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/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 11:43 PM
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Dealers charge 3 or 4 times more than market value. I guess you’d get ripped off since you don’t know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 08:57 PM
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Lol. Since you’re a car expert, a great analogy would be a customer in a big city looking to do an oil change and the dealer has to try to sell her the $200 oil change his boss makes him push. She has all the power cause she has access to 20 mechanics down the street who’d do her oil change for $30 bucks. So she has all the power in that dynamic. If she wants to abuse her power she’s make the dealer do the dance for her and go through his pitch or she might reject him instantly to save his time.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 08:45 PM
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It is truly mind blowing that after paragraphs and breaking it down to a science you still don’t remotely get it. I know, feelings. “Men dont pay attention to me bad, men pay attention to me good. So, child…”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 08:30 PM
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I’m not gonna hold your hand a break it down to you like you’re a child. I think anyone with common sense can see why my explanation destroyed your mechanic analogy. If you don’t get it that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 08:19 PM
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Every. Single. Time. the age gap topic comes up online, and it comes up nonstop, the word “child” is ALWAYS the first response by older women and feminists. Along with other frontal lobe nonsense, etc. Always. Without fail. So spare me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 08:17 PM
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Ended up reading your nonsense. Thanks for the laugh. What you don’t have the capacity to understand is just because it is so hard for you to get and keep older men, it’s not at all the same for women in their prime. Women at peak fertility can attract older men EFFORTLESSLY, and often can even easily keep them. An AVERAGE, 22 year old woman has as much power as the top 0.00001% 50 year old man. An average 22 year old woman is in complete control of an average 50 year old man when it comes to da…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 08:14 PM
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Sorry, stopped reading after “since you’re emotional about the word child” insult. You’re woman-splaining to me what being called a pedo is like for a man. Most men are aware false accusations of that sort would mean losing everything the man has worked for including his career. There’s no female equivalent so you wouldn’t understand and that’s okay. Deep down old women do know that it’s the only weapon they have against men who prefer fertile women, so that’s their go to insult. The “child” ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 08:08 PM
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No it’s called “what is the absolute worst thing I can call a man to shame him since I cant win the argument”. A child has nothing to do with adult women. A 20 year old woman has 10 times more power on the dating market than a 40 year old adult male. If there’s a power misbalance it’s other way than you think. Older men get finessed all the time by women in their prime. This “child” nonsense insult is always by older women who miss the attention they were once getting in their 20s, and by weak m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 07:20 PM
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All modern women are competing for the top 2-10% men, and end up sharing those men. The bottom 98%-90% men are aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 07:04 PM
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The “on reddit” part was not neccessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 07:01 PM
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I think you should seek help, whatever you’re rambling about is a sign that it’s time to make that appointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 06:59 PM
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I never understand why feminists instantly start talking about children when this topics comes up discussing two adults. It’s the weirdest thing ever. I guess they know they cant win the argument so they resort to trying to shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 06:58 PM
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Fertility not physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 06:55 PM
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relax i dont charge anybody people ask for help I help them. Most I’ve gotten was free coffee. I dont need your money bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:08 PM
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Dating advice for men works really well, most of my students are killing it but some men just don’t have it and there’s nothing I can do to help them. 9 out of 10 men can improve tenfold.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:56 AM
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Both words have the power to digitally erase a successful man from existence until he loses everything he’s worked for. Both words are equally powerful and can have severe consequences. Neither word should just be casually thrown around. If you have female privilege this wont make sense to you since toxic femininity is extremely unlikely to affect you directly, nobody is canceling you for false allegations darling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:21 AM
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You can say the N word IRL, doesn’t mean you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:54 PM
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I dont think you get it, I had a boss at work who ended up going to jail for grape, he did 10 years. Well he was a big ladies man and women always tried to get with him. I ended up visiting him in jail and we spoke on the phone once. He told me his bodycount was around 2-3 thousand, I forget the number but it was in the thousands. And it instantly made sense to me. I have no idea if he was guilty or not of the charges, but if you sleep with 3000 women, there’s gonna be at least 1 who is gonna ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:57 AM
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Personality is not a big factor when it comes to getting 1st dates. Imagine a 375lbs 46 year old lady, and a 24 year old 116lbs lady. Both are single. How much would their personalities matter in order to secure a date? Or imagine a homeless person who eats out of a dumpster, and a 6’4 stylish millionaire with abs who owns a chain of coffee shops and DJs at festivals and has a cool haircut. How much will their personalities matter in order to get a date? These are extreme examples to show that “…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:21 AM
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Women did. Those who get it get it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:28 AM
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It’s not your age, it’s the times. I was doing incredible at your age, I’m 10 years older now and it’s much much harder. The apps and social media and feminism have made it much harder for 99% of men, and much easier for the top 1% of men. You’re now competing with men around the world not just your city. She’s getting attention from everywhere.
/r/seduction02/06/26 10:37 PM
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Babes relax, the “podcast” bros come to me with their dating questions. And so do the girlies who go by daddies. Women date up, whatever she values. It might be looks, it might be money. If she’s hot she’s not dating down, you’re very confused. In rare cases when she dates down is cause the bro has such tight game that he made her feel like she’s dating up. If you’re talking about radical liberal women who play socialists then they date a man taller and cuter than her cause she has no respect fo…
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 06:56 AM
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I understand that you wish the sky was green but no, women tend to date up not down. Gorgeous rich women are not dating broke men. So the more money she earns the smaller the pool of good enough men left above her.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 06:16 AM
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The more money a man makes the more options he has, the more money a woman makes the less options she has. Because hypergamy. For some odd reason this basic principle angers a lot of women. Maybe it’s fair maybe it’s unfair. Maybe it’s unfair that the sky is blue, it just is what it is. Blame mother nature.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 10:13 PM
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I don’t think you understand the meaning of blue-pilled or red-pilled. Has nothing to do with opening doors. Plenty of blue-pilled men open doors and plenty of red-pilled men do. Not really sure what you’re trying to say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:27 AM
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I have game ( 80+ bodies ). When you meet a girl slow down speak slowly, dont lean in- lean back like you’re not sure if she’s a homeless person. And most importantly listen. Dont pretend you’re listening but actively listen carefully to what she’s saying. If you do all those you’re in the top 3% and you’ll notice her get really excited and she’s gonna start talking really fast. Let her talk. Don’t ask for the number yet, spend half hour with her but sometimes I’d spend 2 hours on the spot ( she…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/25 01:35 AM
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What country are you in? In US I had 10x more matches on tinder than hinge and bumble combined. Bumble was the worst, hinge was almost as bad, tinder I did well.
/r/seduction28/06/25 06:50 AM
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From my experience it’s extremely unlikely for a random dude to hit on your date if he thinks your date is going well. He smelled weakness and moved in. Slow down, care less, and make sure your body language is relaxed and laid back and not moving into her space, instead you want her talking and leaning into yours.
/r/seduction28/06/25 06:48 AM
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No single moms no New Age ideologies. Those are my 2 main dealbreakers. “Spiritual” women are all about their feelings, if you challenge her nonsense she’ll feel weird and she’ll think “I feel weird cause he made me feel weird, it’s the universe telling me he’s toxic”. These women are taught to immediately cutoff toxic people. The other side of that coin, if a hot guy dms her and invites to fly her out she’ll feel good. “The universe is telling me to follow my heart”… Stay away from these type o…
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/25 09:40 PM
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I know women inside out. About 20-30% of points you listed are false. A lion is not a “winner” and a cat is not a “loser”. They are different animals and both can be happy. Important to note plenty of men with 200+ bodies are miserable. Don’t pedestilize them. My bodycount is over 80. I live a good life, I don’t think I’m more or less happy than an average person. Everyone has their issues. Focus on your life, don’t worry about what others are doing. That said, countless times a lady got married…
/r/ExRedPill16/03/25 11:16 PM
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Former pro salsa teacher. Don’t ask her out. Salsa followers are obsessed with status, she won’t wanna date a student. She wants to date a famous salsa teacher or someone outside the scene. There are exceptions, but if you have to ask on reddit, you’re not the exception. Also heads up, about 50% of salsa teachers are sleeping with their dance partners. Whoever she’s teaching with she is most likely sleeping with, and you can’t compete with him, students are on the very bottom of the scene.
/r/seduction12/12/24 04:51 PM
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You’re a blue pilled nice guy with negative game. Women don’t want a follower for a boyfriend, they want a leader. Become popular in a subculture she idolizes and learn basic game. I know this stuff inside out, if you wanna be a guest on my podcast and change your life, let me know.
/r/seduction12/03/24 11:42 AM
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it’s in your head, life choices and genetics are a major factor but no human on Earth looks same at 27 as she did at 20. That’s in your head. 27 year old women still look super hot, it’s not about that, it’s about how many years left to make healthy babies and how many years left of hot sex. That’s what he’s calculating. No man wants to wake up to a 37 year old if he can wake up next to the 27 year old. Completely different experience. So he’d rather marry a 23 year old knowing in 4 years she’ll…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/24 01:50 PM
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I’ve dated women between 18-42 and one thing I’ve noticed that there’s no correlation at all. This girl I’m dating now is 21, the girl I was dating before her was 31. The 31 year old was a spoiled, lying child, wild party chick who pretended to be marriage material. It was hell dating her. Extremely immature. She’d text she’s home sick but I find out she flew to Mexico to eat lobster and do yoga with another guy… Then she’d text me “I feel better I miss you I wanna see you”… The 21 year old acts…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/24 01:44 PM
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Most likely your dad knows his marriage is over and thinks your mom will leave him so he doesn’t want to get too attached to you to protect his heart knowing you two will separate. Totally guessing of course.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 06:17 AM
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I knew a girl who looked up to me cause I had lots of status in that scene and she was a nobody. She was always either depressed or super depressed then sort of vanished. She was a total loner. One day she calls me out of the blue sounding all happy and excited. “Guess what I’ve been up to?”. Me: “I don’t know what”. “I’m a stripper”. “Shut up no you’re not”. “Yes I am come get coffee with me”. So I meet up with her cause why not and oh my God she’s a completely different person, unrecognizable …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/23 09:59 AM
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Status and emotional connection, duh. Go to an open mic, any musician there is not getting laid. It’s the celebrity part that makes them attractive and they look like models. And are rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:51 AM
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Lots of girl-boss female dating coaches on sm teach women to get the guy to give her something right away as a way of getting him invested. They are trained to ask for drinks by their cat-lady role models.
/r/seduction07/08/23 01:09 AM
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Either don’t bring it up at all, or make fun of her for 20 min bringing it up all night while you’re both laughing. Don’t have a serious convo about it. Take her somewhere fun, fk her good that night and go back to working on your mission.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/23 09:24 AM
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Correct response: “Nowhere” is my favorite restaurant! This Wed @8?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/23 07:41 AM
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Why would you go to meetups. That aside, stand your ground, believe in what you’re saying. Frame. You should be 10 times more relaxed than him and clearly and calmly explain to him that you’re right. If anything “I’m an aspiring standup comic and sometimes test my material in front of crowds. That was forever ago but I do recall getting a big laugh. I feel bad your friend has no sense of humor, happens. Anything else I can help you with? I find high school drama extremely boring, maybe talk to m…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/23 08:19 PM
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Based on your post you don’t understand what game is. If dating was chess having game would mean ability to make the correct move most of the time. Someone who has no game loses chess after the opening. Game has nothing to do with approaching random girls on the street like a dumbass. I agree doing that is silly and mostly a waste of time.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 10:45 AM
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She can tell you that but she cant a celeb that cause he’d dismiss her as a star fker. If you become a local celeb in a specific subculture or niche you’ll notice how some hot girls will just be in your life. They’re so smooth you wont notice how they ended up at your house.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/22 12:03 AM
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It’s okay to feel pain, even when you’re a man. It’s how you react to pain that matters and you’re reacting correctly ( being stoic, etc ). Sounds like you lack a strong mission outside of your personal life. You should be so busy taking over the world that you barely have any time thinking about any girls especially an ex. Just like you wouldn’t eat junk food don’t consume junk thoughts they do do damage. Anytime you find yourself thinking about her immediately catch yourself and say to yoursel…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/22 09:25 PM
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Low self-esteem. If a woman feels sex is all she has to offer she’s gonna withhold sex hoping you eventually lose your mind and propose. A healthy woman doesn’t feel the need to manipulate the man she likes cause she knows she’s worth much more than her vgina.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:15 AM
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The obvious reason that’s incorrect is because men do not find out who you are until after they’ve slept with you. Who you are before he hooked up with you and who you are after 3-4 times of sleeping together are completely different people, curtesy of mother nature and the way all men are hardwired.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:09 AM
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Wow. OMG. We men usually like going on 1st dates but it’s typically “hmm do I take her out and possibly waste 4 hours and 200 bucks or do I go to one of these 4 parties where I’ll likely meet 12 women and either get 3 phone numbers or at least get to makeout and have a fun convo”. Men who just netflix microwave and pizza at home don’t have enough game to score a 1st date. Getting a 1st date is incredibly hard even for top men so the fact that he got that far means he has options. A man with no o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/22 02:45 AM
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That’s interesting that women are taught that. I’ve never felt great after a 1st date ( I’ve been on a ton of them ). If I went by my post 1st date feeling I’d be forever single lol. It’s usually “hmm, I like this about her I hate this and that about her, she was cute but she said that and omg did she really wear that and I can’t believe she did that but she has a nice smile hmm I might text her in 3 days”. Also if I don’t sleep with her on a 1st date her chances of a 2nd date go waaayyy down bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/22 02:38 AM
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No use this sub and work hard and overcome rejection and keep believing in yourself until you get the first plate. My post meant to remind you that it'll get 100 times easier once you stop being thirsty.
/r/seduction18/08/18 10:02 PM
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From my experience mentality/confidence comes from experience and validation only. When girls throw themselves at you you have abundance mentality. If you can't get a date you can fake it but it's extremely difficult because women are so good at figuring out if you're faking it or legit got women after you.
/r/seduction18/08/18 10:00 PM
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The only way to get AM is by having at least 1 plate. You can't fake it. Girls can tell. You'll work hard to get that 1st then you can fake it.
/r/seduction18/08/18 07:09 PM
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Lol can't fake it it's impossible women can smell it it's what they do best.
/r/seduction18/08/18 07:05 PM
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She doesn't like you in a romantic way. She does think you're nice and polite, that's about it. In my opinion you blew it already, just forget her. If you really like her do this: a) don't think about her b) try to meet other girls c) next time you see her make her laugh but don't try too hard d)" what are you doing later, my roomie is playing a rock show come with. or let's grab a drink later. or let's catch a movie later, etc." Super chill casual vibe. If she says no or maybe or anything in be…
/r/seduction27/05/18 12:07 PM
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You didnt get my point. One can be a famous self-made billionaire but feel like he's not good enough and is depressed because he feels like a loser. The other guy could be playing video games and smoking grass all day and he might feel like a winner because his ideology doesnt require for him to do well financially ( for example he hates squares/capitalism ).
/r/seduction22/02/18 04:36 AM
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I've been the Chad in this situation a few times. Never asked the guy if she was his girlfriend though. You can usually spot these guys a mile away though. He's the one looking completely lost in the club and usually just follows her everywhere she goes. To avoid being that guy always lead. Also he should have made out with her at his place for a bit before hitting the club and should have gotten her talking about herself at the club before more making out and dancing. Lastly if being at the clu…
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