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I was in a Big Ten school but none that you listed. Maybe we weren't high enough or I just wasn't paying attention. I knew a lot of guys in high school who did steroids, I tried it once but that was it. I knew of guys in college who failed drug screenings for stupid things like pills or marijuana, but it was pretty rare for anyone to get caught for steroids. I always just thought of course the top .001% of athletes are genetic freaks, but maybe I just didn't notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:02 AM
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Sadly, I've experienced most of these things at different points in my life. Although I had an inappropriate relationship with an older women when I was very young that probably set me up to be a magnet for this type of abuse. Anecdotally the most common thing I see out in the world is women being verbally abusive to their partners often to a point of just completely breaking them. It does seem to be changing quite a bit with younger generations though, so that seems promising.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:51 AM
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same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:25 AM
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To be fare women commonly have daddy issues/complexes as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:18 AM
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Every athlete uses. It's banned in every sport. However the tests are very easy to pass. Rugby is also rampant with PEDs As a former Division 1 American College Football player I strongly disagree with this statement. We are commonly over prescribed pain killers and corticosteroids to mask or recover injuries but never anabolic steroids or anything performance enhancing. It is incredibly regulated and I never knew anyone who played at my level who needed them any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:46 AM
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The US is actually passing laws governing sex dolls as we speak. Personally I could see under aged sex dolls falling into a similar category as child pornography, which is usually what people who owned child dolls were primarily charged with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:33 AM
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I really need to learn to stop commenting on this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:07 PM
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I know I should think that is somehow better but it still just doesn't sit right with me, but I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:03 PM
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This is very true and definitely a huge problem with online dating in particular as women tend to judge men more by general presence than by appearance alone which is difficult to convey through a dating profiles. There is also the later problem where as you settle into a relationship men can't always be charming all the time and little parts of just being human can often give women the 'ick'. It's similar to some men being upset with women just having gastrointestinal systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:43 PM
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I think the fear with sex robots is that it will be a playground for darker fantasies that will eventually be acted out without consent in the real world with dire consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:06 PM
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At the same rate they will probably always exist as long as pedophilia does. That's generally a problem outside of my understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:21 PM
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I'm sure my google search just landed me on a government watch list for sure. From what I can tell they are currently in a legal grey area and people have been brought up on criminal charges for owning them and more states are outlawing them altogether every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:16 PM
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There actually are a lot of real 40+ women complaining about dating or lack there of on tiktok and sometimes those tiktoks get promoted by the manosphere that just wants to mock older women. If someone lingers on, likes, shares or duets one of these videos the algorithm will show that person more disgruntled older women. The porn bot account is noticing that a lot of men are viewing disgruntled older woman tiktoks and so they are making their own to hopefully be seen by a larger male audience. t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:06 PM
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Real porn tends to be looked down upon because it can be made under abusive/coercive circumstances and has often not been taken as strictly entertainment; case in point: how many women complain about men trying weird porn moves on them in bed. I would say traditional romance movies and shows have been far more detrimental to society than erotic literature. As they have had far more influence on the real world. For example no woman I have ever dated has expected me to be a billionaire vampire, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:53 PM
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I think trauma doesn't have as much to do with the attraction as it does the likeliness to entertain it in real life. The fantasy of powerful and dangerous men has always been a popular fantasy from 'Twilight' to 'Beauty and the Beast'. To me it parallels very closely to men's attraction to mentally unstable women. That's why so many men have 'crazy ex' stories that usually don't involve all the red flags they overlooked. I know because I used to be the guy whose friends would worry about whoeve…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:38 PM
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It's not. Go to any religious part of America, usually in the middle, and start dating. Most will be virgins and expect you to be as well and won't be willing to have sex until after marriage. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:17 PM
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Hopefully eventually more women will realize that benevolent sexism is just as bad as regular sexism as it victimizes women and strips them of their accountability and agency and almost always goes full circle into stripping them of power and rights as well. Time will tell I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:20 PM
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There area lot of ways to be ugly without being over weight. A lot of guys get ick'd out if a woman doesn't shave her pits or farts in front of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:08 PM
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I mean dildos, male sex dolls, fucking machines, and man shaped body pillows are already fairly popular and men are pretty okay with them. Depending how advanced these potential sex bots are I could actually see women being more interested in them then men. Women are already more likely to own sex toys and if you count lude romance novels and fan fiction women already spend far more time consuming pornography. I guess it would depend on your definition of abuse? I understand your point about chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:03 PM
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She also lied about her age in the beginning which also made me a little uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:11 AM
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A little over two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:10 AM
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I don't know if you've been paying attention but it's well under way. Although it's less of a liberation and more of a labor strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:59 AM
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Does this only get brought up to you online? I'm 40 yo man who was dating a woman 12 years younger than me until late last year. Stuff people say online never really bothered me but the stuff people would say to me in person definitely made me feel like what I was doing was wrong. Mostly women would make subtle comments inferring that I should grow up and date someone my own age, or that I was very hurtfully just using her. Even my own mother and her sisters made similar comments. Most men didn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:55 AM
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Considering the amount of gun violence, muscle cars, and just general stupid extreme sports/camping accidents happens on a daily basis in my country, I'd say popular male movie franchises like Fast and the Furious, John Wick, and whatever the fuck Jason Statham is doing this week have pretty well brainwashed men too. I was susceptible to it at one time as well. I played division one American college football, which honestly should just be renamed: "who wants brain damage?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:18 AM
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Sorry I was going to let this slide but it's been bothering me. Words are very dangerous, most high ranking Soviets and Nazi's never actually pulled the trigger on anyone, yet the ideals they espoused killed millions. Just because you're just saying something doesn't mean it isn't influencing someone else to action. Comparing an ideological group to an entire race of people is not an equal comparison; one is liked by belief the other just skin color.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:01 AM
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Not all of us live in SF and work for google though. Most of us just make a pretty average salary at a non tech company.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:36 AM
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This might just be me because I'm old. But when I was younger men were always called losers for being virgins, or never having a girlfriend, guys in middle/high school wood even sometimes do that old trope of I "have a girlfriend they met at camp" but "she lives in Canada though". Basically we as a society shame men for their sexual/romantic inexperience thus creating a fake demand for men to prove their sexual/romantic competence to avoid ridicule and improve their social standing. This artific…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:39 PM
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You misquoted me. The trend of calling sexually inexperienced men incels is recent. To me calling someone an incel is far worse then just shaming them for just being a virgin. It is artificially linking them to a group that frequently says and does some fairly dangerous and hateful things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:22 PM
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Considering I just got downvoted maybe not...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:34 AM
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Yeah, but I had mine before I got Dutas which helped me regrow more. Its complicated but Fin only inhibits type 2 5-alpha reductase while Duta inhibits both 1 and 2. These different reductase enzymes can often be more prevalent in different quantities and do different things for different people. This can often make Dutas more effective for certain people then Fin. Here's an article with a linked study: https://www.hims.com/blog/finasteride-vs-dutasteride-which-is-better-for-preventing-hair-loss
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:28 AM
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It's okay, we're just joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:14 AM
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Moving to Dutasteride is what started to help me regrow my hair, even after surgery, I thought I was good but it helped a lot more. Plus stopped me from growing excessive body hair which I hated. I did go through a period of acne from having too much free testosterone for a while though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:12 AM
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Also I actually transitioned from electrical engineering, just in time to get laid off after the pandemic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:06 AM
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We have to get some consolation prize for being un-f-able nerds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:05 AM
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As with most things like this there are more reasons then I am willing to list here. In general accounts that swipe right near constantly are more likely to unmatch without sending a message, not respond to a messages, be reported as bots or for sending rude messages, or just in general being unmatched with relatively quickly without report which can also be suspicious. While this can create a bad experience for the always swipe right users, most sites are far more worried about retaining the ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:58 PM
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Just highlighting that there are other health risks to the mother if abortions are banned completely which many states are proposing. Also, again just because men don't have full reproductive rights doesn't make it right to take them away from women. Its sort of like saying I got buried in a mountain of student debt so you should too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:12 PM
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Sorry that wasn't directed at you, just in general as a software engineer it can often feel that way. Weather it be people constantly trying to game everything we build or ascribing malice to any oversight we make. Commonly seen as "why isn't this thing you built more safe or inclusive?!?" and I'm just over here like, because I'm tired and overworked. Like I can't imagine how stressed the chatGPT engineers must have been when they released that thing and people began immediately trying to break …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:06 PM
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I thought you said all of your friends that asked guys out were "shot down because that's not the way it's supposed to be"? If most men are interested in having sex with most women wouldn't these men have said yes? Also just because you asked a guy out does not mean you automatically have to have sex with him, you can still vet him and make sure he puts effort into the relationship. Expecting a man to put all of the effort into a relationship to me is going to leave you disappointed, but they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:57 PM
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Honestly, I don't understand why everyone thinks software engineers are complete morons. Partial morons maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:34 PM
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Probably JK Rowling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:30 PM
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I somewhat agree with you, but no men have ever died of labor complications and two wrongs don't make a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:15 PM
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That would honestly explain why feminism has so many waves and tends to eat itself. I think that might be true of more movements as well though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:06 PM
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Dude do not get limb lengthening surgery, that is extreme. Honestly hair transplants in this day in age is also extreme. There are plenty of drugs to help you regrow hair naturally and honestly they may also help your dating game as I'm pretty sure a lot of once balding guys (myself included) had such high DHT levels that it was messing with our brains. My game greatly improved after finding a medication regimen that worked for me, and it wasn't the just the confidence of having an improved hair…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:44 PM
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I think it more just depends on the type of relationship you want. You seem like you want a more traditional defined gender rolls relationship, which is totally fine, just please don't be on here complaining about it when you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:29 PM
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The older I get the more I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:24 PM
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Men really need to stop doing that. I helped work on one of the larger apps algorithms and we actually punish users who give out right swipes too easy. Men who do that don't get shown to many women. If you want to be sure your profile is shown possibly even multiple times to a woman, be stingy with your right swipes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:19 PM
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Why are the odds better for a man asking a woman? I can guarantee you most men who have asked you out probably asked someone else out that same week or same day. Most f-boys just play the numbers game and ask a lot of women out knowing that a few will say yes. Most will be uncomfortable if you ask them out as you've removed the chase, which is the part that strokes their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:05 PM
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Number 3 hit hard. Although I'd say, sex is enough for a while, usually ends badly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:46 PM
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Please explain what this means?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:44 PM
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greatest reply ever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:43 PM
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Were you intending your first statement to lead to all of the others? As in: when you take a passive role in dating you relinquish yourself to those who are preferring to take a more dominant role?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:39 PM
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I have felt that way in my life before, but usually when I was super depressed or just going through some sort of rough time. Personally I think you just need to lighten up and stop taking everything so seriously. Romance in general is pretty silly endeavor, if you're not willing to allow yourself to be vulnerable enough to flirt a little with someone how are you ever going to be vulnerable enough to be in an honest relationship with someone. You don't have to over complicate it either, just mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:19 PM
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TIL what pink collar means
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:56 PM
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*programming intensifies*
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:53 PM
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Sorry I was just joking...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:52 PM
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The reality of dating a business owner definitely isn't as good as you think. Plus if he's successful his lawyer is going to make you sign the most iron clad prenup you've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:25 PM
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Yeah I don't like it when those men get all educated and uppity lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:18 PM
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I'm guessing software engineers probably aren't "classic"... ​
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:17 PM
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Honestly one of the worst parts of modern women is that rather then making blanket generalized disparaging comments about all men that they don't really mean to just their friends on girls night, they now shout them on tiktok for everyone to see and thus fuel misogamy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oa_QtMf6alU
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:02 PM
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I take that back the USA has actually mostly lost wars in my lifetime. lol. Maybe we are the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:59 PM
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Thanks, I'm working on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:28 PM
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You either must be really old or not from the USA as we haven't been at risk of loosing a war since the revolution. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:06 PM
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This post has suddenly made me aware of how depressed I am lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:56 PM
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I do think incel culture is something that should be shamed as they have said and done some pretty terrible things. However, I am not a big fan of the recent trend whenever any man admits he is a virgin or that he has not had sex in a while people immediately shame him and call him an incel. A great example of this was a year or two ago when some pew research data was published saying that over half of men under 30 had not had sex in the last year and everyone shamed them and compared them to in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:36 PM
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My exe wife was only one year younger than me and before I forced us into counselling she pretty much had the responsibilities of a housecat with a credit card. A lot of my friends and family ended up in similar relationships with age appropriate partners as well. I get it though, I used to judge age gapped relationships as well. Still sort of coming to terms with it obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:26 PM
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As someone who just got out of an age gapped relationship, I really hate this stereotype. While I did pay for most things, it was honestly the most equal relationship I have ever been in. Most of my age appropriate exes had much higher demands. Part of me wonders if the stigma is ultimately what pushed me to end things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:12 PM
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I don't think making your wife coffee is inherently a bad thing. Maybe if you're making your wife coffee for her big day of doing absolutely nothing but sponging off you, then maybe. At the same rate I actually have been in that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:01 PM
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Jokes on you, we're into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:56 PM
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Cocaine has gotten many things done throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:56 PM
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I think you're over complicating things. Being good at sex is pretty easy, just ask her what she wants and then do it. If she doesn't know then you both get to find out together. If she says something your not comfortable with or isn't open to talking about it then you either dodged a bullet or if you are also a prude in which case enjoy your missionary sex relationships ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:07 PM
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Part of me thinks this has historically been made worse by shaming men's sexual and romantic inexperience putting social pressure on them to tolerate poor behavior in partners and thus sort of lowering expectations in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:58 PM
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I'm with you. Yet somehow I keep turning lazy gamer girls into adventurous extroverts that want to drag me to stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:45 PM
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First of all, why does everything have to be "maxxing". Can't it just be taking care of your appearance or being good in bed? Also, you totally can be good enough in bed to be with a woman out of your league. It usually just requires a lot of communication to find out what she like and then doing it. The problem is that you must be prepared to keep doing those things that she likes without reciprocity indefinitely, no matter how tired or resentful you become.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:47 AM
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