hopfield Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
249	Man describes how his unemployed wife spends all her time on Instagram, decides she is "pansexual" and "polyamorous", and begins sleeping with other people, all while he pays over $4k a month for her living expenses		hopfield	/r/MGTOW	27/11/17 01:46 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	The manosphere and looksmaxxing are direct outcomes of an open sexual market — and they’re becoming the new normal Men have no standards. Fat women, ugly women, mean women, they all get laid easily. But if you’re a man you need to be fit, tall, and handsome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 02:40 AM
4	Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the economic feasibility of sex work for the average woman Most men aren’t gay though. You’re just proving the point that women have it easier	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 08:39 PM
6	Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the economic feasibility of sex work for the average woman There’s no demand	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 08:25 PM
21	Identical males were rated as significantly more attractive by female participants on a rating scale of 1-10 when placed in a 'high status' (Silver Bentley Continental GT) than a 'neutral status' (Red Ford Fiesta ST) motor-car Over for hot hatch enjoyers	/r/BlackPillScience	29/12/25 03:09 AM
1	Why don’t women like passport bros? should only be making based upon other, supposedly fairer attraction factors, such as looks and personality This is where we fundamentally disagree. Looks and personality come from genetics, upbringing, and hard work. So some of it you can control, some of it you can’t. Just like money. I don’t see a problem with a man trading an asset he has (money) for an asset the woman has (looks).	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 06:48 PM
1	Why don’t women like passport bros? How is it exploitation? She could just as easily marry a local guy but she chooses to marry a foreigner because it gives her a better life. Just like the guy could easily marry a Western woman but he chooses to marry a foreign woman because, again, it gives him a better life. I don’t see how this is exploitive, it’s two people coming together and making each other happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 06:02 PM
1	Most men are suffering more from mental blocks than actual problems in the sexual marketplace What do you mean lifestyle? Unless you’re a millionaire you can’t really take years off work - the hole in your resume will stop you from getting a new job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 12:32 AM
3	Most men are suffering more from mental blocks than actual problems in the sexual marketplace Objects don’t matter. You wear a Rolex and pull up in a Bimmer and youre still gonna get ignored at the club if you’re skinnyfat or ugly. The guy working as a bartender wearing the Casio and driving a Rio is gonna pull more chicks just because he’s around them more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 11:31 PM
4	Most men are suffering more from mental blocks than actual problems in the sexual marketplace Money literally doesn’t matter at all to women	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 11:26 PM
5	How would you summarise the new social contract for average men to follow, for average dating success? Be attractive That’s it. Money doesn’t matter anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 10:24 PM
5	Dating (not "modern dating", dating in general) has been a failure, and is leading to the downfall of society That’s actually not true at all, even if you’re a below average guy you should be able to date a below average girl. The problem is that those below average girls don’t want them back - they’d rather have casual sex with guys out of their league on dating apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/24 09:57 PM
6	First dating app for people with autism and ADHD launches This dude built an entire dating app just to find a himself a chick	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/24 04:18 PM
6	What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks? Based	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 07:34 PM
3	CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days. Relationships are a want, rather than a need It’s level 3 in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 01:43 PM
3	Can we finally admit that men who find women unattractive, that they are openly mean to them, or simply don't think they exist? I know people that exercise regularly and eat healthy and still look a bit chubby. Your fat distribution is entirely genetics based. Asians don’t store fat on their arms for example, their body prioritizes other areas first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 09:17 PM
-1	Can we finally admit that men who find women unattractive, that they are openly mean to them, or simply don't think they exist? Not really, genetics play a huge part in being fat or not	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 01:23 PM
6	If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearance It doesn’t matter. Chad can show up to a Tinder date with shit stains on his shorts and he’ll still score. It’s over	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 02:07 AM
2	Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anything “Anyone can get faster. I’ve seen 17 year old Kenyans run a mile in 4 minutes. What are you going to do: not run? Stay slow?”	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/23 09:56 PM
1	Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anything Weightlifting doesn’t matter unless you have the right genetics to produce enough testosterone to build muscle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/23 09:24 PM
2	The terms 'low value' and 'high value' Aren't values different to everyone and their personal preferences as well? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 12:34 PM
6	Most people agree that there are not enough high value men for all women, but we don't agree what causes it I just want to have a wife and kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 03:51 PM
0	Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe, with women a small superminority in both Because women don’t need them, guys approach them IRL	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 04:46 AM
25	Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe, with women a small superminority in both They do have a 3:1 ratio or worse, that’s why women get in free	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 04:45 AM
3	Do you think mothers are confused as to why their now grown nice guy son has yet to find a partner? This is well written	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 02:38 PM
16	Most men don't get laid because they don't approach and talk to enough women Sounds like a winner to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 10:24 PM
8	More women reported consistently fantasizing about "being raped by a man" than "having sex with a physically unattractive man." Over for Hunchback of Notre Dame cels	/r/BlackPillScience	02/11/22 01:23 AM
3	Autistic women are more likely than neurotypical men to already have had a relationship It’s over for train cels	/r/BlackPillScience	28/10/22 05:58 PM
8	People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating. Would you apply that logic to homeless people too? It’s just natural selection and they’re just meant to live on the streets?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 10:30 PM
32	Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts? Oh I thought humans enjoy sex, silly me, I must be out of touch	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/22 03:00 AM
9	Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girls So, actually you do need a partner to complete your life? Just a casual one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 10:53 PM
7	Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girls Uhh isn’t intimacy on Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 10:13 PM
3	Brain size predicts problem-solving ability in mammalian carnivores Not over for Jimmy Neutron cels	/r/BlackPillScience	17/10/22 02:50 AM
2	CMV: Women don’t shame older women who go after barely legal/early 20s guys the same way they shame men who do after barely legal/early 20s women Early 20s is “barely legal” now? 😆	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 10:06 PM
6	Relationship perceptions and conflict behavior among cannabis users. (Cannabis use is associated with less effective behavior and physiological regulation during romantic conflict) It’s over for bud cels	/r/BlackPillScience	18/09/22 03:01 PM
21	Asian American Men in Romantic Dating Markets Over for Chinacels	/r/BlackPillScience	02/09/22 01:23 AM
2	Women who met your boyfriends on social media or dating apps, what made him different from the rest? Boxer = famous, violent, high T. Boxers probably get more pussy than CEOs	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 01:02 PM
2	Women who met your boyfriends on social media or dating apps, what made him different from the rest? Everyone else on Reddit says it’s about personality	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 01:01 PM
27	Women really dislike autistic men Even awkward women don’t like awkward men	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/22 12:49 AM
1	Young male gang members (between 14 and 18 years old) were 5.7 times more likely to have had sex and 3.2 times more likely to have gotten a girl pregnant than their peers reporting no gang involvement. They deleted it because the research is too old https://reddit.com/r/science/comments/wk56fm/young_male_gang_members_between_14_and_18_years/	/r/BlackPillScience	09/08/22 02:50 PM
13	economic consequences of major tax cuts for the rich \| Socio-Economic Review It’s over for 99% cels	/r/BlackPillScience	07/08/22 08:30 PM
1	How are there so many successful men who continue to struggle? Personality aka looks	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 01:41 PM
12	Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sex “Just be good at everything bro” There are only so many hours in the day. The guy who is working late to excel at his job isn’t going to have time to hit the gym and get ripped.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 11:40 PM
1	Is "stealth wealth" a bad idea for someone who wants love? Better than nothing!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 04:41 PM
5	Women, how often are you approached by men? How do you usually react when it happens? Life is so easy for women	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 06:32 AM
1	Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom? Based and well written	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 05:44 PM
8	More young men in their early 20s had no sex in the last year from 2007-2017 Being fat doesn’t stop a woman from getting laid. I knew a 300+ lb woman who had a threesome	/r/BlackPillScience	04/03/21 05:48 AM
5	"this agrees with recent evidence that men’s upper-body strength accounts for most variance in men’s bodily attractiveness (Sell et al., 2017), as well as broader research showing that muscularity is an important component of men’s attractiveness" This is why I don’t understand guys who spend most of their time doing squats and deadlifts. Curls and bench presses are going to give you the most bang for your buck. I’m totally out of shape though just my 2 cents.	/r/BlackPillScience	12/10/20 04:34 PM
22	Objectively measured intelligence failed to make individuals more attractive to the opposite sex. And they’re all dating Chads	/r/BlackPillScience	01/10/20 06:58 PM
20	BIG ETHNIC/NOSE PILL: African Americans and Hispanics had markedly worse olfactory function (controlling for gender and age) compared with whites (aka the ability to smell), twice the magnitude of gender differences, and comparable to aging 9 years. No idea what this means other than that it’s over	/r/BlackPillScience	09/09/20 04:05 PM
9	Birds of a feather? Not when it comes to sexual permissiveness - Zhana Vrangalova, Rachel E. Bukberg, Gerulf Rieger, 2014 DONT TRUST A WHORE DONT TRUST ME	/r/BlackPillScience	04/08/19 05:01 AM
2	Confidence and Self-Esteem predicts attractiveness in males Tinder is real life	/r/BlackPillScience	25/07/19 03:59 AM
4	Today I Signed Up for the Draft Where do you live lol? It’s a thing in almost every country except Switzerland.	/r/MensRights	07/05/19 02:13 PM
3	After processing a lot of blackpill info, I keep thinking that the lies and denial are really much crueler than the truth. Why is it unwise to take them back?	/r/BlackPillScience	04/05/19 05:30 PM
47	This. As if a woman had anything to do with buying those.	/r/MGTOW	27/04/19 06:52 PM
4	The share of Americans not having sex has reached a record high. Since 2008, the share of men younger than 30 reporting no sex has nearly tripled, to 28 percent. That’s a much steeper increase than the 8 percentage point increase reported among their female peers. tweet	/r/BlackPillScience	30/03/19 12:27 AM
1	Yup 🤷🏼‍♂️ Cope. 30s women still have the advantage on dating apps.	/r/MGTOW	21/01/19 10:23 PM
2	I've got a newborn and I'm so desperate for marriage I'll plan our wedding as soon as we match LMAOOO	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/12/18 08:31 PM
5	For depressed and suicidal men, the holiday season can add unwelcome pressures It’s worse when everyone else is happy and sociable	/r/MensRights	25/12/18 11:54 PM
67	Roasties of New York She’s just now starting to experience what men have felt throughout their entire teens and 20s.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	04/12/18 07:54 AM
3	I seem to have become irresistible to women... shallow fucks. Nice man what year is your GTR? Those are my favorite Asian sports cars, they’re so fucking mean looking.	/r/MGTOW	02/12/18 05:07 AM
4	Alphas: "Cum get this fat ass." -- Betas: "Buy me food for my fat ass." -- Soyboys: "Listen to my whine about all the cock in my ass." -- Me: "Ass." Women only act like that if you’re multiple points above them. Like a 2/10 talking to a 6/10. It’s not attainable for most guys.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	09/11/18 10:35 PM
9	What does the average beta male have invested in modern society? Higher paying jobs and more disposable income really don’t mean shit if you’re lonely	/r/BlackPillScience	28/10/18 06:57 PM
17	[27F] "My husband is divorcing me because of a sex tape I made in the past. What's especially damaging was that in the video I was more vocal and did things that I don't do with my husband." Lots of comments supporting OP and criticizing the husband. (Follow-up post in comments) I’m proud that my wife decided putting in that same amount of effort for her husband as she did for a guy she dated just isn’t worth it.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/10/18 01:01 AM
2	So, women now have literal privilege in the law. This is beyond crazy. As a what?	/r/MensRights	11/10/18 03:21 PM
12	Coworkers, man..... What do you do for a living? Because I’m in the wrong field.	/r/MGTOW	30/09/18 06:38 AM
2	Never underestimate AWALT This is pretty obviously fake	/r/MGTOW	17/05/18 01:53 PM
17	[24F] She would be a flatlining/game over incel as a man, but instead she is a carousel riding, tongue-and-tits out selfie taking, single mother making dating demands. Life is so cruel for some and so easy for others. Hmmm being alone for the better part of my youth or having to sit to urinate...that’s a tough call	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	14/05/18 01:42 PM
15	How the times change We need a Disney princess that sells hash	/r/MGTOW	28/03/18 10:23 AM
2	State of Society in 20 Years Didn’t your government detain Pussy Riot for having extreme feminist beliefs? Granted they were going out in public flashing people but still.	/r/MGTOW	05/03/18 03:35 PM
75	Don’t get played by the hoes /r/ComedyCemetery	/r/MGTOW	18/02/18 04:52 PM
6	What in the fuck is wrong with people? How is it possible that a drug addict and ex criminal is getting married to an attractive woman while I, with a stable job and clean criminal history, am constantly alone? Is my life not “exciting” enough? Do I need to wait for my future wife to get done having “fun” with other men so that she can settle down with me in a decade and take my hard-earned cash? In the 1950s I would be a catch. In the 2010s I’m “boring”.	/r/MGTOW	03/01/18 02:00 PM
30	Jump to conclusions, JUMP HOE !!!! of course it’s a dark guy and a white woman	/r/MGTOW	03/12/17 05:02 PM
5	Women Look Like Absolute Dogshit Once You Wipe The Fakeup Off. smartphones ruined women. dating apps and social media give them literally hundreds to thousands of admirers at their fingertips. this inflates their ego and turns them into bitchy, trashy, cheating whores.	/r/MGTOW	03/12/17 05:00 PM
1	NEW - Womens High Standards they’ll get jobs anyway, diversity hires and horny lonely men will get them further than a degree ever would.	/r/MGTOW	29/11/17 09:41 PM
1	Man describes how his unemployed wife spends all her time on Instagram, decides she is "pansexual" and "polyamorous", and begins sleeping with other people, all while he pays over $4k a month for her living expenses you broke up with her because you couldn’t afford to buy her paper towels and toilet paper? wtf? isn’t that like $10 a month, tops?	/r/MGTOW	27/11/17 06:09 PM
1	Man describes how his unemployed wife spends all her time on Instagram, decides she is "pansexual" and "polyamorous", and begins sleeping with other people, all while he pays over $4k a month for her living expenses it’s not me, it was posted by someone else and i copied the contents of the post here. the guy did have a kid with her, which is why he’s afraid of not giving her $4k a month. she has no job and would essentially be out on the street.	/r/MGTOW	27/11/17 06:06 PM
3	Man describes how his unemployed wife spends all her time on Instagram, decides she is "pansexual" and "polyamorous", and begins sleeping with other people, all while he pays over $4k a month for her living expenses i hope you’re right, but with makeup and filters i think a lot of women could do it into their early 30s.	/r/MGTOW	27/11/17 01:44 PM
21	Man describes how his unemployed wife spends all her time on Instagram, decides she is "pansexual" and "polyamorous", and begins sleeping with other people, all while he pays over $4k a month for her living expenses Apparently they have a child and he's worried about her living on the streets if he stops paying: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=15780671	/r/MGTOW	27/11/17 01:51 AM
-3	Getting Laid is Easy: There's Never an Excuse it’s 100% about looks dude don’t deny it	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/17 12:34 PM
12	Delete Your Social just make a fake facebook, that’s what i do	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/17 06:39 PM
14	Looking for the next branch It's gotten exponentially easier each time though.	/r/MGTOW	17/06/17 12:31 AM
6	Would I make it? You can download Unity for free. There is nothing stopping you from learning game development right now. Make your own game or two and then apply to some game studios. It's that simple.	/r/MGTOW	14/06/17 05:46 PM
44	Cringe video: Fat beta schlub played by Coyote Ugly tatted bar skanks those disgusting sluts have no right to make fun of someone else considering they're whoring themselves out for money every single night. at least that guy can support himself without having to fuck suck and swallow.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/17 11:25 PM