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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Are we less accepting today (of people) then we were 50 years ago? PNW has some super intolerant liberals. Just check the Seattle sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/21 05:38 AM
1	Why are women in this sub who are skewed 30+ hang around? I'm still single but I'm here to think how I should approach dating when I'm ready. I tried the datingover30 and fds subs and they were filled with women so I wanted to see more opinions from men. This sub is far more entertaining than any dating advice subs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 06:16 PM
–	Q4W : Woman, If you were a 5’5 average build male with an extremely average face, how would you go along finding a girlfriend/wife, especially if you were already struggling? What would your dating strategy be? It depends on men's age but I would dress well and clean so you would look above average. Men seem so immature compared to women, especially with their sense of style and clothing. And haircut. Please go get a nice haircut every 2 months at least. If you looked nice and presentable, you should get more confident since good hygiene and style will put you above average. I'm not talking flashy brand name clothing but well-fitted and clean or new clothing. The same t shirt will look so different dep…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 04:40 AM
1	For women who want relationships, should they focus on succeeding in their careers or focus on their looks? I think you already make too much compared to the average population in your area outside of your field. Have you considered other tech workers? They make similar income and career paths and are more understanging of those things. My sister and her husband both work in tech, different companies but around Seattle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/21 06:28 AM
3	CMV: “Being an emotional tampon” is inherent to true friendship. I defeinitely don't like listening 100% of the time with a friend. That's like being an employee helping a customer and I work retail so I know how that feels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 11:20 PM
1	Straight men will not spend a significant amount of time/are not close friends with a straight woman in whom they are not sexually or romantically interested. I wonder if people who grew up with opposite sex siblings fare better at having opposite sex friends without any sexual/romantic feelings. As a woman I like to talk about feelings and all that but most men don't want to talk about their feelings with women they're not intimate with. If they talk about their feelings they would fall for me. The ones that's in touch with their feelings usually had female siblings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 06:26 PM
2	Let’s talk about arranged marriages Arranged marriages work best in religious communities where divorces are discouraged. They do have more community support since it's the community that arranged them. So in a way, you can ask for help from the community so divorce risks might decrease. In romantic marriages, it's mostly about the 2 individuals so if they don't get support from family and friends, there's more reason to divorce especially if divorces aren't discouraged. But there are tons of happy couples that weren't arranged an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 05:44 PM
1	I keep accidentally friendzoning girls and I don't know how to stop? I think you're getting friendzoned by those women without realizing. Women are looking for emotional support friends all the time so they accepted you as that, a friend to listen to their problems. If you tried to escalate, they will drop you as friends if they feel threatened/uncomfortable. If they want to stay just friends, you have to accept that and move on.	/r/seduction	08/05/21 06:50 PM
1	r/dating is mostly male, but r/datingoverthirty is mostly female. Why? The 30+ sub is full of educated women that are passive. They focus on their careers first and waited too long to start. If they're attractive or friendly/outgoing, they'll naturally get asked out. If they're assertive, the women will ask the men out. Men on the other hand, if they have their shit together by their 30s, they'll be getting more offers. Men who used to be passive in their 20s are probably more confident with more life experiences so they might pursue more effectively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 10:29 PM
1	If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's? I live and work in working class suburbs so having low income isn't that bad if you look for partners when you're still in your early 20s. Retail workers usually date each other. But it must be hard when the men are in their 30s and don't look as well as they did in their 20s. Blue collar workers usually get married or have kids while in their 20s because they don't go to college. So by the time the men are in their 30s, the women of the same age who appreciate working class men are already take…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 06:16 PM
5	How can so many women be this delusional about men past the age of 30? I love that sub but many women on that sub got a late start in the dating game so they suck at it. They usually studied hard or were nerds in high school/college so they kept a modest appearance throughout their youth, their time of beauty. So they didn't get approached and have no experience dealing with men. So they mistake men's sexual desire for them as their romantic commitment. They could work out or fix their style and have a much easier time dating though. I'm one of those who were too g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 11:43 PM
2	[Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender? Most people are average. And if you add race, weight, and style, there are so many diverse people just in my age range so it's getting hard to define ugly vs just not my taste.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/21 05:44 PM
2	Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men? At the similar height and weight, men will be stronger since he has more muscle mass in general. There are some shorter (like less than 5ft tall) men that I could probably outrun but he probably has bigger arm/shoulder muscles so that's makes men stronger. I'm a 5'2" woman so that makes most men stronger than me. He has to be physically disabled or sick in order for me to beat him up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 05:42 PM
19	AskMen post discussion I think dating beautiful women will be hard and men always want to date beautiful women so that's why it's hard for them. As a plain woman, I've never been approached by attractive or even average men so I have very realistic expectations in relationships and don't have much fantasy after seeing my parents' relationship with each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/21 05:05 PM
3	If men and women can just be friends, Then why do a lot of women stop talking to their male counterpart once they are in a relationship? There aren't many activities straight men and women can do purely for fun together. How many men enjoy hanging out with female friends to go shopping for clothes? I guess I could ask male friends if I look good in some dress before buying it to wear to my first date but would any straight male friend like to see that? The straight women I know who has platonic male friends are usually heavy drinkers who enjoys going to bars with the guys. I'm sure some of the guys like her though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/21 01:57 PM
10	Q4W: "If he doesn't want me, I don't want him." Just why? Women are less confrontational and don't like dealing with negative interactions like rejections. To avoid rejections, women don't approach men who don't make it known that he likes her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 12:05 AM
1	It's pointless to give women advice on how to attract men because what women really need to learn is how to repel low quality men To prevent unwanted male attention, I dress bad. I heard men are visual creature so looking bad really helps prevent any male attention. I just wear a bigger size jeans, t shirt, jacket and a baseball hat or beanie if I'm not meeting anyone important. I also have short hair so this makes me look like a man lol. But this really helped me get rid of unwanted attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/21 04:51 AM
1	[Q4All] Just how successful are your close friends in dating/romance? I work retail and my coworkers are my social circle. The ones around my age (late 20s to early 30s) have even single/coupled people. Some singles are single parents and their dating life is nonexistent. Some unmarried people are in LTR and have kids or house together but not married yet. Some single guys are way too into video games to get normal partners. The geeky guys only attract geeky girls but geeky girls aren't always attractive so geeky guys don't hit on them. It's usually the young men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/21 06:27 PM
1	As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?" Your standard isn't too high, but if everyone wanted slim women but if there aren't many of them, they are technically very valuable because of lack of supply. I think the amount of slim men is similar, but women might not mind big/fat men so slim men might not get much attention compared to slim women. The non-athletic people I know that are slim are actually smokers and have smoking partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/21 06:44 PM
4	[Vital Lesson] Don't let your Friends know, ESPECIALLY your Female Friends, that You are learning Game and how to Approach. Real friends want you to be happy so they would congratulate you for trying.	/r/seduction	26/01/21 06:19 PM
2	What causes you to lose interest in a girl? Unless you actively try to appreciate/match their effort in talking to you, the only ones that'll pursue you is the really persistent (creepy) ones.	/r/seduction	22/01/21 07:51 AM
1	Do you find it difficult to get into works that deal with experiences of a person of opposite gender than yours, even when good? If the writing style is good, or if the writer is good at making people care, then it doesn't matter what gender the writer or the character is. I've never heard those people you mentioned but I haven't been paying attention to autobiographies. In my area (suburbs, west coast US), there aren't any real bookstores. The bookshelves in my big box stores only have autobiographies of famous politicians. As a woman, I've read some autobiographies of some American female comedians a few years ago becau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/21 07:24 PM
1	Imagine being a depressed woman. Women compare themselves to other women who look like they have better lives. Also, attractive young women aren't liked by plain or older women. These mean women are what drive pretty women to depression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 05:52 AM
1	My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrong Since you made this, you might as well make a legit website that post more data like this and maybe get paid for it. If you treated your bf like a data project like this, find a guy who doesn't mind being studied by you.	/r/seduction	08/12/20 08:01 AM
1	Is there a way to not sound desperate when you ARE actually desperate Trick yourself to feel you actually aren't desperate. Or become confident. If you know you're desperate and aren't a good actor, you will sound desperate. To prevent sounding desperate, become confident or go for people who are also desperate as well.	/r/seduction	03/12/20 08:22 AM