're a man with some kind of power people are interested in taking advantage of. If another man complains about how disrespectful you were or how they felt forced into something most people wouldn't care. But there are different standards regarding agency and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:49 AM
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Bro what made you so deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:06 AM
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The problem is what's the profitability in that? Dating apps want you to keep you hooked and using them. Selling the cure doesn't make as much money as dragging it out. That's why sites like Okcupid got bought by the same people that run the apps and gutted it. Okcupid pretty much did that, pretty well, with giving you options to set dealbreakers/importance for answers, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:50 AM
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Government policy already punishes it by making these men responsible for any children they sire. But it's up to women to be harsh on promiscuous men. All other men can do is something like 'protect' their sisters/friends from these men, but ultimately women make their own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:33 PM
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Also because being a passive actor in your dating life is something most women just do regardless. Being a passive actor as a male is death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:09 AM
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Just go to https://www.reddit.com/r/all/ and scroll down to post 11/12, it's dropping now that the post is 6+hours old. I don't wanna get banned for linking another sub or whatever weird fucking rules we might have here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:34 PM
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Funny you mention that. This is currently one of the top posts on all of reddit https://i.imgur.com/4GcapAM.png
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:23 PM
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Dworkin cope for herself being a prostitute. I don't blame her for hating men, because her opinions are exactly what I'd expect from a sexworker who had to dealt with the worst of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:32 PM
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Such a silly thing to worry about. I love coffee, makes restricting my appetite so easy. I drink it all day. Sometimes when I'm busy I end up going without it at all for a day without issue. At worst if you're one of the people that gets headaches going off caffeine it's a couple of hours worth at most that could easily be mitigated by pain killers for that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:18 PM
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I'm not a fan of deadlifts for aesthetics. Becomes too much of an ego lift. I've never seen a small guy rep 2+pl8 for bench, but I've seen way too many small guys pulling massive numbers on deadlifts. It's also risky in the sense where if you 'cheat' or get tired you fuck your back up. So many people I watch in terms of content creators always fuck their backs up on deadlifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:15 AM
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Lets not make excuses for the kinds of men that commit domestic violence or violence in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:04 AM
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I totally get what you're saying but that is what is attractive to her.. Until she finally snaps and has enough. Don't try to play savior here. This is an adult woman actively making her own decisions. Like being the opposite of this guy is what makes you intensely unattractive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:25 PM
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Most people underestimate the amount of work it takes to look 'toned'..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:19 PM
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Maybe older people that don't use tiktok. I know people that don't use reddit at all but have picked up that degenerate lingo from tiktok. Lookism has gone mainstream and it's kinda scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:52 PM
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how small?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:50 PM
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Attractive asperger women are not too different from your average submissive women.. They're passive actors in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:49 PM
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No ambition, no drive Be hot, have style, the only personality I see many of these men have is getting laid and smoking weed and they do more than fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:47 PM
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rendering women biologically obsolete Insanity. Aside from a few megalomaniacal wealthy men, most don't care to have legions of children they don't plan on personally raising. As evidenced by family courts, most men do not in fact want to have anything to do with their bastards. I think artificial gestation will actually be a game changer for highly intelligent hetero couples. Many intelligent women are doing the calculus and avoiding pregnancy because of the high physical burden. Imagine, now y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:46 PM
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You're insane man. Less than like 1% of women engage in sex work.. If you're actually meeting women like this day to day you are somehow engaging with an incredibly narrow demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:45 AM
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a pretty, skinny, long-haired femboy who gets absolutely zero bitches Bro that is not a mainstream look/orientation. The only people who like femboys are people who heavily 'in the culture'. Nothing to do with long hair. And yeah in the larger population of women, most want a conventionally masculine guy. A normal guy who has long hair it's a big+ if you take care of it (i.e. style/condition/etc..) and have a good hairline. But if you have an even a slightly thinning/bad hairline long hair will …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:41 AM
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Microchimerism lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:13 PM
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Who
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:04 PM
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Only morons think that. Afghanistan should have the strongest men on earth and we're due for an Afghan gold age..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:00 PM
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A nude photo will ruin a woman’s life No it won't that's nuts, that's like saying you got fired for being a SA victim. Now if you're a sex worker selling nudes on the down low that's another thing..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:26 PM
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Yeah multiple gay men have reached out to be or expressed interest in me while I was just 'being myself'. I'm the same exact way with woman and it's never enough. Too bad I'm not even .1% attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:23 PM
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But I'm not scared of fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:22 PM
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Yeah he abused poor eastern european women with illusions of comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:02 PM
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I don't recommend ladies act open with men they fancy for their own sake too. Shamefully, many guys wouldn't reject a woman that approached him until after sleeping with her. And if you decide that you aren't that into him after conversing, he could feel even more entitled to you than normal given that you were the one that came to him. There is a super easy solution to this. Set boundaries.. Only because a girl showed initial interest doesn't mean a decent guy thinks it's a go ahead to treat he…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:30 PM
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Yeah it's great. That's why suicide, homelessness and inceldom are skyrocketing among men. If you think it's worse now than it was 100 years ago you're beyond help.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:24 PM
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Tates have a grip on loser men not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:20 PM
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Even though reading a majority of TwoXChromosome post for the average guy will make them actively dislike women Iunno just makes me feel bad for them and eternally grateful I was born a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:04 PM
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Gross but nobody seems to care Because you don't have to engage with it if you don't want to? There is an infinite amount of media out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:03 PM
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Jakenbake would definitely be considered above average in America.. He was in way above average shape, and he is 6ft+..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:12 AM
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this is essentially the REAL reason why white guys hate the rise china so much Which regime and ideology would you live under? Take away the ideas of race. Maybe there are other reasons to be concerned about China's rise that have nothing to do with gender bullshit. White guys have no problem with Korea/Japan/Taiwan/Singpaore; highly developed Asian nations on par if not above the standards of living of most western nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:09 AM
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Then the men there will become the men here. Everyone is simply not meant to reproduce. Bro fuck off with that bs. Men who have been to prison have more children than men that never have. Are they really meant to reproduce more?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:05 AM
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Debating biology isn't gonna change biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:27 PM
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You went from doing less than the minimum to doing more than average. leave most of the planning/organizing to the guy Limiting compliments and NEVER use commitment-minded language (i.e. play it cool - don't let him think he has you) Is self sabotaging if you actually want a relationship with a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:43 AM
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Then why are all the goddamn interior and clothes designers women? Disproportionate are actually gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:34 AM
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Reactive to men inspiring something in them. i.e. talking to them, driving the interaction foward.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:34 AM
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What kind of person asks this question.. Why would a man ever ask a woman he is front of how much she weighs like that's going to change if he's attracted to her or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:01 AM
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No... It's just not something the average man thinks of, not that they don't mind it. Selling pics on OF = sex worker most men don't want to date. But most men aren't out there ruminating about OF girls on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:27 PM
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'hood dudes' you mean black twitter lol. And not the sanitized reddit kind
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:57 PM
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It means continuing ballooning healthcare costs as normal people need to pay for these fucking assholes that take up valuable scarce healthcare resources for their gluttony. Wait times are long in countries with mostly healthy people, I can't imagine how bad it'll get here. Attractiveness is the least important part to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:58 PM
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So many toxic men on here wish we could go back back to the good ol’ days of the patriarchy and sexism because that way they could use money to coerce women into giving them affection. That mindset is toxic and disgusting. Right but what does that have to do with today? Where women can earn their own living?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:15 PM
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I mean if you're not a fat woman in America you could easily manage to land a 150k+ husband if you're okay with him looking mid. But most women are actually not gold diggers and are fine with dating men they are actually attracted to and not making a ton of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:38 AM
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OP is just not cool enough. All of the women my chad friend has dated was within a few sentences of meeting them. Literally not one was a 'warm approach', if he wants to date a girl he'll let them know immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:33 AM
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Divorce only messes up your finances if you date down as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:50 AM
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Yeah getting into a fight over bullshit teenage antics would be stupid tbh so your parents raised you right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:29 AM
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Yeah 'too nice' is a misnomer for no edge/excitement. Being boring is worse than being abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:04 PM
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Wow.. why would this guy be posting on Odnoklassniki, that's absurdly niche for some American guy born to Mexican parents..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:54 PM
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How does fingering hurt you but a dick doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:49 PM
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If you're too slow to up the ante in one of those 22 steps you fall out of the 'romantic zone'.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:19 PM
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They don't need to be sentient just good enough to make it seem like they are. and therefore it doesn’t work as revenge fantasy The idea of it being a revenge fantasy is really secondary to the actual problem it's solving for those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:08 AM
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Are We Dating The Same Guy If this is a question that keeps coming up you need to rethink the way you date and pick people. Honestly from what I've seen with my chad friend, it's no secret women know he's dating multiple people (when he was) and they went after him harder for it. Of course it was a very specific type of woman that did this. categories to post about: Crime/Abuse That's insane. People aren't going to file legal complaints about a guy but are happy to anonymously slander him? I'm a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:17 PM
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Women are the ones that almost need men to be taller than them. Guys are way more flexible on this. But short guys know women's preference and aren't going to risk a 90% chance of rejection on the off chance a taller woman would be okay with it. If a tall woman is actually okay with a short guy she would need to make it very clear. In polite conversation women are pretty comfortable sharing their height preference, a guy would only need to spend a cursory amount of time with women in a platonic …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:56 PM
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As a super inhibited late bloomer. All of my early first dates ended with me not trying to kiss a girl. Of course all of these relationships failed with me continuing to attempt more dates, etc.. Because I never bought into being a pushy horndog from the beginning. What finally broke me was one girl was brave enough to kiss me first. Of course I was moving too slow physically wise beyond that so she eventually lost interest too. I never realized how pushy most women wanted men to be. Still haven…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:14 AM
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Go to San Jose/Bay Area and talk to sad looking nerds with FAANG gear
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:19 AM
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Majority of bisexual men end up with men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:09 AM
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The vast majority of 'bisexual' women end up dating men for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:37 PM
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For example the Ruble is worth more now relatively speaking to the Dollar than it was before the Ukraine conflict despite all of the heavy sanctions and the destruction of Nordstream Delusional. That may have been true for a very specific window of time but look at oil/gas prices now. They are back to pre-war levels. The Ruble is pegged to that. The petro-dollar hasn't been relevant in decades, peak oil is not a thing, there is more to the global economy other than oil. Which is why we're not se…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:30 PM
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Provocative title aside, it can basically be summed up as follows: traditionally masculine features (height, muscles, jawline, etc) aren’t pushed by women, but by men. Considering the amount of women that use the height filter on apps that allow it I mean.. we can easily call bullshit on that. Like you have to be severely psyopped to believe that. Only thing that men really overemphasize is dick size, not because it's not important but the amount of over fixation. Breadtube will never have a pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:23 PM
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Most of that is from the last 3 years of covid lockdown hysteria; that's a very recent study. Yeah imprisoning kids in their homes for years is going to have some devastating impacts. Too bad the mainstream establishment thinks it was completely worth it and are disappointed we let go so early. These are teen girls, not relevant to a discussion about young adult women choosing to not have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:39 AM
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People shouldn't be getting married over duress anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:19 AM
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She was reasonable about her expectations. She married a mid looking dude with a mid career in the entertainment industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:18 AM
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Majority of single mothers are made that way by the same few men. It's not like it's 1 man making 1 woman pregnant and then ducking out on here. It's more like 1 man making 4 women pregnant. These aren't the kinds of men complaining about women on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:42 PM
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I believe people fall in lust. The amount of dumb shit relationship hopping I see people do makes me think most people aren't capable of love. Falling into abusive cycles these days seems more common than falling in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:10 AM
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I don't see what that has to do with being a feminist or ally. Women have sex woah? Feminism is no more?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:50 PM
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16 year old buys should be nuts.. Are they medicated or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:09 AM
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It's not growth hormones in meat, jeez that's so stupid... It's hitting a certain level of bodyfat/nutrition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:09 AM
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Diabla is such a hilariously fun subreddit to read. All of the attractive women around me date other attractive guys, rich or bums. Most don't want to put up with desperate orbiters and are content to scrape out a respectable middle/upper class lifestyle themselves. I can't imagine who this shit works on outside of transparently being a sugarbaby or hooker which many of them delude themselves into thinking they don't come off that way. Like these girls must run in some weird circles or not have …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:30 AM
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How do you think gold diggers and OF models operate By selling their youth to desperate men? Seems pretty transparent to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:28 AM
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Sounds like you don't date men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:09 PM
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Then you aren't even in the game and are completely irrelevant to what OP is talking about..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:18 AM
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I think people underestimate the attractiveness of toxic men. Your friend probably doesn't engage in behavior that strikes a fire in women. Recently integrated a friend group with my friends gf who actually has a lot of female friends and I'm seeing close up a side of women I've never been privy to. Her friends are nuts and only go for toxic guys that always leave them going back and forth and crying. These are women that are 7/10s+. Kinda makes sense why so many women think men are trash when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:27 PM
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No if they enjoy their fulfilling hobbies like video games, movies, other nerd shit etc.. Which I find hilarious people are trying to infiltrate and demonize young single men in these spheres. It's like you're literally egging these men into doing something else. GamerGate literally lead to young relatively apolitical men into getting inspired into voting for fascists. All because people wouldn't stop bitching about their video games and injecting weird shit into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:12 AM
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and everyone failed to mention how she slapped him first... After he wouldn't stop manhandling her and not letting her leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:04 AM
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He didn't say sexpat, he said have relationships with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:01 AM
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If the fertility rate is below 2 then that's a lot of people choosing to not have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:07 AM
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The person with 10 kids has your resources confiscated from you on their behalf by the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:07 AM
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There is no motivating mechanism that makes you want just 2 children There is something, we just don't know what. I know educated people who chose to have three kids, I know because the husband explicitly mentioned getting snipped once they got to the point. The kids weren't unplanned at all. I agree with OP. We're in this weird evolutionary bottleneck where most of the people alive right now are as a result of sex because of the pleasure not because people actively decided to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:06 AM
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Probably because SA/general assault is a lot worse that is more clearly defined than 'bullying'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:02 AM
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This is all photoshopped. They look weird but not that weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:56 AM
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What miserable ass dudes are you hanging with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:23 AM
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I get what the video is saying. And as someone that has witnessed multiple relationships throughout the years. I'm not buying it. Dutiful men who have their shit together don't suddenly need someone to do their laundry once they have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:37 PM
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None of them are bragging about the girl who is always available and easy to get. Yeah because they found their match and aren't complaining about it on dating_advice? You know what the advice is when someone posts complaints about being hard to get? Drop it the girl isn't interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:34 PM
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Is your guy a lazy fuck while dating? Then he's going to be one when you marry him and have kids. But for the women my attractive friends end up dating it doesn't seem to be a problem that he's a lazy about domestic upkeep. I guess the blinders finally wear off once kids/age enters into the equation and women are finally ready to break up with the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:36 AM
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That's great but he's not trying to fuck other men so it's not something he would concern himself with. The closest thing to caring about that would be something along the lines of not wanting women I care about dating a whoremonger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:02 PM
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Porn makes more money than the NFL NBA and MLB combined, yet it's totally free to watch? That's an absurd claim don't you think, where are you getting that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:44 PM
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Yep my dad has absolutely zero game and got a wife a virtue of being a stable man in the religious community. Their marriage has worked out great, but my parents never engaged in the dating world, they kinda got set up and both were reasonable people that made it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:41 PM
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That's like saying sperm donors and surrogate pregnancies are femcel paradise..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:05 PM
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Why does a nuclear family preclude any of this? What culture lives the way you supposedly think is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:51 AM
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Nah. European countries have great welfare and support for raising children and their fertility rates still suck. It's all about the culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:07 AM
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i lmao internally
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:22 AM
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Turkeys are only like $1 per pound aren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:57 PM
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Are you taking that post seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:56 PM
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I'm just saying it's not practical advice unless you want to live as a celibate monk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:30 AM
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Dude what? Majority of mass shootings are gang related. Like 90%+..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:19 PM
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Aside from feminists well versed in literature and theory majority of women in society will engage in reaffirming 'toxic masculinity'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:17 PM
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Everyone always conflates Japan with South Korea in the comments. Japan is doing wayyyyy better than South Korea. Japan's fertility rate is 1.34, this is on par with many European countries and will at least ensure a soft plateauing of population. South Korea and Taiwan have fertility rates of .8-.9, this is collapse level. All of these countries have absurd education/work cultures that prioritize the 'face' of working hard but not actually doing much with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:44 PM
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already been in "waste saturday alone while downing a whole whiskey bottle" territory xD :( well just chill at a bar alone at last jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:43 PM
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Here's a pro tip. Only drink at social events or when you're going out.. If you start drinking 'normally' like a normal day after work at home alone, that's when you start veering into problematic territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:41 PM
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Jesus fucking christ so much to say so little: Men are made, women are born.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:56 AM
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Probably can keep a guy that she's into easier, instead of falling into the fuckzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:55 AM
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You're a straight woman right? To me as a straight guy Ronaldo doesn't really do anything for me and if I didn't know he was a soccer player I would think he's a lucky guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:53 AM
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This is the only sub it happens to me. It seems like a twox specific feature. TwoX just bans anyone who posts wrongthink. It's really easy to not have a ton of dissenting opinions when you just ban people for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:52 AM
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jesus fucking christ dude what are you doing. I mean.. thank you for your service
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:50 AM
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She stays with the first attractive guy that picks her that has the right balance of toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:29 PM
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We can't account for edge cases, but at least by picking better she's not left destitute by a loser cheating man. Alimony/child support will be quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:28 PM
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Men who approach you do the same. There is only one way to filter men that just want you for sex.. Communication and them actually making the effort to interact with you beyond sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:16 AM
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Looks like she's making femcel content lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:19 PM
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Wow cool sub, really fun reading tbh. I don't meet women like this though. I guess I'm not a target? Maybe because I look too young or don't flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:54 PM
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In your own post history recently you've mentioned you work out 8-10 hours a week since you were 16. That's actually working out in the top 1% in terms of volume/consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:01 AM
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Speaking anecdotally I've seen a ton more elder millennial (late 20s-mid thirties) WMAF family with kids than AMAF family with kids. So maybe there is something to that. A lot of white nerdy men that compromise with having an AF partner to have the family they always wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:34 AM
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You're too young to be on the cesspit that is this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:50 PM
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Everyone wastes their time in their early youth. 25+ is where people tend to get serious
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:48 PM
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Maybe he doesn't want to waste their time? They might have ambitions of having a family or real relationship some day and they can't break themselves away from him so he breaks it off before they waste too much of their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:05 AM
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Classic men are made women are born trope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:26 PM
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Depends on the demographic you're aiming for. Cross earrings, chain rings on fingers, etc.. seems to be very much in vogue in younger crowds to the point where I avoid them and go for something else.
/r/seduction24/08/22 08:06 PM
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A few school shootings and thousands of stalkers disagree. A few.. most criminals are evil sex havers and men in prison tend to have more kids on average than non criminal men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:23 AM
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And how would you like them to do it? Or would you rather they not at all? Yeah of course all straight men would rather prefer not at all. But being men we have the unique understanding people aren't psychic, so I wouldn't mind if gay men cold approached me as long as they were chill about a not interested response. Which they always have been generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:55 PM
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Not a realistic position to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:50 PM
1

How did he show interest and ultimately asking you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:25 PM
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The hardest part is getting the first date and getting to that point. Women can't make any judgements on that until they get to you know you..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:07 PM
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This sounds like a reasonable way of showing affection as a woman if you're sex avoidant tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:03 PM
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Seriously.. Teenagers are cruel male or female lmao. If all men took these experiences as badly they would be incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:58 PM
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The sour grapes revenge fantasy is largely untrue. Now I’m making 100k and him like 70k so we are both doing better and we can afford kids. Yeah you compromised on something most women aren't willing to do. He makes less than you. The vast majority of women like OP aren't going to accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:41 AM
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It's a joke term
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:38 AM
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? My grandma didn't die alone and she outlived her husband by like 20 years.. She died surrounded by her kids/grandkids. You gotta be a real asshole to die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:36 AM
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Do you think the 3 year old that got it is just sleeping around with gay men? Abused maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:21 PM
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Go out to places that have women you want to date. Going out to the bars out weekend nights I'm not that far above that specific average. Most of the guys are in passable/decent shape, we're not taking our shirts off, so my physique doesn't really pop out. Since I'm competing with mostly young guys my full head of hair doesn't really mean much. My sense of style is distinct compared to the mundane frat bro look but a lot of women like that style regardless, it's not like they're wearing cargo sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:14 PM
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I didn’t drink Monday to Thursday; but Friday rolled around and I wouldn’t resurface until Sunday. Bro just give me the answers. That describes me to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:20 AM
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Yeah I was working around 40 hours comfortably, and have been remote for the past 2+ years so I have a ton of time. I have a pretty big room, so I have a pull up bar, ez curl bar, bench, dumbbells with enough weights to go to like 80lbs on each dumbell. I can pretty much do an aesthetics focused workout with this. Split squats, benching, rows, overhead press, pullups/chinups with weights. And most importantly I can do it consistently. Work is kinda the source of all my issues including gaining w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:12 AM
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High school I was a shut in that played video games and switched high school three times due to my parents moving around. I was always relatively well liked and never bullied but I just didn't think to develop relationships with people. In college I was once again a complete shut in that played games that commuted from home to the city for school. Bad idea because it allowed me to be a recluse. At least I did end up making my lifelong friends in college. They just didn't really push me to go out…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:22 AM
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I didn't have my first kiss until I was 29. So yeah I kinda get it, but I never really started thinking about it until I was like 26 because I was a moron so far up in my own head I was a completely different person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:14 AM
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Man you're getting dates, you're still young what are you talking about missing out on the best years of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:10 AM
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If you're good enough looking to 'model' then you should be good looking enough to get dates on OLD.. So get to it man. Even my chad friend has women approaching him rarely and when they do they're far below his standards. Yet he has a rotation of women begging for commitment. All he does is approach in public or turn on OLD (time inefficient for him in most cases). I on the other hand had no experience until like fucking 30 and I do have a $140k+/yr job, multiple properties, but I never approac…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:05 AM
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Men DO have it better in dating because they have the ability to be the architects of their own success. Of course that's a double edged sword (can't just sit back on dating apps) but that kind of attitude is what gives men a structural advantage in everything. Women whether it's culturally or biologically at large are passive actors. A woman who strategically dates and takes initiative probably has it better though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:59 AM
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Everything
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:37 AM
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More than half of those involve super rich/powerful guys that I'm not gonna dive into because come the fuck on the second they lose that money they lose the girl. Only the Kevin James examples would you say it's like some nice schlubby normal guy with a mildly more attractive woman. Even then Kevin James is not a bad looking guy. The Simpsons and Family Guy are absurdist cartoons where the male leads are literal massive fucking morons beyond comprehension. I don't know about Jack Black, the only…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:22 AM
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I can provide a long list of movies and tv shows with obese men in leading roles dating attractive ladies. Then go for it bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:59 AM
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What kind of bs is this, truly. Majority of America is fat, it's just fat people shitting on other fat people then. This isn't Yurope or Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:55 AM
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What I'm seeing is a bigger separation. The majority are uglier than ever and the top 20% are working harder than ever into putting effort into their appearance. My friend made a point that the top 20% are hotter than the top 20% were when we were younger, but the other 80% is so much worse..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:33 AM
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? I don't understand what you're trying to get at. I do regularly lift and maintain a good physique..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:47 AM
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like 90% of men I see in relationships aren't in shape at all. I care what the women I'm into like. I don't care about the majority of awful relationships between desperate people. The women I'm into have high physical standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:07 PM
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Men are lookmaxxing to avoid dating those women.. It's the top 20% chasing the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:43 AM
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Some nights women hover around you, sometimes they don't. That's just how it goes. Sometimes they're straight to the point, make eye contact, smile, and start grinding on you. If you normally have fun just going out and are fine with nothing happening that night, taking a passive approach and going with the flow works. But if you are going to be disappointed about something not happening then you have to be a bit more direct..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:38 AM
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I can understand how this fantasy is appealing to total mentalcels, but you guys are constantly telling on yourselves. I'm not making anything up. My friend doesn't like to cycle through the same women, he finds it uncomfortable, maybe because the women always get too attached and want to do more than just hookup.. He likes just fucking a girl once/twice and never seeing her again. Meanwhile I known a number of men who are with very attractive women but have a license to get some action on the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:29 AM
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My long time friend and roommate who lives in the shittiest room in house and is unemployed half the time literally has a rotation of a women come over to stay the night. If he says he's sick they literally bring him soup. Most of them get attached and get really upset when they figure out he wasn't lying about not being interested in anything serious; he never wants to lead anyone on and he has no reason to lie. He is literally top 1% in looks though. Over the years he's helped me with styling …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:17 PM
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Likely but not 100%. If she's fucking guys on the side while dating you in the early stages, which is fairly common then she 200% isn't interested in you enough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:18 PM
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I started to make excuses to not see any of the other women in my life, even Becky (to keep with RP nomenclature) who'd I'd been sleeping with off and on since I was 17 through 3 of her marriages and one of mine (she's up to 9 for what it's worth). I fell in love and it changed everything. Lmao dude, I don't wanna hear shit about love from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:49 PM
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This is such an American problem lmao.. and I weep because I'm an American. I took a vacation to Eastern Europe recently.. All the women were gorgeous. Being in decent shape as young person is baseline. But yeah in America being a thin woman automatically puts you in the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:46 PM
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Anyone else find it funny how many posts on twox are blanket calling everyone on dating/relationship subs incels? Incels used to be this massive loaded term, now it really just has become another mainstream term to bemoan men like 'virgin' with the same so-called sexist notion surrounding sex. Like they don't even care about maintaining that mask anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:33 PM
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I've found bars/clubs to be 2:1 at worst for men to women. Gotta find the right place/night and the ratio can be tilted in the other direction, especially when most men NPC themselves by dressing/grooming themselves like morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:03 PM
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for women it’s important to get to know you a little bit for any kind of sexual relationship Go to a bar/club and dance. Girls don't need to know shit about you to make out with you and grind. I'm still not sure if I want to lose my first time on a first night stand so I usually pull away when they wanna go home. Shocked me too at first as a rather late bloomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:27 AM
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It wasn't a punch. It was an open hand slap, Will Smith was holding back, he obviously didn't want to actually seriously injure Chris Rock..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:45 AM
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You're kinda right, but none of this is relevant until you actually plan on having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:05 PM
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he still had to TALK to me, sexualize the encounter, flirt and act like an attractive man to have sex with me and get in an LTR with me How do you 'sexualize' a first encounter without coming off too strong, I feel like a chat + asking for a number would indicate enough interest? You have the most reasonable post in this whole thread so I'm really curious to hear what you have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:32 PM
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Nah, BMI is perfectly fine. 90%+ of the population isn't messing up BMI calculations with their super high muscle mass
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:19 AM
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Marriage makes your richer, healthier, happier, and more respected, and you're complaining about that? This is likely a self selection bias.. Though I would likely say nothing makes up for the cost women pay for with their bodies in having children. If you're in a marriage without ever planning for children, then that's just lmao I mean you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:12 AM
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Probably based on the video. He's the shortest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:42 PM
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I'm assuming we're talking to men looking to improve their lives, not the NPC schlubs in 50%+ overweight America.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:10 AM
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Good for you, but that's put you in the vast minority. Most women don't take such an active role in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:04 PM
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You're literally only talking to losers.. why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:39 AM
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Women commonly report broad shoulders as an attractive trait..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:24 PM
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Bimen are the biggest vectors of STDs to straight women. They have good reason to be suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:32 PM
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I think we're in agreement for the most part but you probably underestimate how hard it is to get to that kind of body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:30 PM
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Bro... most guys in gyms are training to get the most sought after 'T shape' that women love. Most men in the gym are not body builders roiding up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:26 PM
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Bro, it's not safe for men to walk around in unsafe areas at night either. Even if you're 6'5 250lbs of muscle, two guys jumping you could easily take you out. Fuck, one guy playing dirty can take you out. The main difference between men and women is that all women have something men want. Criminals will victimize anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:22 PM
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How much do you make just curious? My partner has to make at least double my income in order for me to stay at home (he actually makes like 4x what I do). If he can’t do that, we will not work out. Could be perfectly reasonable depending on how much you make.. but there are women out there thinking that making 200k/yr means that finding a guy that makes more than that is a reasonable expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:44 PM
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Wait are you saying Marlon Brando is a beefcake or he was a beefcake for the time.. https://www.imago-images.com/bild/st/0097451847/w.jpg Because this is incredibly modest by modern hollywood standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:27 PM
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A young fat/ugly woman could be making 1mil+ a year and I still wouldn't date her because I wouldn't be physically attracted to her. Young women have that same option now. The amount of men in tech that are just unattractive but make a ton of money is insane. I know these guys because I exist in a peripheral industry and some of my hobbies overlap. Women can take care of themselves enough, there do exist more women than men that can compromise on physical attraction, but young women these days s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:31 AM
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This is because FDS women don't need to attract men. They are attracting men that they end of resenting because their strategy throws off any normal guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:10 AM
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FDS is all just very confusing to me.. They select for men that would only approach them with little knowledge about them, they wait too long it's lame or manipulative. They want the man to chase or initiate. They want a guy with a big dick but lament how they waste 6 months on a guy before their sex rules or whatever; oh and he fucked up on the first time better discard him now.. A guy that's rich but not old also not in progress.. Most guys in their 20s unless they work in software/high financ…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:08 AM
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Height is a solved problem. You can get your children prescribed HGH as a kid and easily make sure they hit 6' fit before their growth plates fuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:20 PM
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He would probably have a harder time on tinder than doing that. My super attractive 'chad' friend has women literally approach him when he goes outside (usually far below his league). He said he hates tinder because it's a waste of time for the quality of women he gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:50 AM
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Childfree 'couples' are a minority. They may have 'lower infidelity rates' but the relationships are comparatively short lived in general and without kids people just break up..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:29 AM
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Unless you're into obese single mothers. Atlanta isn't particularly great. Once you start breaking the numbers down by unmarried men vs unmarried women without children it's massively more men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:47 PM
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This is why sex workers are biggest misandrists and have generally gone into the deep end of radical feminism. They saw the worst of men and think that's all they are. I can't imagine how stupid you have to be to take their accounts as representative of men, but I guess that explains FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:36 AM
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All women sleeping with a guy while not in a relationship are sharing a guy.. because a woman can be satisfied by her FWB/random date once per month while that same guy could probably go every day if he wanted to but limited to something more reasonable like 1 a week by logistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:53 PM
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I suggest Looking into the “Oofy Doofy Theory” which is an add-on to the BP ideology but it’s basically claiming the opposite. It says that handsome men actually DONT get any women and most of the women tend to choose feminine men who are more loyal. Sounds insane and completely antithetical to everything I've seen from having extremely handsome male friends.. What kind of moron believes that tripe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:55 PM
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This is a kind of cruel perspective on children. Two beautiful people can easily have 'ugly' kids especially if what makes the parents so attractive are exaggerated features that happen to be in vogue. We actually have little control over how kids eventually look, but the way you raise them will have a massive impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:11 AM
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I didn't say anything about getting laid, but that aside, thanks for making my point for me. Young people in their 20/30s that are in good shape and vaccinated should especially be not be worried about covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:18 AM
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Not cheating, just 'situationships' or dating without any exclusivity talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:57 AM
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Serial dating might as well be open relationships..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:56 AM
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Covid has also made it a lot worse Half of the people at my college are just terrified of interacting with others w/o an overabundance of precaution Honestly masks have made this easier. Anyone wearing a mask doesn't want to engage with people or are terrified to do so. It made going to conventions this past year really easy. Everyone that didn't wear a mask was super social and I had an easier time making connections over previous years where no one wore a mask. Talk to the people at your colle…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:50 AM
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Judging by my coworkers, there are plenty of men down to be in this kind of relationship but I think women themselves don't want it. A single person income on a ~150k/yr job gets you a boring house, boring car, boring vacations, in a low COL metro with kids. Plenty of guys seem to be okay with this, but I think most women themselves would prefer contributing to up that to like a combined 200k+ for a 'better' lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:42 AM
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I just thought it was funny that she even brought that up, like what was the point. It's like she's saying it's unattractive. Also coincided with me noticing this thread. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/qc6x0s/what_are_the_ways_in_which_women_enforce_toxic/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:31 PM
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Yes there are some good men too, and a few are my friends but I wasn't romantically interested in them Comedy gold. It's amazing in a comment about Korean culture it somehow ties in the almost memetic idea of not being interested in the 'few' good men out there that stand against evil traditionalist culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:57 AM
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And then I remember. I have no libido. He does. What a super power.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:41 AM
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Because it's not the same guy? If it's 20% of men getting 80% of women then that's just having a rotation of 4 girls for every 1 guy. Considering most social circles aren't perfectly overlapping this is pretty reasonable. And considering the sex drive difference between men and women, it's pretty natural that a woman that's not involved in the guy's life wouldn't really notice..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:33 AM
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I guess the same kind of person that can see themselves get obese without feeling like they're in a horror movie is the same person that can eventually shack up with another obese person. It probably forces higher quality men into a smaller dating pool. In earlier generations a low educated/lower class woman could probably snag a wealthier/higher quality guy on the virtue of at least looking well kept. Now physical looks are highly tied to social class/education so it keeps everyone in their lan…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 06:07 AM
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Bisexual men are the biggest vectors of STDs to straight women. They have reason to be cautious since most bi men are 80% of time in gay relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:16 AM
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South Korea is nosediving into the ground, less than 1 fertility rate lmao what a mess. Japan is actually doing 'okay' at ~1.36 fertility rate. This is better than Italy (that's with a large migrant population padding Italy's numbers).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:15 AM
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The steroids are for actual low T though Gracefully aging is out of the picture so anyone with a pulse can get a prescription for 'low T'.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:13 AM
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More women think they're partnered (i.e. sharing a guy) then they think lol? Also immigration is mostly made up of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:35 PM
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Yep I know a 25 year old thin girl with only a GED. Her life is a mess (but not in a drug addict sort of way) but she has high quality guys hitting her up non-stop. Her face is painfully average or even below.. I will say she has the respectable feature of not selling her body or anything like that on onlyfans. She only wants to date guys she's into, not for the money. In the South I guess this is a massive rarity. Most young people here are chubby as a baseline.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:59 AM
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I don't America has shit on Chinese dysfunction regarding family formation..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:04 PM
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Oh yeah man.. Women were responsible for setting the one-child policy..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:04 PM
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It's shitty data. People who are not obese, white, 5'5+ tall, and earn 30k+ a year are fairly common.. but this shitty calculator considers all of these independent and not connected.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:27 PM
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Overwhelmingly most women can't afford to not work if they have kids.. I'm pretty sure at this point 25% of mothers are single mothers..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:10 AM
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Irl most people are well adjusted and are able to form relationships. IRL most people understand the default view of 'women have it worse' there is no debate lol. If you debate that you become a pariah. Corporate, government, socially, etc... Which I get, I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:16 AM
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? They just like sex for sex, they won't monetize intimacy. I find that respectable tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:30 PM
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It's just an example of widening inequality in the US. As a whole Gen Z is fatter than previous generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:19 PM
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Bro.. losers that have a hard time making/keeping male friends usually suck with women too. What path have you gone down to mix this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:40 AM
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Where do you live where 120k/yr isn't enough to raise a kid? The Bay Area? LA? Manhattan?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:45 AM
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Sounds like you just don't value having/raising kids.. you can definitely afford kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:42 AM
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In the past year I've made a lot of effort into going out more to bars/dance clubs/etc than I ever have. Since covid inspired me into action. In this short time I've had more conversations with women, women have approached me, etc.. in the past year than my whole life. I've never to this day been able to get shit from OLD. I still need to work on actually maintaining interest and going out on dates, making moves, etc.. but yeah OLD has been nothing but a waste of time for me. Though I wouldn't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:45 AM
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Men have it better than women period imho. I've always leaned towards being grateful for being born a man, reading forums like twoX makes me not even doubt it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:04 AM
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I think people shouldn't force themselves into certain lifestyles. That's the cause of most of our problems. People who can't handle monogamy should stay out of it and I wish they were honest about it from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:04 PM
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? If the woman isn't interested enough to go out on a date without a de facto bribe then she shouldn't date that man.. Is fucking a thing women do for men or do they want it themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:06 AM
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I never understood this. Do people charge acquaintances (before they became friends) for having the absurd idea of asking you to hang out? I always thought it was a two way street, why would women say yes to a date if they felt like they were owed compensation for having to hang out with a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:33 PM
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And being skinny is not some huge accomplishment - it's called having basic self respect for yourself. I wish that were the case. Puts you in the vast minority in the UK and US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:28 PM
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34 year old women without kids and skinny are not anywhere close to the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:30 AM
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This women strategically dated to find a good partner. If all women dated like her then yeah, they would quick move past men wasting their time and end up with 'average' men like that if they could stomach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:22 AM
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Just hit 30 this past week, still haven't broken enough to consider a hooker yet.. But at this point I am willing to pretty much pay for dates with women on tinder/bumble/etc for the simple experience of it.. if I could maintain their interest in a conversation to get to the point of getting a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 09:25 AM
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I'm too socially awkward to get women romantically involved in me, but I have no problem commanding the respect of men and women professionally or even in my personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:23 AM
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Then he should use his wealth to move to a place with some east asian women.. Short white men with east asian women is an extremely common pairing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:22 AM
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Wait until the only people having children want to have children, so eventually the problem fixes itself. People in the most prosperous countries in human history choose to have the least amount of children. Independent of money, kids are just not for everyone. When people have the choice, many are not interested. Why do we need so many people in the first place, until we solve scarcity we shouldn't really aim to bring in more people into this world..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:09 AM
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Probably means overweight, not obese. Sad to say that here in the South it really easily is 50%+ of young people being overweight, with ~20%+ being obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:29 AM
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Generally if you're complaining about dating on reddit (beyond minor usual bs) then you're definitely not high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:24 AM
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Upper middle class money isn't enough to do shit in the US. South Asian men are among the highest earning in the US, everyone knows this, doesn't help much. This isn't necessarily a race thing either, nerdy high earning white dudes in tech industry aren't doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:22 AM
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Farming orbiters whether you're a man or woman takes effort to maintain. You have to almost cultivate what feels like a parasocial relationship through social media to do it unless you happen to run into the same people all the time. I know super gorgeous men and women, and neither have orbiters because they don't maintain relationships with people they don't really care about just for the attention. Every now and then they have a new person pop up that really wants to get to know them, but sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:19 AM
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You don't need to be a millionaire or even make 6 figures to do it What. I can't imagine these young attractive women seeking a transactional relationship would be satisfied with $1-2k spent on them a month. Anything beyond that demands a higher salary, unless you're really fine with spending 20% of your pre-tax on this..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:13 AM
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You're being too reductive. Handsome well socialized 'cool' men still consume porn and are dumbasses about following thots on instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 05:13 AM
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Interesting: Young women are seeing less and less benefits to being in relationships, causing them to ditch it entirely I think it's this; women just don't need to hitch themselves to a single man to live. The earlier generations of men didn't really need excessive courtships rituals or some x factor to 'woo' women. They offered a stable life to a woman who couldn't provide for herself. My parents didn't have some extended courtship ritual. My dad was gainfully employed, kind, and boring and tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:03 PM
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Those who complain about not having options, that's still not a good indicator. I know men who were celibate and virgin and were garbage at finding people but good at keeping them, AKA good husbands. This is where I feel like I fail. I'm just really bad at creating that instant of interest/excitement which leads to getting dates. The few times I've had opportunities is purely because of being around women for a long enough time through mutual friends, unfortunately these women were explicitly no…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:44 PM
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Guys want a family and companionship too.. What
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:28 PM
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i have a feeling that wide-spread demand for sex-bots would be atrocious for the already dying climate. What? Do you know what's bad for the climate? More people living a first world standard of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:12 PM
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This never made sense to me. My friends who are absolute players will approach everyone whether they're down to only fuck or not. Women making it easy for them has nothing to do with whether they're serious about it or not. It has to do with the boundaries women set whether they'll be strung along or not. If you don't make it clear what you want a guy asking you out first won't make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:31 AM
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Pftt where are these women at all these bars I'm going to. I mean they're there, but just absolutely way outnumbered by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:46 PM
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