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hot-breakfast/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 03:21 PM
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I know that phobia is irrational and can't be reckoned with. That said, I consider myself a spider advocate so here goes. Spiders are among man's greatest allies, very very few of them are dangerous to us and many of them are very valuable in pest control. They are absolutely everywhere. You are seldom more than a few feet from a spider during your entire life. Spiders build and maintain some of the most intricate tools in the animal kingdom purely from instinct as far as we can tell. I think of…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 04:32 PM
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Jesus' mission was by his own definition bailing out hopeless basket cases from the natural consequences of their own fuck ups i.e. the entirety of the human race. We are equated with sheep from his perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/17 04:03 PM
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Man, disagree. Jesus was meek and mild at times, passionate at times, strong at times. He submitted to death. He didn't speak in his own defense to Pilate. He called for the little children to be brought to him. He saw the faith in the Centurion, who would have been a cultural enemy by definition. He embraced thieves, tax collectors, lepers, poverty, stink, and disease. He was nice all right, but he transcended niceness as he transcended all human virtue. But he certainly was neither feminine no…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/17 03:59 PM
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This always sounds like a bunch of semantic BS to me. Even if being nice is a weak virtue, it's an awful lot better than loud, belligerent buffoonery.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/17 03:52 PM
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A few more: "Where the Red Fern Grows" (Beginner) "Kon-Tiki" (Intermediate) "Dune" (Advanced)
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/17 03:48 PM
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Excellent. This is exactly the kind of thing MRP needs.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 03:04 PM
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Ever heard of anonymous organ donation? Voluntary blood drives? Voluntary firemen or militia? There are myriad counter-examples.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 04:10 PM
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In less than 50 years, genetic engineering is going to make this "problem" look like a puddle in the face of an approaching tidal wave.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 03:27 PM
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What I have learned is that my wife needs signals that she perceives as leading even though much of it, from my point of view, is profitless thrashing. Anyone who has really lead knows that leading is typically low reward, high liability hard work. Think Moses.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 02:29 PM
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Much Ado About Nothing, 2012)
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 02:17 PM
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This is good stuff. I wish I had learned these things as early as you have. I'm an ME. Get good grades. Take summer internships if you can. Enjoy life.
/r/ThankTRP13/02/17 03:35 PM
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the thought has crossed my mind that women may have the capacity to change their behavior through conscious introspection Great googly moogly. Of course they do have the capacity. Many, many men and women fail to self-examine and change but we all have the capacity. Lord.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/17 03:22 PM
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Unfortunately Alpha and Beta, if they exist at all, are not up for you or me to decide. They are dictated by supposed millennia of genetic programming. Our hindbrains give us attraction cues for traits that are not only obsolete, but sometimes harmful.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 02:59 PM
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The single most alpha man I have ever met is homeless. He isn't mentally deranged, he just approaches every single circumstance in life "without compromise." He has many illegitimate children, so in that sense he is a fabulous evolutionary success. He is so alpha that he is incompatible with modern society. He will eventually be found dead in a ditch.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 08:18 PM
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Just another vote for be patient.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 04:31 PM
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I've been married seven years and I still have absolutely no idea what my wife means when she uses the word "mature."
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 04:23 PM
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For a sub that claims to promote an amoral praxeology, MRP sure likes posts that approach propaganda. A praxeology should eventually produce a handbook--short, direct, emotionless.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 07:16 PM
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Probably the single hardest truth for me to swallow has been that "track record means nothing to a woman." Track record is the only way I really can know a person. But over and over again, I see that this is true for women. They care about RIGHT NOW.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 07:10 PM
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My favorite quote about the fear of getting too bulky goes, "Being afraid of getting too muscular lifting weights is like being afraid of accidently getting a PhD by going to the library."
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 02:21 PM
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Skiing is expensive, empty experience, and rapidly destroys your knees. There is absolutely no gain from being at the mercy of gravity at all. The "extreme" mentality of sheep needing to ski to release adrenaline and endorphins to momentarily forget the drudgery of the day to day isn't fun...it's escapism as fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/17 10:20 PM
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I still cannot fathom the logic behind skiing. You are placing yourself on a slippery inclined surface for what purpose? That's the "buzz" you are getting, your mind and endocrine system saying, "DUDE WTF ARE YOU DOING?" And possibly putting yourself in the hospital? Stop skiing, it's not worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/17 04:32 PM
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To go a step further, prepping/digitally enhancing celebrities up to that level is primarily for the female audience. Almost all celebrity women look way too frail to me, and almost all celebrity men look too glossy. They know that they are working on your emotions with those appearances.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 04:23 PM
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This is a superb post. I reiterate "YOU WILL NOT GET BULKY" or angular, dried out, veiny, whatever. Those crazy appearances we see in bodybuilding shows are not only the result of extreme training for years, they are an unsustainable stunt. A lot of people don't realize that everyone on a bodybuilding stage is at a deadly level of dehydration and they look far more normal two days later.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 04:13 PM
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Here is testimony of the thought life of people who experienced radical testosterone change. It is fascinating: This American Life: Testosterone
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 04:27 PM
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AWALT is an observed trend. There are no rules.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 04:07 PM
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Stand-up can change your perspective in a big way. I don't of anything as humbling. It is BRUTAL.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 03:56 PM
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I think of it as comfort/happy vs joy/contentment. Happiness is intense and brief. Joy is deep, subtle, and lasting. Comfort is brief, but typically achievable. Contentment is subtle, but hard earned. All have value. But as I have aged, I find joy and contentment the most precious.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/17 11:40 PM
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I've only known two men who were able to pull this situation off without disaster. Both later said it wasn't worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 02:49 PM
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This is really excellent insight.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 02:37 PM
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Make eye contact. Say it loudly and clearly. Maintain eye contact until you feel your facial expression starting to change. You will hit your target in the heart, man or woman. A word surplus does not improve a compliment. Comparison detracts from it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 02:31 PM
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Comparison is a poor way to compliment in general. Train your compliment reflex to use as few words as possible. For example, these are compliments that sound too basic in writing, but will be remembered when spoken: "You are awesome." "You look amazing." "I love what you just did." "BADASS!" "You are the best." "You are doing a great job."
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 02:29 PM
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Yeah, TRP has an exaggerated idea of the limits of physiology. Our modern diet and environment, to say nothing of personal practices have enormous effect on fertility, beauty, and so on.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 02:21 PM
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I call bologna on this entire concept.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 02:14 PM
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I find low voices on women sexy as all hell and absolutely feminine. Many men are like me in this regard.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 06:00 PM
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Even if it were true, it would be a life below someone of worth.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 03:10 PM
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100% objective honesty with yourself is a potent tool for controlling your ego. Think of the perspective of elders, strive for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 03:08 PM
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Part of my nature is to put too much emphasis on making the best possible decision. I have learned slowly that at least in the LTR it is important for her just that I have made a decision. She cares surprisingly little if it is "perfect."
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 02:57 PM
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Basically, remind yourself that you don't want to be Oscar. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2t8Oqa0tBZA
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 02:48 PM
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The things I found intoxicating were: the unpredictability of being a plate, constantly being compared to other women, the suspense of waiting for a text Thank you for your honesty. I have read this sort of thing over and over and I still can't quite believe it is true. As a man, all three of those things sound awful to me.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 06:22 PM
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I agree completely. If TRP is a praxeology it would do better to produce a handbook than the propaganda it often does.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/17 05:15 PM
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If it's in your nature to be energetic early in the day, getting to the gym really early is awesome. Less waiting. Accomplish something before most people are awake. Shower to start the day.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 03:27 PM
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I do think sex simulation will have a strong effect on the SMP. However, I can't bring myself to care because I think it will be a drop in the bucket compared to what genetic engineering will soon be capable of.
/r/RedPillWives12/12/16 03:25 PM
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That's good advice. I too was a high volume reader most of my life, but as I've gotten older I just don't enjoy it that much anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/16 02:54 PM
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The hardest job in the world will always be the one you don't want to do.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 02:52 PM
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Solid analysis.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/16 02:34 PM
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There's an old saying that goes something like, "there is no right or wrong, only charming or not charming."
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 02:43 PM
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My point was that even with basic biological needs not being met like health and food, sex drive was still predominant. That being so, imagine how much more dominant it must be in a comfortable setting.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 05:56 PM
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Ladies, a testimony of one man: I once lived in central Sudan. I had malaria numerous times, I was starving, I had diarrhea most of the time, I was in constant danger and the main thing that was bothering me was that I was horny!
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 02:56 PM
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I came very close to making the same decision you have. I suspect more men in Western society will over time.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 02:53 PM
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Superb.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 02:43 PM
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I will personally attest that when I was a young man, I would eventually become unable to sleep. Not difficult to sleep; unable.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 02:42 PM
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I am in a similar predicament. Human sexuality is affected by many things other than just relative SMV in our LTR. Keep working on yourself. If you don't see her following, there may be other factors in her life such as stress, hormones, health and so on.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 02:24 PM
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Well said.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 02:19 PM
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Overview 6'3" 205lbs 38 years old; successful engineer; married 7 years; no kids I've been actively following MRP advice for three months. Lifting A- Have always enjoyed it. This forum inspired me to get serious. Gave up everything I had been doing and started SL 5x5. Three weeks in and really enjoying it. Added a little core and arm exercise. Bicycle and Tabata. In theory I stretch or do yoga. Diet C+ Did good by cooking my breakfast and lunch for the whole week. Done bad by cheating more than …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 02:04 PM
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The big trick behind whole 30 is that it's extremely low glycemic. For us it succeeds in reducing desire for carbs and sugars. It is not nor meant to be sustainable.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 07:47 PM
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Medium Core solution: start a regular, demanding exercise regime. You will have less fight energy. I am much more mellow and companionable when I have expended energy that day.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/16 05:35 PM
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Hardcore solution: Volunteer in a developing country for at least a month. When you come back, absolutely everything will seem awesome. This is not a joke.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/16 05:33 PM
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Internalize this discipline: submit to ideas that you disagree with to see how they play out. Make your mantra, "Let's try it." Reward: eventually you will learn that you aren't always right. Long term reward: you will learn that the vast majority of decisions in life are much less important than we think they are in the moment.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/16 05:32 PM
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Keen insight. My wife also rarely shit tests, unless I encroach on an area where she feels she contributes value.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 05:37 PM
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Chicken thighs are criminally underrated.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 05:34 PM
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My father is a saint. He is a constructive, benevolent, kind, and humorous influence in every life he touches. I have never heard him say a single negative thing about my mother. My mother is STILL trying to "fix" him after 40 years of marriage--and she is probably the best woman I've ever meet. I have learned long ago that complete fulfillment does not lie in any single relationship. I do not believe complete fulfillment is possible in this life. There is only the climb.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 05:25 PM
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A man who has objectively high value, but does not capitalize on it in ways society values. A man devoted to a mission not aligned with typical goals. He has high natural or developed abilities, but uses them to serve ideals of his own. Sherlock Holmes, Isaac Newton, Batman. Typically men who fall into INxx types of the Myers Briggs assessment.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 02:51 PM
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Great list. +1 for number 7. It took my wife a long time to understand that by the time I'm saying "I'm tired" I probably mean "I'm ragged out exhausted and I can't take any more."
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 01:47 PM
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I gave my wife a timeline of our relationship when I proposed. She loved it. Maybe something like that, with space to record your unwritten history.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 04:54 PM
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I believe you are describing the difference between happiness and joy.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 01:45 PM
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I'm betting genetic increases of human intelligence will hit a recursive loop long before machine AI explodes.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 05:52 PM
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Even more likely, once strong DNA manipulation is possible our physical needs will plummet dramatically. The entire concept of consumption and industry would radically change.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 05:49 PM
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I suspect that this misrepresentation of realistic LTR is sustained for the reason that any pernicious falsehood sustains--it contains some amount of truth. There is a drive in humans to love selflessly--case in point anonymous live organ donation. Whether you believe this drive is biologically driven or revealed from a higher power is moot in this case. What matters is that it forms part of our ideal LTR in our imaginations. Many of us long to be better than ourselves up to and including our in…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 04:54 PM
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Another vote for doing Yoga. It is indeed a great partner for lifting. Like all things, treat it with moderation. Yoga injury is quite possible. I've gone to various classes. If you are anything like me, you will be breathing so hard you can't hear the foo foo stuff anyway.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 04:38 PM
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Definitely work on smiling more. I have similar dimensions to you and a naturally neutral expression. I have been told I was intimidating by both men and women with the clear implication that it was a negative many times. But I am actually one of the most gentle natured people you could meet. After I worked on smiling actively and making conscious, warm eye contact I actually started getting compliments on my warmth. Also, it is a good idea to have conversations seated as much as possible.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 04:34 PM
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You might want to try living in Central Sudan. I suspect your boner will last about as long as it takes your plane to fly away. And yes, I have lived there.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 03:11 PM
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Learn that conversation is NOT debate. If you are trying to "win" you are doing it wrong in nearly all circumstances. If you're about to clobber your "opponent" in a conversation, turn to humor to defuse yourself. Realize that 99% of the time, you won't even remember the outcome tomorrow. Remember that things seem much more important than they actually are while you are concentrating on them. Transcend your own vehemence, for it is not your ally. If you are right and it matters, reality will pro…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 01:46 PM
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My wife and I's breakthrough in cooking was doing big batches of cooking on Sundays to prepare stuff for the week. It really works for us.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 01:37 PM
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This is a very good analogy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 01:17 PM
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Practice, practice, practice. Don't doubt your potential. Deadpan is an excellent way to be funny, and deadpan is a natural tone for people who don't feel "naturally funny."
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 03:53 PM
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"Women will freely and generously drop red pill truths - IF the conversation is about anyone else." That is a solid gold protip right there. It actually applies to many biases in all types of people as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/16 08:49 PM
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He is now driven in a pretty unremarkable Cadillac. But for much of his life he drove a Buick and a pickup.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/16 08:13 PM
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If you want to add a small touch of dread, "There was a man I was before we got married. I decided to be him again."
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/16 03:44 PM
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Engineers and scientists are notorious for driving POS through the very end of even the most successful careers. Also, Warren Buffet.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/16 03:39 PM
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This is strong insight. I struggled with suicidal thinking most of life. I perceived myself, sometimes correctly, as far more intelligent and rational than those trying to help me. It makes for a very difficult therapy. Your daughter clearly has tremendous potential, including potential for great happiness. Try to lead her to experiences that involve FLOW. For me, it is mountain biking, often alone. It could be an ice cream cone. It could be fishing, dancing--anything not inherently competitive …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/16 03:11 PM
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Here's an example of an extremely shorthand joke type you could use at dinner. Let's say there's a huge picture of a whaling vessel on the wall of the restaurant. Wait until there's a moment of silence and say in deadpan, "Oh neat, I have that same one at home." In this case you provide the incongruity because no one would have that in their home. You can use that exact joke form in many, many social situations.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 02:04 PM
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This is the meta hobby. Always throw yourself an unexpected left turn once in a while. 9 times out of 10 you won't find anything great, but once in a while--BINGO! Surprise is the ultimate spice of life for anyone over 30. Surprise yourself once in a while, and you will have surprising things to share with others.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 01:51 PM
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One of the core practices of comedy is asking yourself what is WEIRD, HARD, STUPID, or SAD to you. Then think of what it would be like to blow that characteristic out of proportion until it becomes ridiculous. If you practice thinking this way, it will eventually start coming out of your mouth naturally. Comedy is the sudden revelation of incongruity. Think about things that get under your skin--things you feel strongly about disproportionately to their actual importance. Then think, which of th…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 01:39 PM
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Own a Honda, Toyota, or Nissan; preferably small and manual transmission from the years 1997 to 2006. The best bang for the buck cars and trucks ever sold in the USA. You don't realize the beauty of a commutobeater until you have lived it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/16 04:13 PM
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I grew up poor. A childhood with financial struggle but good parents is a dynamite recipe for character, humor, and grit. Any man worth your interest will value those highly. "I'm down with anybody that had a struggle." -Ice T
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 04:44 PM
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Good idea to make sure that there is some source of salt in there every day. I've worked jobs where I drank a gallon of water every day and I sometimes slipped into hyponatremia--really unpleasant. Nuts and chips are really good for salt. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hyponatremia
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 01:58 PM
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