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Some type of alcohol I’m not sure why he said don’t drink it. I just google what it was
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:03 PM
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I am and I lift 5-6 days a week. My max bench is 385. DL 414. Squat 405 for 4. I’m 6’0. 215lb. 8% bf. Lifting is one of my strongest points
/r/askMRP07/07/18 06:27 AM
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This is what I need. I will re read this probably everyday this week. To really get what you’re saying. 1.) to start. We were in the car together. I had nothing planned. And I realized fuck it. I have off tomorrow. Let’s see if people want to get together. It was spontaneous and a way to get everyone together. It happens. You can’t always plan everything. That being said. That’s why she came with me. Otherwise me and her would be spending time together. (We don’t get to too often) and then what …
/r/askMRP05/07/18 03:35 AM
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This is where I just don’t get it. How am I supposed to stfu when I’m alone in a car with her and she actively bitching and asking me questions. I don’t respond I look like a brainless idiot. “Do you not care about my feelings” I’m supposed to just sit there? This is the problem I constantly run into with her. She will hit me with some statement or question. That if I just don’t say anything. I look retarded. Followed by a bunch of huhs? And why Are you ignoring me? Yadda yadda
/r/askMRP05/07/18 03:23 AM
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I feel ask though I didn’t talk hardly at all. That’s what I was going for. Old me would have got Into it with her. I kept things very short What might I have done differently if you were me
/r/askMRP04/07/18 06:21 PM
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I suck immensely at AA with her. And I also read a post jackten wrote. About going from this guy, right into using AM And AA. How she’s going to look at me like wtf the fuck are you doing? What is this shit? And I had happened so I found it better to STFU for now and ease into the other stuff.
/r/askMRP04/07/18 04:04 PM
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Yes and that puts it in a better perspective. Makes sense
/r/askMRP04/07/18 02:39 PM
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Well that’s what we are here for no? Advice. Make sure we aren’t going too left field with all this? But i think what you’re saying it doesn’t fucking matter. If I said I did okay. I did okay Just like these guys saying why is she driving. Because I told her to drive. I’m not going to drive all the time. Fuck that
/r/askMRP04/07/18 02:05 PM
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You think I’m going to drive everywhere? she can drive when I need her to She has her own car.
/r/askMRP04/07/18 01:55 PM
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I can see the rushing her thing and then texting even thought it took 2 seconds. Maybe that’s it maybe not. As far as the locking door thing. No way in hell did she do it as humor. I know her. She was pissed and wanted me to feel pissed. That being said i think you misinterpreted my reaction. When I got in the car my tone was that of sarcasm of you can do better. And very light. I got her to smirk because of it. She was in no mood to be humorous. She wanted her feeling justified. And wanted me t…
/r/askMRP04/07/18 01:32 PM
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I know man. That’s another thing I struggle with. I don’t know fucking why. This has been my weakest area I think. It’s almost like I don’t mentally know how to respond to her at times. Idk if it’s years of deering and getting my way from others that caused me to be like this. I have tried to talk less to get my points across so I’m not just sitting there in silence like an idiot. As she begs for me to say something. Can you give me some examples of what you mean here and a better way to respond…
/r/askMRP04/07/18 01:16 PM
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This is actually great advice but most of the Incels here won’t appreciate it.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:17 AM
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you’re so insecure dude FTFY
/r/askTRP26/06/18 02:44 PM
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Yea I’ve noticed that too lol
/r/askTRP26/06/18 11:22 AM
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I don’t know how that will stop me from craving external validation from women. But I’ll try it
/r/askMRP21/06/18 05:28 PM
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You’re right unfortunately I haven’t learned how to stop it
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:51 PM
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I know. I have such a fucking hard time with that. I DEER till I’m blue in the face because I feel like I have a lot I have to explain or need them to understand. And I always end up talk to plates like I do my wife. I feel that emotional connection keeps them around longer. But I know it’s dumb
/r/askMRP21/06/18 02:29 PM
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Wow perfect
/r/askMRP21/06/18 02:28 PM
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I wanted to get it out of the way because there’s always a couple people who comment about it
/r/askMRP21/06/18 05:44 AM
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She literally messages me and says. “I want to fuck You right now. How fucked Up is that. I’m sitting on the edge of my bed and it just hit me. ‘God I want to fuck him right now’ and I’m just smiling to myself” Is this bitch crazy ? Or am I
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:59 AM
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She said she was and that’s probably true. But i don’t have time for feelz. Esp if I never had sex yet
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:54 AM
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I guess I’m just at a point. I want to be sure I’m going to have sex or it’s just a waste of my time. So if she says no. And is playing games and is rejecting me. I’d rather not even deal with it. I’ve dealt with LMR and passed it plenty of times but it hasn’t happened with her.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:51 AM
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She’s knows I’m not boring. And that response is perfect. I’ll just have to keep practicing
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:50 AM
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You made that seem so easy I don’t know why I find it so hard in the heat of the moment. She said something like “You’re so boring you take the fun out of everything” because I didn’t. Do what she wanted to do when she wanted to do it. And even after the fact I couldn’t think of a good response
/r/askMRP19/06/18 05:13 AM
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Where is the point of NGAF and being a good husband come into play here. I don’t know where to dry the line
/r/askMRP19/06/18 05:12 AM
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Thank you I will check it out. And I’d like to add I guess I’m doing something right. I went out on the bike with my friends after a cuddle nap with her. She sent me nudes and called me to tell me she is horny. She hasn’t done that type of shit in a while. I’m not sure if she’s trying to use sex to get me to ditch my friends but it won’t happen
/r/askMRP17/06/18 12:24 AM
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I’m jacked. I run gear. I got that down pat. Always have And yea fuck a pedicure.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 08:21 PM
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BecauSe when shit is good it’s fucking a great time together. She adds tons of value otherwise but her damn attitude and needs to control and be motherlike drives me nuts
/r/askMRP16/06/18 08:04 PM
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Yes
/r/askMRP15/06/18 03:39 PM
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No I got rid of it because we talk about it on here it’s a waste of time
/r/askMRP15/06/18 03:21 PM
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Honestly I agree. She tried to tell me “she asked her friends” and they all said it was disrespectful what I did. Well no shit. I told her go find a guy who isn’t disrespectful. I honestly used AM all night. She wouldn’t shut up. I left and went on the motorcycle when I came back she was still going at it. I just kept say. Shit like “aw poor baby. You got it so bad. Your mean husband is so rude. How do you do it?” I even was talking to the dog out loud about it when she was right there. “Nala we…
/r/askMRP15/06/18 10:04 AM
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She acts like i don’t respect her at all. And I don’t want her to feel that way. I know I shouldn’t. Give a fuck about her feelings but I do care about her. I told her just leave if I she’s going to act crazy about me having a Conversation with people. She’s like “I’ll do this and that to you. See how you like it” “Go ahead”
/r/askMRP15/06/18 02:26 AM
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No it’s not. But this shit makes me want to shake her. It’s literally so stupid. She was talking to a guy. I make random small talk very briefly. And invite her in on it. And I’m the devil.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 02:04 AM
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Lots of attitude. But sex and she stays around
/r/askMRP15/06/18 01:11 AM
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That’s what it was tho. Me just being social. That’s why I feel the need to DEER
/r/askMRP15/06/18 12:11 AM
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I’ve cheated on her more than once and she found out. And . She already know I believe that guys and girls can’t be friends
/r/askMRP14/06/18 11:45 PM
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I just got back from the gym. I said that in there I think
/r/askMRP14/06/18 11:32 PM
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And once I get home then how do I go about it. Without losing my shit.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 11:29 PM
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That’s exactly what it is. And I wish I can find that. But it won’t be with her for sure
/r/askMRP14/06/18 11:20 PM
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How would that help anything
/r/askMRP14/06/18 11:14 PM
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This is where I get driven nuts man. She left Bc she said she didn’t feel good. Took the keys to the apt with her. She calls me to tell me the cats need food. I said okay. She says are you just going to ignore me I said I’m not. She said so then what do you have to say. I said I like meeting new people. Big deal. She said I told you not to do that shit in front of me. I said okay. She said so disrespectful I said I’m out with my friends. I’ll talk to you when I get home. She hangs up and sends m…
/r/askMRP14/06/18 10:59 PM
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Huh.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 10:51 PM
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Alright. I got another text now saying. I owe her an apology. She has some nerve in my mind to even ask for that
/r/askMRP14/06/18 10:43 PM
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Yea I turned to exercise for sure but the women situation hasn’t changed
/r/askMRP06/06/18 11:20 PM
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This is exactly what I was looking for. I feel like this is what I need to get past this or accept it. Thank you. So... Yes I 100% do it for the emotional thrill. I love the high I get from it. I’m a recovering addict and I’m sure this has something to do with it and my obsessing. Also when you say you’re just living life going from experience to experience. That is also true. I literally live in the moment. Do do do. And deal with the consequences later. I actually will realize something isn’t …
/r/askMRP06/06/18 11:05 PM
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Fragile ego. Yes. External validation. Yes. But I never ever thought I was a loser or unattractive so far the opposite
/r/askMRP06/06/18 10:56 PM
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Harsh truth. But thank you. I’m afraid to break it off with her I guess.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 01:56 PM
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Thank you any books or articles on this?
/r/askMRP06/06/18 12:20 PM
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Only person wasting time here is you. I’m asking for help
/r/askMRP06/06/18 06:55 AM
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Judging from your posting history you got some underlying anger buddy. Thanks for the input tho
/r/askMRP06/06/18 06:48 AM
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I feel no remorse for something I feel is causing damage to someone else. Or something I know I should feel wrong about. Is this normal? Am I missing something. Sometimes I’ll think something is really wrong on here and someone will come up with a different perspective on why it ain’t. I guess I’m just looking some outside perspectives on this situation
/r/askMRP06/06/18 06:38 AM
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You could say that. But my smv is pretty high if i were to guess she rather deal with it to some extent than lose me. But she always tells me “I love you. You just make stupid decisions. I know there’s good in you” I think she’s waiting for me to change. Idk
/r/askMRP06/06/18 06:35 AM
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