hotsexgary Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	IAm the guy that wrote The Game and is somehow still talking about it, AMA +1 - the best PUA's I knew were the ones with the deepest issues - deadbeat parents, short-man's syndrome, fear of death, fear of life itself. I had a lot of fun, and learned a lot of things about myself and other people, but the end goal of being able to seduce and have wild sex with the hottest women in the world isn't fulfilling in itself - you need to learn to love the present, and when I learned to do that, the things that drove me to sarge disappeared. I miss the rush, the thrill of the ch…	/r/seduction	15/02/12 07:53 AM
2	What's one thing you've learned (A-ha moment) that pushed your learning curve way up? The problem is that they hung around for way too long and then turned into a shit version of U2 (if it's possible to be worse than them)	/r/seduction	08/08/10 05:44 AM
7	What's one thing you've learned (A-ha moment) that pushed your learning curve way up? Mine kinda resembled a rocky montage, except with me running up stairs listening to "take on me"	/r/seduction	08/08/10 12:57 AM
2	My favourite "trick" to get the kiss. If you've gamed her properly, then you don't need "tricks" - I like to bodyrock and play with space, so by the time I'm ready to kiss her I've already teased her by having my face close to hers and then pulling away - that is if she hasn't balked at the tension and grabbed my head to pull me in	/r/seduction	05/08/10 02:56 AM
2	Seduction for other than seducing? The whole mindset of being aware of subtle social cues and influencing people subconsciously is good for anything	/r/seduction	31/07/10 11:01 PM
1	Ask Seddit: Do NLP/Language Patterns work? Yeah dude, it looks silly because it's written down and you know what's happening, but it just mimics the content and delivery when you're really in state and naturally leading a girl into a trance.	/r/seduction	26/07/10 07:08 AM
-5	As a lifelong introvert, I have always struggled to have vibrant conversations with anyone, especially women. Can any one offer any advise? Don't talk. Just give her a really dirty look, glide across the room, then grab her around the waist and bring her into you.	/r/seduction	20/07/10 09:01 PM
0	Seddit, give me some texting advice. Just make sure you have a hardon when you text. Actually, you should have a hardon whenever you sarge too, but I digress.	/r/seduction	27/06/10 11:32 PM
2	I think I have mono. If you have mono then you're going to spend the next few weeks at least either in bed or in close proximity to it. Sarging is way further down the priority list than being able to stay awake for more than a few hours at a time.	/r/seduction	27/06/10 02:34 AM
5	How do you counter the girls that play hard to get? This. You do need to show your interest, but reward her when she gives you attention, and discourage her when she backs off (by ignoring her and immediately finding something/someone else to do)	/r/seduction	23/06/10 11:36 PM
1	How to deal with questions like "Do you love me?" She knows she's shit testing you, so don't take her seriously "Do you have a girlfriend?" - I tried it once, wasn't really my thing "What kinds of girls do you like?" - Ones who don't ask too many questions "Do you love me?" - I love your ass/tits/hairdo, does that count? Just brush off stuff like this, it's not important. Actions and intentions are what really count.	/r/seduction	23/06/10 12:11 AM
1	Got the date. Now what? Difficulty: she's a hottie Wear your best singlet. Seriously, ever seen a guy who looks like total shit walking around with a beautiful girl before? Be that guy	/r/seduction	21/06/10 10:13 PM
1	I love this seduction stuff, but I'm a girl, so I don't know how much of it I can really use. Are there any seduction/PUA resources for girls? It has it's own playettes section, good for ladies keen on this stuff. Just make sure you keep an open mind, and don't pay too much attention to the girls who get slagged by the boys, because they're too caught up in their emotions	/r/seduction	21/06/10 11:03 AM
1	Would like some advice on approaching a girl Hate to break it to you dude, but seduction isn't about getting the girl you've had a thing for for a while. It's about going out and approaching lots of girls, and eventually finding someone (or a few girls) who are far better suited to you.	/r/seduction	21/06/10 11:02 AM
1	First post here. Met a girl tonight. Had a bit in common... never made the phone number exchange move... For whatever reason exactly? There is always time to ask for a number, and doing so makes you much more attractive.	/r/seduction	27/05/10 12:39 PM
2	What is your best "I have a boyfriend" retort? It depends on you. You can say "oh, that's a pity" with deadpan tone, then leave it hanging. Bask in the awkwardness, and let her fix it or blow herself out.	/r/seduction	16/05/10 09:13 PM
1	Dealing with friends who are game killers (but you need) He's a musician - he'll take to game like a fish to water	/r/seduction	16/05/10 09:11 PM
1	Just Looking at a Girl, What can you tell about her? There are loads of subtleties that you will pick up, but most of the time it's way too easy to mix them up. As an exercise, it's good to make a mental note of a few characteristics you guess about a girl (bitchy/fun, playful/boring, athletic/couch potato) and then see how different they are from what you find out after you open her.	/r/seduction	14/05/10 05:00 AM
3	Newbies perspective: Embarrassing stories and how to be yourself. These stories are the things that will chain you to your fears. I've been diarying a lot recently, and as more of these stories come out on paper, and the fear and self-hatred that goes with them, they lose their grip on me, and I feel a little bit more free every time.	/r/seduction	02/05/10 06:52 AM
3	Recently learned enough to get the girls. Now, where to learn how to fuck them silly? David shade does some fantastic shit. You can sum it all up fairly simply though - take your time, savour every moment, and totally take control.	/r/seduction	27/04/10 09:52 PM
2	How to Pick Up a PUA Throw him a line. The idea of being a PUA is to be what everybody else isn't. If he can sleep with anyone, chances are he likes a challenge. Give him a bit of attention and string him along, and then take it away and see if he bites. If he's anything like you say he is, that'll get him pumping to try and win you over.	/r/seduction	27/04/10 08:29 PM
2	Recently learned enough to get the girls. Now, where to learn how to fuck them silly? mega pack of sex ebooks on tpb its got shit on PU in general too	/r/seduction	27/04/10 08:26 PM
1	My first cold approach. Good opening, but leaving it for too long is usually bad and makes you overthink things. That was the perfect chance for you to hang around and build some rapport, and then get their numbers once you'd properly hooked.	/r/seduction	27/04/10 08:25 PM
2	Has anyone intentionally flaked on plans with a girl to generate attraction? Why would you have sex with a woman later rather than sooner? There are much better ways to be attractive.	/r/seduction	26/04/10 04:41 AM
1	How do you force yourself to try again when things are going consistently wrong? Keep a diary. You'll be surprised how far you've actually come already, focus on taking little steps.	/r/seduction	25/04/10 05:49 AM
1	What is the most important thing you can do for yourself that will help you with women? Motivation. When there's a will there's a way, and if you aren't motivated to get off your ass and talk to women then you aren't going to get better. Look for the "iranian from hell" story if you want a good visualisation.	/r/seduction	24/04/10 05:57 AM
4	Looking for a BitSeduce invite. Material won't cure your AFC-itis, no more than reading a book about workout techniques will get you in shape.	/r/seduction	24/04/10 05:55 AM
2	Girl suggests plans over text, then backs out 20 minutes later. Seddit thoughts? You've talked over the phone twice and then have to text her to sort out a date? You're a guy. Phone conversations are short and sweet. Example: you "Hey, I'd like to see you this week, what days are you free?" her "uhhhh, blah blah rainbows flowers" you "I just thought you seemed like a nice/bad/dirty/sexy girl, and I want to see you again. I'm free [day], and it would be awesome if you'd come see the flowers/art gallery/skip stones in the river with me" her "ummm sure/ummmmmm [big awkward excu…	/r/seduction	22/04/10 10:50 PM
1	Trouble being talked over There's an art to it, but you need to give yourself permission to be a bit of a cunt and yell at people when they interrupt, and then go calmly back to your story. Having said that, I'm a man of few words normally, but if I get a little bit grumpy about anything, my mates know to duck for cover, and I put that higher than being able to command the conversation at any time	/r/seduction	22/04/10 10:42 PM
5	How to talk to shy, quiet girls? If she's still there after a few minutes then assume she likes you. Up the kino and keep going. Eventually she'll either leave, or you'll be fucking - you can only escalate so far after all	/r/seduction	22/04/10 05:42 AM
1	Hey seddit: Can you help person X with problem Y?! Some problems need some objective eyes though. This post suggests that this subreddit simply shouldn't exist.	/r/seduction	22/04/10 05:41 AM
5	My seduction community pet peeve = guys who don't improve their game at all but adopt the language of pickup to explain their failures Some of the best PUA's I've seen have been driven by deep-set insecurities. The true alpha will be sure in himself and have women to compliment (but not complete) his life, whereas a lot of fairly good PUA's channel their insecurity into motivation to game well. They end up with a lot of women, but are still empty.	/r/seduction	20/04/10 06:57 AM
1	What do you think about how the average person's reaction to PUA is negative? A lot of people see PUA and think you guys are pathetic. Here's an example from one of our own normal subreddits. It doesn't help that so many guys read PU, use it to help themselves, then are ashamed of what they do so they shit on the community when talking to people they want to impress.	/r/seduction	14/04/10 09:43 AM