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You can do it if you're paying them for their time-- if you catch my drift. Otherwise, probably shouldn't if you're wanting to keep their interest. In general, girls getting attention makes them feel on cloud 9-- they get a rush. They want it, they crave it, their entire social lives and social status are based on how much they can get. When you tell them how hot/beautiful they are, you've just given them what they immediately crave. It's a gamble. If this girls mindset is at the stage where she…
/r/seduction11/10/22 11:57 PM
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You will always find areas to improve your whole life, the goal is to always strive upward. Your quality of life will increase along with your value. Funny how it works
/r/seduction26/09/22 10:36 PM
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Don't be boring! A woman that's 36 going on a date(s) with a 21yo guy is doing so because she wants to feel the thrill of youth. So be yourself, but your FUN self. Don't straight up lie! But it really helps when you can be playful and embellish for the sake of obvious entertainment. Women LOOOOVE to be entertained, at any age. Story telling is becoming a lost art as the younger generation comes to adulthood, but is definitely a skill to keep a woman engaged. When you tell her a story, say it wit…
/r/seduction21/09/22 05:14 AM
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Well it's something I felt wasn't right, but only years later could I put it into words. Think about it for a second, we both agreed to a casual thing-- completely consenting on both sides. No deceptions, just momentary fun. Then one person manufactures a life-changing lie in order to emotionally manipulate the me into a life long relationship because of a desire to have the me all to themselves without any discussion about it. I live by the mantra "do unto others as you would have them do unto …
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:21 PM
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Typically 25" depth and 36" height. Pretty standard measurements Ok jokes aside, I felt the entrapment and manipulative control tactics coming on strong. The threats were real after I saw my HS friend and my own cousin get trapped the same way. I didn't want to go down that road. I pretty much approached both the same way. I told her we had fun, but I was in no position to be a father, I was not going to "man up" and marry her or if she wanted child support from me then I would refuse to put my …
/r/seduction01/09/22 05:58 PM
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If that's the case, you have the leverage in this arena. You have the opportunity to be up front and honest with them and probably 50% will be ok with it for a time. And you can consentually galavant as you please. Us guys have a scarcity mindset when it comes to dating. Idk why we just take what we can get and hold on as long as we can fue the most part. But when you understand your objective societal worth and contribution, all of a sudden you have the confidence to pick and choose and live by…
/r/seduction30/08/22 09:10 PM
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2 that I know of. In my earlier days where I was a bit more reckless. Taught me caution and vetting before checking the oil with the dipstick.
/r/seduction30/08/22 08:31 PM
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Quite a damn few my compadre. There was a friend of a friend, a girl i thought was cute. Talking with her at a party and she was giving me the impression that she's a loyal girl. Come to find out from a drunk loudmouth friend she's looking to hook up with me. I'd be #3 that weekend for her while she was getting back at her bf in another state. I was "oh damn", so in the "fun bucket" was where I allocated that liability. And fun she was. There was a girl that was super sweet to me and cuddly and …
/r/seduction30/08/22 08:29 PM
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It truly is my friend. I don't expect much from people anymore. I learned most are lazy, selfish, emotionally triggered, and easily influenced by group mentality. Once I accepted that, things moved more fluidly for me. I was very frustrated with my romantic failures. But I started opening my eyes to men's nature and women's nature and just adapted to what it is instead of what it should be, a lot of stress and grudges lifted off me. Started to get more romantic success too.
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:57 PM
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I have been out of the market for several years now but when I was in the dating market I learned a few things about girls and myself. Having the "prestige" of being a professional in society really only gains you an in-person audience--which for me is worth its weight in gold since I'm short but I'm gregarious and can make a girl laugh. I can't check that 6ft box so I would get passed over A TON simply based off that. But after I put that I was a design engineer working in aerospace and defense…
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:52 PM
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I’ll still deal with them, but I know where we stand, Ha! That's a very nice way of saying they're good for short term fun, not long term commitment.
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:28 PM
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Most people aren't hard working hustlers and don't really understand what "the grind" entails. And most girls just want to wait at the finish line for the winner, not spending the time with him while he runs the race.
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:16 PM
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I think it's because the nice guys are the sure bet. They are predictable and secure and safe; and most guys don't think they have options so they will always be there for "that girl". It is politically correct to say they love nice guys so they are not judged when (for the most part) they really like the "bad boys". Especially during hot girl summer. It also has to do with age and how many options the girl has. A girl in her teens / early 20's is highly sought after by almost all men (including…
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:55 PM
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They should be in every major city. In the popular downtown areas especially. There will be several unless you're in a small town area. In which case you should "hunt"in a better hunting ground. Go where the pickings are a- plenty! Also, be prepared to pay for the "upscale cocktail / wine glass prices" you're not there for a bargain, you're there for entertainment. If that's out of your price range, then perhaps this isn't the arena for you (yet) and that's ok. Keep working on developing yoursel…
/r/seduction14/07/22 11:19 PM
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Not sure about your country of origin, but a lounge here in the states is typically a more upscale "bar" with nice areas to sit, has nice ambience lighting, and encourages a dress code (no short or tank tops, no sandals...etc). If women dress up in a nice outfit, they are more inclined to play the part
/r/seduction14/07/22 10:56 PM
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At a bar or social setting? You need to stand out somehow. In my experience, most are not on the prowl for an awkward young boy to ravage him. They want to be wined & dined by an average looking guy with good conversational skills that makes them feel young and fun again.. OR, be a hot stud-muffin. Be well dressed and well put together. Older women don't like disheveled unkempt boys. Other places to find milfs are OLD, possibly at work (risky bet there with HR), Facebook, IG. I'm assuming you're…
/r/seduction14/07/22 07:39 PM
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I'm sure your friends are good people in your life, but they are an anchor to your ship when it comes to dating and romance. My suggestion is to find at least one other friend to be your "wingman" and support you in your efforts, and same goes for you. When you're current friends see you having success, they will want to join in. They simply seem too inexperienced and downright scared to talk to girls. I heard this somewhere, "you are the average of the top 5 people you spend time with". Meaning…
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:42 AM
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Obviously you just want to take him to take you to pound town for uncommitted fun. In that case, it's incumbent upon you to make the first naughty move to let him know it's ok without the fear of being publicly shamed, or worse...a workplace sexual harassment perpetrator. If you make the first bold move, then it's a green light. Tell him he's handsome, and gently put your hand on him in soft but intentonal way. If he immediately pulls back then he's not ready for what you are, if he allows it...…
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:27 AM
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I was being facetious about the specific number. I put the "/s" to try and denote sarcasm. But who knows, that number might have worked for some people!
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:27 AM
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The exact number of approaches is 42. Regardless of what you look like, where it's done at, or how good your verbal game is. /s It honestly takes a lot of practice, learning, self reflection, and developing a comfortability of talking to new people. Some guys learn faster than others. Some guys are genetically gifted so I they don't have to develop themselves as much as a regular dude.
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:15 AM
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I hate to say it, but majority of girls have so many options and no qualms about hopping from one saddle to the next in the C-carousel; either because they got enough attention they wanted from you, or if another prospect might seem better in their mind they hop into to another. Also, if those emotions aren't on a roller coaster, she'll get bored. Bring the feels, she'll go head over heels.
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:43 PM
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If you're in uniform (thank you for your service of your a good one), sure most guys will look at you if you're pretty but won't approach because you're on the job "looking for bad guys" and probably on high alert watching for dangers... not really a flirt-friendly setting. It's hard enough for most guys to work up the courage to talk to a pretty girl, even harder when it appears she's actively in a high pressure environment that would ruin his chances. It's based on probabilities Also, to be an…
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:34 PM
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Well that's a tough one there. You need consent before getting physical, but asking for consent removes the sex appeal and makes it seem obligatory. Or don't ask, just try to interpret the signals best you can and hope she doesn't claim you forced her, retroactively. All it takes is an accusation and it will take a court trial to prove your innocence.
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:19 AM
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Every guy needs a some level of game based off of how well rounded you are in the attractiveness to a woman. Women are attracted to several common things (looks, social status, wealth/resources, verbal congruence, emotional control) If you have amazing looks but completely lack social status and verbal congruence (in line with game) then the ladies are going to lose interest rather quickly.
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:07 PM
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Yeah I think in western culture, majority of men are affection-starved so it is pretty simple to "swoon" us.
/r/seduction01/02/22 08:04 PM
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Feminine demure, caresses and touch, a gentle smile. But also dressing in something just a tad revealing but not overtly sexual. That awakens something primal in me
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:48 PM
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Definitely! As long as the girl isn't trying to flirt with very obscure or vague intentions. Us guys won't understand what's going on. If the girl smiles and does a slight touch (very direct method) that makes us melt like butter. That's all it really takes because we are rarely, if ever, seduced
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:44 AM
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3 steps: 1. Look pretty, 2. Lower your standards, 3. Drink the shame away
/r/seduction27/10/20 10:25 PM
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Being attentive to likes/dislikes Outwardly showing that you are interested and enjoying yourself Passionate blowjob ...actually, just passion in general. That makes everything better
/r/seduction05/07/20 07:03 PM
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