hotbird1212 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
475	anddd... blocked!!!	MALE DEPRAVITY	hotbird1212	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 02:44 PM
80	Anybody else notice these LVM needing their ego stroked 24/7?	#JustLVMThings	hotbird1212	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/11/20 08:21 PM
73	when they actually say it for you	LEVEL UP	hotbird1212	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/21 03:50 AM
37	A recent hook-up asked me my body count.	SEEKING ADVICE	hotbird1212	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/20 04:07 PM
14	Don’t skip the vetting process for someone you’ve “known forever”.	LESSON LEARNED	hotbird1212	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/20 08:45 PM
1	He told me I would never have the guts to travel alone.	WHOLESOME CONTENT	hotbird1212	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/21 06:48 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	when they actually say it for you honestly it’ll probably take 3 hours	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/21 04:31 AM
28	Another round of free publicity for the sub. Stories about FDS men come up with amuse me every time. Really? I think you attribute "threatening someone with violence when they reject you" to the wrong sех. i wish they’d leave the sub alone so it can get back to posts about things we care about mutually. no honest hate here, i’m just getting tired of all the posts in FDS talking about yet more people who hate us	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 01:49 PM
11	Men straight up tell on themselves. If he doesn’t pursue you like you’re his dream girl, then he doesn’t deserve access to you. yeah it’s been keeping me stuck for three years now but i’m getting out	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 01:36 PM
37	Men straight up tell on themselves. If he doesn’t pursue you like you’re his dream girl, then he doesn’t deserve access to you. sometimes he does pursue you like you’re his dream girl, but he’s still LV. don’t forget that	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 04:24 AM
89	My career has never been better broke up with my ex because senior year was approaching and i knew i couldn’t handle it with all his bullshit at the same time. got a 4.0	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/21 08:39 PM
31	Men know men are trash and that’s why they’re so overprotective of their hypothetical daughters. How was the doctor legally able to release medical information to him if she’s an adult? Edit: No shade here, I swear. I’m genuinely curious.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/20 08:10 PM
19	6+ years with a man and no ring? This is one of my hang-ups too. Don’t get me wrong, I love the FDS enough to be here but that doesn’t mean we’ll all jump on it 110% immediately. Can anyone shed some light on this? Sure, FDS tells us what a proper timeline looks like, but I’ve seen men drop the charade after several years. They may check our boxes to get married, but it doesn’t always last. What then?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/05/20 03:49 AM
2	Nothing “Happened” to Me- A Man Did Something to Me i saw the beginning of this comment and was like omg who is saying this on fds and then realized it was a joke lmaooo. got me ragin at 8 in the mornin	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 01:16 PM
162	Nothing “Happened” to Me- A Man Did Something to Me Ahhh I just had an interaction at work today that is kind of related. Manager is interviewing people for my position because I’m leaving soon. Lady he’s interviewing is a young, attractive woman wearing a pencil skirt and high heels. Other male coworker says to me privately, “That’s a lawsuit waiting to happen.” Excuse me? SHE is not the lawsuit. PEOPLE SEXUALLY HARASSING OTHER EMPLOYEES IS A LAWSUIT. NOT HER. It’s not US, it’s YOU!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 05:05 PM
22	A recent hook-up asked me my body count. I agree, it seemed crazy that he asked. I didn’t tell, told him he shouldn’t be asking people that, and ultimately decided to block. I’ve just been thinking about it since and wondered what the ladies here would have to say about it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/20 06:34 PM
12	A recent hook-up asked me my body count. oof, didn’t even think about checking the handbook. will do, thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/20 04:58 PM
86	Looks are everything until it’s an inconvenience 🙄 and they start getting mad about you looking good in any setting other than just for them. thinking you’re trying to attract other men and getting jealous of other men, thinking you’re cheating or something. so you want a beautiful woman but can’t handle the other eyes on her? fucking babies i tell ya	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/05/20 09:16 PM
2	Things seem to be taking a negative turn here. Please, let's focus our energies on building each other up and IGNORING trash men. I do agree that showing women responding in ways that don’t go with FDS is a relevant argument. In my defense, I didn’t respond and I blocked the dude. But if anything we shouldn’t be showcasing ourselves going against FDS practices. I get that people find it triggering so I guess I can support the weekly thread. As a newbie it was very helpful to see what LVM looks and sounds like though so I don’t think we should ditch it completely. That’s just my Newbie 2 cents though!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/20 08:12 PM
7	Things seem to be taking a negative turn here. Please, let's focus our energies on building each other up and IGNORING trash men. I posted a little bit ago some LVM behavior. I thought it was okay, since there are a couple of Flair tags that create an opportunity to tag a post like that. Maybe if we agree that we don’t want to see that, we remove the Flairs for it? Definitely not trying to argue the issue, I’m here for y’all at the end of the day. I myself simply thought it was okay because I saw the Flairs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/20 08:02 PM
1	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? I wouldn’t have considered myself a party, just audience or commentator. But ok :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 07:14 PM
1	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? Thank you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 05:15 PM
1	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? maybe I’m missing something obvious here. What is FIRE oriented?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 05:11 PM
2	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? Are you joking?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 04:56 PM
1	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? This is such a poorly worded rebuttal to a valid debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 04:55 PM
2	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? Great response!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 04:43 PM
1	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? On the subject of children, and call me out if I’m wrong because I am young, unmarried, and don’t claim to know everything: A long time ago, when marriage was less about love and more about legal binding and childbearing, having children was less of the woman’s choice, and more of an expectation - and often forced. Today, that’s not the case. A lot of the debates in this post are failing to acknowledge that marriage is an OLD concept, and every aspect of it is not rationally applied to modern-da…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 04:40 PM
1	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? more specifically, marriage is historically interpreted as a permanent and eternal binding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 04:32 PM
2	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? like u/death_by_1000_cats said, marriage and love are separate but often overlapping concepts. this post isn’t about love, it’s about marriage. i suppose if that’s the takeaway you want in regards to this debate about MARRIAGE, then i can say for myself that no, I am not ashamed to admit that I view a legally binding contract as a decision that ought to be considered with tact. i do not think that men are only good for their utility. i love men, i love my man, i love my father and my brothers. l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 04:15 PM
2	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? so who gets the house? she’s not looking for a payday, just a reasonable and just solution to a shared asset being split. wouldn’t you be concerned with “who gets the house”? why shouldn’t she also be concerned with that? why is women asking for a just split to a shared asset so absurd to you guys, when you’re asking for the same thing? aren’t a man and a woman going through a divorce essentially in the same position? it’s equally shitty for both, and any argument against marriage applies to bot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 02:57 PM
2	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? your testimonial vs u/barneysparky’s facts... wonder what’s more reliable	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 02:36 PM
1	anddd... blocked!!! Way too terrified for that	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/04/20 12:03 PM
1	anddd... blocked!!! I commented a little bit of an explanation on someone else’s comment!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/04/20 02:06 AM
10	anddd... blocked!!! Not a friend, but yes, he’s had my number for years and has tried to hook up before. He’s never gotten like this bad, per se, and it was so infrequent that I never bothered to block/reject. TBH I don’t like blocking people because I WANT to know what people are trying to say, or how frequent. Like I want that as usable information. But this time around, he texted, I rejected, this happened, now blocked since it’s just so useless. So I think he just sees me as a long-game tease, which is probably…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 09:51 PM
9	anddd... blocked!!! But he has to respect himself!!! /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 05:25 PM
116	anddd... blocked!!! I just got out of an abusive relationship, my first big long-term “I’m going to marry this guy” relationship. So now I’m at this point of, sure, I’ll date, but not like I used to. Now if I’m gonna date then it’s gonna be for the real deal, which totally requires new standards. FDS gave me the blueprint I needed! However I’m starting to realize how few and far between these HVM are...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 03:19 PM
395	anddd... blocked!!! Quick comment to say this was after I rejected him and went to sleep. I put him on Do Not Disturb and woke up to these, then blocked him. Also, I’m new to FDS and just wanted to say this sub has changed my outlook so much! You guys have seriously helped me raise the bar! 9/10 guys teach me within 1-3 convos that they’re not worth my time, and I’m actually taking red flags seriously now!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 02:56 PM
10	The average woman has been taught from birth how to take care of 90% of men's daily needs, while men have been taught to take care of almost 0% of ours. Men claim they need less to "make them happy" because most of their needs get met by default. Women have to beg to be met halfway. and then gaslight us because apparently complex = crazy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/20 02:30 PM