hopeless_n_confused Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Girl I Hooked Up With Describes What "Alpha" is like: Stupid downvoters. Like you said, confidence +empathy is the key	/r/seduction	04/04/16 04:38 PM
1	How do you guys do it? That's the point. Each time you do meditation it is a unique practice. Unrelated to if you did it in the past. So you don't need to worry about being able to develop a regular habit. You can just sit in silence whenever it occurs to you to do so. I wish you a successful meditation journey!!	/r/seduction	12/01/16 09:56 PM
3	How do you guys do it? A meditation practice can help you spend enough time in silence that you actually start realizing the more complex reasons holding you back. I recommend a meditation retreat, something like Vipassana , if you want to make a radical change in your life. Ultimately, you will realize that your life is made up of fresh new moments each second and you don't need to worry so much about the past and future when making small, everyday decisions in the present. "Did you waste all of the past 20 years on …	/r/seduction	12/01/16 05:05 PM
8	How do you guys feel about going down on a girl you're hooking up with for the first time? How many of you do it? This should be higher up. Oral sex can transit HPV, Hepatitis, Herpes, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Syphilis. Yup. Not saying I don't do it with strangers in my lifetime, but know of the inherent risk involved when you do it. Or maybe see papers before hooking up with people. Yes you can still have good sex after a formal conversation like that.	/r/seduction	19/12/15 07:59 PM
2	Analyze my first date. What went wrong? I hear you, first of all you are doing very well. You went from meeting a girl online to interesting her in a first date. The date didn't have the outcome you wanted, but you don't really know how much she enjoyed it (or if you know, you didn't share). ** Remember she is not the ONE, there are so many potential dates whose company you can really, really enjoy. Contrary to people here who sometimes advise to just keep escalating, I'm all about consent and yes please only touch a date if you see t…	/r/seduction	26/11/15 11:11 PM
1	Analyze my first date. What went wrong? Next time try to change locations. Go to a different spot down the block for hot chocolate, and wrap your arms around her shoulder on the way there, if you get the vibe it's OK on her end. At the new place, find somewhere to sit next to each other. Most of all, teach yourself that she could very well like you taking her hand, making a sexy joke, etc. Seems like your confidence is lacking, so examine that and then go on another date!	/r/seduction	26/11/15 08:42 PM
1	The Portfolio: 6 Steps to getting her physically and emotionally invested in you! Alright. OP is explaining how to build a LTR with a woman who ISN'T desperate, needy and insecure.	/r/seduction	30/09/15 02:11 PM
6	The Portfolio: 6 Steps to getting her physically and emotionally invested in you! Looks like you seriously missed out on 95% of what he was saying. His goal was not to teach you how to F-close. Anyone can do that following steps A-F in succession at a bar/club, etc. Rather, he was explaining how to build emotional and sexual intimacy with a partner that will keep them coming back for more, over longer periods of time.	/r/seduction	29/09/15 08:36 PM
0	The Portfolio: 6 Steps to getting her physically and emotionally invested in you! That's the point! Plenty of fish... What makes you think that "one" was irreplaceable?	/r/seduction	29/09/15 08:33 PM
2	What is the [best date] to knock a girl off her feet? Why don't you find out what she enjoys doing? Doing that together is bound to make an enjoyable day, whereas forcing some romantic ideal onto her without her requesting it leaves lots of room for awkward times.	/r/seduction	04/08/15 10:26 PM