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I mean if you’re in a position to buy a home at age 20, given how horrendous the market is for first time buyers, I’m not sure you need much advice haha.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/22 01:05 AM
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They could, I don’t know, fix the family courts so that men feel comfortable committing to a woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/22 02:00 AM
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I’d argue It’s exactly why it’s perfect for men to get married in their 30’s, but women should be looking to do it around age 25. You can’t have two people with independent adult lives trying to coexist. They’re stuck in their ways. Someone needs to be the leader. And, we all see what happens when women are forced into the leadership role.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/22 01:59 AM
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Women need to start being called “losers” for this kind of low class behavior. Everyone is cool calling a man a “loser” if he doesn’t work, engages in unhealthy habits, etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/22 03:13 PM
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It seems like those types just believe that they have needs exclusive to one gender. Therefore when said they seek those out, it’s not cheating. Or something. Like I said, try to use the logic of “I had sex with her because it felt good, it wasn’t cheating” to your bisexual, open for women girlfriend and see what she has to say.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/22 04:16 AM
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Dangle a 3 way in front of him and who knows, he might stick around! The funny part is, that only works for a little while. Either he never gets it, realizes it won’t happen and walks, or he gets it, and walks because there’s nothing left to stay for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/22 12:09 AM
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Doesn’t shock me one bit. Seems like it’s just a cry for attention and/or a way to attract a man with the dream of getting a 3-some (or at least watching your girlfriend get frisky with another girl). One girl I know used to legitimately be bisexual, but she would use it to essentially cuck the guys she was with. She got to get freaky with other women, but he couldn’t. Because somehow it’s only cheating when he did it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/22 12:08 AM
9

True, but have you met the average millennial? They’d much rather complain about money working in a cush job vs feel discomfort for $100k+
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/22 12:05 AM
1

Touché sir, touché.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/22 12:04 AM
33

Seriously. Like you have to work hard to get that Stacy’s Mom type title. You aren’t a MILF just because you let Chad finish the job and dip, and because your metabolic rate hasn’t plummeted just yet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 07:53 PM
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If you have a neck tattoo as a man, you can basically kiss any white collar, client facing jobs goodbye. Even as an engineer, it’s going to have an impact
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 07:50 PM
7

I know. But you never know when some random SJW will be rage reading this sub and looking to pounce on anything that can be remotely construed as “bigoted”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 05:28 PM
12

Probably. And she’s gotten obliterated by the wall, if you’ve seen photos from Court. So you can tack post-wall onto all of her other amazing qualities. Get that one, she’d be a keeper!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 04:38 PM
9

The correct response to it would be “so why did you waste your time 10-15 years ago?”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 04:30 PM
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Also look at those thighs. For now she can wear a dress like that, simply due to being young, but she doesn’t exactly look like a gym rat. She’ll probably explode by about 40 lbs once she’s approaching age 30.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 03:44 PM
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“420 friendly and pregnant” = “I got creamed at a party by some dude whose name I never got”. Hope she enjoys our tax dollars, at least. Just kidding, she’ll get $30,000 a year of free bennies and still claim it’s not enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 03:38 PM
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I’ve literally known bisexual women who will claim that. And they’ll almost never be bisexual when it comes to relationships (before the mob gets mad, this is only anecdotal experience I have in knowing self professed “bisexual” women; I never saw them in a relationship with a woman). When we say things like “women need men”, maybe not all women. But this one, 100% needs a man
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 03:34 PM
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Gee, wonder if the guy who made this one a single mom had a neck tattoo as well? I can already see 6 years from now, complaining about how men only want hookups, how Aiden (and now Brayden) are her world, and “bisexual liberal” is replaced by “liberal feminist”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 03:29 PM
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Single dads actually have to work to survive. Can’t have two financial basket cases in one union
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 03:23 PM
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Sounds like fiancé is blue pill. Probably thinks dominating his woman in the sack is “misogynist” or something. Hopefully he learns this one is for the streets. And that his “friend” sucks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 10:07 PM
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Come on OP. You know that you need to experience a lot of things (aka different private parts) before you understand what “love” is. How can you love someone if they haven’t grabbed you by the hair and called you a dirty 304 while going in raw on you? /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 10:03 PM
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And hedonism is actually a virtue, so if you call her behavior gross, you’re just s**t-shaming.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 04:50 PM
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I’d love more background on this one. Besides the psycho demands for commitment at 34, and the even more psycho “you can’t have girl friends” while she openly flexes her army of orbiters.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 06:39 AM
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As far as I’m concerned, Ossetians are the Scythians of old. Hell. Ossetian is considered part of the Scythian branch of Eastern Iranian languages.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 06:39 AM
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What’s funny is that 40’s is probably the prime time for a man. The 40-something year old men that she would want, they could get someone young enough to be their daughter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 06:33 AM
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Yeah you’re likely right. Or they have some other sort of unhealthy habit, like anorexia. Or maybe both. And of course, if she’s a low class girl, we can make a guess about what her baby daddy (daddies?) are like. So even if, somehow, she rehabbed herself and behaved modestly, she’d have that itch for wild men that she’ll eventually want scratched.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/22 07:49 PM
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Interesting take. Can you educate a city dwelling snob like me on why that is?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/22 03:18 PM
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The fact that this woman can actually be on the CC is a testament to how easy it is to get sex as a woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/22 01:48 AM
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Yeah, women’s skin just isn’t as durable as men’s skin. It’s a big reason why women age far more severely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 10:42 PM
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Fat and claims that she doesn’t want to hook up “because she’s a single mother”. That apparently didn’t stop BD from planting his seed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 02:48 PM
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Apparently it’s “inhumane”. Even though plenty of men either catch the fish to be consumed later, or catch and release.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 02:47 PM
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That’s true. In one way it sucks to be a man. Having to actually work hard at the gym (versus just marching leisurely on the treadmill at a slight angle for 20 minutes), and put our body through physical discomfort, to actually get noticeable results. I did deadlifting on Saturday. It’s now Thursday and I’m still hurting a little. But on the same token, that’s a lot better, to be able to build ourselves up, versus being hostage to whether or not the fat lands in our butts or bellies. But yes, pe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 02:45 PM
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True. Even in rural USA where she likely lives, they’re probably dropping what, $10k a year of tax dollars for that kid’s school?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 02:40 PM
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Yeah, I mean we can almost divide women shown in this sub into two groups; youthful train wrecks and older women that grew like a man for 30+ years and now is seeking a better version of herself for a husband (because lord knows she isn’t going to be contributing half of the down payment for the McMansion or mowing the lawn once it’s procured). Like somehow showing a capacity to earn money is a qualification to be the wife of a man making double her income. All of the “maturing” women do has abs…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 08:55 PM
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“I need ladies night with all of my perpetually single friends to blow some steam off, honey”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 08:40 PM
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Yeah, and spoiler alert to everyone getting by on looks: it’s going to end someday. Like have you seen photos of Amber Heard from the trial this month? Oof. She looks like someone that wants to speak to the manager.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 02:32 PM
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So basically, Kevin Samuels telling women that they can’t get higher than their baby daddy turns out to be 100% accurate again
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 02:22 PM
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If only she wanted to get wifed up 2 years ago, she’d be on her way to being a major success right now. Instead she’s a baby mama.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 01:56 PM
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Oh, the people in power are going to continue to ramp up shaming of men for not “stepping up” and doing what’s beneficial to those in power. But I’m talking 14 year old boys and the like. They’ve been raised with the internet subculture. They know what simping is. Boys are actually being roasted for doing it. Young people love to rebel against things that they find to be untrue, whether it’s righteous or simply youthful naïveté.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 06:17 AM
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I feel like that’s a bridge too far for even a lot of low self esteem men. Like, when you’re in public with her family, you at least want to be able to make others believe that those are your kids. Walking around here with three kids that consist of 1/4th part Chad, 1/2 part Tyrone and 1/4th part crazy red head grandma, anyone with half a brain will know that those aren’t yours. And I know for a fact that shaming is coming back in generation alpha, now that woke millennials have become for gener…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 05:59 AM
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Yeah, I respect TBYS for not going after Ava and saving his criticisms for the adults in this situation. But it’s pretty clear that she had absolutely no one to help guide her. Mommy was a train wreck, now daughter gets to be one, too! I pity her son. He’s basically going to grow up in a woman dominated world. Who’s going to be a strong male influence for him?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 05:30 AM
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no need for DM. we can share it right here, it’s YT friendly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 05:11 AM
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Sad thing is, the sheer fact that she’s thin is probably enough to get attention for sex. Sadder thing is, for the kids, that’s all the person who is raising them is good for. In 15 years when those poor girls are a train wreck, you can archive mommy’s tinder profile picture as exhibit A on what happened.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 04:54 AM
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Did you see the Think Before You Sleep video of the 16 year old girl who let Tyrone finish the job in her twice? Her mother was an absolute train wreck who had spent time in prison. But, she was physically attractive, so evidently, in came a man to take her in. Now that guy is stuck with not only her daughters living with him, but now he has two of Tyrone’s infants living with him. That’s your future when you wife up many single moms. Especially when there’s red flags beyond just the kids. This …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 04:50 AM
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It’s bad enough to lie. It’d be even worse if she made her husband wait for months before he got a taste of that action. If you know men don’t like it when women get passed around like a J at a party, and really don’t like it when they have to commit to a woman to get a lesser version of what other men got for free, then how about…not being a 304-bag?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 04:44 AM
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The problem is, we’ve been so conditioned (by the Maria’s of the world) that these scores don’t measure anything. Someone who scores a 1500 on the SAT gets dismissed as simply a “better test taker” than someone with a 1200 SAT, if said 1200 SAT can invent a convincing enough reason for it. They’ll also make up all sorts of rationales that would result in failing stats 100 for the discrepancies as well. Example: “just because they have a higher IQ, doesn’t mean they will succeed more in school or…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 05:56 PM
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They never figured that a low level job and child support might not be enough to sustain a middle class lifestyle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 02:30 PM
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Apparently not being a leech on the taxpayers is “intimidating” to potential suitors. Not sure why, though!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 02:21 PM
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Our day is coming, the left made a huge strategic error by ceding the title of the “pro education” party.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 06:23 AM
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Yeah the middle class is basically told that we should feel like bad people if we don’t subsidize the eff out of the health care costs of single moms and other net takers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 06:21 AM
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Yeah I’ve seen this too, but never the full version. Any idea where to find it? I’m just glad this dude had a good lesson on why single moms are to be avoided.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 07:26 AM
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What a crazy idea. You mean women can focus on their families and not working low paying jobs and begging for welfare handouts to make it in the world? Wonder how that could happen. Say, don’t you need a man to make those kids? Maybe they can choose that man based on his ability to earn an income and having family oriented behaviors. Those guys might do a good job.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 07:25 AM
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You already have a provider. He’s on the hook for child support. No one with have a brain will jump in to provide for your kids, he wants his own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 07:21 AM
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Get enough rejections and soon her count will be “3”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 04:55 PM
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So…why didn’t she marry her best friend, if that’s the genetics that she wants for her children? I understand that you don’t want sick little dwarfs as kids, but maybe say that before he puts a ring on your finger? Maybe don’t crush the dude’s life?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 04:29 PM
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Embrace the power of “and”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 02:17 PM
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Oh boy. This one is beyond easy to tear a new one - “pro science”. You want to avoid having to argue for anything ever? Just say you’re “pro science” and now anyone who disagrees with you is a rube! Never mind that she’s morbidly obese (you’d think a “pro science” person would know that’s terrible for you), has just a HS diploma (not to shame those who maybe didn’t have the chance to attend college, but has she ever even analyzed the results of a experiment before?), and that there were plenty o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 02:16 PM
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Skinny and a graduate degree. That basically means, in her mind, that she’s a top 5% woman and only the best of men will suit her. In actuality - single mom of the worst kind: you get to help her with the kid if you sign up for this. But she doesn’t want any more, so you don’t get kids for yourself - “spiritual”, because she doesn’t know if the dude that catches her eye is religious or not. Leave the door open with this flaky position. I call it the S.E. Cupp: pretend that you’re interested in C…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 07:16 AM
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FWIW my current girlfriend listed herself as “liberal” in her profile and she’s one of the least leftist girls I’ve come across. Then again, “I just want some extra initiatives from the government and mandated maternity leave” could be considered “liberal”, but I doubt those people want to deal with SJWs either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 07:08 AM
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I hope that the strong and independent women who sought to “do it all by themselves”, kids included, feel the strain in the coming years. Not because I want people to feel pain, I don’t. But future generations will be taught that their lives are desirable and virtuous, and young people really need to see their aunts suffering through loneliness and financial stress to start recognizing that we aren’t designed to go through life alone, or in short term situations. We’re designed to have networks …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/22 09:23 PM
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I mean I don’t think the movie was that feminist. After all, the framing device for the family was essentially that their “miracle” manifested because the patriarch essentially sacrificed himself in order to give his wife and 3 kids a chance to get away. I almost saw some red pill in there. A girl power, feminist family, and the one person who was capable of speaking truth was a male. And they ostracized him, not for anything he did wrong, but by unveiling the truth that made them uncomfortable.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/22 06:51 PM
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Silly single mom, stay at home mothering is for wives!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/22 06:47 PM
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She can enjoy cash prizes from the taxpayers and CS from the BD as a reward for her F trophy. I don’t even think Billy Beta would get suckered by this one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/22 03:08 PM
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Yup. It’s empowering to embrace the idea that no one is coming to save us. You don’t see men desperately trying to find a significant other around age 30 because their lifestyle proves to be untenable on their own. Not that a woman should be shamed if she marries a man because he is a good provider, but that’s what she should be looking for at 20 out of a desire to be a supportive wife, not what she’s looking for at 30 because the freebies that she received on account of being young have dried u…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 07:40 PM
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I’m not going to pretend that men are perfect. We have seen huge drops in testosterone, as we’ve gone from a blue collar, work with hands society to a white collar, work at the desk culture. But really, very few men straight up bail on their kid. How do we see single moms happen in 2022? A lot of it is women allowing a man who isn’t committed to her to have unprotected sex with her. The main problem is the culture that takes accountability away from women. If you have sex out of wedlock and get …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 06:32 PM
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They like to use communities like FDS, because unlike pleasant and feminine women, you actually need a game plan to hook a man when you’re an insufferable and physically unattractive witch
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 06:20 PM
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7’s don’t have a FUPA. Sounds like this one is an “average at best” 49’er
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 06:19 PM
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How backwards is it that one is more shy to show their face, than they are to show their cleavage all over the place?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 06:17 PM
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I’ve seen women in their 40’s who still look good, and seen women this age who look completely wrecked. Lifestyle matters. If she’s a heavy drinker, run
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 05:12 PM
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The fact that she has had two men put babies in her probably makes her think her value is actually higher now. Because we all know that Chad and Tyrone are hugely selective in where they put it every evening. /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 05:02 PM
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Maybe. But just for sex. Not for relationships.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 04:32 PM
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To be fair, so will men. The difference is, men usually don’t proceed to whine about their lack of options, they’ve simply done the cost benefit analysis and determined that solitude is better than a nagging 3/10. Women will do the same thing, except they’ll do it because they’re holding out hope that the 8+/10 man shows up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 04:21 PM
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I’m not anti female friends but how are you friends with this woman? These conversations must be brutal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 04:14 PM
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Worst part is that you know men (probably her BDs) have gassed her up and told her that she’s just “thicc” and has a “booty”. Hence why she poses like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 04:03 PM
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Good to know that sometimes men and women share the same evil tactics! “No rich, physically fit man, I love you for your sense of humor!” Does sound exactly like telling some 8-9/10 that you like her for how funny she is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 03:22 PM
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I don’t understand how I can look better, as a 36 year old, not genetically gifted, shorter than average man, than a 22 year old woman. It isn’t just the two kids that are trashing her, she needs to become well acquainted with home prepared meat, fish, leafy greens, and eggs. For her own sake. No excuse for why a 22 year old woman should have elbow skin folds
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 03:18 PM
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On the plus side, at least this one actually tells the reader some positive attributes about herself before she starts listing out height and physical appearance/fitness requirements.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/22 09:30 PM
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I think most of us just call this “being a good and rational person”. How many problems would go away if men were rewarded for being well adjusted, friendly and responsible versus being rewarded for being Chad?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/22 07:06 PM
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Yeah, people pretending that women don’t value looks are completely deluded. I wouldn’t be shocked if the #1 reason for divorce is that the former Chad that a woman married began to grow older and have normal aging happen. Now he doesn’t give her the tingles, so it’s time to find a new man!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/22 06:12 PM
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I went to middle school with a girl whose parents eventually paid to send her to Catholic school (current year cost around $12,500 per). Her thanks for their “investment” was washing out of college and becoming a 2 time single mom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/22 02:45 PM
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Dual mating strategy, my guy. Time for someone else to play dad!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/22 02:41 PM
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You mean asking for Venmo on your street deals is a bad idea?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/22 04:22 AM
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“I want an open marriage” = “I want the benefits of being married with none of the drawbacks”. If she asks for that, the marriage is over. Consult with a lawyer and maybe a religious advisor (if your faith frowns on divorce and that bothers you). Then feel free to have them served in the worst possible place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/22 05:28 AM
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It’s when one person realizes that there’s someone that they’d like to have sex with, and manipulate the other one into saying that it’s okay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/22 05:25 AM
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The only time I’d have sympathy. Or maybe if he suddenly went insane or something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 10:04 PM
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Yeah, it’s empowering honestly to not be existing in a delusion that my income and value will always go up. Means I’m learning and trying to stay relevant. I’m already at a point where I could probably retire at 65 (I’m 36) if I don’t invest another dollar again; just let what I have invested grow. Understanding that I could be relegated to lower income jobs going forward means I make good decisions now, when I’m at the peak of my value.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 10:04 PM
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The impact of what a man provides to a family, financially, is chronically underestimated. For example, pretty much everyone i know who, for whatever reason, make significantly less money than I do, there was a stretch in their life where decisions that they made devalued their economic contribution in the future. So if I were making 3x what wifey makes, and people said it’s not “fair” that the burden of household tasks fall on her, as we both work 40 hour weeks, I’d remind them of the years I d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 06:23 PM
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Yup, same here. No other way around it, she didn’t want a husband, she wanted help. And let’s be real, for all the perks women get when they’re young adults for the fact that they’re female and attractive, they go away in a hurry once no one wants to sleep with them, and they serve no value for corporate virtue signalers. I know I’d rather be a man who has to deal with the experience of being not valued, and learn how to deal with it, than being a woman who grows up with the belief that she’s in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 02:19 PM
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I am hard pressed to feel bad for anyone not born into poverty that’s dealing with “housing and food insecurity”. Funny, the girl who was born to immigrants and got her associates in paralegal studies (and doesn’t have some deadbeat’s kid) isn’t worried about “food insecurity”. Should’ve thought of that before you burned all bridges with people who could help you out and didn’t improve your own income generating potential. I’m sure this woman was in her late 20’s at least
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 01:55 PM
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Specifically my girlfriend is from Colombia. A lot of illegal immigrants from Venezuela in Colombia right now. this is where she bore witness to stuff like this; she’d literally see the same kids with a different woman on the same day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 12:21 PM
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Pour one out for both of my neighbors, their wives didn’t take their last name. My girlfriend is Latina, it’s customary for kids to have both parents surnames. As long as in public, we are known by my last name, and my kids are named in Spanish naming customs (and not in woke hyphens), that’s good enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 12:19 PM
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I live part time in southwest Florida. And my girlfriend is from Latin America. Apparently it’s a thing for panhandling women to “rent” kids from someone. So I’m not 100% sold that those were actually her kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 08:47 AM
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It’s just one possibility. There’s also the “I’m trailer trash who gets a new cletus in me every few years”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 05:33 AM
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Eugene Debs comes to mind, too, but he was the wrong kind of progressive and ended up getting himself jailed by the ones engaged in correct-think.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 05:32 AM
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How do they even manage to get so many kids put into them by a dude that doesn’t stick around by age 28? Or do they get started at 18, give a man 4 kids, and then suddenly he isn’t the one and they need to get back out there to find their real Prince Charming? Also I can’t even see her entire picture, but nose stud and highly visible forearm tattoo. In case she didn’t have enough red flags.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 04:51 AM
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My guess is that she got a late start. Which makes this all the more insane. If she wanted a family, why would she enroll in medical school at, like, age 30? Where was her father to tell her that it might be a bad idea? Or even mother, or friends, or anybody? Everyone with half a brain knows that from the time you sign the first student loan documents, you’re scheduled to be a wage slave for a good ten years (3 years of med school, 4 years of crappy paid resident, 3 years of putting large portio…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 03:35 AM
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Oh absolutely. The corporations don’t suck up to women because they want “equality”. They do it because more workers means lower wages. It’s no coincidence that productivity to wage fell dramatically as women started entering the workforce. If the pandemic did anything, it showed a lot of families that “two incomes” was hugely overrated, when wifey’s income mostly went to paying other people for domestic tasks. I think a big reason why we’ve seen this odd alliance of corporations and socialists …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 02:29 AM
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I’ve always seen it in this light. Before the welfare state, you had no option. Someone had to work, someone had to be available to make sure the kids were okay. There was no safety net, no freebies. Someone had to drag their carcass to backbreaking labor every day to make sure the family survived. And that someone wasn’t going to be the wife, because women really aren’t built to handle tough, rugged jobs. Maybe a few can handle it, but it’s rare. But then we saw a massive shift. Not only did jo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 12:56 AM
15

Well, at least she is on her way to a well paying career. The types of men she is complaining about, those are the ones who would go for an almost middle aged workaholic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 12:24 AM
2

Denzel is one of the last true legit dudes in Hollywood. Great actor, raised his kids to not be losers too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/22 06:14 AM
3

Yup me too. I’ve no hope with the Chad chasers and I admit that, but those aren’t really women you’d want to be dealing with for anything but P&D anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/22 05:20 AM
4

Care to share? Peer reviewed studies I’ve read said the opposite, but I’d be interested in counter points.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 10:45 PM
6

Sometimes they are slightly better. But the ones that are “better” are just kind of boring. Like no CC riding past, no crazy adventures, nothing. Just wake up, work, sleep, repeat. It sounds like a technocratic bore of a man. On the plus side, they at least haven’t run themselves into the ground with D and alcohol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 07:57 PM
8

Politicians: “enjoy your cash prize benefits for having some drug dealer’s kids out of wedlock!” Also politicians: “about that $600 you got paid for fixing your neighbor’s car…”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 06:21 PM
5

Me too, but I’m trying to be charitable here. Data I’ve seen suggests probability of divorce jumps after losing their virginity, but it goes completely off the rails at around 10.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 06:19 PM
5

I mean that’s better, but child’s IQ is only (extremely) weakly correlated to parental IQ. Just like two geniuses can birth an idiot, two idiots can birth a genius. But yes, if you were going to make laws like that, at least something objective like IQ would prevent wrongthink punishment
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 05:11 PM
13

I’m gonna call a challenge on that one. When will the regulators decide that “misogyny” makes you unfit to be a dad, for example?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 04:52 PM
17

It’s quite amazing that they can make it into their 30’s and have no idea what men want. Even most men figure it out by then, and either adjust their behavior or choose to not participate
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 04:50 PM
7

That would be the correct choice. If I were into FWB or hookups, I’d definitely try telling one of them “marriage is for virgins” just to see what her reaction is. At the very least, that body count should be low, and your body should be the most frequent choice by far. Basically it’s virgin, then under 5, then under 10. Once it’s into double digits (which is sadly common these days), it’s an absolute no go. These 30-something y/o women with massive histories of men are a divorce waiting to happ…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 04:49 PM
3

Yeah, what’s funny is that they’re hard wired to like what other women like; a dude with an attractive girlfriend gains bucketloads of status with women. So since so many of them ascribe what they like in men to what men like in women, I’m surprised she would point out something that would make a man unattractive to her. That would be like a man saying he’s a virgin, it would dry up a woman immediately.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 03:48 PM
11

A lot of women don’t even seem to want to meet up. Like men, we don’t want some months long text buddy. We want to meet and see how things go. Hell, we’ll even pay for the first date just to facilitate meeting. All she has to do is show up and look presentable. But, studies have shown that the #1 reason women are on tinder is boredom. They aren’t looking to meet, they’re looking for validation and MAYBE a superfluous conversation or two with a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 03:44 PM
6

33 year old unmarried woman, she’s basically down to the leftover men. Even late bloomers like myself know that we can do better than this, and we do. Even dudes who are down to commit to an older woman, they’d want one with an accomplished career, hobbies, basically a man with a V. They don’t want a woman who feels the need to describe herself in vague terms. You’d want the one kid that she can physically have to at least have all of the advantages that two high earners can give them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 03:39 PM
7

I remember for a little while, some people did the mask selfies just to be funny, but by like January 2021, it was always a political statement. I refer to them as MAGA caps for leftoids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 03:32 PM
13

Yup. I make a good income. I go to the gym. I’m smart. I’m funny. And this comes from other people, not my own personal opinion. Even if you factor in my lack of height (I’m 5’7”), I’m at least in the top 20% of men, maybe top 10% or better. Also I’m respectful of others. But FDS would call me an incel, because I hold women to standards. Because I hold myself to standards. And I’m more than what you get out of a relationship with me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 03:27 PM
12

She’s looking for followers. There’s no way a woman can think this is a good strategy for landing a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 03:19 PM
43

Wonder where all the feminists who will shame men for targeting inexperienced younger women for relationships are for this one? She had been getting poked for 15 or so years before going out with vanilla virgin Dan, with no experience. Why is this power dynamic okay, but a 32 year old man who has slept with 2 women in his life is creepy if he gets in a relationship with a 19 year old woman who has slept with 3 men?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 02:31 PM
28

That’s like wondering why men prefer Shakira to Lizzo. She was more aroused by Steven. Nothing else to it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 02:28 PM
5

Yes. If anything, many are totally b****y. Sometimes it’s because they’ve been taught that their masculine frame is what will attract a man, so they act like some crappy caricature of a man. Other times, it’s simply because there’s no amount of things they can do that would deter men from praising them, so they get arrogant. After all, why treat a man with respect and honor, when there’s hundreds more lined up to take his place?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 11:19 PM
3

It’s still kind of true. How many of these women that we mock ended up having multi year relationships that they wanted to end in marriage “not work out”? Mostly it’s women who dated bad boys or degenerates and ended up a single mom, or women who spent her prime dating years focused on career or “fun” or something. The problem is that women aren’t even offering themselves for marriage until they’ve given themselves away for cheap for ages, and have baggage. Give a man a 21 year old virgin who si…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 08:40 PM
2

Sure, in the modern sense of the word, an illiterate Khoi tribesman in Namibia would figure out how to survive these harsh conditions way better than an MIT electrical engineering graduate. But what if you reversed them at birth, the MIT electrical engineer lived in a bushman tribe while the bushman lived in Cambridge, MA and attended the finest schools? Well, their competences would be different than what they have now. And for all we know, the former might be better at survival; he did, after …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 08:31 PM
3

Crypt keeper Barbie here thought that photo was the best one to use for attracting men? Also, how about you use an “about me” section to, I don’t know, tell us about yourself?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 02:18 PM
3

At least we still have Sowell. knocks hard on wood
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 02:16 PM
13

Quite ridiculous, right? Well, from 15-35, these women are basically taught that they don’t have to offer anything in regards to personality. Just don’t be a b—— and you’d get a man. They’re used to talking about what they want, not having to sell themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 02:15 PM
13

I’m sorry bro
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 09:55 PM
8

That’s why you have to leave these single moms alone. They’ll overwhelm the population eventually if you keep letting them have 3+ kids. They should just make sure their 1 ends up semi sane and leave the men alone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 09:53 PM
12

I knew a single mom once and she began dating a single dad. He left her. I’m pretty sure that the reason was because her daughter was unruly, he felt the need to tell her to “discipline her kid” multiple times, and eventually got sick of it. Young Single moms from white, middle class families, their kid is practically nonstop playtime
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 09:52 PM
4

I understand that. But that’s a mirage. The 20+ men, they’re each looking at dozens of women the same way and playing the numbers game. The women, They’re casually dating or hooking up with the small percentage of men who are managing a harem. He’s a “bad texter” because his Wednesday night is over his place. They’ll want the husband eventually (maybe because baby rabies kicks in, maybe because their own SMV is declining, they are aware of it, and need to lock down the highest value man that the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 09:13 PM
2

“You fast on Good Friday? That’s so archaic!” Also “I’m a scorpio so I’m good at working with numbers” Irony goes over their heads.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 07:07 PM
24

Correct. Why would you wife someone up that makes it easy? Wife someone up that hasn’t let any willing 7+ SMV man into her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 05:08 PM
12

Chad probably gave her a fake name and dipped. If he didn’t, he’s working off the books somewhere. It’s fine, Brad will legally adopt the kid soon!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 04:04 PM
69

“Done with hookups” isn’t meant to be a literal statement. It’s just supposed to signal that she’s emotionally scarred from getting P&D’d
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 02:38 PM
16

Seen this one before. The sickness of treating the opposite gender as a sex object. She’s all screwed up because on one hand, she wants that strong and independent, sex and the city life. On the other hand, that darn biological urge to feel loved. The problem with CC riders like this one is that they think their RMV equals their SMV, and that they can turn on the “boyfriend” switch whenever they want. They think that they hold all of the cards. It stings when they realize that they don’t. Ultima…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 04:54 AM
16

Seems like a lot of “strong independents” My age (36) are still renting apartments almost 15 years since undergrad. It’s going to hurt at that age when you realize that you need $70k a year just to maintain your lifestyle and you barely have that in a 401(k)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 04:50 AM
9

What’s funny is that they will both feel like they settled. She was getting D’d down by Chandler Parsons and now she’s with some generic middle aged man. He wanted a decent looking woman with a good past and ended up with a decent looking woman who is likely to be alpha widowed and having nuked pair bonding capabilities. This one screams future divorce, sadly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 05:57 PM
10

Correct. Like even if they want to complain that weight standards are too hard, okay fine. I get it can be tough to keep it off as you get older. But willingly going out of your way to look less appealing? That’s craziness. To make it more egalitarian, a man (assuming he’s not Chad) would have to conform to all sorts of standards of suitability for a woman. It is what it is, and men do it because they’d like to have women in their life. So why would women complain about something men like, outsi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 12:09 PM
22

Making oneself less physically appealing has been a tell tale sign of some sort of mental issue or toxic personality. I was once friendly with a girl who, at 18, would’ve been considered hugely appealing to a man (blonde, pretty face, big boobs, fit). After getting injected with doses of feminism, soon she was shaving her head and gaining weight. A well adjusted woman would know that being conventionally attractive is a positive for her life; people are naturally going to be more drawn to her, n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 11:37 AM
3

Yup. Yet another reason why women should marry younger. The older they get, the narrower the pool. It’s easy for a 20 year old woman to be with a 20 year old man, and she’d be unlikely to experience life as a widow for long. But I’m 36, and many single women my age are already primarily checking for men 10-20 years older than they are, mostly because they blew their chance to get with a man their own age who is conventionally thought of as having high RMV, like myself (sick brag, I know). My han…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 11:11 AM
5

It’s one of two things, IMO 1) a woman that is attracted to older men and therefore tolerates the “dad bod”, since the other things like resource acquisition, maturity, and stability are what attracts her anyway (one can argue this is gold digging, but I see nothing wrong with a 20 year old woman wanting a man in his 40’s). 2) a woman who can’t do better and is now claiming that she actually likes it (the majority of them).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 10:59 AM
10

Yup. If you loved your children so much, why wouldn’t you try to make it work with their father? Or if he’s a scumbag lowlife, why would you choose him to be the father? Why would you want your kids to grow up in a single mom household?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 10:56 AM
4

Yeah I’m glad I read for context. My first thought was that this wasn’t bad at all, and was wondering why we were age-shaming this chick. Makes sense once you know their toxic backstory, and how a woman like this can behave.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 10:43 AM
3

Being not fat probably puts her ahead of like 80% of women her age, and like 90% of the single ones. FWIW. But yes, it’s basically a guarantee that anyone who tries to use wise sounding language in their profile is an intellectual mediocrity. How about you just tell us who you are and what you’re looking for? Is that not pretentious enough for her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 10:42 AM
8

It’s mind blowing that Brian Stelter is a year older than me. Dude looks absolutely wrecked. And he has the most soy-laden voice ever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 05:13 AM
10

Only thing she has going for her is that she’s 18. You can already tell that she’s not all that by looking at her arms: they aren’t thin. It’s a lot easier for women to disguise body imperfections because the fat lands different than it does for a man. So she can show a little belly, just don’t show the belly button because that’ll give it away. Also, a woman like this is a prime target for pump and dump from Chad. I can see it now, she’ll be 30 and suddenly she’ll want “something real”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 05:12 AM
14

Job title inflation. She’s 18. She’s a daycare worker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 05:08 AM
5

I wouldn’t feel bad for Paula. Even if she was respectful to you and didn’t treat people poorly simply for not winning the genetic lottery, she still is doing this to herself. It’s like in the game “shadow of the colossus” where you’re more and more deformed every time you kill a colossus that’s laying around and not bothering anyone, except in her case, she’s fatter and fatter every time she gives herself mental anguish by failed relationships
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 05:08 AM
7

The main difference now is that they forget that they’re not supposed to carry AF’s kid into the mix for BB. Probably should be running a little, too. Hell my mom even joked about the 20 year HS reunion that she went to and how many popular girls hit the wall at light speed. Long, sad life once you lose the only thing that gave you value.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 05:01 AM
6

And she has the charisma more akin to Paul Bearer. Paul Heyman wouldn’t touch this one with a ten foot pole.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 04:54 AM
6

Venezuela, Colombia, Ecuador. You’re welcome.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 04:53 AM
5

Yeah. I think you either sell the glam (like post a bunch of pictures like the first photo, even though I don’t think it looks good personally), or go full on honest and post all of your plain Jane photos with your mediocre looks. Instead she tried the former, but ended up coming off as a middle aged chubby woman with no personality and a list of demands. Pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 04:50 AM
4

It’s amusing to me that people simply can’t understand that men might have critiques of some women and not be just angry that they can’t poke it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 04:45 AM
10

I’d say you need to be higher. Since the top 10% of men get all of the female attention, you have to offer something good for them to actually invest their time and money. There’s no reason to commit as one of those men, unless you’re getting someone worth committing to. Being pretty isn’t a reason alone; beauty fades. But yes, it’s crazy that women don’t understand that they’re in competition, and the math isn’t in their favor. If one of these women think a guy like me has too high standards, w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 04:40 AM
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1) if she really had this guy, she’d post a picture of herself with him, not a stick figure drawing representing him 2) a muscular, 6’+, smart man with a well kept beard and packing elite God given heat down south has literally every woman in the world after him. Either he’s going to play the field, or he’s going to demand nothing but the best for a significant other. The best isn’t some trashy tatted up nude model
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 03:07 AM
5

Man once you get to the one with no makeup- pass. Also, IME, “no <insert word for someone with negative attitudes towards a group of people here>” is usually code for “pointing out a fact without malice that makes me uncomfortable will make you a bad person to me”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 02:58 AM
10

Girls that have remained in my life are often shocked at how cruel other women can be to men. I remember taking a big old red pill 2 years ago; I was 33 and invited a 42 year old on a date. Thought she’d have her life together and be friendly and pleasant. Wrong, so very wrong. She was absolutely toxic. She felt the need to excoriate me because I didn’t properly simp for her. But hey, she gave me great advice after the fact: “date younger women, don’t mess with mature women like me”. Noted! Have…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 02:48 AM
8

Pretty much the best sales pitch that you can tell men is that soon, there will be 2 young male college grads for every 3 young female college grade, and all 3 of those women will be exclusively pursuing those two guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 02:43 AM
17

“You won in the end” is the most manipulative sentiment for men that I can think of. So the guys who wouldn’t care if you dropped dead tomorrow got all of the fun, but some BB “wins” because he gets the older, damaged version of her that the prime men didn’t get.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 02:41 AM
2

Total necro posting but truth. You never come back from behind. You start out ahead and win, or you’re going to lose. I used to think women could be impressed over time, but the relationship I’m in now has been my best by far, heavily because this one has wanted me from the jump.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 08:12 PM
8

Correct. There’s a reason why the founding fathers limited the vote to male landowners. It’s because they knew that the vote had to come from the people who would fund the government, or even be forced to fight for the government, not because they “hated women” or “hated poor people” or “hated blacks” (okay maybe a chunk of them did the last one, but still). If you collect welfare, you should be ineligible to vote until you’ve paid back every cent you’ve earned from welfare programs. Don’t like …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 08:00 PM
5

As you should, but I wouldn’t fault a man who would love to get with a woman whose skin doesn’t look like it’s melting off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 07:57 PM
12

Walter Williams (RIP) talked about weighted voting systems. Personally I wouldn’t want bill gates to have like 1 million times the vote of the average, hard working dude. But letting the parasitic class vote for their own cash prizes has been nothing short of disastrous for the west.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 03:42 PM
15

Things didn’t work out with the dad? Why not? You should be bending over backwards to make it work, because no man with half a brain will want to pick up the pieces. Maybe if he’s like 55 and the illegitimate kid is just the expense for getting young P sleeve again, that’ll work. Of course, we just allow the government to hand them money for their efforts in producing more messed up byproducts of single moms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 06:46 AM
16

I personally think that owing debt to the government should disqualify you from voting. No voting if you are a net recipient of welfare. Maybe people in student debt can be allowed the vote, but delinquency means no voting until you’re current again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 06:41 AM
3

Yeah, my Protestant friend asked me why so many Catholic priests aren’t denying pro-choice politicians communion. Simply not enough based dudes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 04:10 AM
7

Yeah when I see a “Catholic” single mom, about 95% of them are totally FOS and trying to hook a high value and moral man. They’re totally ready to have 3 more kids for that good man, until they get married. Suddenly she can only have 1.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 04:08 AM
6

When they “know what they want”, they either are lying and will jump on the chance for the hot guy, or will psychotically cling to that standard. The ones who “know what they want” didn’t magically need 20 Chad and Tyrone types to ignore them until 12:30 at night on a weekend to figure out that they “just want love”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 03:28 AM
13

She’ll press the “husband button” when she’s ready. Which means suddenly, every man she meets has to jump through hoops to get what prior men got by date 2
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 03:19 AM
6

At least she dates older and leaves the 30 year old brothers alone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 12:12 AM
11

“You must be devoted to the church”. Also: “I’m a single mom”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/22 08:04 PM
9

Yeah, have to imagine with the surge in both single moms, and inspins, more women would look at their lives and go “wow I don’t want to end up that way, maybe Jenny wasn’t crazy for marrying her husband at 24 and staying with him”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 01:29 PM
13

“How difficult it is to find someone normal!” /normal man messages her “Sorry your job isn’t high income enough, and you’re not tall enough”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 01:20 PM
3

Make her moderately uncomfortable and watch the tears start flowing. Meanwhile she has no problem savaging other people for things that they can’t control. As long as she doesn’t have to look at them face to face. Then she’ll cry some more because they’d get angry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 11:30 PM
6

I’ve said it before on here but it’s unbelievable how different my girlfriend is from prior women I’ve tried dating. Prior ones seemed to think it was my job to simp as much as possible, while she actually seemed to give a crap about me and what I want. The former leads to things like 35 year old women making demands from higher value men who are just as happy playing video games or watching sports
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 11:28 PM
8

Someone who fits her requirements should match with her, just to tell her that she’s delusional and why.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 11:25 PM
6

I’ve found that I seem to accidentally make friends with women who have no brother. It’s almost like they crave someone who will just honestly communicate with them, not hold petty grudges, etc. I definitely care about the issues that people in my life face, so because of that, I will be direct as possible
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 11:24 PM
7

Correct. At older ages, single people want someone that makes them look “high status”. You think the 70 year old man is having deep conversations with his 33 year old girlfriend, or does she communicate to his social circle that he’s a valuable man?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 11:21 PM
10

The dating market is unfairly weighted towards men who are either exceptionally attractive, or able to provide a solid middle class + life for a family on their own. Even guys like me who am open to marriage, she better be a good selection. Current girl is almost a decade younger, nice to me and cares a ton about making me happy. Couldn’t imagine considering wifing up a lesser woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 11:19 PM
13

If she’s one of the ones with a massive friend zone and double digit (at minimum) body count by 22 who is suddenly being “serious”, she deserves the mockery. If she’s one of the good ones with a low body count and not looking for an unequal partnership (where she’s the primary beneficiary), she should blame the women who are ruining things for her, not the man for being honest. In fact, while not exactly the nicest way of communicating it, he did her a favor. Instead of stringing her along for s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 11:14 PM
2

That’s true. Not meant to shame men, more just an observation on her value. Even though she probably thinks it’s in the stratosphere for the explicit fact that she is 55.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 11:11 PM
1

My girlfriend is an immigrant here from Colombia. She was a lawyer in her home country, and was interested in doing it here as well. I told her it’s a bad idea (for comparison, law is a 3 year undergraduate program in Colombia, which is far more practical). She’s looking to become a paralegal now. Thank God. Every lawyer woman I’ve interacted with has either been a raging feminist, or had some sort of emotional issues and their various forms of cope. Not to mention if she went to be a lawyer, th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 06:00 PM
13

Live like a hedonist, demand men with morals and work ethic accept their used up selves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 05:15 AM
11

Yup, three groups of men here. The ones who don’t have a problem for a smash. The ones that don’t have a problem for a relationship. The ones that do have a problem. They emotionally want the last group, the valuable men who are relationship oriented. They physically want the first group, the physically attractive men. The middle group, the betas who will simp, they don’t want them. They don’t want men who feel the need to lessen their own value in order to impress a woman, and I don’t blame the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/22 05:49 PM
22

It’s a pretty huge Chad move to not even let her sleep in the bed once you’re done. I remember seeing a TikTok of a woman who got the boot after a few good good sessions at like 3 am. That’s a little ice cold, I’d at least get her an Uber or let her crash until morning, but hey, I bet she’d hop right back on it if that guy called her again. Even after mistreating her. The life of Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/22 05:44 PM
5

Sucky sucky 5 dolla! Man South Park is messed up sometimes haha
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/22 05:42 PM
8

And if he’s really that bad, then why did you let him drop his kid juice inside of you? Why wait until the kid is here before vetting a man throughly? Kevin Samuels kind of called them out when he talked about how it’s the woman’s job to impress the man, because the woman already made her value judgment through her attraction. Not entirely right, because this value judgement holds true for the sub-alpha dudes. But for the alpha dudes, well, smash first, think later.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 06:11 PM
14

Gotta keep that supply of future democratic voters coming, my man. You can’t have children being raised by responsible parents that will teach their kids how to be accountable. Give them the chance to napalm their own life, then they’ll ask for goody bags forever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 04:43 PM
13

They should focus on getting baby daddy back (provided he isn’t total trash) and being a good mom. Instead they’re worried about getting new D.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 03:20 PM
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36 men (that you’re willing to admit to) got it for free. Now man #37 (at least) needs to commit to you. And I’m sure he’ll get to do none of the crazy stuff Chad and Tyrone got to do. Because yeah, serious men want a woman that can show restraint, since we know that a woman can have sex easily.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 04:55 AM
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Makes perfect sense to me. Just because you look at your wife and respect / care for her, doesn’t mean you can’t look around at crappy behavior by other women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/22 09:16 PM
1

Correct. What’s the point? Even someone like me, maybe the only reason why I would still get married is because, while I could leave my girlfriend and find a new one fast, I couldn’t just show up somewhere and get the room gushing for me like a 13 year old girl at a Backstreet Boys concert back in 1999. I’d still have to go through the non-alpha tests in order to be considered worthy. Easier to just take the alpha standing that you’ve already worked for. Guy like this, though? They’re just wrapp…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/22 09:13 PM
15

Biological imperative to reproduce and seek out a stable partner to do so, can’t blame the guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/22 03:55 PM
12

The lesbians I’ve met that aren’t totally wrapped up in Idpol have been some of the most empathetic females around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/22 05:26 AM
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Disgusting. I can get over a man taking care of some other man’s kid, if that’s his choice (I don’t agree with it, but hey, some single moms are still nice people and can get a man to look past it). But to not reward that man with his own children? All of that sacrifice, only for that kid at 16 to look at you and say “shut up, you aren’t my dad”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/22 05:23 AM
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Yeah. I actually make way more than what BLS states for my field (though searching “data scientist bls” takes you to computer and information research scientist, whose pay distribution seems more “realistic” to me). But data science is also going to be full of title inflation, so I expect that makes wages look less rosy than they actually are. Also, this is hugely dated, but if true, explains why the “median” wage is lower than you’d expect: massive turnover. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/1083…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 11:46 PM
2

Yup. I mean they have your profession and your active income on record so, makes sense to use it as a resource.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 11:23 PM
11

I remember back in like 2004, the entire Air America team (including Al Franken and Janeane Garofolo) got made to look like idiots by Colin Quinn. Of course, this didn’t stop Franken from a career as a petty tyrant, up until LeeAnn Tweeden weaponized MeToo to get him to resign (I knew I always liked her)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 09:52 PM
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It’s funny, on one hand they say that their past doesn’t matter. Then they go ahead and try to shame men by implying that they don’t get sex. So, aren’t they tacitly admitting that it’s harder for a man to get sex than it is for a woman, and that maybe the double standard of men having a lot of different women being revered while women who sleep with a lot of men are reviled, is legitimate?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 09:45 PM
6

With a name like Chrystal, this story doesn’t shock me one bit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 09:42 PM
1

It’s kind of tragic, really. Women shouldn’t make it this easy for any man. But it shows how the top 1% of men are able to operate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 08:48 PM
14

Or a Silicon Valley based software engineer telling a displaced gulf coast oil rig worker that he just that he just needs to “learn to code” like him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 05:14 PM
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The greatest RP truth I’ve learned has to be to judge women on their actions. If she’s dated nothing but 6’ jacked deadbeats, well, we know what she likes. It’s not like there haven’t been good men around in the past.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 04:51 PM
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And this, my friends, is why “casual dating” can lead to disaster for a woman. She’ll never be over Chadman von Tyroneison. And from her words, this is actually one with a greater ability to pair bond, as she gives 0 indication that she doesn’t love her husband (but we can all read between the lines; he’s a backup plan).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 04:43 PM
1

And if he’s going to choose one woman, I’d imagine it would be some 10/10 college coed when he’s like 40-45, where she’ll have 15-20 years before hitting her expiration.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 04:34 PM
5

Yeah because he’s right. Shame women for being attracted to certain characteristics, how is that productive? Better to ask them how they qualify for a top tier man
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 04:32 PM
2

not that I don’t believe you (I do), but your normal person will just look at BLS and see $128,710 median annual income, and think the profession is doing well. Are there any resources out there with data showing that pharmacy school has become the new law school?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 04:30 PM
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Wicked true. It’s absurd how gated a lot of female dominated jobs are by masters degrees (apparently now schools are offering PhDs in Occupational Therapy, and you’ll need one of those to work as an OT). But teaching is the worst. You need 5+ years of post-secondary education in order to teach topics at an 8th grade level? Wouldn’t passing a qualification exam and a year of student teaching / apprenticing in the classroom of an experienced teacher work just fine?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 10:34 PM
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Yeah, that’s some BS that she said. She’s confusing the idea of being able to learn with being able to learn fast. Like I bet if you gave someone a decade of training, they’d learn how to be a great software developer. But if it takes 10 years to learn what some prodigy learns in 10 weeks, well, you’re not as high IQ. And because prodigy learned it all in around 2% of the time, he has all this extra time to pursue other things. But remember, people get these ideas from school. Schools are 100% i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 10:29 PM
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My friend (female) used to think I was crazy when I told her to give guys without a degree a chance. Her view of them was that they were basically the unwashed masses; lazy, not ambitious, not intelligent, broke, you get the point. So she’d always go for the guys who look good on paper, like engineers, and athletes while she was in college. But take the former group and assume that they’d like a family: a single engineer in his 30’s is either going to be living his own life and a woman just has …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 09:55 PM
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Someone needs to show people like this some Jordan Peterson. They’ll probably get triggered because he’ll basically, in a more politely worded and Canadian way, say that their “metrics” are all either unquantifiable, pseudoscientific BS or just correlated to IQ and do an inferior job of predicting outcomes. What’s crazy is that for many Americans, you attend school with the same group of kids for 13 years, and you see the smart kids in Kindergarten and elementary school remain the smart kids thr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 09:35 PM
2

Asian-American women still clocking in at 132 at least.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 09:31 PM
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I always assumed a big reason why is because we just produce way too many lawyers. And of course, the people who like the idea of being a lawyer more than actually doing the work (the ex miss USA who sadly went base jumping without a parachute, she had said on an IG live that she hated being a lawyer, and the time she spent actually working was less than the time investment just to become one). I grew up in the 90’s and early 00’s. That was a time when we had a LOT of lawyer glorification on TV.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 09:30 PM
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From what I’ve learned, two PhD graduates could find marriage just as difficult as two MDs. Maybe even worse. Because if you want a career in academia, you have to go where the jobs are. Example, looking at the university of Alabama and their English department. Department chair did his PhD at U Kansas. Clicking through other faculty profiles, I see professors from places like Iowa, Arizona, Ohio State, Columbia in NYC, Buffalo, Yale. Noticing a theme here? They aren’t from Alabama. They didn’t …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 09:06 PM
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One of the four beauties of China was a concubine. Yang Yuhuan (more commonly known as Yang Guifei). It’s not all low value lifestyles where they spread them in exchange for having themselves and their children financially and physically taken care of
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 07:56 PM
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Yep. Only one woman got to be “wife”. The rest were concubines. Believe a woman’s actions, not her words. If she tolerates being cheated on, it means she’s openly saying that she’d rather be one of many for a HVM versus the only one for an average man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 04:00 PM
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El Ed is actually one of the least underemployed majors around; most people who go to school to teach end up hired. But they’ll never make a big salary because it’s easy for the state to train up new ones. If your friend understands this, cool. But many either have no idea, or just have a massively inflated sense of self.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 03:48 PM
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Yup. Definitely true in general. If a woman says that every man that she’s ever been with is a jerk, that doesn’t mean that you should become the white knight that “saves” her. It means that she likes jerks. Let her have them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 03:12 PM
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Yeah, once again, some made up stuff designed to make the person saying it feel superior. For a woman aged 18-22 to have a social life, all that she needs to do is look decent and expand her age range a tad to what is age appropriate in dating (maybe +4 years). They can have all sorts of toxic behaviors that can slip through the cracks, because dudes be thirsty and women rarely call one another out on their Bull. When tested, a lot of these people fall flat, because they suck in ways that can ac…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 02:54 PM
1

I might be weird but I find calculus fun. But I like solving problems.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 02:48 PM
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Well think of it this way: what demographic of people would voluntarily go on a video for a channel with over 7m subs, in order to have their IQ displayed publicly? That’s going to attract people who believe themselves to be above average, often times significantly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 02:47 PM
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When you remember that Public education is for the government and not for the people, it makes more sense. They created a way to teach millions of kids a year how to be mediocre.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 02:45 PM
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Yup. Fact is, most jobs can be performed by someone with the base qualifications. But just like any commodity trading, if there’s a 75% chance you’re going to lose all of your money, then you won’t invest as much for the $1,000,000 that you’d make if it works out, as you would if there was a 5% chance of losing all of your money. The 75% chance is like the entry level employee, and the 5% is like the guy you plucked from within your network.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 02:43 PM
1

To be fair, that’s how proper careers should work. Last year my current job opened the wallet to bring me on board, which was great
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 02:40 PM
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“Please good men who I rejected in my young years, pay attention to me! See! I go to church! You can bring me home to your mom!”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 07:21 AM
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Absolutely. Looking at some recent data, a young adult with a bachelor’s degree makes $20.7k a year more than one with just a HS diploma ($55,700 vs $35,000). But this analysis is lazy for a few reasons 1) it compares a group of people who are, on average, smarter and better connected to a group that is, on average, less book smart and less connected 2) it ignores opportunity cost. Median 4 year student loan debt is $28,700. That’s really not that bad, but a lot of these kids are being subsidize…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 07:17 AM
3

Damn dude. I have a modded 2013 Camaro 2LS generating high 300’s in HP (base is 323). You have even more fun toys than I do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 06:44 AM
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Yeah if your major didn’t involve calculus as a graduation requirement, and you aren’t studying something in the medical world, I don’t want to hear about how “hard” your major is. I remember in Lib Arts courses, it would be like 2 papers, 2 tests and a final. And then attendance is 10% of our grade. So you can just show up and futz around on AIM (I’m showing my age here) and that’s 10 points right there. And this was probably a “hard” one. I’ve had one where our entire grade was one term paper,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 06:38 AM
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Man it almost seems criminal that i, as a data scientist, will make way more annually than a mechanical engineer of the same career level. I just build models and analytics and come up with some solution that improves revenue by 5%, they actually design the stuff that makes society move forward. I’m just an efficiency guy. But, that 5% for a $100,000,000 revenue company is worth a ton. So, that’s that, I guess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 06:33 AM
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I’ve straight up told women that it’s not shameful to want a man who makes good money. After all, you don’t want to work to pay significant bills while you have young kids, so a man who makes big money can facilitate that. Where a lot of them fall apart is that they have nothing reciprocal for their husband. Like what does he get, sex? A man who can provide for a family of 4 can get plenty of sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 06:28 AM
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People glorify their college experience after the fact. Like they got so much out of it. In reality, most of us wasted 4 years of time and 2 out of 5 of us aren’t even working jobs that require a bachelor’s degree. And the ones who did do nothing but study (like I assume this girl did), the solipsism makes her unable to comprehend that the wider society doesn’t see her education as inherently valuable. Because deep down, we all know that for most of us, college was a 4 year party / video gaming …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 06:26 AM
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Given the S&P “only” crashed 60% in the Great Recession, that’s some impressive money losing. Fancy PhD in economics is probably not going to beat the dude who has an algorithm written in C, on the floor of the NYSE, with the ability to live capitalize on 52% win probability bets, and do that hundreds or thousands of times a day. She’s totally got this with her excel sheets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 06:20 AM
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Can’t remember. She does mention that she’s a scientist. If she’s making COVID-19 text kits, probably something like Biology or Virology or something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 03:21 AM
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Yeah it already happened in Boston. $23,000 per student every school year, and for that, BPS offers no AP courses and mounds of school ground violence. Government schools aren’t designed for greatness, nor have they ever been.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 03:19 AM
7

Ah yes. The most brilliant decisions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 03:17 AM
12

More single moms, most reliably left voters. Nowadays the demographic of college educated single moms is skyrocketing. Perfect for totalitarians.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 12:02 AM
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100%. And when you think about it, credential inflation encourages intellectually mediocre people to pursue tons of “path of least resistance” education. Great example was my high school. About 40 in my class of 280 or so took AP English. AP Calculus? 9. 13 in AP Physics. Calculus was 2 girls, and 1 girl took physics. But the English students had a higher average grade, because the course is ultimately up to the opinion of the teacher. Maybe your sentence structure was bad in this essay, but the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 11:35 PM
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Well, she did essentially discredit the idea of IQ as a measurement of intelligence, because she rejected Tyler’s statement of what intelligence is. It is speed. Being able to adapt quicker than someone else to a new situation is indicative of a higher cognitive ability. These kind of people just want to redefine intelligence to be something that makes them look good, like ability to get good grades or people skills. These are correlated to intelligence, but they aren’t “intelligence”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 10:37 PM
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15% might even be an overestimate. 11% of young adults in 1960 (25-29) had a bachelors or more. My grandfather actually had a masters in the 1950’s, when it was actually impressive to have achieved that, probably something like less than 5% total of the population. We may have finally hit the peak, though, as this total has hovered in the mid 30’s for years now. What’s also nuts is that around 11% of women aged 25-29 have masters degree’s or more. What on earth are you preparing to do that requi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 09:46 PM
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Hell sometimes I get mocked for this. I was socially stupid until I hit my 30’s, because all of my efforts up to that point went into money making activities. But yeah, a doctor will graduate med school at like 25 with $300k in student loan debt, then barely get by for 4 years in servicing it while working 80 hour weeks as a resident. Suddenly they’re free and making $400k a year and have no idea of what to do with all that money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 09:40 PM
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Not sure anyone classes astrophysics with the liberal arts. That’s STEM.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 09:08 PM
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Love the Cape in the summer. But yes, it’s like how many older teachers have just a bachelor’s degree, but newer teachers have to have a master’s (though i think this has been loosened because no one wants to spend 5 years in school for a middle income job anymore, go figure). Those in the profession love it; they get grandfathered into remaining and now there’s a higher barrier of entry, which restricts labor supply and increases their wages. Also, more indebted graduates will want higher incom…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 09:07 PM
3

Colleges and universities have a better grifting scheme here in America.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 09:02 PM
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Yeah it was satisfying as hell. Especially when she disrespected the men in uniform, implying that she’s better than they are. Only 37% of people aged 25-30 in America (in 2018) have a bachelor’s degree. For most people, you turn 18 and you have to contribute to the world. The fact that she assumed so much about him because he was in the military and not in college tells you what she thinks of the regular person. I actually now refer to these sort of corporate busybodies as Maria’s now. We all k…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 08:43 PM
22

Yup, correct. What’s funny is, these people will disparage actually meritocracy by screaming about things like “gender pay gaps” or “ageism” in order to force a sort of upper middle class wealth redistribution that benefits them. But they’ll consider something like a PhD to be purely merit, even though as we both agree, it’s just as much, if not more, an indicator of social support as it is intelligence. Take the poor kids from the bad inner city neighborhood that do well when young, get into a …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 08:18 PM
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Worst data science coworker I can think of had a PhD in Mathematics. He was legit a decade behind the times when it came to doing the job. Can’t think of any projects he did in the 1 1/2 years we overlapped that made it to production, plus the general laziness around his modeling meant that the engineers had to bend over backwards to facilitate using his work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 08:11 PM
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Men with PhD’s who go to church want a traditional woman. When I was on a religious dating app, I set my age filter to 29 and under as a 35 year old. Someone like this, she straight up moved like a man; got herself established independently, and now thinks she’s “ready” to date. She’s either going to want to be taken care of like a younger woman would, or will want a “partnership” that I don’t want. Sorry, don’t feel like arguing about my own child’s last name. So if I want someone better suited…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 08:04 PM
15

I used to work with families in the Korean Christian community in my area as a math tutor (there’s surprisingly a ton of Korean Christians, mostly because Korea was one of the few places where no predominant religion was tied to the local culture, giving Christian missionaries a golden opportunity to find converts, now like 27.6% of Korea is Christian in some form). It really was study study study, church on Sunday. Not that this is bad in a vacuum, it’s obviously a lot better than a lot of mode…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 07:57 PM
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Hence why I wasn’t sure if that was a will smith trolling joke haha
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 07:47 PM
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He was likely grandfathered in. Credential inflation is real. For example, in MA, you currently need to hold a PharmD in order to be a licensed Pharmacist. The only thing is that, technically, you could apply to Pharm school directly and don’t need a 4 year bachelor’s degree. But even fields like nurse practitioner and occupational therapist are going in the direction of “masters required, PhD preferred”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 07:46 PM
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Edited to be more generic, so that it doesn’t sound like I’m picking on you (if this isn’t a troll)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 07:30 PM
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Replace “most” with “all”. The thing past grades is the best predictor of is future grades, aka how good you are in school. But being good at school and good at actual work are two different things. To this chick’s credit, at least she has a real degree with a PharmD.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 07:20 PM
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Doctors are well known for being some of the worst decision makers in many aspects of life. They’re often in absurd amounts of debt, for example. All of their mental capacity goes to their career, so social, financial, and other decision making abilities suffer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 07:16 PM
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Must be such a drag for the computer engineer with no student loan debt and $250k a year annual income to know that he’s not good enough for her, as he only has a lowly bachelor’s degree. This anecdote of the “educated career woman” is an absolute classic. Cliff notes: strangers have to sort each other by guessed IQ, they mostly do a good job, except for two noteworthy examples. A younger, red cheeked military guy named Tyler and a 30 year old PhD holding woman named Maria that works in COVID te…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 07:13 PM
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Good news though. Apparently since student loans are premarital, you cannot be forced to pay them, just because you married someone with them. But even with that, all that saves you from is having her loaf around the house and do nothing while you pay all of the bills and then some. She has to work in order to pay off her debt. And of course, many men who marry these women do agree to pay off their bad decisions, which is tragic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 07:04 PM
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definitely need a doctoral degree for a job as a pharmacist. I dated a pharmacist for a short time, though. She said that the time and money investment to become a pharmacist wasn’t worth the ultimate payoff. The median salary of $129k sounds great. Until you pair it with $180k in student loan debt. Odds are, she got her pharm degree, and is now doing an MBA to move into management at some big pharma company. This degree may or may not be getting paid for out of pocket. Either way, this one is 1…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 07:02 PM
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I mean Piqué is a full decade younger and I think most of us still agree with his selection.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 02:49 PM
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On what planet is it a good idea to say “only ugly ones match me”? So you’re shaming the men who would actually be interested in giving you a chance?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 02:30 PM
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Shakira seems cool, NGL.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 01:44 PM
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Yup. We mock women for being fat, but the average man has 28% body fat in their 30’s. Means half of them have more. And dating with that kind of body is challenging.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/22 04:09 PM
3

A lot of former Yugoslavia immigrants in Australia. I’m sure places like Croatia and Serbia would welcome some repatriation
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/22 04:06 PM
13

You would think a woman like that would be excited if a man gave her a genuine chance, but online dating for women is like going to a restaurant where they don’t disclose the price until after. They proceed to order all of the most expensive items, and only upon receiving the bill do they realize that they owe the restaurant 40 hours of dishwashing to pay for it. They think that they have all of these options; in reality, they often overlook the truly “affordable” options and instead go for the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/22 04:02 PM
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That’s true. Though I refer to Femcel as “female, emotionally celibate”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/22 03:55 PM
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Funny thing is, I’m not even bad looking. Decent, masculine looking facial structure, in shape (I weight train and run sometimes). I am on the shorter side though. That’s a handicap that can be hard to overcome. Doesn’t really matter, I have a girlfriend, so I’m not in the dating market right now. But yeah, you’d think a guy working in computer science and who considers Thomas sowell his favorite author would qualify for a “sapiosexual”. Nope. That usually just means that they tack on brainiac t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/22 03:03 PM
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Real talk, I have an IQ in the 130’s and have never attracted a self professed “sapiosexual”. When they say “I love a man who is smart and funny”, what they mean is “I love a man who is smart and funny, and looks like Ryan Reynolds”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/22 02:23 PM
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I think I like that term more than femcel. Even though both make me laugh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/22 02:21 PM
7

Well they haven’t found anything better than the kid being with their mother and father. You can argue that doesn’t mean marry, but I care more about strong families anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 11:14 AM
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Sure, but most states are going to rule you married anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 11:11 AM
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I meant to say “as long” haha
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 11:09 AM
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Nah, it’s still the best environment for a kid. Of course, that goes out the window if you’re married to a modern woman that will nuke her own home the instant she isn’t feeling tingles anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 08:54 AM
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+1. Why would you marry someone if you don’t trust them?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 08:53 AM
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You’re kind of stuck having to take someone with lower SMV than you. They have to think they’re getting the best of it. That’s ok, as long as you’re getting something too. Edit: originally typo’d “as king” instead of “as long”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 08:51 AM
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Logical. I mean never mind that she never filed a police report. If there was totally abuse, then why would she just take it for months or years, then finally break up out of the blue?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/22 12:33 AM
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More importantly, why aren’t they in jail? I mean if a person was smacking around some other person who had a fraction of their physical strength, you’d think this would be noticed and that person would face criminal charges, right? Like no one condones laying hands on a woman as an attacker, right? I sure don’t. I don’t know anyone who does. It’s amazing that the few men that do always seem to be the ones in a relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/22 06:11 AM
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Being a single mom is 100% a choice. You could abstain from sex. You could take BC that brings your chance of getting pregnant to near 0. You could get an abortion (not that i approve of those, but the majority of women do and the choice is there). You can even offer your child up to be adopted if you don’t believe that you’d provide a good enough home. Or you could even try to make it work with the BD (if he was good enough to make a kid for, shouldn’t he be good enough to raise a kid?). I 100%…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/22 06:09 AM
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My girlfriend is Latina and I love her accent. Many men love Latina accents. She’s trying to find something beyond “I’m overweight and I’m a single mom of 3” that would make men say no. Edit: see others credibly mentioning this is likely a fake profile. Oh well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/22 06:03 AM
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She was not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 11:41 PM
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Multiple times I’ve ended up unintentionally whale hunting. Like I’m the one who has to bring the personality, the income generating potential, the leadership (and I don’t want to hear from FDS chicks about how that’s misogynistic. Sorry, I’ve been a beta pushover before and it turns women off, they definitely seem to like men who take charge and show leadership). The least you can do is be better in the classically feminine areas. If I’m also the better looking one, then what on earth am I gett…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:23 PM
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Desperation for Poonani. She’s reasonably pretty, at least from her photos. A man who’s been “making good decisions” for 15+ years may have never had any access to women. The first one that gives him attention gets his world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:18 PM
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Maturity myth in a nutshell. It’s funny, they kind of understand how the classical deal works now; in exchange for his resources and protection, she offers her sex and child rearing abilities. Of course, it’s all warped because a lucky dude in this situation would get 1 kid, while he has to provide a home for 2 extra.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:12 PM
12

Not me. I once dated a woman from Gujarat. She thought Indian men were “gross”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:08 PM
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Also, does she really want to be dating someone who finds the prospect of cuddling with a newborn that isn’t his to be desirable? That sounds like the beginning of an episode of “Dateline”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/22 10:32 AM
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I know that, despite our worries, men tend to be unfaithful more often than women in a marriage (though the gap has shrunk to be wicked small over the last few decades). But like I said, men cheat with their D. Unless a woman is just pure misery, men aren’t likely to step out if she’s maintaining her looks well enough. I agree, I’m suspicious that she packed lbs on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/22 10:30 AM
7

This chick is the embodiment of what happens when you respawn in on hard mode.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 11:01 PM
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Per civiqs.com, BLM has a -14 approval gap for white men aged 18-34 (which I assume is her target demo for marriage). And she lists her religion as Christian, so I’m sure that gap gets far worse when you filter out the atheists and other religions. Even amongst men who would be happy to be with a woman who lists a fringe Marxist organization masquerading as a legitimate mainstream civil rights group as a main interest, they’d rather pick a woman who is in shape and not carrying another man’s kid…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 05:53 PM
6

Maybe this woman would be okay, but that makeup makes her look like she’s careened through the wall and is now trying to hide it with clown makeup. But we have no idea of what she really looks like from her photo. This also strikes me as one of those women who will set her location to an American city in the hope of roping in an American guy to take care of her and her kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 05:47 PM
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I’m convinced creating a pseudo husband is a thing for single moms. I once dated a woman who was raised by a single mom. To make it more extreme, she emigrated to America. Her daughters must have been her entire support network, because the younger one (the one I dated) basically was subservient to her mom. Filling that void of not having a husband around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 05:26 PM
24

Use the politically correct term bro! “Sex worker”. And sex work is real work! It takes a lot of skill to show off your chocolate starfish to the world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 02:43 PM
10

Well, people are already getting a whole lot of the benefit that comes with marrying you for only $6 on OnlyFans. So not sure why one would bother with doing it? I’d love to see how OF women do in the dating/marriage market relative to normal women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 02:41 PM
1

So I pity this woman because her husband cheated and left her. That sucks. However, she’s already kind of made it obvious what the problem is. She says “a little chunky”. That means she’s fat. Because I’m sorry, a woman under the age of 50 on a dating app, getting zero messages? You’d have to be bottom of the food chain for that to happen. Also, women cheat with their heart, men with their D, which is more evidence that she was a wall smasher (once again, not condoning husband, how about instead…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 02:37 PM
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Yeah, just another red pill for us all to take TBH. You’d think living in mutual respect would be good enough; Nope, they have to know your medical history and they have to teach your 6 year old about gender identity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/22 04:07 PM
7

Still!? Jesus Christ. Yeah I went along with it back in summer 2020 when they reopened gyms, the sheer fact that I could weight train again balanced out the misery of having a face covering. But it got old in a hurry. When masks got put back in place, I drove 30 minutes to another location, just to dodge the mandates.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/22 06:28 AM
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Yup. It always brings me back to the age gap distribution in marriages. In 7.6% of marriages in America (in 2017), the man is at least 10 years older. That’s barely more than the percentage where the woman is 4+ years older (7.9%). Overall, 51.2% of marriages, the man is at least 2 years older, versus only 14.8% of marriages existing where the woman is 2+ years older. And, there’s more of them than us as we age (there’s more men until around age 40, when it reverses). And culturally speaking, no…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/22 03:34 AM
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Yeah, I’ve actually read studies saying that there’s a correlation between bicep size and views generally aligning with “conservative” politics (per the American definition) amongst men. I even notice it day to day; in the supermarket in my left leaning city, more people are wearing masks than not still. Go to the gym and almost no one is. Bias of course, since lifting and wearing those things are far more torturous than walking around comfortably in a store.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/22 01:22 AM
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Funny you mention that, because my girlfriend (currently vetting to potentially wife up) is 8 years younger. She’s wicked pretty, but obv not where she was at 20. To kind of highlight how women have to move, the subject of our age difference came up and she said “well 8 years isn’t that much”. So I asked “would you have dated a 26 year old at 18?”. She shrugged and said “no”. A nice and attractive woman can still get what she wants in her late 20’s for a man, for sure, but that age range has to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 11:13 PM
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Yeah. Like I bet a musician could cobble together $40,000-$60,000 in a big city. Do some street performing for tips, do a show or two every week at night, and it’s doable. However, that sounds a lot harder than just having a good plan B like working a regular job. Where people go wrong isn’t aiming high, it’s going all in on that goal. Similar to women like this, expecting that things should just work how she wants because she really wants it to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 11:09 PM
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“Add me on Instagram” No. I don’t use instagram. I’m not here to cultivate an online persona, I’m here to meet people in real life
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 09:32 PM
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I’m Catholic and conservative. My age demo is mostly women that are younger than me. Do I really think a 36 year old woman who is still single is going to be the mother I’d want for my kids? If she’s 18 and has attended a 4 year university, that means that she’s had 18 years worth of men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 08:37 PM
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On the same token, in the community mini library (basically a stand where people can leave books for people in the neighborhood to borrow), there was a book that was legitimately titled “Do What You Love, the Money Will Follow”. Like holy crap, vast swaths of the entire millennial generation and now older Gen Z took crippling blows to their financial future based off of that advice. And people still want to hear it. Pretty lies will always sell better than ugly truths, I guess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 07:24 PM
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Possible. Bumble is definitely a “woke” app.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 07:17 PM
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1) “conservative” with her pronouns listed. Oooooookay. 2) what value do you provide a man that you’re looking to date? We already know he can’t get kids (at least she says that she doesn’t want them, there’s still 45 year old women out there who do). No idea if she does have kids already. 3) it’s like they didn’t believe anyone older than them and just had too much fun spending her and whatever random dude that she was with at the time’s money on “experiences” versus a kid’s schooling or food. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 05:49 PM
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Yup, perfect. Kind of funny, I know exactly the kind of girls you’re talking about. Saw a good example of one a few days ago via random searches on Facebook. Also see she’s added to her collection of children. Noticeably absent is an addition to her collection of husband. Market for marriage probably isn’t fun for the group of mid-30’s women whose kids are their world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 02:43 PM
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How many men in the world have not even had the opportunity to get started in dating, versus this girl who has had 10 years? Why do so many women think that they can just shelf all of their options and that they’ll be waiting for her once she’s “ready”? Like others have said, if she’s spent that time single, it’s unlikely that she’s also spent that time celibate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 09:39 PM
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+1. I still think marriage is a valid plan that has a lot of benefit for a family. But the benefit should be for the kids. It’s not for a woman to feel validated. My handyman down in Florida is like 77. He found a woman who was 50 when he was 75. If you’re afraid of dying lonely, don’t fear too much; there is always someone who will be willing to be with you, provided you’ve got your act together. It’s just simple math: there’s less men than women after the age of 40, and women tend to date men …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 07:29 PM
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Yes. And one could claim this is misogynistic, but generally, men find boring contentment to be ideal. Men don’t need special maintenance in general, they just need to not be made miserable. Sure there will be exceptions, but there is a reason why women file like 80% of the divorces despite the fact that the dating world tends to judge divorced women harder than divorced men (men remarry more often). And also, like I mentioned, divorced men tend to date women their own age or younger. Divorced w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 07:17 PM
5

So nice to have graduated to alpha-lite status. Suddenly it’s not games being played at my expense anymore. Must suck when it goes in the opposite direction and suddenly you’re the one chasing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 04:40 PM
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Yeah it’s crazy. It almost makes me think that profiles like this are some MGTOW/Red Pill troll and not an actual woman. Tatted up 43 year old single mom with cat pictures all over her profile. It’s ridiculous. What is she advertising here beyond “I am desperate”?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 03:54 PM
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And then women wonder why men like younger women. Think about it: you’re a guy in his 20’s to early 30’s, having no luck with women. The pump and dumps women complain about sound good, because at least those girls had fun. You just got foodie called. Now you’re 37, hit that big promotion and are making $225k this year in a director’s role. You have things that you like to do as well. And suddenly, you have options in dating. Are you going to choose the woman that makes you change your lifestyle …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 03:44 PM
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Take my community for example. One side of the street is $500k+ apartments. The other side is public housing. Probably talking like $3,000 a month to rent those. So you can either 1) work hard, build a career and real income stream, pay full price for everything Or 2) have a kid unattached and get on a “pay what you can” system. No I’m not claiming 2 is better. But imagine having no real role models of success. Financially, romantically, anything. Realistically, even with a roommate, you’d need …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 12:50 AM
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Yeah, guaranteed if this were some church going 20 year old with no ex-boyfriends and a cheerful demeanor, most guys would find it ranging between neutral and cute.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 10:31 PM
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She just wants from Brad all of the things Chad didn’t offer her. Now that she has the kid, just need someone to help raise it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 10:17 PM
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I’m not sure who I regard as worse, Wilson or LBJ. They both brought big government to the masses, they both were massive globalist shills and eager to go war fight. Wilson established the Monetary and financial basis for the largesse that we see today, but LBJ and 60’s pols were the ones who really entrenched welfare state politics and the consequences surrounding them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 07:28 PM
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True. I’m fine with people making an error in judgment receiving help, provided that they’ve learned a lesson. But not the current state of the world, where everyone just assumes that there’s a bailout around the corner
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 07:24 PM
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How about the guy that you let unload inside of you? How about you build a life with him? Or did he get all of the fun parts of the mating process without being required to commit, because he caused tingles? Maybe you should’ve demanded commitment before offering up your ability to incubate. Seems better. And if you think offering that up in the hope that Chad will commit is going to work, I have a spoiler alert for you: it won’t work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 07:20 PM
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If you tax something, you get less of it. If you subsidize something, you get more of it. America is taxing productive activities like employing people, investing, and property ownership, and subsidizing unattached women having kids through child support and big goody bags of free/subsidized housing and food. And of course, the more money a welfare recipient makes, the more welfare is taken from them (example: $30,000 a year single mom is paying $750 a month for an apartment whose real market va…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 07:07 PM
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Is her “career” even what it’s cracked up to be? One thing I’ve always noticed about career chicks is that many embellish how well they are doing. Especially one claiming that she’s a “CEO” when pictures of her nude backside are for public consumption
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 02:54 PM
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Worst of all, it’s zero self awareness. I know PLENTY of women who manage to have good relationships, that also make a lot of money. Even if they don’t grasp it intellectually, intuitively they know that once they’re home, their husband wants a wife, not competition. This woman is projecting an “I’m your superior” attitude. What would she think of a principal software engineer with 15-20 years of experience? Would he also be a loser because she’s “CEO” and he’s “not even managerial”? She goes on…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 02:33 PM
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Yeah this is college/university. The world of endless barrages of sex is a myth for like 90% of those dudes. If you aren’t socially connected, then prepare to do a lot of things that you would be doing if you lived at home and played video games all day. Also, one area women most certainly do mature faster is in inter-gender relations. Because women are often getting attention from men by the time they are, like, 13. Meanwhile, a man could be college aged and still have never received any attent…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 03:44 AM
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The wall has been delayed on this woman. But it comes for all eventually. I doubt she’ll have that kind of arrogant, elitist attitude in a few years
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 02:33 AM
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I heard a lot of them are unattractive, too. Which might further inflate one’s ego
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 02:25 AM
4

Yeah my girlfriend is native Spanish, never learned Portuguese, can hold a conversation with Brazilians because the language is just that similar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 02:24 AM
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Yeah, obv I’m going to be careful to not use shaming language on this guy. But I don’t understand what’s going on here. Like he moved in with a woman when he wasn’t even in a relationship? And they clearly still aren’t, because women who consider themselves in a “relationship” won’t hold out kissing. Seems like this lady is getting free child care. I’d definitely class It as a bailout with an older woman tricking a younger man into helping her out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 10:20 PM
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I’ve also heard doctors tend to be horrible at decisions that aren’t medical. Like financial decisions, but I assume marital goes south too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 10:16 PM
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Yup for real. Individually it sucks. But over like 1 million people, you can rest assured that, on average, the men with a BMI of 32 aren’t actually gym alphas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 02:31 PM
4

He clearly wasn’t well versed in the art of the thot audit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 02:29 PM
19

Jesus the unpacking 1) $72,000 a year household income is above average in America. I’m supposed to feel bad that her life looks normal? 2) why dude took her back knowing what she was up to beforehand, who knows? 3) if the money is so important, let this dude go to go be single or find a new woman. Don’t do him like this. Of course, this is likely just her wanting to have her backup guy, so never mind me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 05:37 AM
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To be fair, many of them will squeeze the hell out of their midsection to hide the weight a little.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 09:18 PM
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Or he’s some “nice guy” beta boy that turns them off eventually.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 07:03 PM
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It’s a poor metric in general, designed back when you had far fewer extreme body types (you didn’t have nearly as many morbidly obese people, nor things like male gym rats that are technically “overweight”).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 06:18 PM
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Coach Greg Adams refers to that as 18. Because the man is shaped like a 1 and the woman an 8.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 06:12 PM
13

Yeah. Men can still be healthy at high BMIs, because muscle is heavy. But women are almost never healthy at larger weights. She needs to get on a diet ASAP
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 06:10 PM
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You can use a skin fold and it’s almost like a whole new access point!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 05:39 PM
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29 isn’t old when you’re married and have kids. Women I know who married younger and successfully, at 29, life was just getting started. They had a ton to look forward to. Their kids growing up. Family adventures. Seeing their finances constantly improving and getting closer to that dream home. They’re on track. But for finding a husband, 29 is old. If you’re not in a relationship that could lead to marriage by then, you’ve made things infinitely harder. And if you’ve only dated douche bags, tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 05:38 PM
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Yeah it’s a big problem. Let’s not get it wrong, stable marriages have always been a hallmark of affluent couples, but only in recent history has more education been positively correlated with marriage for women. Education used to heavily be the domain of unattached women. But yeah, women tend to want a man who makes more than they do. Even if they don’t care initially, they will once kids are in the picture. Understandably so; a woman sacrifices herself physically to have kids, so the historica…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 05:30 PM
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FWIW my sister and BIL make around the same and are stable, but I think my sister is still Catholic enough to not be looking to nuke families over stupid crap like her top 10% income not being beaten by a top 1%. If anything, thanks to the traits she picked up with our sibling rivalry (we were both obnoxiously smart kids), that would put her into even more friendly competition. But yeah, in general, a woman making as much or more than her husband is hugely destabilizing. Amongst college educated…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 04:37 PM
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5’2” 180 lbs and SHE is the one complaining about being repulsed by sex with her husband. She’s only 35 lbs lighter than I am, and I’m a power lifter. If she gets any man willing to do it with her, as a 5’2”, 180 lb married 46 year old, it is further proof that women simply need to exist, and SOMEONE will want to get it in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 04:31 PM
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Yeah if they have to, I’d rather 21 year old guys hit up 31 year old women versus fat girls their own age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 12:30 AM
2

Weirdly I once dated a girl who lied about her age in the opposite direction (said she was 24, was 21). She thought older guys (I was 26) would be put off. Now if a woman came out to be 3 years younger than I originally thought, I’d think jackpot. Unless of course, she lied about being 18-20, then I’d be running for the hills.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 12:28 AM
1

Plus the math just doesn’t work out. There’s only so many 20 something year old women to go around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 12:24 AM
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1) living with 5 guys is an absolute ton for a woman in her early to mid 20’s. If I hear a woman is like that, my first thought is gold digging 304 bag, to put it bluntly. You’re making that good money, go rent your own apartment and shack up with the man you’ll marry. 2) the order of operations is likely that she’s attracted to men that are dominant, but programmed to be independent. So she gets with these men for their alpha traits, then they either stay alpha (which frustrates her since she n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 12:20 AM
1

Yeah I remember the Cathy Newman video where he was way too nice to her, given what she was doing. Clearly being as obtuse as hell to try and characterize his views as this far right lunacy. Kind of tangential but I actually watched a good video on Canada’s political system last night. While valuing liberty and not being compelled to do anything would make you a populist in America, in Canada it’s the rebellious stance. Order and agreeableness is the general civic value of Canada, which is likel…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/22 10:49 PM
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I like the way KS gets the message across. Fresh and Fit OTOH, I fully see them as grifty. Aba and Preach are 100% right about those dudes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/22 06:29 PM
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I like Jordan Peterson, but the fact that he’s so popular is an indictment of modern society. So many young men look to him as more than just an intellectual, he’s a father figure that they crave. Either because they didn’t have a father, or their father was a weakling. Obviously not all of his stans are boys without a real dad, but simply making sense being a virtue is weird.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/22 06:27 PM
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I’ve always noticed that the difference between men like in here, and women who post in FDS, is that this community simply want men to avoid bad women. FDS seems to HATE men. But it kind of goes back to the idea that men want women, women need men
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/22 11:58 AM
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Correct. The nerdy guys aren’t interested in all of that nonsense, they’re busy working and listening to Joe Rogan (preferably not over the company WiFi). Not conservative, just not Idpol loving. Then, of course, a boatload of box checkers who have minimum viable skills. At this point, the best CS guys and girls are going off to startups, and leaving Wokeanda to the power posing blue check wannabe brigade
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/22 03:24 PM
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Mentioned this before on this sub, but once matched with some train wreck of a woman that was pushing 30, obese, and wanted to be a housewife. But believed that the MBA that she had never used (nor intended to, she was working as a flight attendant) was somehow an asset to a man that would be so lucky as to be chosen by her. Their education is nothing but a signal that they are of a high social class, and therefore only other high social class men need apply.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 07:07 PM
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How does an LTR happen without first dating? Are you supposed to profess love to each other before meeting?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 07:02 PM
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Yeah I mean I don’t like Bill Gates. And his recent comments comparing masks to pants…like he had all day to make a case for the magic facecloth and that’s the best he could come up with? But there’s a lot of people who are only truly smart in a few areas. After that, Dunning Kruger kicks in at full force
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 03:28 PM
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One thing that’s enlightening is listening to Kevin Samuels. So often, women neither seem to know no one who makes a good income, or basically every man they know does. Generally speaking, the former want those men because it’s the bailout that they seek, the latter want them because they feel entitled to them (after all, they don’t know a man who is 35 and making $50k).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 02:52 AM
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Dude I am ashamed about how fragile some fellow computer science and technology workers are. Like sorry you make $150k+ a year and get to get paid by your employer to Stan a programming language every year and need to find something to complain about. Must be a hard life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 02:39 AM
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I can confirm, in computer science, a lot of dudes are absolute pushovers. Not all, but there’s a lot of geeky dudes who go into CS. So maybe they meet the income needs for women, but they’re such betas that it doesn’t matter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 02:37 AM
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I argue part of the reason why companies and government push feminism is because women tend to be more agreeable on average. More agreeable = less likely to push back against a manager.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 02:33 AM
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I’m a tech guy and I’d much rather date a feminine women. Don’t feel like my girlfriend having more big D energy than my coworkers
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 02:32 AM
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To be fair, undead chronic said in a video that the divorce rate for imported wives is 1 in 5. Much lower than two Americans. Disclaimer: he didn’t source that stat so I’m not sure if it’s true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 02:00 AM
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Yeah this is absolutely insane. She’s afraid of being financially taken advantage of? Well, welcome to being a man. She lived like a man. And she’s done awesome ($2m net worth on $230k a year by 37, mighty impressive, wouldn’t be shocked if she’s scored on crypto). But if I look it up, only 2.5% of HOUSEHOLDS in their late 30’s have net worths of $2.5m or more. That means potentially two income earners. Her net worth alone already puts her ahead of 39 out of 40 households at her age level. A dud…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 09:10 PM
4

Once matched with a 36 year old on Bumble. Topic of age came up. I said my age range (and lied a little, said my lower limit was 27 at 35). She absolutely raged before blocking me. These girls know that they can’t compete with younger women looking for the same thing, so all they have left is a PsyOp to convince men that they are bad for wanting younger women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 07:30 AM
13

Oh of course. How can I forget? Only the best for the 20 year CC veteran
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 07:28 AM
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I’m 5’7”, I’m still bagging hotter than this. If guys my size can have options, then the 6’ men that she wants definitely have options.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 04:27 AM
4

It’s 100% not okay, I agree with you. If a woman says that she had a bunch of short term relationships, run.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 04:23 AM
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Yeah, why deal with a 39 year old? My girlfriend is 28 and works just fine for me
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 04:22 AM
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Just saying, those dudes are basically her only shot. Men her age that want kids want nothing to do with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 07:16 PM
12

No, it means that you actually took in the basic English communications training that they gave you
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 07:12 PM
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I think Kevin Samuels said that there’s 2 million more marriages of black men in America than black women. Given that you can estimate that there’s around 15 million adult black men and women each in America, that gap is vast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 07:11 PM
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Yup. I was reminded to go look at some girls that I graduated high school with. I’m almost 36, so we’re talking women in their mid 30’s. And some of those girls were wicked pretty in high school. Now, I’m not sure if I’d be interested in any of them. At least amongst the ones that didn’t get wifed up (the married ones I wouldn’t be interested in for “not into wrecking homes”). Just further establishes that the power dynamic shifts in our 30’s. This chick is just using the kind of shaming tactics…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 10:22 AM
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Find a 60 year old who will agree to try and let you live at his home, in exchange for staying with him and not making him do any of the hard stuff with raising the kid. Pretty much the only type of man who would be down to try and knock up a 39 year old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 10:07 AM
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Gotta love SIGN language. Do tell why it’s “weird” for an adult man to date an adult woman? The men your age were supposed to sit on the sideline and wait for you to be “ready to settle down”? I think they’re allowed to seek the fun that you had, too
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 10:05 AM
1

It’s crazy that she literally can’t wait a month to hop back on the CC. Like we might have a standard against dating single moms, but imagine some nice, dorky 30 year old man who is just coming into his own in career and gaining status. She is 24 now with a 1 year old. Plenty of dudes would accept this, as she might be the prettiest woman he’s ever dated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 11:49 PM
2

My step-dad traveled to the freaking Komi Republic in Russia back in the mid 90’s to adopt a kid. I would even assume that adoption is going to be even more demanded in the future, with everything from more gay/lesbian couples, to women marrying later and missing their fertility window, to rich careerists who missed out on marriage but still want to raise a kid (would recommend against this, but I think it’s kosher legally for a single person to adopt a kid on their own).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 11:44 PM
1

Pretty much. Yeah I can’t even remember the shape shifter boy. It was the strong one and the “perfect” one that had the screen time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 06:37 PM
7

Yup. Like whatever one thinks of Bill Gates, he’s likely extremely intelligent. But have you seen pictures of the dude? He’s looking rough these days. Anyway, if Bill Gates slid into some woman’s DMs, except he was an average earning guy for whatever reason, would she as a “sapiosexual” go for him? If not, then she’s not really a “sapiosexual”, because he didn’t have the looks part checked off
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 05:29 PM
2

Yeah, agreed. Definitely don’t paint off the movie as feminist propaganda, but you’re 100% right that pretty much all of the memorable characters were women. I only remember 1 male character, and the main character’s own dad was basically an afterthought
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 05:23 PM
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Me too. Ultimately, football (and men’s basketball for smaller schools) are the main profit drivers in the sports department. I bet that if you looked at a lot of the good Catholic school basketball programs (Gonzaga, Villanova, Providence for example), you’d see that their men’s basketball team of 15 or so dudes fund literally the entire athletic department. And when you think about it, Title IX restricts school athletic programs to be equal across gender (over simplified but still). So men who…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 05:20 PM
8

Want to know one of the things most correlated to “intelligence”? Income! So ask yourself if “sapiosexuals” are truly turned on by your ability to think and communicate. I mean, maybe…but only after the important stuff of owning your own home and having a well funded 401(k) is checked off first.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 04:26 PM
15

It’s kind of a mixed bag. I fully support girls having the chance to compete in sports; sports were wonderful for me growing up and I’d want that outlet to be there for girls. This being said, sports are inherently less popular for girls, because they’re less competitive on average.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 04:21 PM
9

I took my girlfriend to that (she is Colombian). While I agree that there was definitely some woke Disney going on, they didn’t totally crap on Chad (he ended up getting another character that suited him better), and the male character who was shunned turned out to be right. Almost like in a world full of blue pills, he was the red pill, and they thought they could just ignore him and continue on their merry way. And it was ultimately a woman who most resembled an “antagonist” in the movie. Also…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 04:20 PM
10

Reminds me of what Jordan Peterson once talked about. Male and female big law juniors often follow the same average trajectory, but you hit partner and it’s disproportionately men. Why? Because the women leave. Intellectually they’re as capable as the guys, but the early 30’s hit, the student loans are paid off, they’re getting married, and suddenly working until 10 pm in order to help your big insurance client out to avoid paying out to someone that just lost their car isn’t appealing anymore. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 04:26 AM
14

“Wonderful” women don’t blow up lukewarm marriages and the families of their children, in order to go chase the tingles that she misses from her 20’s. I’m always wary of divorced women, mostly because when I hear about what happened, I’m hearing their version of it. “He was controlling” could’ve been “he wouldn’t let me go clubbing on weekends and cut me off financially when I maxed out multiple credit cards”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 10:19 PM
27

Tactically used bikini picture to demonstrate that she’s thin (which probably puts her well up there amongst women in their early to mid 30’s in attractiveness) in the hope that it lures a man in. And preferably one that would pay for her and her two kids. Begs the question of whether her not her son’s dad was able to provide that lifestyle for her. If he couldn’t, than why did she have children with him if she couldn’t be flexible? If he could, then why did she leave him (because divorces at th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 10:11 PM
25

It’s almost a badge of honor today to be a single mom in some circles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 10:05 PM
4

At least she has that going for her. Her kids won’t have daddy, but at least they aren’t being raised by an addict. Yay?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 10:03 PM
11

She’s due in may, so 7 months ago, a dude was good enough to deposit his zinc shot in her. But now he’s not even good enough to be the dad. She should be begging BD to stay because that’s her man now
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 08:08 PM
17

Man that’s a hard 22 right there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 07:56 PM
26

“I’d rather stay single than settle”. No problem. I mean she clearly makes good money. She’s got this. Of course, it’s a lonely life, doing everything by yourself; humans aren’t designed to do that. The one thing I’ll give her is that she is a doctor, so it’s not the stereotypical “My CaReEr Is My LiFe” feminist who probably makes $80k a year in client services. She actually does have meaning to her job, and it pays well. But ultimately, I can’t remember the name of the nurse practitioner who he…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 06:20 PM
20

I’ve always had the theory that one big explanation for what we see out of women is the fact that women tend to be most attracted to men around their age. So they seek signals of value based off that age group. So 20’s her likes the physically fit, Chadius Maximus types. 30’s her likes stability, because as men get older, we get assessed less by how we look and more by how we’re performing in the world. A big reason for why they’re “tired of the games”, because the game players are no longer the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 06:10 PM
1

There’s only two comments on the article, and one of them expresses sympathy towards her for being “lonely”. Like, she had a live in boyfriend (apparently she never married) and 2 kids. This is hypergamy gone wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 05:54 PM
1

Never ceases to amaze me that many women don’t get that. Like 20 year old Becky maybe has a widowed grandma. Is anyone banging down the door to date her? Even if they found a man, he’s usually ancient. Does Becky find 80 year old men attractive? Or would she rather date the 23 year old dude with toned abs and a chiseled chest? Or the 40-something guy with perfectly groomed facial hair, high net worth (and still growing), and good fashion sense? Or the 30 year old who has a little of both? Grandm…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 05:47 PM
3

Yeah I’ve never seen a relationship where people refer to their SO as their “partner” instead of wife/husband or girlfriend/boyfriend last. Besides the ones who do it for public, PC reasons, while the dynamic at home is leader/follower like other healthy relationships. There’s a reason why corporations, militaries, and all have chains of command that stop at one person, because someone actually has to make decisions and be accountable to the outcomes. With “partners”, you’re just going to get co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 04:58 PM
14

So basically, women in their 50’s are like men in their 20’s, except with more money. Jokes aside, it’s crazy that anyone, man or woman, would hand that sort of money over to a person that they don’t even know. You could buy a lot of stuff for $20k. S&P 500 with dividend reinvestment has beat inflation by 6.78% over the last 110 years, 30 years of that in a Roth would give you over $140k. But hey, in this age of everyone being “independent”, loneliness is at all time highs. Go figure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 04:51 PM
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Reminds me of the dude recently who started seeing a girl that was like 8 months pregnant, and brought her to the hospital and played daddy when she gave birth. If she’s cute enough, someone will bite. They don’t get any sympathy from me. In the case of this one, I can’t imagine what dude would think she’s cute enough
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 04:43 PM
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I’ve always found the “hot guy in photo” profile picture to be a beta filter of sorts. A guy looks at him, sees he doesn’t compare, and self-selects out of swiping right on her, surmising that he “doesn’t have a chance”. Basically she wants the hot guy who is also commitment minded. On tinder. In her mid 30’s. Good luck with that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 06:12 PM
3

Yeah, Atlanta/Fulton Co is basically the black capital of America, at least amongst the southern states. Georgia itself is only exceeded by DC, Mississippi and Louisiana in percentage of black people within the continental USA, and Atlanta is the big city in Georgia. Also, while Atlanta itself is a Democratic/liberal stronghold, the surrounding area is fairly conservative, which has a lot of overlap with the manosphere. So you’ll definitely meet some dudes (and women) who have influence from tho…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 04:16 PM
1

Similar for me. Not quite the CoL of London, but still a fairly expensive American city. You might make $250k, and thats cool, but there’s dudes out there making $500k or more. And the fact that communities are so transitory, you get renters filtering in and out every year.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 03:05 PM
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That’s true. Yeah, she claims that she hates the men in her country, when there’s literally nothing stopping her from moving. She can speak fluent German, she could live in Austria or Germany right now, or maybe somewhere like Denmark or the Netherlands with some practice of those Germanic languages, because she’s allowed to reside anywhere in the EU. I can think of one big reason why she doesn’t move: $. Her job is literally teaching German. Probably not much of a demand for that in a country w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 07:15 AM
16

No hobbies or interests, but you better believe that they will shame a man who likes video games.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 06:03 AM
12

It’s actually hugely common in Italy for people to live at home late. In 2011, 79% of Italians aged 18-29 lived at home with their family. This seems somewhat common amongst Southern Europeans and their tangential cultures; my girlfriend’s mom was shocked to learn that I moved out on my own permanently at 23, because it’s rare that a 23 year old can be self supporting in South America.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:51 AM
14

In the USA, it’s hyper common to see women from places like South America and the Philippines and Africa use passport mode, or even straight up say that they live in a city, in order to initiate contact with dudes in the area. I admit, I was talking to some Brazilian girl for awhile. She ended up ghosting me for not having an active social media presence (lol), and when she inevitably came back with the “hey big head” type text, only to get huffy and block me when I said that I have a girlfriend…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:45 AM
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Yeah Italy looks hardline trad outside of the cities. I assume it’s similar in other Southern European Catholic countries like Portugal, Spain, Malta, and almost certainly Slovenia and Croatia. I remember learning about Our Lady of Fatima and how Portugal was divided into liberal, progressive cities and conservative rural areas, and this was like over 100 years ago.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:39 AM
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So much to unpack here 1) women don’t do the same thing? There’s a reason why the term “chameleon” exists; because there’s many women who will feign being sweet, affectionate, loving, and be willing to have lots of sex, for awhile. But once they think they “have” you, suddenly the petty arguments start, the sex drops, and she begins to act like a self serving terror. There’s evil men out there who will say what women want to hear to hit it for cheap, and there’s evil women out there who will say…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:36 AM
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Yeah, In her mind, she could make those kind of demands. Notice how she automatically assumes she’s a top 15% woman. Why? Well, because she’s basically a man with a girl’s body; best of both worlds! She’s lucky that her work exposes her to so many HVM, giving her way more shots than average for a woman. But even with her notoriety and connections, she had to go for a man 6 1/2 years older in order to get the HVM she “deserves”. And she better hope that she can keep him, because that number will …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:00 AM
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This reminds me of Tomi Lahren’s rant on how she, and her “amazing friends” were all single (sidenote: she’s engaged now, poor JP Arencibia) and of course put all of the blame on men. Yeah they look good (even though Tomi is loaded with plastic surgery, I’m pretty sure), yes they’re doing well financially, yes they’re smart. But they all seem to want a man who looks just as good, but makes more money and is smarter/more dominant in conversation. But they just can’t settle on the dude “only” maki…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 04:27 AM
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Yeah like either that dude is in jail, that dude has disappeared from the radar of the justice system / fled the country, or that dude is just that big of a deadbeat. Even dudes who make $0 a week are expected to pay a few bucks of child support.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 04:19 AM
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Dude she looks like she has war paint on. Her body is decent, but many late 30’s women with no kids can keep some semblance of a body together if they exercise at all and don’t shove ice cream down their throat for dinner (because many of them can’t prepare a decent meal).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 04:14 AM
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Met my current girlfriend at 27 last year. I agree that even at 27, the question of “why are you single?” Pops up for me. It’s practically an exponential function between new women on “serious” dating apps like Match from age 25 (almost none) to 30 (a ton).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 03:54 AM
10

“I respect myself now, so you have to take me on proper dates and wait” = “you aren’t Chad so I won’t pay for my own Uber to show up to your apartment at 1:30 am to let you blow my back out”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/22 09:07 PM
10

Hell of a performance to make it last 5 years. Then again, a lot of dudes don’t pay attention to the red flags. You think she’s unappreciative of you when you’re boyfriend/girlfriend, just wait until she can drag you through divorce court if you want to leave her. Talking with my friend (a woman) who is kind of learning about what I’ve told her for years in looking at her future BIL. Young guy (mid 20’s), relatively good shape and handsome, makes $60-$70k a year or so as a plumber. Well above av…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 01:25 AM
8

Yup. Generally, I don’t see women dating older men regularly (and when I say older men, I don’t mean a 20 year old woman dating a 25 year old man) until their mid to late 30’s. A guy who is in his 50’s could date a woman in her 30’s-40’s no problem. But 20’s? That’s a stretch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 12:04 AM
10

Back when I was more BP, I went on a date with a woman 9 years older than me. She looked good for her age, NGL. But it didn’t take long before it was obvious that I had made a mistake. She was extremely bitter and snappy towards me towards the end of the date. She even decided to call and chew me out afterwards. In retrospect, I appreciate the psycho chew out because it helped wake me up to how women think. More importantly, from an anecdotal POV (not just from her, but other women), I don’t see…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 12:00 AM
10

Yeah, London is vastly different than the rest of England. I remember someone (I think John Cleese?) got heat for saying that London isn’t an “English” city anymore. Because apparently it’s a foreign concept to wokeanda that Europeans could have indigenous people groups, too. But yes, finding a man as an older woman in London is easier said than done. Most people who are in their 50’s and able to live in the city are wealthy, and they’ve the pick of the litter. They’d probably have better luck r…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 11:54 PM
8

Yeah I should amend that to “who is having kids?”. Chad and Tyrone definitely are. They’re just dipping out afterwards. What’s crazy to me is how many marriages end in divorce in between years 3-5 (I think once you get past 5 years, the divorce rate plummets), since it’s so common to be dating and engaged for extended periods of time. In a lot of these cases, the time spent together not married exceeds the time spent together married. You’d think with all of that vetting people do, that they’d d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 11:39 PM
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Ah, this is some old school propaganda. I think I remember reading this one. Women really need to ask what they can offer a man, that a man can’t either get himself, get from friends, or pay for. The answer: kids. Men value younger women because they can have kids. Then they value their wives, because they help each other in raising the kids. So, for example, what benefit would a 50 year old man have in combining his life and finance to a 50 year old woman? Assuming the man is doing well in that…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 11:28 PM
2

Yeah, MBAs are mostly fluff degrees designed to let businesses outsource their management training. Most people I know with an MBA, got it to transition to managerial and strategic roles. For the most part, it’s common sense. In her case, I’ve no idea why she invested time to earn an MBA. Or why she’d be working as a flight attendant while hubby hunting, and not some job that might value her MBA and pay her a better salary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 03:53 PM
9

She makes $, she makes feminist talking points. She’s a golden girl for woke pageants. When they said former miss GB, I was expecting someone hot. Not someone who looks like a middle aged woman that recently divorced her husband in a failed attempt at hypergamy, and is now posting her gym selfies on her match.com profile in the hope of finding a replacement. Because don’t get me wrong, she does look good, but she also looks a good 5+ years older than 33 (which is already “old” to be taken seriou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 07:34 AM
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That’d be amazing. But the government’s main role in the eyes Of much of the population is free stuff. So, good luck hoping an influx of soy boys and lifelong government cheese recipients will step up to fix it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/22 03:02 PM
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At the same token, I’d argue the destruction of marriage is a goal that the feminists want. Also, think about who IS getting married and having kids. Beta males, Chad and Tyrone mostly. You think that’s going to be the generation to fix society?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/22 02:58 AM
2

I love people who expect others to provide resources for them, and using laws to make that happen. There’s a term for making people work for free, IIRC.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/22 06:14 PM
3

Now the best of the best are lucky to get 1-2 kids out of the deal. Pookie and RayRay get 6 though
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/22 06:11 PM
22

Yup. Boyfriend, not husband. Hope he’s teaching her about crypto right now
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/22 06:08 PM
7

A lot of these people spend like crazy for the purpose of marketing. The Tai Lopez plan.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/22 05:14 PM
17

I think she should get more grief, TBH. $162k a month. Even after taxes, she can be set for life by the time she’s 25 (and not to live in small town USA, to live in NYC or LA). Being a good, solid person needs to pay, not just being willing to show your body
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/22 05:11 PM
1

Honestly? My stack is wicked similar. Not much MATLAB any more; numpy and Pandas exposes basically everything you’d need for numerical manipulation. Really, if you have Python and SQL knowledge, everything else can just be learned as you go. Definitely wouldn’t discourage you from pursuing Mech Eng, since it’s a great profession, but you could also do software and data science if you decide Mech Eng isn’t what you want to do, since it sounds like you’ve the skill for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/22 05:41 AM
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And then they’ll complain and complain about how badly men treat them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/22 05:34 AM
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+1 to all. Dudes who hate women need a chill pill. It’s ridiculous to hate someone for their nature. Just understand it and adjust accordingly
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/22 05:30 AM
25

I’m sure her love language is “gift giving and receiving”. Emphasis on the receiving.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 09:23 PM
11

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. Many men spend their entire life unable to reproduce. She’s done it twice. This is why I hold such a double standard for sex: all women have to do is agree to it, men have to be something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 07:04 PM
2

Part of me thinks that their fixation on standards is a PsyOp to make men think they’re special if they chooses to be with the man. He checked all of these boxes, it must be fate!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 06:58 PM
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A woman with a kid would be lucky to have a man with a kid. Assuming other standard aspects of attraction are preserved (namely: the man has a higher income than the woman, because these are the men that women tend to be attracted to). So, if a household mixed together, the woman and her kid would have more income allocated to them, at the expense of the man and his kid. This is why, in general, it’s a big problem when a woman has a kid. The woman is already going to cost $; add a kid in and tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 04:26 PM
12

No, men are the sellers. Women choose whether they want to consume that product. Men are trying to sell their own individual product to as many women as possible. It’s the opposite of marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 01:03 AM
6

So she gives her body up to a man on the first date to “get sex over with”, catches the feels because of course she does, she’s lucky because this guy actually decided to commit to a woman that let him smash on the first date. Now, at 32, 2-3 years away from geriatric pregnancy, she wants to hop on board the CC. Can’t wait for her bitter post-wall dating profile to be put up here. Her boyfriend should’ve dumped her on the spot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 12:44 AM
18

Ask 100 men for no strings attached sex. Show them you’re on BC, you’re clean, etc. what % of men will say “yes”? Now be an average man, same traits (vasectomy, clean), ask 100 women if they’d like sex. How many will say “yes”? It’s not misogyny. It’s economics. When it comes to sex, men are the sellers and women are the buyers. Women can have as much, or as little, sex as they want. Call it misogynistic, but you know it’s true. Head back to FDS if you’re going to dismiss anything you don’t want…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 12:30 AM
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Nah, there’s still PLENTY of solid men who are unmarried in their 30’s these days. They just don’t want a woman who is 36. They want a woman who is 26. So it’s not that there aren’t solid products on the market, it’s that they are coming in with enough $ for a used Toyota Camry to the Ferrari dealership. They have to go visit the man version of the used car lot to find a guy at their level. He might be chubby, he might have a Vice for alcohol or gambling, he might be a 40 year old virgin, or all…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 05:40 PM
4

Correct. As a man, I am bringing the whole house. I don’t want to “compromise”, nor should I. I mean, at least on financial stuff, since inevitably I’m the one bringing more wealth. If you’re moving into my home that I’ve spent ages paying for, it’s on my rules. Not as an “equal partnership”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 05:35 PM
7

Yup. If she’s a church going and volunteering woman, holding out until marriage, and is nice to people, she would have nothing to get defensive over.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 03:51 PM
8

Because they don’t understand asymmetrical attraction. They don’t understand that men have to put in work to be desired by women. Women just have to not be awful and not be obese, and at 18, their relationship value is sky high. I’ve seen many women who have decent bodies in their 20’s with no diet or exercise. Most guys who do that, they are at best still skinny due to some hyperpowered metabolic rate
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 03:48 PM
11

Yeah, can confirm that weight training at least disables hard mode for most men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 03:12 PM
23

Basically these women didn’t get attention from the “correct” men when they were younger sometimes, so they’d lash out of them for their misogynistic beauty standards. Then they get older and they wish men cared about them 10% as much as they used to
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 03:10 PM
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If a key can open many locks, it’s called a master key. If a lock is opened by many keys, it’s a useless lock. You can imagine what the “key” and “lock” are referring to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 03:08 PM
4

Oh I know that place quite well. Ironic because any true female dating strategy would be “get married young, wait for marriage until you have kids”. And boom, she’s successful. I also don’t get the pathology. Why date men if you hate men? I don’t hate women. I can’t talk for you, but I assume you don’t hate women? Also, if a woman is afraid of dying alone, marrying young is her best shot at marrying a man who is around her age. The older she gets, her man gets older faster. And we die 4 years ea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 03:06 PM
12

Sadly I still see men who are 60 dating 60 year olds. My female friend, her dad has basically already said he doesn’t intend to leave a “lot” of money to his two daughters, instead opting to sinkhole it into his 61 year old gold digger. Who, btw, graduated from school at 60 and moved across the country to go work, so now dad has to go for a cross country flight just for 61 year old P sleeve. Sad, he could’ve had a 40 year old no problem. Or maybe even 30
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 11:29 PM
2

I’d class this more as “epiphany” than “entitlement princess”. I live in a big city, and you’ll see girls who straight up neglect the dating scene like they’re men. Then they hit 33 or something and think they can rope in a man to start a family, when their best years have already passed. Obviously can’t see her face, but body wise, she looks like she takes care of herself. But she’s probably blown her chance to have a trad life. If she were going to marry, it’d have to be some sort of 50/50 fin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 11:25 PM
6

Even on dating apps, for the most part, the women that approach me looked like walruses. Women who cold approach likely don’t get men who cold approach, and there’s often a reason for that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 04:22 PM
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Yup, I keep being told reliably that trying to talk to a woman at the gym is bad. I’m sure it would be a different story if I were 6’2” and not 5’7”, though
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 04:01 PM
9

Yeah when talking to younger men, this is a point I try to Ram home. These women who, in your experience, held all of the cards in inter-gender relations, and who had the pick of the litter, are so terrified of rejection that they will stand on the sideline and let the world pass them by before even hinting at interest in a guy. Does that sound scary to you? This girl has spent $1900 over 7 months on a gym membership that she doesn’t even want in order to meet a top 5% man, but can’t even take t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 03:59 PM
6

It’s crazy how so many can’t be an adult these days. Being approached is not creepy. Being approached all of the time may be a nuisance, I will agree, but I think scores of men would gladly take the problem of too much attention over no attention.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 03:55 PM
6

So who’s paying her bills right now? Is it a foreign concept to some women that they actually have to give something in return in exchange for providership?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 03:51 PM
10

Also notice that, as a woman, she could “walk for 30 minutes” and still not be fat (even though she could probably use some real workouts, if the goal is to find a rich, fit boyfriend). Remember that, the next time a woman wants a medal because she needs to spend an hour getting ready. I’m “getting ready” practically as a part time job, to avoid looking like a potato with a head attached.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 03:48 PM
1

It was called “Single Mother Relationships Expert”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 03:43 PM
1

That is gross household income, yes. And actually, returns in the last 30 years have been pretty good, and this includes the dot com crash and Great Recession. I’m not going to claim it’s simple, since so much $ gets yeeted from your paycheck even an average earner, but, it’s possible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 03:42 PM
3

Wasn’t sure if you weren’t American. Maybe I’m too arrogant and need a big black pill, but still
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 09:41 PM
1

Do the dads have any relationship with the kids, or are they purely for cash money purposes for these women? Gross either way
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 06:27 PM
3

When I see woman with a “graduate degree”, my impression is that it’s more likely that she suckered a dude into thinking that he was going to get a happy family, then divorced him and went right back into the dating market. Though it does remind me of the Think Before You Sleep video centered around Jesse Lee Peterson’s interview with Laurel Hodge, who is a double divorced “dating guru” that magically got pregnant when she was almost 40. There was a video from a few years before of her sobbing d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 04:12 PM
2

US midterm elections. Not to politically divert too much, it’s just relevant to the topic of inflation
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 04:03 PM
1

That’s possible. These days, smoking/lack of exercise and advanced education don’t seem to go together. So she might just be lying
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 04:00 PM
8

I remember the Brady Bunch movie back in the 90’s that, instead of making the movie in the same time period, chose to bring the Brady Bunch 25 years into the future and into modern times, to superimpose the cheesy silent generation parents of baby boomers onto the modern day. One of the jokes was how excited everyone was to go to Sears. Movie was wicked goofy, but young me did enjoy it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 09:18 AM
1

I know it, but I haven’t really spent much time in there. I’d assume it’s not cringe in there, at the very least.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 09:14 AM
3

My Godfather and his wife, neither went to college. They now live in a beautiful home in an upscale neighborhood with beach access in Florida. Home itself is worth 7 figures. These people, primarily women, are taking the money that could be invested to make such a desirable purchase, and instead are squandering it on degrees designed to satiate their ego and give them validation. It’s crazy. For perspective, if you ignore inflation and just assume 6% annual returns on current year dollars, a fam…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 09:12 AM
2

Google voice FTW. Drop that # like a bad habit once it gets around a little too much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 08:55 AM
10

Why can’t “girls night out” ever be “girls night in”? Men with wives can be more than content just getting together to watch a game or play video games or something. I took a trip for a few weeks to visit my mom down south (I have a place nearby as well), my girlfriend is confused as all hell when I can just loaf around and do nothing all evening. I don’t need other people to constantly amuse me, I can amuse myself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 08:46 AM
1

What’s funny is that, historically, humanity has benefitted from warmer, wetter periods. The classical Mayan cultures withered away and it was likely due to drought. And I don’t think it was a coincidence that the closer you were to the equator in Mesoamerica, the more likely that you lived in a developed society. Next time one of them goes on about the devastating impact of a warming climate, ask how they feel about the fact that 40 people in America die from cold weather for every 1 that dies …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 08:34 AM
2

What I’ve always wondered is, do women think presenting themselves as a B***h is actually an effective dating strategy? Or is this some sort of statement that they’re making without care of what the results are? Or maybe it’s just an alpha/sigma filter, to get men with self respect to swipe left and leave her only with dudes whom she can walk all over.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 08:24 AM
3

Yeah it’s just a catch all insult for men who dare to question the idea that all woman are amazing. Some women are, just like some men are. Most of us are average. The irony of FDS is that, for the most part, women don’t even need a strategy. Just be a good woman. For the good women I’ve known in life, things just seem to magically work out well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 08:17 AM
8

I see no benefit to a LTR for a man outside of having a family. I mean I guess it could be cool when you’re older to have someone, but why move in the 40 year old girlfriend when you’re 60? You have your life, she’s built up her own independent life, no reason to merge it (and you really have to ask “why?” if she is pushing hard for it). But really, what benefit comes from investing in a woman who isn’t helping you to carry on your legacy?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 08:13 AM
7

Amazing, a man and a woman offer each other their best and it results in a happy relationship. No wonder FDS is such comedy for you two! They’d probably call your husband an incel unironically.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 07:51 AM
8

A lot of stuff we learned was a lie, too. Think of how many dudes aged 22-26 there are, working hard to establish their careers, already making $85,000 at age 26 (this would be the approx threshold of a top 10% income for that age). Then they try to go on a few dates, the girl’s can barely be bothered to give them a hug for the free meal and proceed to ghost him. He goes home and thinks something is wrong with him; after all, he is a nice, stable young man with a budding career who treats women …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 07:39 AM
7

I think that jab was more about how slight exaggerations could be criminally prosecuted. But on fiscal policy, if you need any chart to highlight what a bloodbath November will be, this is it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 07:24 AM
7

Yup. That’s fair. Because it’s possible that it was an innocent interaction, but we both know that it’s easy to not be tempted by sex. Just avoid the situation where sex could happen entirely. Maybe she would say “no” if a guy took a shot at her and that would be it, but if she’s constantly putting herself in that situation, “no” can eventually become “I have a boyfriend”, which could become “what boyfriend?”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 07:16 AM
6

Wonder what STEM or highly ranked MBA / Accounting program she earned a masters degree in. Just kidding, we both know there’s like a 90% chance that her masters degree is in fluffy bunny Studies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 07:11 AM
5

Florida has some wicked attractive women, don’t sell it short! Probably not as good as California, but I’ll take the trade off to not live in California
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 07:09 AM
5

Personally I think that should be part of their sales pitch. “I rode the cc in my 20’s, any man that dates me will get the same treatment as those Chads”. Like that still isn’t wifey material, but at least she’s proposed a benefit for a man. In this case, I just envision a lot of boring social events populated by a bunch of upper middle class leftoids and other assorted fun haters, where she would go to bed immediately upon arrival home because she’s “tired”. Oh well, at least I’d get to play vi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 07:08 AM
22

They’ve always gotten what they wanted from men, they simply expect the train to keep rolling. In this case, this woman had her “fun” for 15 years and still beat the buzzer for 2 kids. The fact that she doesn’t workout (most likely: fat) and that she smokes (so double the unhealthy) signals that she’s really not used to putting any effort at all in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 07:01 AM
11

Correct. You should never interact with someone that you used to have feelings for, because that’s just temptation. The only members of the opposite sex that you should interact with when in a LTR are family and ironclad friends
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 06:56 AM
7

Unfortunately, this is just how it goes if you’re a man and want kids. The amount of time it takes to vet a woman in the modern age, you could easily invest 4 years of your life on one before deciding she’s “no good”, then having to go back into the dating pool where you might spend months or years looking for another LTR that might end in marriage. Or, you take the easier route, overlook stuff like this because she “didn’t actually cheat on me”, and set yourself up for failure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 06:54 AM
7

So someone gave this woman children when she was 37 and 39. Apparently his reward was her leaving him and moving his kids to another state. Seems fair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 05:44 AM
11

Every girl I’ve known that dated with intent when young, found a man. Before meeting my current girl, I went out with a 24 year old (I’m 35), and she actually felt bad to admit that she had another date planned with someone else. Apparently she liked that dude better because she declined another date. Oh well, wish her well. But yes, good women, 100%, do not have these problems. Nice and reasonably pretty? You’re golden. If you’re getting ghosted thanks to chasing top 5% dudes exclusively, not o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 12:06 AM
1

Well right now, Liz Warren is one of the leaders in “fighting for students”. She also amassed most of her net worth through the very system that puts millions of young people into indentured servitude. These people are masters at blame deflection
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 07:16 PM
5

Thanks to RP, we know how insulting this is now. The programming is strong by feminists to claim that we should somehow be excited that they want us after a decade of cc riding and emotional trauma.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 03:30 PM
1

Could be 100% talking out of my rear end, but generally in richer nations, kids are financially liabilities, so it makes sense economically for families to have less. While in poorer nations, kids tend to be assets, since it’s a lot more common for them to contribute to the family unit or village at a young age (though it seems like, in Nigeria for example, 67% of boys and 53% of girls are completing school up until age 15 now, so I could be totally off base). But yeah, if you can expect to pay …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 08:22 AM
2

Yeah it never fails to amaze me how so many people can claim that money in politics is corrupting (true), but money in government is just hunky dory. Maybe if nearly $4T a year wasn’t at the mercy of a handful of congresscritters, senators, and executive branch members, then big donors wouldn’t be so incentivized to have bought and paid for representation. Just a thought. But yes you’re 100% right. This is the true problem with welfare state politics. Even Hayek once said that a society as rich …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 08:15 AM
58

Hey, the bad boy can also provide! Have at it, alpha widow
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 02:43 AM
8

I once went on a date with a girl, before my hardline “no single moms” stance, who basically described her BD as a loser who sporadically works under the table. Which of course begs the question of how I can possibly be the winner if I have to take care of a loser’s kid. Also she ate way too much and while she wasn’t fat yet, she was definitely not thin. Give it 5 more years and she’d be a hippo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 01:28 AM
4

Odds of each one. Need some sort of Vegas line making here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 01:07 AM
9

I’m ensured by Smart People ™ that consumption is what drives the economy and will lead us all to living in mansions. Making stuff is so 1800.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 10:51 PM
19

Probably is free for this chick. Decent, hardworking people though? They get to pay!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 10:45 PM
78

Her apartment looks like a bomb went off. Also, FIVE kids. She shouldn’t even be thinking about men, besides one of the guys whom she gave kids to. Instead she wants to bring potentially strange men around her children. Sad reality that this woman can succeed to this level in reproduction, while a decent man making $50k a year could go his entire life childless
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:53 PM
58

What are the odds that we want to set on Dad, the government, one of her 5 BDs, and other?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:48 PM
5

I couldn’t get any female attention in my 20’s. And I was a college athlete. Probably a 6-7 in the face as far as men go. I laugh at women my age now who probably viewed men like me as “not good enough” and only went after top 10% dudes, who have literally all of the options.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 07:40 PM
7

Pretty sure sugar lobbyists were involved in the creation of the “food pyramid”. Yeah that thing was a load of crap. Grew up thinking eggs were bad for me and cereal was good for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 06:29 PM
1

Any reason why? Just a strikeout in the genetic lottery for a whole ethnic group?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 09:34 AM
3

Correct. It’s why younger republicans will believe that lower taxes and government spending is cool and all (because it is), but it’s not a panacea for society. We literally just saw it; Trump got through a whole ton of deregulation, Biden gets in and cranks it right back up to code red. It’s why Steve Bannon has focused on getting culture warriors into local office. You think Youngkin happens if there aren’t gobs of populists that got into local office and controlled the messaging of the Virgin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:13 AM
9

Ah sadness. I forgot that we’re supposed to be “mature” and date women our age and older. Never mind that every older chick I’ve spent time with turned out to be a basket case
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 06:15 AM
21

Yup. Dad is more blind than encouraging. Because sending them off to college and having them come back sounding like a cross between Anita Sarkeesian and bernie sanders is how to set that girl up for success in life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 04:04 AM
15

I can see it now. She’s 40, looking at me when I’m like 50, seeing I’m either married or dating a woman 5-15 years younger than her, screaming about how it’s not fair that men have all of these options. Like hey, unlike you, I had to earn these options. These women take their prime so nonchalantly, it’s epic when it blows up in their face.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 03:51 AM
35

Yeah I’m 36 soon. I see women I used to think were gorgeous, now they range from “decent” to “holy s*** wtf happened?”. Obv aging happens to men, too, and I’m not as attractive as I was a decade ago, but I’m not that far off (and currently working on cutting some of those adulthood pounds, it’s amazing how much more control of your diet you become when you aren’t grinding away at a desk all day). I could go get a younger woman. I already have a younger woman. And if, for whatever reason, this do…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 03:48 AM
27

I was going to say, I don’t think dads want their daughter to ride the CC. What dads do, though, is push their daughter to achieve traditionally male goals, like grades in school, college, career, etc. So she just kind of finds the CC because she’s living like a dude; no time for relationships, might as well get that good action.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 03:43 AM
1

Sick bro.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 03:41 AM
5

The lucky ones like Melania trump and Frances Fisher find a Donald Trump / Clint Eastwood who’s willing to give them a shot for one, because he’s rich enough to not care. This one is no Melania Trump, though
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 01:04 AM
13

Divide by 2 add 7 is a rule to live by. I break it a little, I’m 36 in a few weeks and my girlfriend is 28. But it’s just normal for a man in his 50’s to date women in their 30’s. Welcome to SMV
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 12:58 AM
76

Imagine using your peak years to find a good man to settle down with. Nah, that’s crazy talk. More social rot please!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 12:44 AM
34

There’s still men her age of high caliber that want a wife. They’re just 15 years younger Edit: she’s 48. So more like 20-25
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 12:41 AM
20

This is one of those girls that we’d just never bring up to our friends.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 08:44 PM
2

The Philippines have some of the most beautiful and reasonable demanding women on the planet. This woman…is not amongst that group. What’s crazy is, I know quite a few half-Filipino dudes, usually on the mother’s side, and it’s 100% true that they’re happy that their man gives his best for the family. Makes me sad because apparently the feminism is infecting here now, too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 08:42 PM
1

I work in software and data science. I’m definitely not some $750k a year endboss, but it works
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 08:38 PM
1

Exactly. And I’m going to keep it real, I’d love me a corvette. But that purchase happens when we’ve already won, not while we’re winning. Living a $220k a year life on a $200k a year income is a great way to end up like those smoothbrains on The Ramsey Show, saying how they’re “retired” with almost nothing invested and a mortgage on their $600k home.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 08:36 PM
9

Bro, similar. It’s crazy how average women think that they deserve the best. I’m a top 5% earner, and I lift. But I’m shorter than average, so in the trash I go. These average women are looking solely for men who are like top 20% in looks AND have good jobs, then wonder why they get pumped and dumped. It’s because he found someone 2 years younger and 20 lbs lighter
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 09:47 PM
5

Holy crap lol. And now we pay them handsomely
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 09:43 PM
9

I did deal with a chick, mostly for comedic purposes, on Bumble once. I wish I screenshotted some of the convo. She was almost 30, had an MBA that she wasn’t using (and had no intent to use as she wanted to be a SAHM), and obese. What did she want? She wanted a man who made a good income who could “spoil” her. When I asked about why she went for an MBA that she’d never use, she got angry and said that real men should appreciate an “educated woman”. Because apparently you can’t just watch YouTube…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 08:27 PM
6

NGL, when I see something like this, I’m pretty sure this is one of us trolling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 06:37 PM
22

I used to think nurses were a good group to look for a potential partner. Now I know that they’re usually cursed with that strong-independent persona, and are also constantly thirsting for the lead ER doctor
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 05:31 AM
27

Can women just not tell on themselves? Like we know a 42 year old woman isn’t a virgin. Fine, whatever. But at least say something like you were in a LTR in your 20’s and 30’s. Instead she says “I had lots of sex a long time ago, now you have to go above and beyond to even get a taste of this”. It’s like, you’ve already given it up freely and now you want to pretend it’s valuable. What man of any value wants to deal with that? She doesn’t even look good for her age. She’s an average 42 year old …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 05:05 PM
17

Yeah. Like Kevin always dressing well (turtleneck on his IG and his show is always a nice suit) is intentional. He doesn’t want to look like the alphas (or fake alphas), or dude bros. He wants to look good, and there’s a reason for it. You can’t use the “incel” line on him because he could clearly go get a woman half his age in a snap (I heard a rumor that he pumped and dumped Brittany renner). Hell, many of his more friendly callers clearly have a celeb crush on him. Mostly I like that he’s mee…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 09:02 PM
29

What I love about these women is that not only do they demand high value (so like a top 10% earner in their metro area), but they also have to be physically attracted to him. Like they want the 50 year old package in a 30 year old body. But that guy has the pick of the litter. And because they can’t compromise on what they’re looking for, they won’t date a man their age making average money, nor will they date a man in his 50’s with a 7 figure net worth and $200k a year income. I’m totally cool …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 08:44 PM
2

List of 46 requirements. Tells the audience nothing about her besides her age, and a stupid “brain teaser” that probably took her all day to figure out after numerous hints. At 48, she should just be happy if he doesn’t have a criminal record and can manage to remember her birthday
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 08:40 PM
3

I admit that sometimes I hopped into the “live” feature to see what low lives used POF as a streaming platform. It never failed to disappoint
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 05:20 PM
1

I have a major league weakness for cereal. I’m trying to abide by a meat/eggs/leafy greens diet when I can. Definitely feel better than those sugar highs, but the craving for a box of Cinnamon Toast Crunch persists
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 08:00 AM
28

True. He’s at the perfect age where he might start making dents in the culture right as he’s ready to kick the bucket. He won’t be fixing the current generation, but maybe their kids will think “hey you know, mom was always depressed and that section 8 home sucked, maybe I should be different”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 07:51 AM
31

Yeah she absolutely deserves her fate. She was with you for 4 years, I highly doubt you were neglecting her or beating her or something for that long. Wonder what % of women who try to monkey branch to Alpha Bucks end up with nothing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 07:43 AM
67

Mind poison. Just like if a man constantly tells a woman that he’s ugly, boring, or whatever, she’ll eventually start to believe it. Women can do it to a man. This day and age, the pool is thin for a lot of men, and they’d happily take a woman in her early 30 and speed run a kid or two before she hits 35. But if she keeps saying that she’s old, her clock is ticking, etc, it’ll make those guys think “maybe she is too old to start a family”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 02:13 AM
43

21 studios is all mad at him for being nice to Nicki Minaj. But he isn’t interested in pushing RP content, he’s actually trying to fix these women. And the bonus of having some actual train wrecks providing great YouTube content
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 02:11 AM
35

Wow. May I ask if you were considering wifing her up and having kids with her? If so, what a gigantic fail
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 01:48 AM
15

Nah they’ll flee to POF. Of all the dating apps I saw, that had to be the worst of the worst. There was almost no one attractive on there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/22 09:16 PM
4

It’s proof that you can be low tier trash in basically all categories. As long as the looks are there, SOMEONE will give her attention.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/22 04:27 AM
9

“Myself, like all other women my age, were busy chasing the top 5% guys, and now that I’m older, you guys that weren’t good enough for me back then must now see me as the prize I am. Enrique got it for free, you better have a home for me to move into within 4 months of dating”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 08:30 PM
2

But you’ve seen what Disney has done with those franchises. Spider-Man is saved because Sony owns the creative control.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 05:44 PM
3

Man I’ve been following PMP since he had like 3k subs and was asking for the HBO special in every video. Guy is sharp on his social commentary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 08:24 PM
7

Doesn’t this describe basically all Marxist sales pitches towards middle class western people? Just rip out class struggle and replace it with generic victim group and voila, you have a brand new theory
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 10:39 AM
15

After awhile I was sure to disclose my limited height (I’m 5’7”) to women before dates. Last thing I’d want is to go on a date and get genetically shamed because she couldn’t bother to read the bio where I stated my height.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 10:36 AM
1

Friends with benefits. Essentially two people who agree to have sex without committing to one another. Usually light on the F part and heaving on the B part.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 02:06 AM
3

Yeah it’s gross. Like as men, unless we are willing to dumpster dive (I’m not), we have to bring so much to the table to have sex. Stable job, decent body, personality that draws them in. Or just use the cheat code of being 6’3”+. Either way, I wouldn’t be shocked if there are a handful of men who rack up counts in the three digits, and that’s the men these women are getting piped down by on a regular basis. And then most men can count the number of women they’ve had on one hand
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 08:15 PM
2

Yeah like i legit feel bad for girls who want a husband, and their boyfriend just kind of strings them along until it’s no longer convenient. Like bro, she gave you her 20’s thinking you were gonna wife her up. Of course, how many women actually fall into this “duped” category and how many should’ve walked like 3-5 years before is up for debate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 08:11 PM
1

I fully believe the correct response to these meltdowns from a woman is “doesn’t matter what you say, I still hit it”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 07:52 PM
1

That’s crazy that the median BMI of a woman is higher than that of a man. Thank you, food pyramid
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 10:19 AM
1

I’ve been sticking to mostly meat and eggs the past few weeks and man I feel good. The fruit and veggie nutrients come from things like avocados and berries.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 10:14 AM
2

I remember watching an undead chronic video talk about it. It’s more about emotional celibacy. Like a woman who can’t get a man to commit to her. Because we all know that a woman can be all kinds of broken, put herself out there and still have a roster of men willing to sleep with her. It’s just when they want that guy to come to meet her parents, that he suddenly isn’t ready for a relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 10:10 AM
1

The irony is too good on that one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 10:08 AM
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Welcome to postmodernism. Your facts can’t dispute her truth, because her truth is what matters. I can’t wait for postmodernist engineering to really hit the forefront, maybe we can have more moments like the FIU bridge collapse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 10:06 AM
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F1 world champion Max Verstappen was recently dragged on social media for his body, too. If you actually Google it, you’d see he probably is better than the average 24 year old man. But because F1 drivers heavily train their neck muscles to handle high G force, people mocked him. And I’m sure many people who did are a bunch of potato chip stuffed chubbies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 10:04 AM
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I remember a video once describing the phenomenon of how low value women get their ego inflated, and realized that I looked most like the dudes being used in the example of a “7”. It was crazy because I would totally go for all of the women that they had listed as a 5. And this is just basing things off of looks; I’m significantly above average in intelligence and finance. So realistically, I’m probably more like an 8 (I’m older now in my mid 30’s, so I’m not looking as good as 24 year old gym C…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 09:59 AM
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Yeah, constantly having to be funny and lively is not without risks. You’ll eventually say the wrong thing, she’ll be offended, and ghost you. And probably tell all of her followers on TikTok about how toxic men say things like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 09:53 AM
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Same, man. My boss will get on my ass about things I’m not even a contributor on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 09:48 AM
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She’s “Catholic”, but she expects your resources, and don’t you dare ask her to be a submissive wife or to even give you children at all. All of that money you two will be earning (where you’re banking about 75% of it) will go to adventures that she deems valuable, and depreciating assets that she wants to have. It’s why I gave up dating women over 30. Even when using Catholic dating apps, being a traditional matriarch isn’t anywhere on the radar for them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 08:34 AM
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I’m sure all of the dudes stuck in “open relationships” would see their wife desperately trying to close the relationship if they bagged a 20-something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 08:30 AM
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Congrats to both of you!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 08:28 AM
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Welcome to the game. Of course, as a man, if a woman is ignoring me, I just assume she’s not interested and move on. Women are often turned on by it, as they see a man who doesn’t need them (and might even have options!)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 08:27 AM
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The Bay Area is probably full of people who are all stressed out by getting their paychecks yeeted by Sacramento and absurdly high costs of rent, and living that modern “I don’t need anybody, I can do it all on my own” mentality. I saw a statistic that something like 4 in 9 white women 60 or older are on antidepressants, and 2 in 9 white adult women in general. I’ve been on those before, they’re basically a drug designed to turn the crazy off in your mind. Oh, and usage goes up with education at…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 08:20 AM
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I’ve dealt with it Chad, Tyrone, Enrique and the gang got to hit it in ways you never will. But now she respects herself and you should too. You can take the girl out of feminism, but you can’t take the feminism out of a girl
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 05:18 AM
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There’s absolutely no reason why a prenup couldn’t have a provision to make sure she’s taken care of adequately in the event of a divorce. And she’s a therapist, she can recover her income almost immediately (it’s not like $65k a year jobs in NorCal are hard to come by). But no, she wants the chance for big alimony, child support, maybe even make a play at the premarital house
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 11:17 PM
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One of my favorite statements she made was regarding the old guys she got freaky with, how they’re dumb jocks or something and this guy was “like her”. Like I’m sorry, you’re comparing a guy making $600k a year in his mid 30’s to yourself? Jesus the hubris of these women. Legitimately just wanted this guy to be suckered into marrying her. Bet she’d have divorced him once significant alimony milestones and “shared” assets had been accumulated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 11:11 PM
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Kind of feel bad for dropping off on her, but this describes a woman i was talking to very well. Very pretty (even in her mid 30’s), friendly, no clear mental damage. But that career, man. Spent her 20’s going to school, living abroad, working, all the good things, didn’t start seriously dating until her 30’s. Her sisters were both permanently single; my guess is that their parents gave them crap advice and none of them were actually prepared to be a wife
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 04:34 PM
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I once dated a chick that sounds like this. Terrible idea. I’d have to tell her to use punctuation when she texted me, and she would tell me that she’s too lazy. Like, our brains are not wired to decipher this much word vomit. Grammar exists to help standardize language and make it decipherable; if you’re fluent in English, you shouldn’t need to spend any brain power at least understanding the words that have been said. Also could not care less about how educated a woman is, but there’s a limit …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 04:25 PM
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Just looked up that she’s looking in the range of £1400 a month in rent to adequately house her family, or $1900 USD. And seems like a waitress can expect to make around £18000 a year ($24.4K USD). So yeah, she’s either fleecing some baby daddies for child support or getting those sweet sweet welfare checks. NGL, it’s not impossible for all 7 kids to be with the same dad, so dude’s response was a little uncalled for. Except a woman might lay into us viciously for the crime of having only 1000 sq…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 04:19 PM
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If you want to know why advertisements are so often woke, he’s reason #1. Women do the majority of household purchases. So ads want to kiss up to women. It’s why the strong and confident wife being juxtaposed to her slouching, bumbling husband is such a meme. Meanwhile, every couple I know would fall apart if something happened to the man that caused him to be unable to work
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 04:11 PM
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You think FDS is a democracy? They’re all Kweenz, bro. They don’t have to answer to the subjects. Pretty sure the only strategy that FDS cares about is how they can manipulate a man into doing exactly what they want until they’ve the opportunity to drag them through a divorce proceeding and monkey branch to the new beta bucks deluxe. I even noticed the difference in how we conduct ourselves towards the other gender. I’m pretty RP, but that’s just an understanding of how a woman’s psychology gene…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 04:04 PM
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The only men who both have the funds for this woman and are stupid enough to use it on her are fast money guys. Athletes, entertainers, etc. if she wants investment banker Chad/Tyrone, she’s in for a world of hurt, because that guy is looking at the woman who is a few years younger, much less plastic, and realizes what a golden goose she is getting. Even in NYC, something like 1% of people earn $500k+, and that’s not even factoring in the astronomical costs of NYC (over 40% total getting yeeted …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 03:53 PM
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I’ve heard of stuff like this being compared to the guy who quits a job to avoid being fired. She disqualifies men who are frankly way too good for her, partly to avoid facing that reality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 03:44 PM
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This chick is no 10/10. She’s fake looking and looks like she’s already gotten more plastic pumped into her than corn star Barbie. Best part is that she’s marriage minded. So think she’s going to be demanding all of this in 5 years when her biological clock starts ticking loudly?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 03:41 PM
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It’s interesting that they only seem to find God once they’re totally expired and need someone to bail them out of their mistakes. Also. I don’t understand why POF is such a dumpster dive, seems like many of the women on there are just like this (except on the luckier side of the spectrum in terms of how often Chad or Tyrone’s seed sprouted inside of them)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 03:32 PM
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Went out with a girl whose picture angles were all hyper up close, was eager to send selfies but milking a full body shot was a chore, so I had my suspicion that she was fat. Decided to go out with her anyway. Sure enough, she was a blimp. Also got the old picture routine from a total blimp.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 03:26 PM
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If all of their photos show nothing but their face, shoulders, and upper boobs, run away. Actually attractive women are more than happy to show a full body photo
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 03:20 PM
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Why is it so vital for a man to have a job, a vehicle and home when they already have it? Like you got this, strong independent girl. Rock on 🤘
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 02:54 PM
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Yeah I tried bumble before, and I was shocked when a woman managed to send a real message. Sometimes they’d even simply redirect you to IG to slide into their DMs
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 02:49 PM
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Back in more BP days, I dated a 40 year old at 32. The topic of sex past came up and she said 13, and I recoiled. It never crossed her mind that could be a problem to an actually upstanding guy. She even mentioned that she had a guy friend that would morph into FWB when they’re both single, like that’s just totally normal. Oh, this woman sold herself as a Catholic to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 10:14 AM
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The only decent looking women in their 30’s that I’ve met who are single are either complete train wrecks in other areas, or they naively dated some dude who probably had a higher SMV than her, strung her along for years while dangling marriage like a carrot, and then deciding “eh too old, time to go find the next one”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 10:12 AM
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I lucked out that I met a girl in her 20’s who is thin and feminine. That was a hard find. Even still, I have to be careful to not spill the beans of how much of find a woman like her is. Part of her attraction towards me is likely predicated in the fact that she thinks I could just drop her and have her replaced in short order. The game is stupid, but you have to play it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 10:09 AM
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You can always use the pool/beach test early on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 10:02 AM
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It’s a PsyOp, whether they realize it or not. They’re trying to turn a flaw about themselves into a flaw for the reader. Don’t want to deal with a strong and independent woman / single mom / big girl / etc? Well that’s clearly because you’re too weak to deal with it. She doesn’t have to change. It would be like us saying that a woman can’t handle a short man / broke man / etc
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:59 AM
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If she’s TikTok famous, then maybe she should stop making stupid dance videos or posting her mug in front of a screen scroll of a text message exchange and go get a job. Just a thought.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:55 AM
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What’s crazy is, you have to remember that women tend to like men around their own age. So they’ll value things that signal strength for a man in that age range. But they don’t drop the old standards. No no no. Baby daddy had to be 6’3”. Next guy has to be 6’3” and have a stable job, because BD didn’t. When she’s 30, he’ll have to be making 6 figures and own instead of rent, because being average is dusty. Also, don’t for one second think you can be anything but good looking
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:53 AM
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They seem to conflate an inability to handle with an unwillingness to deal. I could handle a woman with a 5 year old, no problem. I’d simply rather not. If I’m going to put time and effort and resource into a child, I don’t want them screaming “YOU AREN’T MY REAL DAD” when they’re 16.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:42 AM
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Coddled woman learns the hard way that the real world can be a cruel mistress. I’m sure there were scores of women back in the day that would’ve loved doing whatever they want, but instead settled down with a man that they decently liked because they needed the security.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:40 AM
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She’s a “Catholic” who had a child out of wedlock and supports a Marxist, anti-nuclear family organization so much, she feels compelled to mention it twice on her profile. Some people are truly idiotic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:32 AM
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OKCupid used to be a fairly redeeming site. You might suck at dating, but at least it had fun quizzes! Now it’s an absurd wokefest that pushes you up the algo if you love child deletion and/or have your 5th booster shot scheduled for October 2023. Pretty sure women like this are promoted by the algorithm. Step right up, gents!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:24 AM
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Apparently this broad still has primary custody. I’d suggest the 18 year old go see if dad has a spare room ASAP
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:18 AM
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It’s insane, but it’s 100% true that women find men more attractive if they’re not single. If another woman chose him, there must be something special about him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:04 AM
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