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I wouldn't sweat it. My previous landlord in Salt Lake City was still a virgin at 39 (by choice/religious). The woman he married? Drop dead gorgeous, entrepreneur, cooks like Martha Stewart, singing voice of an angel, genius IQ, NOT a virgin. My point in telling this story is to just live your life. Some people find the love of their life when they are 18...some not until they are in their 40's.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/25 05:28 PM
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The problem is you are basing your identity/self-worth on whether women are looking your way. A "real" man doesnt think like this. Look at Nikola Tesla...famous inventor and scientist. He was tall, dark, and handsome yet chose not to date or get married. Hell, he didnt even masturbate. (No, he was not gay). He changed the world and will forever be in the history books. Last, do you want tons of women falling for you or do you wanna meet the love of your life?? My old landlord in SLC was tall, ha…
/r/ExRedPill26/09/25 12:55 AM
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Im a woman. Just to let you know, we can tell if a guy struggles with porn...you give off a lustful vibe (even though that's not your intent). Same with masturbation... Not judging... Dating isn't that hard...but when you are giving into crappy/"dark" habits, it makes it 10x harder
/r/ExRedPill26/09/25 12:46 AM
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Exactly. All the men in my life are successful and are not on Reddit at all. If you mentioned the terms: Chad, Stacey, hypergamy, spinning plates, 304's, etc to them, they would look at you like you had three eyes. Healthy men that stay offline don't act like this or believe any of this junk.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 02:21 AM
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Because everything they teach/preach can be refuted in real life... For example, they all preach that men are logical and women are emotional....when studies CLEARLY show men are just as (if not more) emotional than women. They preach that "alpha" men love YOUNGER women. Really?? How come a lot of "alpha" men choose older women (nick offerman, jason momoa, zlatan ibrahimovic). "Women's only value is their fertility and beauty". Nope, women bring a lot more to the world than fertility and beauty.…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 02:19 AM
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First....dont listen to men on what women want because they are clueless. Me and most women I know don't care about height, bank account, or penis size. What's important to us? Humility, Confidence, CHARACTER (can't watch porn), humor, being sweet. Most men (and I'm not putting you in this category) are immature. For example, I was on a Facebook post that was basically encouraging men to get off porn. In the comments was a guy that was trying to find out why he wasn't successful with women. He w…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 01:57 AM
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This is a big one: https://www.youtube.com/@huMANs\_channel/videos
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 01:18 AM
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Candace Owens?? She's beautiful, conservative, has a gorgeous family, and tells it like it is: https://www.youtube.com/@CandaceOwensPodcast
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 01:07 AM
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Watch every single one of this man's videos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3wH2Sj7Xdk&t=60s. All of his videos are short. Watch them all. He is where you were at, but now his marriage is thriving.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:59 AM
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Yes....they want to think that at 35....our eggs are no longer good and we'll have "deformed" kids this late in life. Its funny because I know TONS of women that have had healthy babies in their 40's. Halle Berry had her last at 47. Claudia Raia, actress, just had her last at 56!!....and it was not IVF!! What they fail to mention is that 9% of women from ages 25-29 are infertile and 40% of the time its the males fault with an infertile couple. You can have infertility issues at any age.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:42 AM
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Sorry...this is a late comment. I'm a 47 yr old woman that despises Tate. I also don't know any woman (in my circle) who likes Tate. As my good guy friend says, "Tate and his brother are sadistic bastards." You are YOUNG. My ex landlord was tall and handsome but didn't lose his virginity/get married until he was 39. His wife? A blonde bombshell with a high IQ that does everything well. You sound amazing. You might not meet the love of your life until you are 30. Don't settle.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 07:02 AM
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I just hate the fact that mainstream people give him an audience. An example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jzAFgClu4zg&t=6s Robert Breedlove is an authority on the topic of money/Bitcoin. Its all he talks about. Yet, 5 mos ago, he randomly decides to have Rich Cooper on????
/r/ExRedPill19/12/23 02:33 AM
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At one point, he said he was making $2 million a year from his businesses.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 04:05 AM
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Mature woman here.... Can I tell you what me and all my friends want? Character, humility, confidence, humor, loves God and children, ambitious, dreamer (wants to change the world). NONE of us place an importance on height, bank account, or penis size. Bad boy to most women means he rides a motorcycle and has tattoos....not that he treats women like crap and is emotionally unavailable. I loooooovve guys that are sweet. Most men (in my life) were jerks growing up so I want nothing that resembles …
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 06:02 PM
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I'm just the opposite. I'm a Christian and all I see are happy, healthy couples who are madly in love with each other. "Having a body count of 40-50 random dudes you don't even know is wild". True....but I could forgive my future husband for a high body count....why couldn't you forgive yours? I know a guy in real life who remained a virgin until he got married because that is how he was raised. His wife? She had a HIGH body count. They are the most purest, healthiest, happiest married couples y…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 05:49 PM
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That's the funniest one..."men are not emotional". Ummmm....anger is an emotion and there are a lot of angry men out there. Just the other day, this guy pulled me over in road rage and called me an asshole. No woman would do that. He literally couldn't stand that I kept my composure the entire time.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 05:44 PM
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You do know that all redpill crap is misogynistic, right?? Examples: women have no value after 40, they are only good for their beauty and fertility, men don't want single moms, etc. So my question to you is, "Was/Is your dad misogynistic?" "Was your grandfather?" There might be something in your bloodline that pulls you in to this junk. Its hard to help men that actually think "Fresh and Fit" and Tate are role models. It also might be helpful to know that Redpill crap just lives on the Internet…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/23 07:24 AM
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Character (respectful, doesn't gossip, doesn't watch porn, honest) Humility Humor Sweet Loves God and children Confidence Risk taker Things that most women don't care about: bank account, penis size, and being 6 ft.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/23 07:13 AM
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TikTok is stupid? I'm a 47 year old woman (5'9). My friends and I could care less about height, penis size, or bank account. Yes, height on a guy is attractive. But there are TONS of unattractive men who are 6ft. Give me a "short", handsome guy any day of the week.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/23 07:09 AM
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Gets laid consistently?? I'm a Christian. The coolest men I know have only slept with one woman....their wives. You only need to attract one woman....not several. Don't watch porn (that repels women)....be confident in who you are....women go for humility, kindness, confidence, and humor. Your friend was kinda right....women do like to be "teased". I come from a sarcastic family so this comes easy to me. How old are you?? One of my former landlords was 39 before he lost his virginity (on his wed…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/23 07:03 AM
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Thats not true. As a 46 yr old woman, I carry a lot of wisdom and have a lot to offer. I've helped many men out.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 04:47 AM
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Hell......no!!! All my male friends are confident, secure, successful and have only slept with one woman.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/22 01:54 AM
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Is your dad the same way? These things can be generational. Maybe your dad is misogynistic as well?
/r/ExRedPill05/12/22 01:47 AM
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Your past life sounds kinda sad. Some of the coolest guys I know have only been with one woman. Look up soul ties. You develop soul ties with every single person you ever sleep with. That's why you shouldn't sleep around. How to stay faithful? Ummm....develop character. Break any bad habits like masturbating or watching porn. Make friends with married men that are in successful, healthy relationships.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/22 01:33 AM
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Ummmm....no. I'm 5'8, skinny, with long legs that don't take a coffee break. I also am a redhead. Kevin was an idiot....
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 04:08 PM
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Nope. I'm a beautiful, red haired Caucasian woman who is 5'8 with long legs.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 04:11 PM
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I'm a woman sweetie...hence my username hotmama. Bless you.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 12:14 AM
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Wow...do you call your mom, sister, or Grandma a bitch? Praying for you.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 06:24 PM
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I'm sorry if this sounds sadistic, I was elated when I found out that he had passed. He had a dangerous message and his voice needed to be silenced.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 05:27 PM
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You will find a woman who likes you for you. But EVERYONE (men and women) should have ambition. God has given everyone talents and abilities which we are to share with the world. Its not about making tons of money but making a difference in the world.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 05:26 PM
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I was elated when I heard that Kevin had just recently passed. He spread a dangerous message and his voice had to be silenced. He was a huge loser and will go down in the books as being a nobody.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 05:19 PM
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Nope....not contradicting myself. Dark hair is sexy to ME. I've never been attracted to a blonde. The top traits that are important to me (in a man) are: humility, sense of humor, sweetness, confidence, and loves God and people. THEN, looks play a part. I wish guys would truly understand that looks aren't at the top of the list for any woman that isn't shallow. Look at these two examples: This is an infamous married couple on YouTube. She's gorgeous and he is severely handicapped. Why does it wo…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 07:59 PM
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No. You don't know me at all:( I could fall madly in love with a guy who had a 2 inch penis or an 11 inch penis.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 02:24 PM
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The interesting thing is when you bring up Elizabeth Hurley, Jennifer Anniston, Elle McPherson, Sofia Vergara, Salma Hayek, etc (to the Redpill community) as examples of how women don't age as fast as they say....they immediately shoot you down or make comments like "Oh, those women have had plastic surgery" or "Women in their 20's are much hotter". Really? Find me a 20 year old that is hotter than a 50 year old Salma Hayek! I don't know how old you are....but 50 is not old for a woman OR man (l…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 03:48 AM
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I currently nanny for an ultra wealthy family. The dad is the wealthiest man in the city. His current wife is 35 years younger than him. He is almost 70....she is still in her 30's. I personally wouldn't marry anyone old enough to be my dad. However, these guys make it work. The man used to be extremely good looking in his 20's....now of course his looks have faded.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 03:37 AM
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As a nanny, I blame your parents on the way they raised you. With that being said, you are gonna be fine.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 03:30 AM
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Women want men who are funny and confident. Women don't care about looks as much as you think. Everyone has different things that they find attractive. For example, I only think dark hair is sexy. I've never been attracted to blondes (Brad Pitt and Leo Dicaprio do nothing for me). Its literally why the vast majority of rejections happen? Nope.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 03:25 AM
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When a woman is turned on, they can accommodate up to a 12 inch penis easily? I know many women who prefer 8-12 penises.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 03:20 AM
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Rollo is sooo dysfunctional and insecure. It breaks my heart that men actually listen to his YouTube channel on a regular basis.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/22 02:07 AM
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Well, lets look at a man from history, Nikola Tesla. Here is a brilliant man who is still talked about today. He has hundreds of inventions/patents to his name. He lived an extraordinary life. Yet, by his own admission...never masturbated....and chose to not get married (he was not gay). I think its weird when EITHER sex cares what the other sex is thinking. Every woman has their own definition of success. Right now, I work for a billionaire. Do you know what stands out the most with him? His hu…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/22 07:18 AM
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First of all, you need to get off Adderall....only ignorant, incompetent doctors put children/young men on that horrific drug. Second, you don't have ANY examples of loving, happy, healthy marriages in your life?? I'm surrounded by couples who are madly in love and happily married. Third, you are looking for rejection. Sadly, this is why you shouldn't let trash into your brain (Redpill crap, porn, etc). You are going to have to go through therapy to undo all these lies and false beliefs you have…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/22 07:05 AM
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It's because our WHOLE SOCIETY has been brainwashed to think a "normal" penis is a circumcised one. I personally prefer uncircumcised because I'm educated. Don't listen to young, ignorant women who say they prefer "cut"....they literally don't understand the issue at all. More and more families are choosing to leave their sons intact....we have a long ways to go....but we are making head way. Just don't get bitter about the situation. Don't get angry with women....they are not your enemy. I know…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/22 03:35 AM
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Fuck women? Sweetie....I'm a newborn care specialist. It's the DADS that push circumcision....not the moms. I'm sure your dad had just the same amount of input as your mom had. Self pity is one of the biggest demons. Get into therapy, read some books, STOP masturbating and watching porn, etc.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/22 02:42 AM
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Sweetie....the fact that you said "hypergamy" and actually believe this is a thing proves how long you have to go. Why do you care what the opposite sex thinks?
/r/ExRedPill21/03/22 03:46 AM
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Oh Girl....you need to find a spirit filled (not religious) church. There are TONS of amazing men out there. By the way, Redpill is not mainstream.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/22 03:43 AM
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What does it mean you are "stuck" in a small town? Unless you are taking care of an elederly parent, you are free to move wherever. I would move asap to a big city.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/22 03:40 AM
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INSECURITY
/r/ExRedPill21/03/22 03:38 AM
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You might fall in love??
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 04:52 AM
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Oh God...where does one start? How about that women's value is tied to their fertility (that's why they claim that women are expired lottery tickets after 35/40)....however, when couples face infertility....30-40% of the time, it's the man's fault?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 06:28 AM
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I agree. I know hundreds of men that have only slept with one woman (their wives) and its the sexiest thing. NO ONE should have a high body count...its immoral. This couple is just one example: Nate and Sutton. They have their own YouTube channel and are drop dead gorgeous. They had no premarital sex and have only had sex with each other. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fr0aH0NoHRo&t=74s
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 04:11 PM
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Exactly!!! Women file because they've been cheated on and/or abused. They are not filing for no reason!!!!
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 05:03 AM
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Exactly!! My parents were best friends and happily married for over 40 years before my mom passed. I know HUNDREDS of marriages that have been going strong for 20+ years.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 04:39 PM
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Why are you even watching such lame videos? Why are you ingesting such trash?
/r/ExRedPill05/07/21 04:55 AM
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Take it from a 45 year old woman with A LOT of world experience. Women go for confidence, personality, and a sense of humor. Of course looks matter. However, every woman is different in what she likes. Example: I'm usually not attracted to blondes at all. I LOVE dark hair. I was just watching Seinfeld reruns on YouTube today. Look at George...one of the leading characters. He is short, bald, and stocky. Yet, he's been happily married for almost 40 years, has two kids, and is successful in every …
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 05:43 AM
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It also baffles me how any black man can "preach" this crap. Black people have been oppressed for so long and now the above guy wants to suppress an entire gender???? Insecurity does not look good on any man.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 05:14 AM
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Redpill has nothing of value to offer for men or women. Its not going mainstream and it never will. Healthy, successful men (I know because I'm around a lot of them) have never even heard of Redpill or MGTOW. There is NO TRUTH to the Redpill movement. Every leader in this "movement" dislikes women and does not want them to succeed. You are still convinced (which is sad) that your looks determine if you are successful with women. If this was true, then why are so many disabled men successful with…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 04:07 AM
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I'm a woman hence the word "mama" in my username. No, I've lived a blessed life.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/21 08:19 AM
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Yes God. He's the one that created sex, marriage, and families.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/21 04:53 AM
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That's interesting. Everyone I know and everyone around me has thriving, healthy, fulfilling, long term marriages. My parents were married for 42 years and never fought once. Family/marriage is never going to go away. Families are the backbone of society. Praying you get healthy enough to attract the right woman...
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 07:14 PM
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First of all, being alone and being lonely are 2 separate things. There are people that are "alone" who are completely fulfilled. Then, there are people in relationships/marriages who still feel lonely. I know a few cool amazing guys that literally stayed virgins and didn't get married until their 30's. When I lived in Salt Lake City from 1999-2009, I knew a couple that owned multiple properties. I lived in 3 of their rentals while I lived there. The guy (in this relationship) didn't lose his vi…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 07:05 PM
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Its not just the Redpill movement that OBSESSES over women. It's also the MGTOW movement. Go to the YouTube channel "huMAN". In the last 4 months, he's done at least 24 videos all about women and why they are not worth it. This makes me laugh. If the MGTOW movement is literally MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY....shouldn't the topics focus on men and their independence? All the comments on his videos are misogynistic as well. ​ It just makes me sad. I personally know HUNDREDS of men who are in happy, lon…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 05:19 PM
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Every "leader" in the Redpill movement is insecure and misogynistic. Everything they say and teach on flow from these two things: insecurity and misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 05:01 PM
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That's how Redpill losers define a HVM? A high value male has a great attitude, is confident and funny, has morals, works hard, and cherishes women.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 04:14 AM
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Who said anything about the man being broke???? I said word for word "I want him to have goals and be successful". If he is successful, he's not going to be broke. Plus, I own my own business and make really great money. I don't need his??? I'm such a driven person that I will more than likely make more than my husband.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 07:10 AM
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It's not so much making it about "looks" as it is health. The guys were overweight and puffy looking. Rich or not rich....everyone can afford to eat healthy and go to the gym. When I was only making $12/hr as a nanny, I still only grocery shopped at Whole Foods.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 07:03 PM
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Ha! Yes. The men didn't look great in the Friends special. The women looked amazing (only Courtney Cox has had plastic surgery).
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 04:52 PM
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I grew up in rural Iowa. EVERYONE gets married early there. When I was going to college, everyone was getting engaged. In fact, my 2nd oldest niece JUST got married and I think both of them are only 20? Do you think men at this age have it all figured out? Do you think they have a brilliant career with an investment portfolio? Of course not. You marry for love and then "grow up together". Yes, all my friends that got married young are still happily married 20 years later. One of the main things …
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 04:50 PM
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"Male bodies need to be more sexualized and female bodies need to be more desexualized"???? Out of respect, your thinking is way off. No one needs to be sexualized. Everyone is made in the image of God. We were never created to LUST. Why do you care how many glances you are getting from the opposite sex? You only need ONE person to fall in love with you. This example might be taken out of context, but look at this couple: Shane and Hannah. They are happily married. You will notice that Shane has…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 05:05 PM
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Bottom line....women want men to be taller than them but not necessarily 6 ft. I met a confident, good looking guy a couple weeks ago who was only 5'7. Would I marry someone that short? No. I'm 5'8. However, the average height for a woman is 5'2? This is why a man shouldn't "panic" if he is only 5'7-5'9. He is ALWAYS gonna be taller than the average woman. Plus, the main attributes that women look for are confidence and sense of humor.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 08:39 PM
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"Fifty year old men don't want sagging skin and wrinkles on their dates". Well, a healthy man doesn't want to sleep with someone who is young enough to be his daughter. That's one of the many things that made me laugh about the Redpill movement....that men don't want older women. Really? (All these examples are public figures because everyone knows them). Look at Jason Momoa. His wife is 12 years older and had his babies when she was in her 40's. Look at infamous soccer star Zlatan Ibrahimovic. …
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 05:33 PM
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Abstaining from porn/masturbation isn't "red pill advice". You can get that wisdom from the Bible?
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 04:00 AM
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Unfortunately, men listen to other men about what women like and get it all wrong. Women are drawn to confidence and humor...not necessarily money, looks, and height. I'm 5'8 (above average for a woman). I went to see a neuromuscular massage therapist for the first time yesterday. He was a gorgeous, married man who exuded confidence. He was shorter than me? About your acne...when I was a teenager and in my early 20's, I had SEVERE acne. I finally had the dermatologist put me on Accutane (isotret…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 01:38 AM
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