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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	What's a comprehensive list of good IOIs? I need to learn to go for the kill more. u/RedRhapsody hit it well. I'll add if you're really scared of that red light, implicitly give her some escape options. It shouldn't be 100% pull. There should be some push, too. For instance, thinking of going in for the K-close? Ask her if she's in a hurry to get back home. You come off as considerate and gain intel on whether or not she's into you. If she says she's in no hurry, that's a green light IOI to go for it. It's a safe play, albeit beta, but it can save you some trouble if you're st…	/r/askTRP	23/02/16 01:50 AM
4	How do I approach without putting them on a pedestal? Approach with kind words and a selfish mindset. Being selfish gives you a sense of abundance and keeps your head on straight. Kind words open the door for kino. Make that positive impression and make a graceful exit on your own accord. You enjoy her company, but you certainly don't need it. A quick exit can spin her hamster in your favor if you left a strong enough impression.	/r/askTRP	23/02/16 01:45 AM
1	Problems following up after initial open I wouldn't change much of what you're doing if you think you're still putting yourself out there. A positive subtle change can happen just as easily as a negative change. I don't mean to say shit just happens to you, though. You make it happen.	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 08:00 PM
1	Does anyone else see the use of the word 'independent' in a woman's dating profile a huge red flag? Independent when used by a woman when it comes to her personality means she's going to do what she wants on her own. She don't need no man, so it's an immediate disqualifier and makes my life easier.	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 06:21 PM
0	Any examples of men that you think exemplify the ideal man according to trp? I don't remember that. Maybe I have some confirmation bias. I did just remember the stint Pam had with the camera man and the lies that followed.	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 01:13 PM
0	Problems following up after initial open Women are followers and will find themselves at bars just because their friends are there. It doesn't define who she is. She's just being that liquid that conforms to whatever container she can find, and sometimes it's her boring friends. Bar sluts are out there, but every girl at a bar isn't a bar slut.	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 05:22 AM
5	Problems following up after initial open Your rant leads me to believe that maybe your openers could carry an unattractive undertone. If you go into a conversation thinking she's an airhead bimbo, she may pick up on that. Women are keen on things like this. Maybe the first few girls were airheads, but after that your tone may have changed without you noticing hence the string of strikeouts.	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 04:59 AM
8	Any examples of men that you think exemplify the ideal man according to trp? Jim Halpert pedestalizes Pam, who had a boyfriend for half the show. He's the raw definition of beta. When he finally wins her (since he thinks she is the prize after all), he marries her up within a year or so. To top it off, he encourages her to leave and pursue her art dream. She gains orbiters while away and he gets majorly insecure about it. And then the kicker... He gets a chance to pursue his dream involving sports and relocation, and she goes nuclear until he obeys her. He trashes his dr…	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 03:46 AM
2	Joining the military as a temporary measure? In the military and I agree 100%. Service before self is one of the three core values of the USAF. It's one that I cannot truthfully say I support. I think about the rule of "survival" when oxygen masks deploy on an aircraft. Take care of yourself before you help others. (Otherwise, you're useless to them.)	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 03:36 AM
2	How does TRP handle the check? I always semi-jokingly make her pay. Sometimes they just do it without thinking. Sometimes they get caught off guard and pay anyway. It's important for me to see how she handles it. Her action and reaction to you explain more than any societal-based conversation you could have with her (feminism).	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 01:42 AM