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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with? arranged marriage	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 09:38 PM
1	Should men still cold approach women? true that. if a hot woman comes up to you, something is up	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:51 PM
1	Should men still cold approach women? if youre a pua then chances are, your time isnt valuable. think about it, these guys spend like what 10 hrs a week or more just running up on random women. if i was a good kung fu teacher, students will come to me. if im a bad kung fu teacher, i walk up to people in walmart parking lots, asking them if they want to take my class	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:49 PM
1	Should men still cold approach women? the more attractive the woman is, the more you have to go through traditional chanels to get to her (ie mutual friends, coworkers, classmates). it's rare that you can just run up on attractive women on the street and expect a date out of that. it could happen but the % is low, so low that it's not worth it for most guys. just like if im selling make up. if i try to sell make up to men, the chances of any men buying it will be low, whereas it will be higher if i sell to women	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:46 PM
1	Should men still cold approach women? by your definition, then any salesman should also be able to run up on you and try to get you to buy their products because it's considered public space. and gay guys should be able to slide on you too	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:41 PM
1	Should men still cold approach women? thats why you only ask out women you know, not ones you dont. just as much as women fear for their safety, men should also. not only that, you dont know who these women are. just as much as men can be evil, women can too. plenty of female criminals out there, especially the more attractive ones. many attractive women have ill intentions, which is why its stupid to ask out a woman just because she looks good. i know its our instinct to do that, but if someone puts a nice looking cup cake in front…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:37 PM
1	Should men still cold approach women? pick up artists are taught that they can get any girl they want, so they think that anything's possible. well i guess let me run up to taylor swift and ask her out for some coffee	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:30 PM
1	Should men still cold approach women? You say "still" as if it was somehow acceptable to do in the past. In past generations, it was even less acceptable to do cold approach. Why not approach in a gym? Gym is probably easier than parks. At least in the gym, you are seeing the same people all the time, and they might give you a chance. Someone in a park who has never seen you before is much less likely to want to listen to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 08:32 PM
1	Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with? actually, capitalism is relatively accomodating to criminals and petty criminals. this is why you whenever theres a revolution somewhere, the criminals always flee towards capitalist countries. case, and point is china, and taiwan. artists, and musicians also benefit from capitalism, because in socialism, these types are seen as people who dont contribute anything, and thats pretty much what they are, which is why they wouldnt be able to do that for a job in socialism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 11:09 PM
1	Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with? they might have bbq;s and thats when you slide on someone at the bbq	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 11:04 PM
1	Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with? wierdest thing, i even hit it off with some random nambian afrikaans chic that sat next to me on a plane. i literally had nothing in common with her, but i guess it was just chemistry. if it was any other circumstance (ie in the park, street, bar) , it wouldnt have worked. and honestly, since then ive taken a plane 100 more times and that never again hapend to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 10:57 PM
1	Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with? actually i know a mentally ill guy, we;ll call him thiago. and he didnt like talking to strangers for the most part, but he was also lonley, and isolated because of his nature. he acted wierd, and had no friends from school, or work. he started looking for short cuts, and eventually forced himself to talk to strangers. he did that for a while. what hapend was, the rejection made him even more self conscious and fragile than he already was. these days, he just keeps to himself. but he makes excus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 10:39 PM
1	Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with? thats a bad idea. if your nature is not to talk to strangers then you shouldnt have to force that. the reality of it is, most pua are naturally introverted and thats why they turned to pick up (out of desperation) in the first place. they force themselves to be extraverted and at the end of the day don't get results anyway	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 10:26 PM
1	Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with? i knew a guy, we;ll call him william, who would approach any attractive women, regardless of age, and often times, he would approach teenagers. he would always do his approaches in the same park, and he quickly gained a reputation for being a chomo even though he may or may not have been. it didnt help either that he was an older looking guy. maybe if he was younger looking they wouldnt have slapped that label on him. because he did all of his approaches in the same park, people spread those kin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 10:21 PM
1	Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with? at the same time, dont listen to pua. men become pua because they couldnt get girls in the first place. thats why they turned towards pick up. men who are good with women don't have to do pick up and can meet women through social circles, work, gym, church, and school	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 10:08 PM
1	Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with? you bring up an intresting point. i used to go to a park where a lot of pick up artists operated. this park had alot of attractive women passing through, which is why the pua were there. needless to say, because of how many pua operated there, women were really defensive when they were there. but alot of pua never put 2 and 2 together that theyd be better off approaching on a street than at that park. once a woman gets approached by a creep, she is going to lash out on the next pua that comes ne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 10:04 PM
1	Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with? the vast majority of women would rather go back to average guys they knew in high school rather than random flirty men in a park. thats facts. people in general desire familiarity, and you cant blame them. that;s the safe way. you go home with random pua, you dont know what youre getting into. at least with the avg guy from hs, you know. honestly, a woman would probably be more likely to hook up with a quiet food delivery guy she has seen a few times rather than a talkative pua. even in nyc, i s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 09:50 PM
1	Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with? glad you brought up the job thing. normal people pass by a store that says, "we're hiring", fill out an application and have a chance at getting a job. pick up artists walk into stores with nice decorations, whether they have a help wanted sign or not, and says "can i work here"? you can see why the normal guy who goes into store with a hiring sign up is going to have a much higher chance of getting hired than the pua who goes into random stores who have not put up hiring signs. heck now, youre …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 09:38 PM