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CMVhopesy123/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:36 AM
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Sure if she truly just wants to have sex and NOTHING ELSE MATTERS, then she should try out women! 100%! Will it be good? Probably not, Or maybe, who knows! But at the end you will still be having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:54 PM
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Look at any comment from men in this sub and you will see how often men here says they will take ANY SEX! I mean any! Cause they are so desperate and it’s impossible to just get any! Which is just not true, I mean it won’t be sex they will enjoy tho! Which is very true! But being fucked in the ass doesn’t mean you have to enjoy it or be turned on, so they can have sex, theoretically and also be desired, it just won’t be the kind they actually will enjoy…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:45 PM
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You don’t have to be turned on to be fucked in the ass tho? I mean it would be good if that’s was the case, but it’s not a requirement in order for you to have sex, what you want is GOOD SEX, that makes you feel good, so again men here that says “I JUST WANT SEX!! ANY SEX, IM SO DESPERATE I WILL TAKE ANYTHING!!” Is lying actually!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:36 PM
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Men wants to be desired and have sex, whether that’s by a woman or man shouldn’t really matter if that’s TRULY all they actually wanted, that’s what most men here always claims at least, but they aren’t as desperate or left with no possibility of getting sex if they can say “oh I can have all this sex for free and then also be desired as well?!” But then say they would never want that sex, Yeah that’s you being picky cause you know the sex wouldn’t be good for you or make you feel good. So it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:32 PM
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Your still having sex through, no? So the idea that men just wants any sex and be desired, is actually a lie? That you have such low standards but still almost impossible to get ANY sex, but your actually picky in your sexual selection. You could have all the sex you wanted (not good sex but still sex at the end of the day) but it’s just not the specific kind you want that will actually make you cum and have a good time??…that sounds awfully familiar to another gender…but good to know!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:16 PM
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Most men (straight mostly) doesn’t like not being in control and having the power when it comes to doing the deed, they don’t want to be the “woman” when it comes to sex, so by that default even they don’t think “just sex” is a privilege, when they are the ones being dominated (and no I’m not talking about the very few minority of men that do like that, which often may not even be straight to begin with) so if a man is into sex? Great get fucked in the ass by another man and enjoy the privilege …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:11 AM
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Had a gay friend who had the same experience tho many thought he was a woman (he is pretty feminine looking at first glance) but when he told them he was always topping they ran so quick! Also the fact he had a deep ass voice probably got the message across lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:48 AM
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Absolutely, tho if you are a gay man (or bi but a preference for men) trying to find a stable monogamous romantic partner in the gay community then you are gonna have a really hard time (especially if you are young) but just for casual? Lmao just go and take your pick!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:44 AM
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I agree, why? Men don’t want sex if they had the position of the woman, they like sex cause they do indeed benefit from it, being on top they get to be in control and feel powerful! but take the same man and let him be penetrated? Lmao then it’s apparently not such an amazing thing anymore. (At least not for the majority of straight men) EVEN THOUGH HE IS INDEED STILL HAVING SEX! So he should technically still see this as very amazing and privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:32 AM
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Yeah like less 5% of women can do that, and even less on a regular basis, not gonna lie if women could cum as quick and easy as men (on average) by piv then maybe more women would seek out to have more casual sex, unfortunately we will never know…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:04 AM
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This has been my experience most of the time, the fact you establish a connection and get to know the other person way of communicating, thinking and maybe their experiences, likes and dislikes, which will make it easier to communicate and compromise and often time lead to better sex. But ofc it’s a balance and different from person to person at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:27 PM
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That’s funny cause I have met far more people who have had the same experience with early sex like me, that it was uncomfortable, stressful cause of the lack of knowing the person, even if there was attraction, so I guess this is just a matter of knowing different people and/or being in different places. That’s totally fair and good on you for being able to walk away, the amount of men I have walked away from cause they kept wanting to have sex early, and missed out on a potential relationship c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:59 PM
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I would argue that people who have sex quickly often can’t relax and the sex will be bad (or even painful) bc if it, regardless if the guy is good at sex or not. I have tried to have sex at the 3 date mark (which seems to be the time for when to have sex) and it was honestly terrible, not the guy himself necessarily, I just couldn’t relax cause I was letting a stranger (more or less) inside my body which just made me tense up and the sex turned to shit because of it. So even if we would have had…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:56 PM
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She shouldn’t have made the compromise to begin with, and that’s her fault for making a compromise on something that is actually important to her. This is what women are saying, they would let you know that something isn’t working way before meeting your past partner or ex! and if you aren’t willing then that’s ok, but maybe you will break up bc of that, and that sucks ofc, but that’s just life sometimes, the fact you are making yourself miserable because you decided to live or compromise on som…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:17 AM
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For around 2 years or so I wanted to see what the fuss was about, also many others started to drink and I was introduced to it like many others of my friends were and so it felt just natural to swim along with them, it also made it more fun since it were people I already knew. For me, no, not necessarily. I wasn’t interested in either kissing or hooking up, i was more preoccupied with drinking and smoking, they gave me more pleasure and fun. Still not interested in hooking up or casual sex, I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:34 PM
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Lmao welcome to society mate! I know it’s weird but people have different opinions about what other people should do and not do and there’s no way you can actually make everyone happy, while also making yourself happy…soooooo…yeah, you gotta have to make some choices in life DESPITE some people not liking them, everyone have to do that with other things too, otherwise we would all just look into a wall and do nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:51 PM
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So as long I don’t have to do anything sexual related with any of them, (I have low libido and isn’t interested in sex or any sexual stuff) then nr. 2, tho I’m doubting they would wanna be with me if they can’t have sex, but yeah 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:21 PM
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Sign me up! No but seriously that sounds amazing to me, being able to have your own space and ways you want to have your room/house and not be constantly in arguments (or discussions) about how to keep the house, cleaning, cooking etc and just being able to do your own stuff but still go over and enjoy each others company, that sounds like a win win to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:00 PM
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People can lie and pretend if they see it as more worthy to do so, like the idea of being alone or be financially worse of, some might not have a high libido so for them it might not even matter whether or not they are sexual attracted to their counterparts, but you can’t force genuine sexual desire for a person if you simply don’t, some can find their looksmatch very hot and that’s great! but it’s not an ability you somehow attain and wield like as if you go to the gym and work on your muscles.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:28 PM
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Damn guess all them gays should have just realized their true nature and found the opposite sex attractive! this is stupid, people don’t just up and decides what or who they are attracted to, sure they can pretend and say they really like their looksmatch until they get blue in the face, but we are often not in control of what or who we find attractive, if we could a shit ton of these problems would have been solved already, anything from weird and embarrassing kinks to pedophila, and we would a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:26 PM
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You can be as ambiguous as you want with all the “I’m just taking it slow, having fun, and see what happens” or “idk I’m more a one day at time kinda person” and it’s obvious what men are trying to do with this and they aren’t doing themselves any favors by doing it. Maybe if you are very hot you can pull it off but most women would want to fuck that man anyway, if not, they probably wouldn’t take these half assed answers and then start to invest all their time and energy in these men, who clear…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:40 PM
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People do the things that make them happy, saying they should do something else instead WHEN THEY DONT WANT TO, is adding stress and trauma for no good reason, people will put time and effort into things they care about and seems worthy to them, whether that being a parent or starting a business or traveling, we are more than our biology and I don’t see why I should live a hard life like my parents before me, when I have the choice not to do so? They would want me to live the best life I could a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:05 AM
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Yeah no I’m not gonna add some trauma shit to make me feel like I have “grown” that’s like people that says when they got hit as children they now have tough skin, no you don’t, you have mental health issues and anger problems. By any means if you wanna do that, be my guest but I don’t want to become “stronger and greater” I want to actually enjoy my life trauma free.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:42 AM
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we only have so much time to live and enjoy our lives and that’s beside of having to work many hours and just sleeping, why the hell put more stress into it? What’s the idea with “life isn’t supposed to be all rainbows and butterflies” I mean no shit Sherlock but that doesn’t mean I want to go down the thorny path JUST TO MAKE MY LIFE MORE STRESSFUL and when there isn’t a reward at the end, when I could just choose NOT TO DO IT. No I don’t want to have to challenge myself and end up with some tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:28 AM
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Oh I’m sure many men feel that way too, so many men can get prostitutes if they were THAT DESPERATE but that doesn’t make them feel special and actually wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:16 PM
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Lmao maybe see what I said at the end? (Or for anyone for that matter) but go off I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:13 PM
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This is like the wake up pill many women take at some point. It literally doesn’t matter how hard you worked on yourself, whether you have good values, cares about the earth or have perfected a skill for many years etc, men want you just because they like being inside you, you are not special and most wouldn’t care if you were, any meaningful thing you have done wouldn’t matter at all to them, as long you get them hard that’s all they need. Romance is dead when you figure this shit out and you r…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:14 AM
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No cause I’m not interested in dating (neither women or men for that matter) it isn’t worth the effort In my opinion and I’m not horny enough to actually care, now if I was horny like constantly and this was the only way for me, then I would start some medication to kill that shit, ain’t nothing more sad to be a slave to your own dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:38 PM
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Nobody is mad about preferences, that’s your business, it’s when you throw it at somebody when they didn’t ask for it. If you don’t feel compatible with someone then just say that, you don’t need to go out of your way to list whatever you think isn’t good or you don’t like about them, UNLESS that person is directly asking you to tell them, if that’s the case you have to be prepared to hear something that might hurt you, but that’s on you for wanting her or him to go into details, if you don’t wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:48 AM
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Couldn’t have said it better! I don’t get why people get shit for just being there for other people and hyping them up, what should they do instead? Call them ugly and delusional? Yeah that’s nice, that’s definitely not gonna lead to self harm, even more insecurities and bad mental health. Most people know they aren’t the most hottest person on earth but that does not mean they can’t feel confident in the skin they have now and embrace that and feel like a 10 in that body, cause what’s the alter…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:41 AM
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Women gets a pass cause some men allows them to, women gets to have many options cause men will literally put themselves up as fine merchandise for them to choose from, some men will even canon ball themselves at women and then go “why do women have so many options??” if you didn’t do that all of that, women would not have options cause YOU ARE THE OPTIONS. And you said it yourself “if the situation was really bad then the man would handle it himself” isn’t this literally taking the responsibili…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:33 AM
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I have been in situations that needs different handling and I don’t go around policing everyone at the bar (I don’t have the time for that) but if I can see a customer being harassed, they might not come back cause they have now associated this place with a negative experience, and we will just lose more customers, that’s seriously bad for my job and also generally the working place. Ofc I can’t be everywhere and I don’t try to be doing that either, but if I can see something isn’t right I will …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:58 AM
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“I think that men who truly want out of a situation are perfectly capable of getting themselves out of a situation” So this is fine for me to think everytime I see a guy being uncomfortable (like I described before) and not do anything cause “if it was really that bad he would do something” idk this seems like a very dangerous mindset. Most (not always tho) men comes in as groups of friends and then one of them maybe gets harassed by a woman and (as I said from the beginning) the other male frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:18 AM
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I have worked in the bar industry for over 5 years...ofc I can’t say this happens everywhere (and I sincerely hope it doesn’t) so this is just my experience and many other women’s who I have worked with over the years in that industry. I just go over there and asks if everything is good, like you do in most service industries, and if i can see the guy being uncomfortable, like he is physically pulling away from the woman, making nervous and or distressed expressions, I simply asks that maybe the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:52 AM
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Cause when we do we are told “I don’t need saving from a woman” or “it’s none of your business” it’s somehow worse to be seen as weak and need of saving than being harassed. I have worked at a bar and seen some things and tried to intervene when a guy is clearly uncomfortable with a woman and then being told to “not be a cock block” often from the guys friends who finds the whole situation very amusing, and when I ask the guy that looks uncomfortable he just looks the other way or say nothing...…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:35 AM
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So a woman asks that, you can’t say no?? You lost your ability to think and go “hmm you know what? That might not be such a good idea!” You lost all common sense? If women needs to be better at saying no or prevent shitty men to use them (which women gets told by men in here constantly), then men sure as hell needs to do so as well with women, you don’t get to cry victim when you were literally in control of the situation, (to just put a condom on your OWN DICK) but ignored it cause you were hor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:15 PM
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Then do it now! You have already wasted your time and hers by this, you don’t like her past? Fine! No issue, you aren’t obligated to stay and be filled with this disgusts if you can’t take it, go and break up instead of dragging it out, that shit ain’t fair for her or you at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:59 AM
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Most women aren’t born into having PIV orgasm, it’s muscles and nerves that have to be trained over time, and I’m not gonna go and believe your own personal experiences here, if you have a source for it then sure, but none of the sources you have shown tells the amount of time and energy plus money each woman had to do/spend in order to reach a piv orgams beforehand/first time, If it really was so easy and most of them could just use.... let’s say an hour to do it in the first go? Then I will gl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:30 PM
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Nobody has said that the majority of women will NEVER EVER cum from PIV alone, but they sure as hell would not EASILY achieve it if they tried. That’s the difference here, men do achieve easy orgasm from piv, but you ask the same man to then cum from prostate?? Yeah suddenly it’s not so easy anymore right? you aren’t asking women to just “put some little focus on it” you are saying women could (or should) use great amount of time and energy plus money to TRY and get an PIV orgasm. Who would do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:24 PM
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Ofc man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:56 PM
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No prob bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:13 PM
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You do you dawg
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:12 PM
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30 min isn’t that much time wasted, at least I don’t think so, but you can always say in the first text you send to a possible date “hey I like to be able to touch you, like my hand on your thigh or something like that, at least after 30 mins after we have seen each other, that’s very important for me to be able to do so, if you don’t want that then let’s not meet up at all” or something along those lines, that’s one way to minimize your possible wasted time before meeting up on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:08 PM
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No harm done here then, I will only encourage you to leave if that’s the case, I will race you to the check even! no way I wanna waste my time on somebody who I’m incompatible with, I figure you feel the same way. Both are happy at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:57 PM
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Anyone can say anything, that also applies over text, so while he could tell me his entire life story over text before meeting, there’s no way for me to know those things to be truth. As I said, I need to see his character and experience it for myself. Only then will I be comfortable. Maybe it will be 3 months? Maybe 2? It all depends on how often we can meet up and how many activities we can do before I feel comfortable. And in no way would i be mad if a man said he didn’t wanted to wait 3 mont…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:17 PM
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Yes. Not a complete stranger, in that I would at least have his name, but still a stranger, I would know next to nothing about his character, his habits, his living style and so on, and no telling me the things isn’t the same, cause anyone can say anything, actions speaks louder than words so I need to actually experience his character to see it. For me, those things are important to know before I can be comfortable and at ease to let that person touch me, and that would probably exceed the 30 m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:59 AM
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No?? Attraction has no power over my natural instinct in keeping my own physical safety and my mental comfort. They are too big and will overshadow the sexual attraction. They comes first. Always. And I do not feel comfort or safe when a stranger touches me. (I mean unless like it’s an accident or they are trying to get my attention by tapping my shoulder or something like that) ofc I’m not all women so some feel differently about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:36 AM
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Yes and That’s great! I mean the less work I have to do the better really, it’s all so much easier if the person just do the walking out (so I don’t have to) Well i thought it was funny, sry we don’t have the same humor I guess. I do think it’s insane to be seen as a red flag cause the guy you have only met (a total stranger) find it to be a deal breaker that he can’t immediately touch you. Ofc not saying men can’t have this deal breaker and can’t walk out, anybody should have that option and do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:25 AM
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I mean it’s pretty obvious (for me at least) if they touch me, I say I don’t like that, and then they almost immediately leaves afterwards, you don’t have to say anything, your actions speak very clearly. Whether the reason you had in your head as to why I’m a red flag is none of my concern at the end of the day, no need to waste mental energy on what’s going on inside a strangers head, if you don’t like that I don’t want to be touched and will leave after getting a no? Good for you, and good fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:03 AM
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Really love the irony cause if a stranger I have only talked to for maybe 2 hours? is trying to touch me and I nicely explain I don’t want that and they say that’s a red flag on my part? For me, HE Is a red flag, so I guess this is pretty good tbh, no need to waste more time on each other
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:40 AM
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It depends on some factors I think (at least for me) like how introverted is he? Is he more extroverted than me? and would he need way more stimulation than I can and want to provide? If yes then I don’t think I would have any issues sharing him with other women, if anything it would take a burden off my shoulder and not make me feel guilty for neglecting and or not giving him the attention he needs, he can now go to another woman and get his much added stimulation there instead while I can get …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:19 PM
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The way I see it, is the man will ultimately get his pleasure and or orgasm, in the case the couple are having piv (which is pretty often when it comes to sex) if a woman says she doesn’t want to go down on a man, it will often not lead to the man not having any pleasure at all through out the sexual act, he will probably 9/10 times get an orgasm at the end through piv, even if it wasn’t the most amazing one he has had. so meaning; his sexual organ is being actively stimulated no matter what in …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:15 PM
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This is reddit, anyone can say anything, I can say I have fucked some of the most beautiful models and you would just automatically believe me?? Idk but I’m not that naive, and especially not so stupid to do something I don’t wanna do on the mere words of a stranger that he might give me what I want afterwards, AND especially not if my body is gonna be the one involved. It’s just a bad deal tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:12 PM
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People don’t really choose their own libidos, nor who we are genuinely attracted to, it’s just sorta is what it is, nature often doesn’t take requests on that part lol....but it can still be frustrating sometimes for both men and women (for different reasons as well ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:02 PM
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The reason behind as to why some women sees having sex in a committed relationship to be better than having it casually is not very important, I mean idk their personal reasons and I’m sure it can differ, but if a person goes against something they know won’t be comfortable or they don’t like doing, then it’s probably not gonna be a “shared mutually exciting and beautiful experience” if the end goal wasn’t sex for her, but that was all she got, then she will feel like she got nothing out of it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:46 PM
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Again, your words can be as true as any conartist, anyone can go “Hand on my heart I will do xxx when I get xxx first. I have the integrity to keep my end” like yeah and I can say just the same and run off afterwards to chad. Without any form of contract (which is insane to make I will agree and I’m not saying people should do that) the woman is taking a risk and have no guarantee that you will do what you say afterwards cause there’s no consequences if you decides not to. (The same goes for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:03 PM
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There’s no guarantee that you will actually do it after you had your sex either tho, how can she actually be 100% sure you will hold your part of the “deal” and not run off afterwards? You got satisfied and can now go bye bye! While she got nothing out of it. Why should she risk that when she have other options to get her “boost” (dates or attention) from already desperate, naive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:11 PM
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Eh still more worthy if we are comparing it to be with an average or below average man, there’s no really guarantee that those men wouldn’t leave you either, so take the best (if you can) and if it fails then hey, you had something you at least enjoyed!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:15 PM
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The logic is outstanding right? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:31 PM
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why is this so true😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:44 PM
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Don’t waste your breath, one moment women are heartless beings incapable of loving men and the only thing they can put on the table is their bodies, and then when you suggest them other alternatives to just get that, then it’s suddenly all about love and connection...but from who??? The same heartless and shallow women? Logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:56 PM
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It is still effort, granted not a lot, I suppose it depends on how big the lie is and all, but if the man knows he can get multiple women and have many options, why still go the extra effort? There would still be plenty of women who would have sex with him despise him being married or broke or hell even if he was a stoner (as long as he is attractive enough) -he is probably not the best candidate for a LTR, I do agree on that, and that probably doesn’t matter if the man himself doesn’t want a LT…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:56 PM
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Lie, being vague... potayto, potahto, the goal is the same, the man just doesn’t wanna be held as much as accountable if he is being vague, compared to being direct, but that wasn’t my question, why would a chad/very attractive man have to do it?? What’s the logic? An attractive man with multiple options would really go out of his way to make sure to keep it all vague and being all discreet and making sure to say the right stuff to keep her interested but not too blunt and all the stuff....for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:28 PM
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But lying and keeping it somewhat consistent isn’t easy, or it still takes some toll, and it makes sense for men who doesn’t have the looks to pull that card cause they need some sort of carrot for the woman to want anything with them, but for the men who do? Makes no logical sense in going out of their way to make up a lie, keep it somewhat consistent, plan so none of the girls meet each other (if he is meeting others that is) and still be vague enough to make her believe she has a chance, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:34 PM
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Why would a chad lie tho? He literally doesn’t have to, most women would be happy to just have sex with the guy, maybe some are hoping it could turn into a relationship, but those women are still in understanding that it isn’t exclusive and therefore gets frustrated. it’s only average or below average dudes who needs to lie in order to get sex, they are not hot enough to be pulling the honest card and still have women wanting them afterwards, they need to lure them in with something they might b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:44 PM
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Yes. I know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:30 PM
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I wasn’t speaking about LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:03 PM
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I would recommend you read my past comments cause I never said men who can get a 10 would then exclude all other women under that number, they would pick her first which makes sense, after all if the access is just as easy then why not go for the most desirable one, cause if you don’t then another one will, which men seems to recognize very well in here, but they would never exclude all other women if it turns out the 10 isn’t available. There is an order to their approach but often no exclusion…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:05 PM
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Men who are very attractive will have more options. Period. It doesn’t mean he will always get the 10, but he has a way better chance and access than men who are average looking. They “have” to go down, doesn’t mean that they wouldn’t have chosen the latter/the more desirable woman if they could, again it’s not a question about desirability in that case (which was what i said) but about availability, if you say, “men would much rather want the woman who he has most access to, if that means someb…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 04:17 PM
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Let’s be honest here for a sec, men who has just as easy access to a 10 as he would for a 5, would almost always take the 10 to begin with, if the 10 turns out she isn’t available then he will go for the 9, and if not then a 8 and so on (this is ofc if the guy himself is damn attractive himself obviously) until he gets it eventually, being the last option isn’t good attention, and any woman who have been the last option will probably agree, it says more about the woman’s availability and not her…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:11 PM
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Most women do not want attention from men they don’t find attractive, and since most men are unattractive to many women (proclaimed by men themselves in here to be the truth, so let’s just roll with that) so unless you are asking women who are already receiving attention from men THEY DO FIND ATTRACTIVE, you might get a “no” from them. But let’s say the women who didn’t receive any attention from men they do find attractive to begin with cause well, they are average/below looking women themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:59 AM
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Some people just aren’t in the mood to engage in conversation with strangers, maybe she had a long day, maybe she was just zoned out and in her head, or maybe she just didn’t have the mental energy to engage, it’s not so much about you it’s more about the person you try and engage with. sometime it flies and sometimes it doesn’t. I would probably just say hi and see how enthusiastic she seems, and then decide if she to wants to engage or not.
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:50 AM
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Eh just a shortcut really, or a little boost if you will, idk if OP have a history of working out or not so I didn’t take any of that into consideration, but I’m hopeful that OP will also make his own research at the end of the day to decide if it’s worthy taking or not.
/r/seduction28/05/22 07:06 PM
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No problem, just always do the research throughly and good luck
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:55 PM
1

Korea industry for beauty is huge, not only for plastic surgery, but for skincare, makeup and fitness and so on. They also have good aftercare afterwards and high professionalism. I have seen their jaw line surgery and they are very good (as well as nose jobs) idk a whole lot about Turkey but they may also be pretty good
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:29 PM
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Game plays a big part, but since you have decided that isn’t working, then there’s only some options left. Simple. You want hotter girls, then you need to be on their level, or at least hotter than you are now. If you aren’t blessed with good looks then pay for it, get plastic surgery, I recommend from Korea, they are famous for good plastic surgery that looks naturally, use steroids to get bigger, idk how tall you are...but obviously all these can come with side effects, but yeah that’s life gu…
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:21 PM
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Yeah some people just like to have their options open really, I have seen it happen many times with women and men as well, they act like boyfriends and all that romantic stuff but as soon as the exclusivity talk comes up they are suddenly not ready for that big commitment and labeling, idk what to say, some people just want the fun part, but with no hindrances
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:21 PM
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I would be happy. As a low sex drive woman who hates to reject people and see how disappointed I made them cause I didn’t wanted to have sex with them in less than 3 dates, yeah I would love to be the one to initiate, cause it would probably be like...once in a full moon anyway and I wouldn’t have to be the one to constantly reject my partner and then feel like shit afterwards cause they got disappointed. And if he said yes each time I initiated or well was into it after I initiated it (not that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:53 PM
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Well your not going out with any of them in a romantic or to get into a LTR so they don’t really have any reason to use energy or time to get to know you on a deeper level (just enough to know that you aren’t violent or crazy) but yeah if you choose shallow relationship you will get shallow people in it, nothing wrong with that if you like it that way, but yeah it’s not a surprise
/r/seduction22/05/22 04:16 PM
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Honestly you got a point, take out the PIV sex, (I would never cum nor feel anything from that) let me be on top, rub my orgasm (clit) on his thigh, and then he can give himself a handjob (simultaneously or afterwards, he can ofc choose that) I would personally love that arrangement tbh! But I’m curious to how many men would like that? The majority, only some? (this is more in context of ONS but could also be implemented into LTR)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:17 PM
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Well how convenient to leave that part out huh? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:39 AM
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She didn’t say she was living the same life AT THIS MOMENT OF TIME as that man was, she said she had past experiences like many other men could have when trying to find a partner. She got rejected until she didn’t, she still experienced many things they may also had experienced. And Again why can’t a person say they went through shit and now they got out in a better place?? Should we just never bring up struggles cause another one is living those struggles atm?? Like damn you had cancer?? But si…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:02 PM
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The guys comments literally said that her experience wasn’t important and she shouldn’t bring it up cause she wasn’t single anymore??? Also if you had read My comment, NOWHERE does it say I’m comparing the SAME EXPERIENCES as dating and homelessness, what I’m saying and also comparing is that it’s nonsensical to say you can’t talk about bad experiences just cause you aren’t in that same place anymore. If that was the case no one had the right to bring up shit experiences cause there would be som…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:51 PM
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Boi not you thinking I actually meant homelessness, you never heard of an example before??? Or a comparison??? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:36 PM
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Damn ok so anyone who had ever been homeless (ok for stupid folks; this is just an comparison I’m making to make a point) and now aren’t allowed to say they used to struggle? And they had shit experiences too? What kind of nonsensical logic is that even?? Just because someone is out of a bad place doesn’t mean they can’t understand how it felt back when they were there and have empathy for those who still are struggling in that place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:17 AM
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Eh, it depends, no harm in at least trying, but if it’s you fearing you are missing out on something others are experiencing? I can imagine the guys aren’t keeping it low about all their so amazing sex they are having right? Felt like that before (not with sex specifically) but don’t let the feeling of missing out control your life, it will just end up making you stressed out.
/r/seduction09/05/22 11:21 PM
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People can change their style and maybe they have to cut their beards because of work or something else, so maybe it has to come off at some point, we don’t know that, but women can also just tattoo makeup on so it doesn’t go away?? just cause it’s harder to get off doesn’t mean it doesn’t have the same affect of covering up their faces, so if a man did decide to cut off the beard it would have the same effect of a woman who removed her makeup, sure they are different cover-ups, but we get to se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:06 PM
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Sure I agree, but it still covers half a face, like I can’t even see the bone structure! and i would feel “scammed” to see a very nice looking man the first night and then wake up to a baby face with a double chin and acne the next morning lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:55 PM
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if you are actively choosing to use products in order to cover something or make something look better, like foundation or a beard to cover up acne then it’s not natural. If your bead wasn’t growing enough and then you actively used a product to make it grow and look better, or maybe a color to draw it up and look darker/fuller, then it’s pretty much the same. Only if you cut the beard you would have to wait a bit longer to get it back compared to makeup, unless it was tattooed on I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:50 PM
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Yeah but men who knows they look way better with a beard are often also actively buying stuff that enhances beards and make them thicker and longer to cover up their double chin or other stuff, and that’s not natural that’s intentional. If they hadn’t put all kinda stuff in it, it might not have gotten to the length to cover anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:38 PM
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I don’t get it either, beards are covering half of their faces?? Like you got Small lips? Get a beard and mustache, double chin? Get a longer beard to cover it. Got some acne on the cheeks? Beard. Got a weak jawline? BEARD. I have seen pictures of men that did the glow up, they all just got beards and some muscles, like yeah just cover half the face and we are good to go lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:29 PM
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There is really only 3 things you can do in that case. 1: ask her to drop maybe a very important part of her social life and see if she wants to do so. 2: if she says no to number 1, then ask yourself if you can stay in a relationship when you have this much paranoia and stress on the idea that she might cheat when she goes out...and decide if you can live with that or have to break up. 3: pretend your fine with it and hope she eventually will stop going out. (Definitely not the best option but …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:41 AM
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finding another gay man who wants to settle down and get married, is hard to find. Take a look at the dating apps for gay men, they are the overall group who seeks as well as gets the most causal sex, if a gay man who is currently married, knows that the future aspect of finding another gay man that also wants to settle down with after the divorce will be harder to find, they might be more prone to stay in the marriage they have now than to get a divorce. there might not be enough willing partic…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:52 PM
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I will take the risk and say that the abundance of sexual candidates dose not mean the abundance of good sex and even further away to a orgasm. I do know that it’s not the be all and end all to finish but I do think it’s an important focus especially when it comes to casual sex or ONS. I do envy a bit those women who can better enjoy and finish with as much effort as the average man could with ONS, but I know, myself included, that’s just not realistic, not to mention if I were to go down the ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:11 AM
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There was a time (I think in the 1900?) where women would wear needles and use them (mostly on men) to stop them or make them go away, idk how effective they were but the fact that women in the past somehow were more appreciative is a lie, most just didn’t voice it or had other means to solve the issue lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:22 AM
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It would depend on how old the children are, like if they are adults and have their own place, own lives and so on, then I probably wouldn’t mind. But if they were little, like baby or toddler age? Absolutely not. This is because I know that younger children is a task, they take time and they are just a pretty big part of a parents lives no issue with that, I would be happy to see a father being involved in his younger children’s lives, but since I’m childfree this wouldn’t be compatible with my…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:33 AM
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Funny, I have read many times from women and studies that shows the opposite, that some men often loose the interest of “winning the woman over” so to speak or upholding his desirable traits to impress her or making her have sex with him....since he is now in a relationship and can get more consistent sex, and now have no real reason to uphold it as much as he used to, which then leads the woman to not desiring sex as much.....idk, many studies out there so you could be right too, but age and ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:47 PM
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Maybe some men and women are just different then, if I had to always watch porn in order to get myself to have sex with my partner then I might as well invest in a dildo, cause he is not the point of my mental desire anymore, the porn is and he is reduced to a stimulation, one I could buy in a store...and the worst situation is it might end up feeling like chore and I’m just here trying to minimize the possible damage as much in order to do the act itself. I completely agree that desire goes bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:31 PM
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But as I said, there is a difference between being turned on and then being turned on by you/or your partner, I’m sure there are women who can pretty easily get turned on by watching porn or a sexy fantasy, but if that’s not fueled or in no way involves their partner? Is that better? I mean by this she can now have physical sex without being in pain, that’s great ofc, but if my partner had to watch porn to get into the mood and maybe had to watch porn while doing it to stay in that mood...idk bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:49 PM
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That’s what I mean, a lot of people might not have a made in light switch they can just use and then boom, they are ready, it needs to be reality and not fantasy, it needs to come from the outside in order to be turned into “I want to have sex with you” and I also think that being turned on is very different from being; turned on by YOU. it’s not about blaming the man or woman, people often doesn’t deliberately choose what turns them on or not, so if the man doesn’t want to do what gets his part…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:15 AM
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A lot of women get aroused when the man takes initiative, like touching, taking them on dates, give them small gifts or generally just being romantic and teasing, but then a lot of men say that’s just too much effort, or they don’t have the energy, and that’s also understandable especially with long working hours and also if there are small children in the picture, but if that’s what gets her going and he can’t do that, then what’s the solution? If she isn’t aroused then sex can be painful (and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:47 AM
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It kinda makes me feel a bit better to know that not only women go through this. When I was on dating apps I would get these maybe 3-5 times a week, sometimes from women who had a boyfriend and wanted some girl on girl action, sometimes from men who wanted to see their female friend with another woman, idk why since I wasn’t hinting in any way at being gay or bi, but it’s definitely disappointing when this isn’t your thing, but I don’t think you should get homophobic about it, its mostly just a …
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:36 AM
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Acceptance is great, but many won’t or at least will have a hard time accepting it, sometimes well into their years, it is what it is ofc, but I’m not sure those men are gonna feel better if they keep being reminded that the only reason any woman would wanna fuck him is cause there is a fat nice looking check at the end of it. Sugar babies are doing a job first and foremost, just like any woman who have to smile at all the customers she is serving, do not try and make it sound like these women g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:24 PM
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This is a solution to get the edge off and some are probably fine with this very literally transactional relationship, some are fine playing pretend and find it to be easier, but it doesn’t really solve the underlying issues that some average (and or unattractive) men have, and that is to receive this raw sexual desire/attraction from women. These women that you buy, SB or just PS do not desire you as a man or even as a human, they desire your money, these women would never go near your dick on …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:16 AM
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Finally someone said it. It’s so stupid to brag about cause they are literally saying “hey I’m shit scared to be alone so I can be taken advantage off if I know I can just get a slight chance to get laid with a fairly attractive woman since I also almost have zero standards!” And then they wonder why they are so easily replaceable?? And the men who says “but we can’t do anything about it, cause of biology!” Then you are just screaming at what? Nature? The universe? Go ahead, but don’t be mad at …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:48 PM
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I’m advocating for women taking their health and future as their first priority and very much consider the lasting consequences an unwanted pregnancy can cause them and their health, I very much hope that abortions WON’T get banned and women can have control over their bodies 100% ( I’m a VERY STRONG advocate for sexual liberty) but I don’t want to see women suffer under unwanted pregnancies in a country that doesn’t care about them or their health, especially not in a country that have the high…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:05 PM
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Again some couples can be in LTRs without wanting to have children, maybe never wanting to have children or never wanting to get pregnant so no, those women would not be happy to get pregnant even if they were in an LTR, Sure, they might finically be better off, but mentally no, not if they themselves doesn’t wish to be pregnant. If those women value their health and doesn’t want to take the risk of a vey much unwanted pregnancy that can cause a lot of damage to their health, body and mind, in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:26 PM
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You can still not want to get pregnant when you are in a LTR so idk about that one, it’s not so much about the men to avoid tbh, but if the woman herself doesn’t want to get pregnant and take that risk by having sex with a fertile man, I would suggest they don’t have sex with men at all (or PIV sex to be precise) sure it could be frustrating for them (men and women) and I would never actually try and shame women or make it into law that they should refrain from having sex with men, but it’s abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:36 PM
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Cause it would help women avoid unwanted pregnancies plus avoid all the pain of the unwanted birth and maybe avoid long lasting consequences on their bodies....(ofc this is only in the sexual/PIV department) and also a bit because it would be fun to see men get even more mad for not having sex, BUT on the bright side, men would definitely not have to pay for any child support
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:53 PM
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Maybe it will stay the same, but I very much hope not. Regardless I will be ready with my snacks if it goes down, nothing more entertaining than seeing pissed off men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:14 PM
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Welp guess it can’t hurt to bring one more reason to avoid them then 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:26 PM
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I sincerely hope that when abortions gets banned, women will avoid men like the fucking pest, cause carrying an unwanted child for 9 months and then giving birth in the most painful way, is not worth having sex with a man anymore. And the RAGE men are gonna have will be so amazing to witness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:13 PM
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Pretty sure the acesexual subreddits are gonna disagree on that (unless you are referring to aromantic)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:35 PM
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Damn bro, you just disregarded an entire sexual orientation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:28 PM
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Never said anything about misogyny but go off I guess? If women have inflated egos and can’t have the men they want then that’s their issues. Let them be single for the rest of their lives! Hell let them drown in their own miserable lonely lives! Men are only mad cause it won’t benefit them if they do that cause they won’t get the sex they want. That’s it. They are selfish like every HUMAN is (some more than others ofc)🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:53 PM
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Hate to break it to you but women aren’t obligated to lower or minimize their standards, (no matter how out of the world they may be) to accept a dick inside them they don’t want. Welcome to the world of free will. A world where people can have many standards or none, where you can shame women all you want but idk if that’s gotta give you more pussy (I kinda doubt it) but hey be my guest! Cause that’s part of this world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:31 PM
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So essentially you are mad that you had to lower your own standards cause you are desperate for sex, and then gets mad that the ugly woman isn’t willing to do the same? Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:53 PM
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But doesn’t that lead to women “settling” with those men? And as I have read some men In here doesn’t want that either cause it make them feel like shit. They want women to have this RAW sexual attraction towards them (some of the men want at least) but if women can’t force that attraction out of themselves to those men (I’m sure men can’t do that either with obese women for example) but the same men also wants women to settle with them cause they don’t wanna be single and sexless either, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:47 AM
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Personally i wouldn’t take it as an insult, but not really as a compliment either....I just feel numb to it. Like it’s gotten so repetitive and frankly...boring, so you just shrug your shoulders, block the number (or say I’m not interested and walking away if it was in irl) and move on to the next, and then it goes back to square one again. I would like to say I don’t mind people being direct, if anything they are more appreciated so I can move past them quicker, tho I’m not in the dating scene …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:56 PM
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yeah anything from lube, to STDS to how to bind and use rope, to safe words to properly clean with an enma, and just reading up on stuff, what should you be aware of, what could go wrong and what should you not do and what to avoid and so on. Sry for not being specific “boring stuff” can vary from person to person after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:55 PM
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How men and women wanna do sexual acts that take quite the preparation and knowledge, but don’t wanna do any of the “boring stuff” beforehand. Not only is it disturbing, but also very dangerous and lacks so much consideration for their partner (not necessarily a gf, bf or husband or wife, could also just be a casual sex partner)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:36 PM
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Lol I have never seen a woman making out in a gay club with a straight dude, those women are there cause they DELIBERATELY don’t want to get straight male attention. Ofc That’s just the places I know of in my country so take it with a grain of salt. The funniest shit tho is when those same straight dudes get other male sexual attention there, the panic in their eyes!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:54 AM
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Ain’t no one stopping you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:19 PM
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Then leave..?? You didn’t get sex on the second date? Then go! Deception will happen regardless, it’s up to you to decide when you wanna go or not, but you will still be criticized for shitty behavior just like everyone does (to a certain degree depending on what you did or said ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:07 PM
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Sure, so does men, with their gf and wife, nothing new there, but If you spread your poison just be prepared to take it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:35 PM
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You can do (almost) anything you want, but that does not protect you from criticism or consequences for what you decided to do. You wanna leave right after post nut clarity? Go ahead but you might get shit back, and that woman might share what an asshole move you did to her, and don’t be surprised if you are gonna be met with some gross eyes from other women (maybe even friends if you have some in common) if you decide it’s still worth doing and you don’t give a shit? Then be my guest sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:13 PM
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I noticed this too. The two subs are really just challenging each other on who will break their rules/strategy first, either because of lack of patience or desperation for the chance to get sex or a committed relationship. Will the man break and pay for all the meals just to hope he might get some sexy action, that he hasn’t had in more than 8 years...or will the woman put out first so she might land that partner and not lose his interest!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:42 PM
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I think that’s really ironic cause I found FDS from this sub, tho that was bc people were talking bad about it (I can see pretty bad aspects of it so it’s understandable) but if the men in here wasn’t talking about it so frequently then I would probably never know it existed 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:26 PM
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Oh I have been snooping around In there (just to see some bits here and there) and I agree they do have some good advice, but not all women are gonna detect these things, remember, men can also go in there, take all the advice, apply them and do all the things they should do and avoid the red flags, and only be abusive when the woman is trapped or is dependent on him (emotionally or financially) not all men are stupid some can apply the same pattern if need be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:47 PM
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Great idea, now we just need all the mentally, narcissistic and violent men to have a sticky note on their forehead that says “DON’T DATE OR FUCK ME, I WILL MURDER YOU!” so every woman will know their intentions from day one!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:42 PM
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“Men are getting beating more up than women” “Simps with no backbone makes women’s life easier” So....you are all essentially saying that other men are the cause for these issues here. Men beat each other up, women could also, but since we know women aren’t as physically strong as men, most women wouldn’t be able to, and simps have no self control and zero standards and it ruins it for the men who do, which yes sucks, greatly I might add. But I fail to see how women are causing these issues? (No…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:51 AM
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You forgot the skinny and scrawny men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:49 PM
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Oh yeah, I’m sure they do, I just don’t personally understand why, but that’s their life and not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:27 PM
2

The option of dying alone seems more appealing honey 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:05 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:02 PM
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I do, you goofy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:40 PM
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Yeah that’s the point, I would rather do that, cause if I have no emotional connection and I’m not attracted to the man, and I had to do all the work to cum, then me mastrubating alone would give the exact same result (minus all the health risks)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:37 PM
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Cause if I had to do all the work myself in the end while the man could use my body (aka vagina) to make himself cum....then why the fuck is he even there then? I don’t get anything out of that personally, and if I had to do everything myself then I might as well have just mastrubated alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:08 PM
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I have respect for those men that goes into a friendship with no other ultra motive other than a friendship, but then as time goes on, he might starts to have feelings (romantic and or sexually) for her. That is unfortunate, especially when the feelings isn’t met and that can cause a lot of damage and I understand why men might not want to stick around. It’s just a sad and unfortunate situation for both people tbh. BUT those men who deliberately and knowingly goes into a friendship with a woman …
/r/seduction29/12/21 11:11 PM
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What is “deep talks” and “intelligent subjects”? Is it what YOU consider it to be and value to be interesting and intelligent, or is there some form of given and absolute definition of those things? I think women do appreciate “intelligent conversation and subjects” but that doesn’t correlate to what YOU might think those subjects should entail. People are different, men and women are different, that’s just life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:09 PM
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Welp i cannot agree or disagree that women as a whole downright HATES STEM intelligence since I cannot find any numbers or surveys that support the one or the other. I’m sure that women might have a preference or a more common interest in another form of intelligence compared to men. ( not universally ofc) Then again I’m not from the US so there might be some difference in culture and educational aspects. ( idk if you are either tho)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:17 PM
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Women do value intelligence, but as you said, it might not be the same kind that you like and value most. Idk if women hate or dislike STEM intelligence, seems rather harsh to downright hate something, I think some just don’t find it to be very interesting. Idk if there is a specific number tho. I’m sad to hear you have to hide a big part of yourself because you fear some women might not want to progress things with you (or be downright hateful) towards you. It’s fine you have a preference but m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:58 PM
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Idk what bad advice you have been given, there exists quite many of them, but if you do something that seems to work then have at it, I’m not gonna stand in your way or anything. My comment was more directed at what kind of intelligence is at play and how we as humans can have different values to where and how we apply our intelligence (like in hobbies or interests or in our relationships or casual relationship)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:57 PM
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This isn’t about intelligence, it’s more about a common interest or at least the same value about common interests that can be shared and discussed. Being intelligent can be so many things and can be a very broad term, to name a few, there is the emotionally intelligent, scientific, mathematical, philosophical, artistic...saying that most women don’t appreciate intelligence when you haven’t even mentioned which form of intelligence that is at play here. You say you like history and would love a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:20 PM
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Good luck, even men who openly admits they have raped 4 teenage girls, won’t even get prison time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:50 PM
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Anything that could mean “I don’t want to have sex with you right now at this moment” could be an insult to some men. Whether you say he is husband marital, just a good friend or like a brother to you (tho most people don’t wanna fuck their own brother) all those things can be some sort of insult or negative thing. Ofc context do matter. And I’m sure it does get used as a “I like you but i don’t wanna fuck you” which yes is a negative thing if the man is more or less only looking for getting sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:02 PM
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I think nr. 2 would be worse. Now I would end things regardless if it was nr. 1 or 2 scenario. But if I were to ask him WHY did it happen, what was the reasoning behind it, what thoughts did he have and so on, I’m sure he would have a “better” reason in scenario nr. 1 which would probably be something like, he fell in love or he developed feelings for someone else, I would be devastated ofc, but I would be more satisfied with the reason as to why it happened and kept happening. I could get a bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:06 PM
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Success. No doubt. Beauty is fleeting and doesn’t last very long, and even if I did take care of my body and face as best as I could, I would never be able to push my beautiful youth that far into my older age. Death and old age will be waiting regardless of my efforts and I would be left with virtually nothing in the end. With success I can leave something behind at least, being money, a house or go traveling or even making my own business and knowing it may be taken over long after I have reac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:58 PM
2

I read the that the BDSM community HATED IT with such a passion for portraying such a toxic and unrealistic view of what BDSM really is, I’m not into the whole thing but it was a pretty heated thing back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:07 AM
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And if the man did get violent it wouldn’t surprise me that the woman would be blamed for it afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:16 AM
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Women who likes sex, likes GOOD sex, women who have experienced good sex (maybe from a past ltr or a fwb) knows how good sex can be and so are looking forward to having it with their new partner cause they KNOW it can be good and very satisfying.
/r/seduction27/11/21 08:05 PM
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I mean anyone can shoot their shot if they want to, as long as they take the first rejection and leave the person alone afterwards, then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:29 PM
1

I agree that people should be financial able to support themselves (ofc it does depend on their age as well) a woman that makes a man wait for sex can be seen as a man that makes a woman pay 50% money on a date even tho he didn’t do that when he was younger, just like the woman didn’t make a man wait for a month when she was younger. Why? Well maybe cause they both got burnt and taken advantage off in the past and now doesn’t want that to happen anymore, so they are trying to vet out the people …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:35 PM
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Some men say they don’t feel comfortable to pay for a woman every time they go out on a date, cause they are scared to be taken advantage off, the same some women might not be comfortable jumping into bed with a man on the first date, the idea that a woman had her fun and now wants to settle can be the exact same from a mans point of view where he might had his fun spending money on women when he was younger, but now that he has gotten older he wants to settle down with a woman that sees him mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:52 PM
1

Again so a man who paid for dinners and all kinds of fancy things in his past for a woman are now not allowed to go 50/50 in the present for another woman he is seeing? He had his fun while spending money on good looking women and now when he is older he wants to be selfish and go 50/50? Money is also pretty important for a relationship, especially if both wants children or buy a house and all that in the future. A man who had no issue and had his fun while spending money on a woman in the past …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:14 PM
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Lol same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:34 PM
1

The same could be said to men who once in their past paid for a woman every time they went out, after he got burnt or gotten taken advantage off, he then figured doing this is stupid and he doesn’t wanna be taken advantage off anymore, and now in the present when he dates a new woman he will only go 50/50, that’s him being inconsistent, if he could do it in the past for another woman then he should be consistent and do it for the woman he is seeing now. This is insane, no man wants to keep doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:18 AM
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I love how everyone is like “just ask her to come over that means sexy time” I would be that woman that would bluntly ask “is that you saying you wanna hookup (have sex) with me?” I know it’s gonna kill some mood but I need to be sure sir, I cannot take these uncertainties I need to know what’s gonna go down😂
/r/seduction24/11/21 12:30 PM
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For me, one time hookups, one night stands and such is no where beneficial for me, If I cannot get any pleasure or orgasm then it ain’t worth it, and many times that ain’t happening with these hookups (for me at least) unless the guy really was 200% into giving me pleasure, but I cannot know that from a stranger I met 15 mins ago, so it ain’t worth the time or risks for something I wouldn’t get anything out of, not even if the man was very handsome, a hot face doesn’t secure nor is enough for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:34 AM
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That very much depends on where on the planet you are, come to the Nordic countries and few woman would expect the man to pay for her, if a man even tired to argue with the woman about it, it would be considered rude behavior (could be a nice gesture like if a friend paid for me, or someone opened the door, but definitely not an expectation) if you go to Korea, or maybe china, well you better have a bigger wallet then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:03 AM
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Tbh for me the part that he wants to break up so he can get more experiences or try the waters or whatever you wanna call it, with other women is not the biggest issue, the resentment part is, like if I had a partner that said they were starting to RESENT, like hate me, feeling resentful towards me for my past experiences then I would gladly break up with them or really be rethinking this relationship, I could understand a little jealousy or a bit bitterness, I mean we are humans and we can all …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:25 AM
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The fact you just spilled kind, loyal and cute as if those were some pretty broad terms, like cute? What does that mean, is that skinny with big eyes? Little chubby and soft? Both? And kind? How? Does she give your gifts? Is she kind because she listens to your problems? Is one more important than than the other? She’s a good listener, she gives me a lot of kisses, she gives me compliments, already there are 3 more preferences just from the statement “I want her to be kind” Men do have have pref…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:18 AM
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The fact they use “its my biology!” To not having standards and being simps is so stupid, cause then there really isn’t much to do then? Like if you are just programmed like that and you cannot change that then you can scream all you want to the universe and stamp your feet, but don’t be mad at women they didn’t make your biology this way, that’s just nature, might as well just accept it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:54 AM
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Yep head this too, if this is true, it really comes down to who gets desperate enough to “put their gate down” so to speak, in order to get what they want/desire
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:37 PM
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I don’t think it’s a bad idea but I do think you have to consider the kind of commitment you are taking on, like the first guy with the tattoo sleeve, that’s pretty permanent and I do think you have to adopt a certain mindset (why do you like tattoos, are they inspired by something? Nordic mythology, Greeks and or certain movies you love?) niches often comes with a committed personality to that specific niche and or style you are trying to show to other people (like in public places) ofc it does…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:55 PM
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“I’m completely fine with you sleeping with others, it’s not a big deal, I’m not ready to settle down yet myself” -woman proceeds to sleep/get together with another guy -first guy gets angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:48 AM
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The only bullshit in this is if the man himself wanted his wife to bear his children and was completely aware of the fact that there is a very clear possibility that she will end up with a mom-bod afterwards giving birth (she can lose it ofc but the time for losing it can vary) but if the man is 100% aware of all this and still encourages his wife despise knowing she might turn more unattractive after giving birth to his children and then he gets mad or petty that she actually got a mom-bod?? Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:49 PM
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I don’t think there is anything wrong with wanting a traditional family and be a stay at home mom or housewife, or be the working man/main provider, but I always encourage the woman and the man to really consider this kind of arrangement, choices have consequences and they can come back at you and bite you in the butt, so just think about the future and yes you have to think of the possibility if you end up divorcing and what kinds of consequences it can have for you (and children if you have an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 06:54 AM
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If I don’t get an orgasme out of it, then I wouldn’t do it, if I have feelings for the guy I would still want to have an orgasme, I don’t see why I should compromise on my own sexual satisfaction just because I’m in a relationship or doing hookups. I don’t do one night stands or one time hookups because I know there is a little chance I will get an orgasme out of it, so I don’t see any reason to engage in them, if I wanted validation then just knowing the guy would like to have sex with me would…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:06 AM
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An attractive man (if I also was white then even better) 100% no question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:02 PM
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I feel like this is the other side of coin to when women have a hard time finding a good paying job after the divorce, ofc that would be the case, cause compared to the husband who actually worked most and expanded his career or position in his workplace the wife in the meantime prioritized taking care of the children and thereby neglected her career. There is a consequence for every choice, if you prioritize work then you might end up neglecting your children and you might lose custody of the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:26 AM
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Honestly personally I’m a fairly open minded person when it comes to different sex acts and exploration seen or done in porn, what I despise is when the other person (a man in my case) wanna do something he has seen in a porn, but he don’t wanna do any or have any intention to do the preparation beforehand, making sure all the safety precautions has been taken and understood and he has done his research throughly on the subject, also found the right requirements for the sex act and so on....esse…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:23 AM
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The fact so many of my female friends who have told their male partner what they like, very clearly to them, have either been dismissed or the guy does it like for 1 sec and never does it again, saying the same thing over and over again gotta be hella annoying in the end
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:08 PM
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Whether you think her reason is unreasonable or lack of a reason is gonna be your ultimatum or dealbreaker is purely up to you. What I mean is that one actually care enough to at least try and start a dialogue. Communication is important and if the other person refuses to talk about the issue then I can understand why one might wants to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:01 AM
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Yep there are definitely options that can be taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:22 PM
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Ofc not, anything can change and how that couple wants to deal with those changes is up to them, maybe they will work it through or maybe break it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:18 PM
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Well it was just an example, a couple where one person starts on some medicine where it can effect the body and the ability to perform way more frequently can also happen, life happens and as much as that sucks it’s just part of life, how you react to it and deal with it is another thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:58 PM
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If you feel unsatisfied in a relationship you can leave it, that’s perfectly fine, I don’t think anyone should be in an unhappy or unsatisfying relationship, but you cannot say that the mental mind and ones physical body always goes hand in hand. Because it doesn’t. Example: A man who consumes some alcohol prior and is now about to have some amazing sex with this very hot girl, but he can’t get an erection, does that mean he actually didn’t find the woman which he wanted to sleep with attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:50 PM
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I mean things can happen in a relationship too, unexpected things can always happen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:30 PM
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That a lot of women are gonna cry cause you got a bigger cake than them😂
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:55 PM
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I mean you cannot know for sure if the other person is lying, but I would hope there is some trust when you are in committed loving relationship, if there ain’t and the other person keeps thinking that the other person is lying and deceiving them then I think there is a bigger problem other than the sex part.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:17 PM
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That’s not always how the body works tho, one can be mentally turned on but be dry and not turned on physically and sometimes vice versa. Unless your fine with knowing and watching you partner not enjoying it at all. This can happen when you are taking certain medications, birth control can also have some impacts on this. This can happen for anyone and while that can be frustrating it comes down to how the couples will tackle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:02 PM
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I think you can be into someone and still not have the sexual drive to have sex with your partner, outside factors can also play a part here which can make the other person not being able or get in the sexual mindset or maybe their body are having a hard time getting turned on. Ofc all couples can have those days, the issue mostly occurs when this becomes a frequent pattern. But yeah no pressuring and try and choose your battles is definitely an important thing to try and remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:22 AM
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I feel like these examples is on the very extreme and already pretty messed up side, it’s no secret that people can be abusive or do dumb tests and what not, most of those relationships are hard to save, but otherwise when it comes to these things having an open communication and dialogue would be best where both people can talk and say what’s on their mind. I get that some people value sex higher than others, and anyone have the right to leave a relationship anytime or for any reason 100% agree…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:23 AM
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Yeah they are victims of other men beating them, not women. Still as awful, but it ain’t the woman beating these men up in the streets, that’s other men. Physical violence is mostly (ofc not exclusively) done by men to women and other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:30 PM
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Ofc but not the majority, but if that violence goes to the same length as with what men (some men) do, you let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:24 PM
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Well you tell me when these women are gonna go out in the streets and kill several men, rape them, shoot them, beat them to a plump and what not. I will wait 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:20 PM
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Still not threatening with suicide and whining about why men don’t wanna stick their peepee inside them, if anything these women are on the; “I’m just gonna die alone” could be some form of self destruction, but oh well🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:04 AM
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“You as a woman can just use makeup and become beautiful, you have it so easy, such a privilege!” woman uses makeup. Gets ridiculed, mocked and made fun of for it afterwards. Great privilege 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:35 AM
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Saw a man openly admit he raped a 14 year old girl for hours, and when he discovered god, he convinced himself that it was actually the devil that had taken over his body and did the raping, making him the real victim. Religion can make anyone delusional tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:06 PM
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Sure in this case if the man doesn’t want to wait around for so long (like months in your example) and he somehow knows the woman he is with or dating had other relationships (like right before she met him) where she would very quickly get into bed with those men for x reason -maybe cause she found those men more attractive,you as a man have the absolute right to not want to wait around and can break it off or stop dating that woman. If it doesn’t align with your values then I think it’s perfect…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:21 AM
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What are we basing this off on? in the past, you mean a year before she met you? Two years? a month ago? Or when she was like in her teens? Cause there is a big difference comparing someone when they had a body of a teenager and one when they are in their mid or start 30’s. Some women might had it way easier getting turned on (physically speaking) when they were teenagers compared to when they are older (some older than others) like believe it or not, having sex with someone when you cannot get …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:33 AM
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Exactly. Everyone can try aim heigh and above, but that doesn’t mean they will get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:28 PM
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It’s a little sad to fear being alone this much, I mean I would rather “die alone” than dying in an unhappy marriage cause I just didn’t wanted to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:42 AM
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also the fact that the majority of women won’t even get an orgasm out of it (at the very least) what a privilege that must be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:36 PM
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It won’t, if you aren’t in the mindset (at least for me) to socialize, then I’m not gonna suddenly change that bc someone random went over to me and wanted to start a conversation with me, I wouldn’t wanna talk cause that’s not what I went out to do, (conversation wise I mean) I’m sure the guy could be nice and all, and I wouldn’t be rude about it, but I’m not gonna be interested in getting to know him (or anyone else for that matter) if I didn’t wanted to socialize in the first place.
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:19 AM
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Well I’m gonna assume what you mean in public, you mean in the daytime, maybe after working hours, in places see like grocery shops, parks, cafes and or on sidewalks and so on? honestly I have never heard a woman say she likes being approached like that, (but not saying they absolute hates it either) normally people are just going on about their day, getting all the things they need done, like grocery shopping getting from A to B, picking up things they need or maybe just going out for a walk or…
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:08 PM
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Well good luck finding that woman that’s all I can say, and I appreciate at least you are living up to your own standard👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:54 AM
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Wait so if you were to meet a woman, a beautiful kind smart and lovely woman, she wants kids with you wanna marry you and all, you share many hobbies and have great conversation, you absolutely love her and thinks she is amazing, you will throw that all away if she says “I had a past -teen years that lead me down to having casual sex with other men” -like 20 men, then you gonna throw up your hands and just walk away? That’s where the line is for you? All she is now is, who she is now cannot save…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:08 AM
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Oh I see, sry
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:55 PM
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I don’t understand whats the issue if a woman had casual sex in the past, I mean people have different perspectives and values when they are younger and maybe wants to explore the sexual world, finding out what they like and so on, but those values can change and people change alongside their age and what they want out of life. Maybe a young 20 year old doesn’t want to settle down and buy a house and have 4 children, but maybe she wants that when she is 27? I can understand if you don’t wanna be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:20 AM
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If people make shitty choices and knows the consequences of those choices, let them take them, you aren’t part of their lives in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:30 PM
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It is slavery if you force someone into a lifestyle or a situation they didn’t choose to be part of nor wants to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:02 AM
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Sometimes men don’t care, they will stick around women with very toxic and abuse behaviors and be fine with it cause she is very hot. Just like some women would. It’s sad on both ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:18 PM
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No I’m saying I do agree with you. People and society as a whole needs to stop the notion that being beautiful or chasing this attractiveness that is mostly presented to women as if it is all there are. It can be so toxic and leave women with a complete fucked up mindset that they only need to look good cause that’s the only value they have and so doesn’t need to put so much value in their personalities. Being attractive can help you get the foot inside but it won’t always let you stay. (As peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:36 PM
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But I think this is also where so many women suffers too. (And also the man on the receiving end) Women are general told to keep their appearance up, or to value beauty as their number 1 priority above anything else, cause what if you start slipping up? Maybe she starts to gain too much weight? Well your man or crush might find another woman who is more beautiful than you, and leave her for you, and for a lot of woman that is a real fear. So they invest all their energy, money and hours to gain …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:02 PM
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This right here. I’m sure if daycare was more affordable and better in general it would take more stress from the parents (especially the mother)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:10 PM
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If a attractive man settles down and also have children with an ugly submissive woman, then fair enough. Personally I haven’t seen that happening nor heard many stories of that, but if it does happen I guess you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:01 AM
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Well agree to disagree. I believe anyone can get sex, the question is how far are you willing to lower your standards. Getting in a relationship and openly dating that person can be a very different experience. My point blank is that men is presented with an alternative, maybe not the most reliable and definitely not the easiest one, while women just aren’t. Flat out. This alternative could also land a man a relationship and not just sex, (more in the confidence and personality department tho) b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:01 PM
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I have heard plenty of unattractive men or just average looking men (idk if they were redpillers) bash women for this, in real life and online. Plastic surgery comes with a lot of risks, sure they are easy (if you have the money for it that is, and you can go to a decent place with professionals) the amount of women that gets butchered noses, boob implants that can pop and leave infections and many other things are pretty high, sure easy to make, but not without any risking and those risks can b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:45 PM
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Yes they can pay for surgery and makeup, use thousands upon thousands dollars on that and become more attractive, just to be called cakeface and a catfish afterwards. I mean isn’t that why the whole: “take her to the beach on the first date” came from? Men who wanted to make sure they didn’t date an ugly woman, and to “expose” her, you could say. (That’s Was I got from it at least) I rarely see people bashing men (or anyone for that matter) from wanting to improve their personality traits or bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:55 PM
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I think many of these cases (probably not all) is due to past trauma, neglect or being conditioned in a certain way to feel most comfortable or maybe even more safe by seeking their past abuse or a new abuse in order to gain control of the situation. The idea that a woman can “fix” a broken or abusive man has being portrayed in so many kinds of media’s that it probably have effected many women and maybe still are, this is also very dangerous thinking and many times not possible to do in the firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:42 AM
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How is it not? I mean sure it is pretty in human nature to want to be desired and wanted (romantically and sexually) but it have definitely become a good profit for companies to sell beauty products with the promise they are gonna make women be more beautiful and attractive if they buy it and use it. I mean there is a whole industry just dedicated to try and stop women from aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:25 PM
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Nowhere did I claim that, read the full post plz. I said that this is not hardcore evidence that this is how it always is, it’s from a personal experience and what I have seen, that’s not a claim. I never said it would never be the case, nor would it never happen a woman with an ugly face but a very attractive body couldn’t get an attractive man to date her. You can’t dispute a claim I never made. So no I don’t have to proof anything cause I never made any claims to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:10 PM
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I’m not proofing anything, nor claiming anything, I’m talking about what I have experienced and if you haven’t then that’s not for me to proof to you. Read the full post next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:58 PM
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Google image is free
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:41 PM
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I’m not trying to say that unattractive women somehow have it worse than unattractive men, I think both are dealt with not so good cards, I’m pointing out that men have some leverage to put more into having a better personality or gaining success in order to be more appealing to women as a last resort if they can’t become more physically attractive, this leverage is almost never presented to women, cause it probably wouldn’t work for them. Women are being presented with mostly beauty oriented op…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 01:45 PM
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Not my experience, fucking and dating is not the same, sure fucking with a bag over your head could be an option, tho I’m not so sure how many would take it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 01:08 PM
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I’m not saying ugly women can’t get matches, the point is they aren’t typically from attractive men. I have seen unattractive women being in relationships or having partners that’s equally as unattractive, and vice versa with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:30 PM
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I don’t believe so, unattractive women aren’t being presented with the idea that if you become more confident, have better social skills, better humor and or more successful could land you an attractive man (more attractive than her) the same way it is for men. I agree, improving on the things you can improve (physically speaking) is always a good idea, for both genders and definitely can make you more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:24 PM
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But again, the major things is beauty oriented, I’m happy that more women are finding happiness outside of being more beautiful or more attractive, that’s a good thing, but if the saving ground for men is hard, and is not always successful (working more on the personality or success aspect) i can only imagine it to be almost impossible for a woman to succeed in that field. Most of those female coaches also put a lot of focus on making yourself happy without a man involved (I’m not saying that’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:50 AM
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What do you mean “show you one”? Like a static or a friend or someone I know? These aren’t evidences I’m throwing out, it’s what I have seen and experienced myself, idk if that’s gonna cut it, but if you haven’t seen it or ever heard of such things happening, then that’s just your experience🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:26 AM
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The thing is, if men were to want to date a woman that is more attractive than himself he has ways to do it, ofc as I said, these aren’t easy in no way, but can be achieved, if not by his own looks then by his successfulness, getting more Wealthy or maybe gaining more confidence or humor. I mean the whole pick up artist industry is to essentially make men who is not very attractive to get with more attractive women. The more attractive she is, the more success for the man. Women doesn’t have thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:11 AM
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The same could be said to men, stop being so focused about women wanting to fuck you or not, and just invest your time and energy in something else. Easy right? I’m not insecure about my nose, it was just an example that some women or men do have facial features that cannot just be trained away, as I said you can live with it and be happy, but is that easy? No it’s not, and saying it is, is just a plain lie (at least for many people) does that mean you have to dig yourself into a hole and pity y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:00 AM
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Well that was just an example, some cultures do find women who are heavier to be seen more healthy and have better aspects to have children, and then there is the complete opposite. Facial features can be seen as beautiful in another country and very ugly in another. And if you were unlucky to be born in a place that’s holds the majority of opinion that this kind of nose is very ugly then you can either live with it, or invest in plastic surgery and get it done or travel to a country where you k…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 08:48 AM
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Well ofc it depends on where you live, beauty standards do wary depending on where you live, even for men. I’m mostly talking about in the US or western countries, but I do understand what you mean. I have seen my heavier female friends being rejected by a lot of men, but then traveled to somewhere else and was deemed very attractive to those men living in that specific county. But not everyone have the luxury or money to travel to another place or even another country, there are also men that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 08:28 AM
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I do agree with you, it’s not women cannot work hard, they just have to work in another way, as you said, investing in good makeup, eating healthy (women do tend to gain more and quicker compare to men, so a lot us have to watch what we eat in some sense) it’s just many of those ways is to gain beauty, and my post isn’t to somehow making those women feeling like all hope is lost (I myself is what you would call a butter face so I really understand what you say, also suffered from acne most of my…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 08:16 AM
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Women with ugly features, crooked eyes, too big nose, (maybe even the bird nose that some calls it) way too thin lips, and many others features that we as society had deemed unattractive, do exists. How many idk, I haven’t looked at those data’s, and as in my post I’m not talking about women who are attractive, sure many women and men hit the gym in order to become more attractive, there are just some things you cannot run or exercise away. Some people can’t hit the gym cause of medical reasons.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 08:04 AM
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For me, no. Interacting with men in a sexual setting is draining. I can’t have vaginal sex (I suffer from vaganisme) so if there’s gonna be penetration, it’s the backend and the amount of preparation and explaining I have to do, is so draining and just not worth it, also I’m just tried of being a bucket list some men can cross off, having to deal with men saying they tried it before and then just ending up in pain, cause they don’t actually have a clue about what their are doing (which is fine, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 03:17 PM
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