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I think the clubs that play mainstream top 40 music or commercial EDM where people just go to drink and mingle are more the clubs that people talk about where people “go to get laid” I wouldn’t be caught dead in those clubs. I’ll only be at the ones that are hosting my favorite super niche music that most people don’t like, where everyone else attending is only there for that reason. So it’s much more akin to going to a concert, as opposed to more like going to a generic bar with a dancefloor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:43 PM
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I used to be one of those people! We learn after awhile
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:45 AM
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I’ve learned that in long term relationships, sparks can ebb and flow. They do dissipate, but sometimes they can get reignited! Then there becomes an art form into how to continue to reignite it. It’s totally possible, and really fun. Of course, there will also always be dips in it too, as all relationships have conflicts and difficulties to navigate as well. No relationship is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:45 PM
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I know people who now equate the spark as a red flag or a yellow flag that means they should proceed with caution. This is for sparks that appear right away. Sparks that appear after the vetting process and figuring out that it’s a good green flag connection are much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:41 PM
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FDS is disgusting and worse than RP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:27 PM
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Yeah I would listen to the others on here that day not to take it too seriously, and that reality isn’t like this. This is an extreme place for extreme people. This doesn’t reflect the norm. If you’ve gone through life sheltered from this, it’s because most people don’t experience any of this and would probably laugh or be perplexed by this stuff because it’s not their reality. I also felt the same way as you, and still kind of do… when I first discovered this sub I thought “wow this place is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:18 PM
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Common interests works. I met my partner in a singles group on FB, but the reason I went on a date with him is because he asked if there were any alternative people in the group. I was about to leave that group too, because everyone in there seemed to be too normie for my taste. I know many people who met their partners at places where they go to do their hobbies, like the rock climbing gym, or at some kind of gathering of people for some kind of hobby or interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:03 PM
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If only we could just keep doing this instead of people always trying to impose their lifestyles on others who aren’t interested… why even debate, we should just live and let live and stop shaming people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:06 AM
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You are so out of touch it hurts. Do you actually even know any women personally? Do you have any normal friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:04 AM
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Or maybe the man physically abused her? There’s plenty of reasons for a woman with a child to leave the man that aren’t due to “morals”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:20 AM
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It’s because men are easy. They’re the real sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:01 PM
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Sex is good for you, it’s our life force energy pulsing through us! It should be celebrated, not shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:44 PM
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Because not as many people are as concerned about “sluts” or about people’s pasts as you think At the end of the day, love wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:40 PM
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Bitterness and jadedness will rot you from the inside
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:30 AM
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I honestly think that couples should be able to have their own reserves of their own money for any reason. I think it would be not the best to HIDE it…. That indicates a lack of trust and trust is pretty much everything when it comes to a serious relationship, so if you don’t have trust, you don’t really have much of a relationship, and maybe you should reconsider yours. However…. I do think that both people should be able to have a reserve of their own money, separate from whatever they pool to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:44 AM
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Because people in here are always saying ALL women/men/people do a certain thing, and I’m here to tell y’all that it’s not true. That people are more than just a statistic, and that they are a lot more complex and multifaceted than that. Also, when I do mention that I’m not part of that statistic, hence that kind of claim can’t truly be made, people try to argue with me about it to justify their belief. If people here would instead say “most” instead of “all”, then we wouldn’t have to chime in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:27 PM
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Nah, I usually date younger men. I’m 12 years older than my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:36 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:32 AM
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I’m the older woman in a 12 year age gap relationship. My mother is the older woman in an 8 year age gap relationship. I’ve dated quite a few men who have a specific thing for older woman and seek them out. We are out here, lol Also, we aren’t casual, we are aiming for the long run. And my parents have been married for 40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:38 PM
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Sorry, I missed that part. She’s hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:22 AM
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No, you don’t, and how is it not a valid equivalence? Or can you not just admit your own hypocrisy? And why do you want to move to an Islamic country with a cheater — oh wait, is it because you want to sentence them to death? So you’re the murderer? Plot twist!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:29 AM
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Bad boys can be fun hook up material but they aren’t relationship material. Kinda like how some of you think promiscuous girls are fun in the sack but you wouldn’t want a relationship with one. Same same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:37 PM
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Healthier than forcing oneself to be in a shitty relationship cuz you’re scared to “die alone”. Complacency is basically living death. Getting into a relationship because you fear being single reeks of desperation, and is not a good reason to get in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:11 PM
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How about you, OP, If you had the chance to date an obese woman with some masculine-like features, but is loving and a good person, or a woman with a history of “divorce rape”, serial cheating, and gold digging, which would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:06 PM
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Die alone Unless the “nice guy” is compatible with me and there’s chemistry between us. Otherwise, being single is just dandy. I would 100% rather be single than be in a relationship that doesn’t make my life better then it was single. If this man cannot make my life better (and I make his life better, it takes two), then I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:56 PM
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Not really long distance, we live 45 min apart and see each other every weekend. I know for some that’s not enough time, but for me it’s perfect because I like and need a lot of alone time because otherwise I get distracted and ungrounded and unable to focus on my business. If we lived together it would be different, because we would see each other at night after work and it wouldn’t take a lot of planning and time to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:12 PM
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Soooo I’m 39 and my man is 27, lol! Goes against all the rules, and he is also head over heels for me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:44 PM
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Not really long distance, we live 45 min apart and see each other every weekend. I know for some that’s not enough time, but for me it’s perfect because I like and need a lot of alone time because otherwise I get distracted and ungrounded and unable to focus on my business. If we lived together it would be different, because we would see each other at night after work and it wouldn’t take a lot of planning and time to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:42 PM
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I guess that’s one way of viewing it, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:40 AM
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Hmm…. Well I am a professional fine artist, which is a very competitive field, so I kind of have to be competitive in order to survive. I don’t necessarily enjoy that aspect of it, though. I do enjoy improving my skills and having the drive to get better, but I don’t really resonate with wanting to be the very best, better than the rest, number 1, you know? I don’t really like the idea of superiority and inferiority. I have an artist friend who is very competitive, and he was always like “I want…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:24 AM
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Well, I have asthma and so I was always picked on and picked last as a child and struggled in PE class, so I hated sports because it was a bad experience for me. I also have always thought watching sports was boring and I still don’t understand why people get so emotionally invested in it, or what the big deal is. I truly don’t understand. I am also just not a very competitive person. The physical activities I engage in are not very competitive, and if I ever was to do a competition, it would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:37 AM
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We met in a local singles group on Facebook. He’s a metalhead, and asked if there were any others in the group. I like metal. Honestly I didn’t even look at his pictures at first, I just wanted to meet someone in my area who shared my music tastes because I needed a concert buddy and someone to nerd out with. But turns out, he’s actually cute, but not someone I would normally be attracted to. We clicked when we met, spent 10 hours on the first date. He made it clear he is looking for a relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:44 PM
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Haha yeah, it’s more for the alternative crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:41 PM
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I dig mullet mohawks, lol And wow, I actually discovered there’s a word for my friend’s hairstyle, it’s called a “Skullet Drullet” 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:47 PM
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I personally prefer hair, but not everyone cares. My brother went bald in his 20s and his wife has a thing for bald guys. I have a friend who went bald but he grew his remaining hair out, dreaded it and shaved the sides, so basically he has a dread hawk mullet thing going on and it looks pretty awesome. Shaving your head completely also works
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:33 PM
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Men SHOULD shoot their shot. AND they should also back off if they’re rejected. If that could happen more often, people wouldn’t feel so threatened by being approached
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:19 PM
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What’s a good example of hitting it off? Well, with my current relationship, our first date lasted for 10 hours! We didn’t plan that, it’s just that we “hit it off”! Which means that the chemistry between us was so good that it made us want to hang out for as long as possible. We thoroughly enjoyed each other’s company, had great conversations, laughed a lot, and had a lot of fun. Just on the first encounter. We met in a singles group on Facebook, and we went on a date because we determined we s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:08 PM
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Because when you get older you have more life experience, and less energy, so your priorities change. You no longer put up with the bullshit you may have accepted when you were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:54 PM
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What about people who become more attractive in their 30s then they were in their 20s because they started exercising more and eating healthier and taking better care of themselves then they used to? That happens. Some people age better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:48 PM
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I think #2 is the loudest of the bunch here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:40 PM
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I’m kinky, but it’s not abusive. Abuse means non consensual, and breaking past one’s boundaries. It’s straight up assault. Consent is not abuse. I doubt this can sink into anyones heads who can’t understand this, though. Oh yeah, and being coerced into something you’re unsure about is not consent. Consent needs to be enthusiastic. Anyway. I like the power exchange dynamic. It’s fun in a way that jumping out of an airplane is fun. Adrenaline. Release. Like jumping into freezing cold water, it’s s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:38 PM
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In my experience and with those in my peer group, older people don’t want an inexperienced person, because they frankly suck in bed and don’t know what they’re doing…. And they definitely don’t know how to communicate what their wants and needs are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:36 PM
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Same, I’m a late bloomer, was a virgin until 21, and wasn’t valued at all for being the shy reserved virgin who was waiting for the right guy. In fact I lost my virginity because I felt like I had to so that a guy who I actually liked wouldn’t look down on me for still being a virgin. Virginity was absolutely not valued when I was younger, in my peer group. I actually had never heard of this whole low n count thing being valued until I came to this group. It wasn’t until my 30s that my love and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:45 PM
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I agree with this. But it’s baffling for me when people here say “most/all men” or “most/all women” before making a statement. Maybe instead, people should say “most men HERE”, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:48 PM
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Finally, a reasonable comment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:25 AM
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Well I mean, you’re not going to see couples being all lovey dovey together in Lowe’s, haha. They’re running errands, so why would they look happy? I don’t know where you live, but I see couples of all ages together in these kind of mundane stores, everywhere I go. I travel a lot and I see them whether I’m in the city, the suburbs, or the country, or in other countries…. I see them shopping together at the grocery store, and places like Target. What kind of area to do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:12 AM
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The person above you said that they see couples at the grocery store.. I don’t know what you’re going on about here, but you asked where people see couples, and that person responded with the most bare basic places that everyone goes to. Couples go out shopping for their basic necessities, just like everyone else. So unless you’re getting your groceries delivered, I’m not sure how you don’t notice this. Then you started talking about not wanting to go out to meet people, but this comment thread …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:28 AM
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Do you never leave your house?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:40 AM
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I’m 5’0” so as long as you’re taller then me it’s whatever I can’t date someone over 6’2” though, for logistic reasons, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:04 PM
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Very helpful and insightful response, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:55 PM
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What’s so funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:03 PM
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For me, ambition is more of an energetic thing. Someone who is passionate about something, and puts effort into it with a goal, a plan, and follow through to the end. It could be anything… a project, a career, a hobby…. I don’t look for some CEO or anything, just someone who is driven in some way, even in small ways. As opposed to someone who is just content with where they’re at and just likes to do the basic bare minimum, work, go home, watch tv…. Just doing the same boring thing all the time …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:12 AM
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I heard they say thicc thighs make great earmuffs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:51 PM
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As a woman, I have zero problems with your lifestyle. Good on you if that’s your thing! I know others like you. It shouldn’t be shamed. Do you consider yourself poly? I personally believe that people should be able to do whatever the fuck they want and live whatever lifestyle they like that works for them, as long as it’s all ethical and consensual. As long as nobody’s getting harmed, abused, or cheated on then what’s the big deal. People should stop shaming others, men and women. If it’s not yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:06 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:28 PM
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I don’t expect anyone to approve of my lifestyle, but at least I still believe in love and I’m not filled with all the hate, resentment and hopelessness I see here. Good luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:12 PM
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Yes, this toxicity is way way worse then any of my hedonism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:37 PM
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Yes. When I was a teenager I became very attracted to a friend because he was hilarious and made me laugh so hard I would cry, and also we shared a love for music and simile taste, but I wasn’t as attracted to him physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:18 PM
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I know, it’s fascinating and horrifying at the same time. My interest in philosophy, sociology and relationships keeps me engaged, but it is also not very good for my psyche
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:06 PM
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Ok so I just joined this sub a week ago, are you saying it’s not or wasn’t always like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:02 PM
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Losing your innocence isn’t losing your virginity. Losing your innocence is coming on this sub and interacting with the people here 😵‍💫 Someone please help me get the fuck out of here because I’m struggling to look away and disengage from all this psycho drama. I want my innocence back 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:51 PM
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Become comfortable with yourself. Learn to enjoy it. Because it’s when you’re radiant and stoked on your life and in your body and your person, that vitality and energy is what attracts people. So find hobbies that you become super into. Find things that make you happy, on your own. Make some friends so you can have some good company. Because also, if you enter a relationship with the idea that a woman will make you happy, that’s codependent and typically doesn’t turn out well. You can’t rely on…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:10 AM
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For me personality traits attractive in a man are ambition, adventurousness, open to trying new things, funny, patient, caring, supportive, doesn’t tend to yell when upset, dependable, confident, curious, and has a zest for life, like an inner stokedness. Oh and since I’m also attracted to women, I like women who are vibrant, passionate, fun, adventurous, femme, open, and supportive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:27 PM
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This is super true. I get way more attention now in my late 30s then I ever did in my teens and early 20s, because I didn’t take care of myself back then like I do now. I AM more attractive now then I was back then. However, I’m blessed with the genetics where I have always looked 10 years younger. When I was young, it sucked, but I was always told I would be grateful when I get older, and it’s true. I’ve dated men way younger then me and I’m in a relationship with a man in his mid 20s. I’m not …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:13 PM
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Women on that sub complain about some men who act shitty. This does not imply that all men are trash, it is just a place to vent about being treated badly, among other things. Yes, there may be some legitimate misandrists in there, just as there are legitimate misogynists in redpill. But just because some people act shitty doesn’t mean that all people of either gender are all complete trash. If that was the case, nobody would be getting into relationships, falling in love, going on dates, or hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:14 PM
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EXACTLY!!! This is what I keep trying to say, looks can only get you so far. I’ve certainly turned down hot guys before because they were acting like douchebags.. and I’ve turned down guys who wanted to take me out on an extravagant date, like I’m talking fly me to an exotic island on a first date type of deal….. I turned that down because it felt so transactional, I would have felt a lot of pressure to do whatever he wanted me to even if I get uncomfortable doing it because he basically was buy…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:49 AM
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Wouldn’t you say the same thing the other way around? Do you think preferences in what one finds attractive or not is dehumanizing? Would you date a woman with traits you find unattractive? I hear guys on here saying “oh but if we are short or 400lbs we don’t have a chance), like ok, would you date a 400lb woman? Would you date a woman who has a very masculine appearance and features? How about a woman who has body hair on their face and chest? See how this works? I think this is all a bit irrel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:52 PM
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But if your looks get you in the door, but your personality is shit, then getting in the door doesn’t really matter much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:02 PM
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What? That’s silly. Why would anyone not like to hear a success story? Everyone loves it when people overcome obstacles and change for the better. What we tend to not like, is when the motive becomes to use us rather then have a genuine connection. We don’t like finding out we are being lied to or manipulated. But if all you did was just make some improvements on yourself, there’s no reason to see that as negative by itself. If you’re using tactics that work at first, but then we come to find ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:42 PM
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You act like women don’t ever get friendzoned? I’ve been friendzoned multiple times and I’ve also been in relationships. I think it’s more of a matter that everyone is different and is attracted to different things. Some people will want to be just friends and some will want to go further. It just is about finding someone that matches, instead of forcing a relationship with someone who isn’t a good match. For me personally, when I’m dating, the first thing I’m looking for is energetic. I want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:03 PM
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If the rules work for you, and also you are still able to have deep connections with women and it’s 10x easier, then why are you blackpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:00 PM
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Men are humans. There, I said it. Men are wonderful, even. I love men. Some people are shitty, and some people are good. Most of us are both in some ways. A lot of women suck. A lot of men suck. There’s shadows in both polarities that we all have a reasonable right to have guards up against. But that doesn’t mean that we are all so 100% horrible that we shouldn’t try to have relationships that are meaningful and fulfilling where we both gain and add value to our lives instead of just using each …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:57 PM
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That’s probably the reason why they won’t have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:49 AM
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That’s exactly how I’m feeling about it. The drama IS addicting! But I’m over here thinking ummm this can’t be good for my psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:06 AM
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Yeah, exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:28 AM
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Are you sure certain men are called creeps because of their looks, or perhaps it’s actually because of their attitude? There’s plenty of successful guys who aren’t conventionally attractive. Usually being funny helps a lot… But most guys who are labeled a creep by women are called creeps because they don’t know how to handle rejection properly. Or they just stare and ogle instead of being chill and easy to talk to. Or something about them seems ungenuine and off energetically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:12 AM
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Interesting. Thank you for your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:42 AM
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I’m not sure if you are complimenting me or not, but screw it, I will take it as a compliment, haha. Thank you <sup>_</sup>^
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:40 AM
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I agree with you. The internet is a cesspool of toxicity and the algorithms are purposefully aligned to make us argue with each other. The apps are giving us a mentality that we can be discarded easily for the next best thing. Instant gratification and addiction. It’s nuts. I also agree that we have been treating each other like shit and are angry and resentful at each other for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:50 AM
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Please don’t look at FDS as anything based in common reality. It’s big yikes energy! How you feel when you see women acting like that is basically how we feel when we see men talking about Redpill black pill stuff. Both of those mentalities are gross, transactional, and very unhealthy way to view humans and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:03 AM
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Sure is, lol. I just joined this sub and I gotta get out of here before it consumes me, lol!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:48 PM
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I certainly don’t view men that way :/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:41 PM
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This makes me sad and I’m so sorry that’s your experience. I love connecting deeply with others and gravitate towards those types. Maybe it’s just a matter of time… I wonder if the other dating advice you get from men could be coupled with your ability to deeply connect. Maybe it’s a balance that works! Because the women who end up dating the bad boy who has zero compassion usually end up bitching about it and are unhappy even if they’re attracted over superficial things. They learn their lesson…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:20 PM
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Think about the things that we all as human have in common regardless of gender. We all have lives that involve achievements and hardships, we all grieve loss, we fail at things, we learn from things, we have feelings and insecurities, we want to be accepted as we are, we want to be validated, we tend to like beautiful things, or sentimental things, we all have struggles of some kind, we like the hero’s journey and inspiring stories of overcoming obstacles….
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:08 PM
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You think so? I meet a lot of both, since I happen to be in a city with a high amount of polyamory, but the monogamous men I meet are very strict about it. That’s what they value and they stick to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:04 PM
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That’s true! And it’s true for us as well. We all have guards up and for good reason. But the more we treat each other with respect, the more we will be able to connect. I can’t go around assuming every man out there is going to drag me through the mud or else I would never be able to connect with others. So it’s like… have discernment, but also not so much that you can’t even let anyone in at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:01 PM
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Yes, often people talk about the “sexual marketplace” and what rate and value you are in that marketplace. Rating people by a number, rating your value based on superficial things… I find it dehumanizing, like we are all being viewed as pieces of meat in a used car lot or something. This is why I’m always trying to remind people here to stay human, lol. Most women don’t want to be viewed like that, we would rather just find where we can connect with each other. I got some great advice from someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:29 PM
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But there’s tons of monogamous men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:11 PM
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Men here get so caught up in rules, meat market mentality, looks, and viewing it all like a game, that they forget that they are trying to connect with other fellow humans. They forget the humanness of women. We are humans and we want to connect with other humans on a human level. Oh yeah and the world is much more grey than it is black and white. Too many blanket statements and generalizations in here. There are far more exceptions to all these rules than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:00 PM
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I’m into gardening! If I were single, I would def go on a date with a fellow plant person. That’s a perfect market, TONS of women who are into gardening and houseplants…. Who find that men who also nerd out about plants very sexy! I’ve also heard a few friends say that they met their partners at the indoor climbing gym. It seems like more of a chance then at the gym as far what I’ve been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:10 PM
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Festivals are expensive, but it’s easier to meet people and make real and lasting connections at festivals because people there are very open, friendly, and excited to meet people. It’s worth it! I would recommend a psychedelic dance music camping festival in the forest over some kind of parking lot concert festival. At the ones in the forest, they are tailored for making connections with others, because there’s lot of activities there besides just the music. Whereas parking lot parties aren’t s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:24 PM
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I was gonna write a comment, but yours sums up what I was going to say much better
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:19 PM
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Please don’t get fake boobs. There’s enough men out there that love small tits. Just rock what you got, own it, confidence is sexy and exercise is always good for both your physical and your mental health. It makes you feel more confident and sexy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:46 AM
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If you’re referring to the fact that infinite economic growth is unsustainable, then perhaps it’s the system that needs to be looked at and addressed, rather than the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:15 AM
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I don’t get why people are concerned about a declining population. There’s way too many humans, the balance is off from the rest of nature, and if this is nature’s way of reducing our population, than at least it’s a nice way. Nature always balances itself. Otherwise, the whole ecological framework collapses. Anytime a species in nature becomes too high in population, something happens to that population to balance it out. It’s just the way it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:50 AM
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My parents are 8 years apart (my mother is the older one) and they’re happily married for 45 years. My best friend is in a 20 year age gap relationship, he is the older one. They’re doing great, but I want to see what’s going to happen regarding children with them. They may or may not split up due to this. Another friend is in a similar 20 year gap, the man is older, but they are married with kids and they both went through alcohol recovery together (before kids). Another friend dated a man 20 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:55 PM
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I’m not offended, this is a freakin debate sub, lol. Conversations like this is the entire purpose of this sub.,.. disagreements don’t mean that the other party is offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:02 PM
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I don’t think any of those preferences are comparable, because you’re essentially asking me if I would date the equivalent of a midget… this is nowhere near the same as what most people are talking about when it comes to women who don’t date short men. Come on…. I’m telling you that there are women out there who are short and so shorter men do have a chance and aren’t completely doomed. As for the conservative area comment…. I don’t see any reason to care about someone’s sexual past unless there…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:40 PM
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No, because I have yet to meet a grown man who is under 5 feet tall. Have you? At that point we are talking about anomalies….
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:16 PM
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It’s unlikely a man would be shorter then me. I’m 5’0”. So, yeah I would date a man taller then me, lol. But, I wouldn’t have any problem dating a 5’6” man, for example. Which is a height I often see used as an example of a man who is unsuccessful due to their height in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:13 PM
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Some women do. I don’t….. I’m a short girl, so I would date a short man, and I don’t date for money. The world isn’t so black and white. N count matters to some people and not to others. I would say that, where I live, n count doesn’t matter so much, because I live in a liberal city. I’m willing to guess that n count matters more in more conservative areas. So it really just depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:05 PM
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Thank you for your detailed and insightful response
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:51 PM
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Fr! I’ve never heard of this before, either. Most people DON’T care. I’ve never been asked this question when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:56 PM
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I mean, if you call getting flown around all over the world to perform in front of large crowds losing, then so be it, I guess! 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:43 PM
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To each their own, I guess, but I personally find it a bit messed up to hold someone’s past against them if they have changed into a different or better person along the way of their life journey and personal growth. Coming from a late bloomer who has radically transformed over my life, I can’t imagine not being able to see or accept that people change and should be looked at for who they are in the present.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:40 PM
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For me, no n count is too high. I’m slut positive!! Lol!! I honestly really don’t understand why this matters to people. What if you meet the person of your dreams who matches you in every way, including their outlooks on life in the current moment, but they happened to have a sexual past? You would really give up on that? That’s just crazy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:49 AM
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I’m the child free and quirky woman, and I’m not calling anyone a “manchild”. Immaturity and being unconventional are two different things. A manchild is someone who wants to date the equivalent of a mommy, rather than a partner…. Or someone who deals with conflict in a childish way. But choosing to live an unconventional lifestyle is not that. You can be mature and still say “fuck the rules” if you want. I date who I can relate to. That about sums it all up, really. So if you also have the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:02 PM
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Drop your expectations and just meet people where they’re at, be your natural self and find the humanness in others that you can relate to. Just keep it simple and have fun. Be present and in the moment, allowing things to unfold naturally. As far as working on yourself to improve, I do find the “become the person you would want to date” concept to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:51 PM
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FDS is way more repulsive then anything I’ve seen on TRP, and that’s saying a lot. Coming from a woman… I feel the same level of wretchedness and feeling like wanting to vomit reading stuff on FDS as I do reading misogynistic incel stuff. Their mentalities and attitudes are the reason they struggle…. Same with TRP/MGTOW… pretty obvious stuff but both parties want to blame anyone but themselves and their mentality. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:36 PM
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100%. I’m in an alt community and it’s wonderful. A lot of very open minded, open hearted, confident, mature, fun people. I read a lot of the comments here and can’t help but think that it must be a bunch of normies living very conventional lives. Get out of your bubble a little and see what else is out there! It’s a blast. Very welcoming. None of these awful dynamics that I read about in here and I can’t help but be grateful that my life and lifestyle doesn’t succumb to these “truths” being tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:00 PM
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I indeed water plants and make art. I don’t play video games tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:31 PM
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