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| 1 | Old school tip: The Brad Pitt RuleDepending on my interest in her I am willing to adjust my rules. If shes smoking hot shes probably going to have to tell me shes not interested before I quit trying. If shes about a 6 then she better get onboard pretty quick, lots of fish in the ole 6 pond. | /r/seduction | 19/04/23 03:52 PM |
| 15 | Dating is just sales.It's better to find customers that want your product because your product is unique Niche customers are hard to find. | /r/seduction | 17/04/23 08:53 PM |
| 70 | Dating is just sales.My customers want attractive fit guys with hair and lots of money......its a tough sell for me. | /r/seduction | 17/04/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Truth bomb - sleeping with women won't better your life by itselfSometimes it does make your life better but sometimes it makes it worse.....only one real way to find out though. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 07:01 PM |
| 38 | Do you find that you only attract one type of woman?Yea, the kind of girls attracted to losers. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so confusing?I am not you, but I have never had a woman tell me she needs space and have it work out in my favor. It happens in the movies, but its never happened to me. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 03:19 PM |
| 6 | Why are women so confusing?All you can do is respect her wishes. I would advise not saying anything stupid to her but start looking elsewhere while you are waiting for her to come around, which she may never do. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 03:16 PM |
| 3 | What is it like to date or have a gf?I mean, Im sure you are going to think its the greatest thing since sliced bread and all but women can be moody, needy, undependable, demanding and expensive. If you dont have one you feel like you need one, if you have one you wonder why you do. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 04:07 PM |
| 0 | Why do girls say one thing but seem to want something else?I remember growing up and all I wanted was a bicycle and my parents never would get me one, I remember wanting one soooooooo bad. Then I rode a friends motorcycle and hey, fuck that bicycle... | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?After learning the "system" I have slept with 100's of women myself.... Actually that's not true but nothing really prevents me from lying and nothing is preventing these other guys from lying either. And while being coached up might actually help and improve your chances, if you are going after people more attractive than you are its not going to work more often that it is.....thats why its all a numbers game. Us ugly people have to shoot our shot more often and we bag the game less often than … | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:07 PM |
| 3 | How to handle girl flaking on date?Yea, I would send her a follow up text. If she doesn't respond then just drop it. She might end up contacting you again at a later date, and thats cool and all but dont stay up till 4am texting her. It looks like she is using you for a crutch to get over lonely time, but it also makes you look lonely which is a turn off. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:55 PM |
| 12 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?She didnt ask you not to talk about going on a date, but dont you think she wanted to keep it on the DL? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 01:13 PM |
| 27 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?If you keep things on the DL then you should have kept this on the DL. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls do this?Yea, I am a guy and have given out a fake number to avoid having to tell them no to their face, sorry, but not really sorry. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Had a thing with a Girl from work, how to get her again?Well if you are still interested then I would keep talking to her, being friendly and nice and give her a few days then maybe ask her out on a date if she seems like she might be receptive. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 01:53 PM |
| 4 | Had a thing with a Girl from work, how to get her again?Well I have a feeling she would be more receptive to people in the office knowing you guys are dating instead of just sleeping together. Maybe it would keep her from feeling like a slut or whatever if you guys were dating more traditionally than just hooking up? | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Had a thing with a Girl from work, how to get her again?I mean are you just interested in hooking up or are you interested in dating her? | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 01:08 PM |
| 3 | How do I initiate something with my boyfriend if I get nervous every time I try to?looking goofy or messing up Hey, its supposed to be fun. If you both end up laughing its way more fun than not trying at all. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 07:43 PM |
| 4 | How to handle this weird rejectionShe didn’t actually like me either she told her friends she only wanted sex. I just said that? First off you are not going to outguess a woman, especially a young woman. She thought she wanted to fuck you without knowing you, then she talks to you for a little while and all the sudden you might not be the exact person she imagined you would be. There is like a million things in the equation you cant guess. Maybe she didn't like the way you kiss, maybe you were too nice, maybe you were not nice e… | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:24 PM |
| 21 | What’s up with girls sending hella Mixed symbols? She seems so excited to talk and eager, then texts me one word replies like she’s annoyed 10 mins later?The reason you cant tell what a girls intentions are is because even she doesnt know what her intentions are. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 05:44 PM |
| 3 | girl trying to suggest fancy dinner for first date of tinder?How into this girl do you think you are? Like is she wife material? If so why not take the chance? If shes not then why would you take the chance? Get a pizza and beer somewhere and get to know each other and then, if you hit it off in that way, fancy dates might be on the table. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a 5'7" male is brutalDude, Im 6ft and it isnt any better for me. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:17 PM |
| 2 | How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date?He is Paul Finch... | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 03:09 PM |
| 15 | How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date?The good candy is in the van.....also works. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: I would rather have honest closure than a vague easy let downIt seems like every time I have tried to explain why its not "working" for me, it just turns into a discussion about giving them more time, they will try harder, that cant be the real reason, your such a fucking asshole.....Sometimes I just cant. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:59 PM |
| 15 | If someone ghosts you, it’s not because they are intimidated by you, or they don’t have time for a personal life. They’re simply not interested. Don’t let your ego get in the way of seeing reality for what it isI prefer someone telling me whats up, but all in all being ghosted isnt really that bad. After 2 or 3 texts and them not texting back you know they aren't into you and you should be able to move on. Complaining excessively about ghosting is really just saying that you would have preferred to be given an opportunity to say your peace at the end. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls come back to my place but leave instantly?But how are you kissing? Are you kind of going after them or is it very mutual? The goal is to make them WANT to come after you. Show some interest, then back off a little, pour some wine, have some conversation, get close then find a reason to move away, get close, move away, laugh, enjoy being around her, dont be too goal oriented. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Going out with a girl I slept with today. should I try and hook up?I get that, you gotta just feel out the situation. She will probably give you some hints is she might be receptive and if she is definitely not she will probably give you some hints there as well. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Going out with a girl I slept with today. should I try and hook up?Nobody does, but you do you. If you feel it make the move, if not just have fun on the date and maybe give it a shot on the next date if there is one. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 07:30 PM |
| 9 | Negative experience with a FWBOr she could have told me. Shes probably not going to tell you until she is sure about her move. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 01:39 PM |
| 13 | Negative experience with a FWBit's possible she's catching some feelings Its also possible she's catching some feelings for someone else... | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Tips on “making the move”?where she might react in a way like “what are you doing??” Yea, see, when you do decide to act, you need to act with confidence. If you are timid its not sending the right message. Get close to her, look her in the eyes, glance at her lips, look back in her eyes and lean in for the kiss. If she acts weird and wants to know what you are doing just tell her you are into her and thought she felt the same and then DONT FREAK OUT, just play it cool go back to having fun and doing what you were doing,… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Has Anyone Else Had their Dating/Sex Life Devastated by Mental Illness? How Did You Turn It Around?I dumped her. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 07:44 PM |
| 13 | Female friend sent me [M 22] a nude out of the blueTo late. But I would wait till we were a drink or two into next weeks drinks and mention how "nice" that pic was and see what her reaction is, go from there. There is an off chance it was an accident that you got the pic, you should be able to tell by her reaction to your comment. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | visiting her town: how do you smoothly ask a girl you already met with if she has a boyfriend right now?You think this is more pressure than telling her you want to see her but not as a friend? | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 06:46 PM |
| 2 | visiting her town: how do you smoothly ask a girl you already met with if she has a boyfriend right now?Just say "Hey, are you seeing anyone right now?" | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Men’s advice. Don’t get hung up on not being hung. A big d*ck isn’t required to be good in bedMine is only 4 inches but most women arent use to one that wide... | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 02:22 PM |
| 30 | Men’s advice. Don’t get hung up on not being hung. A big d*ck isn’t required to be good in bedHe calls her a whore and a slut and she loves it, you ask her if dinner is ready and she loses her shit. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 02:20 PM |
| 0 | First date cancelled twice - how to proceed?Id message her again, say hi, ask whats been going on. If she doesnt reply move on. If she does just keep in mind that it is a busy world and maybe she felt like you werent all that interested in her. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | What is it with girls when they see other women are interested in you, they become super interested?If I see a girl has been sleeping around, I def don't want her to be part of my life. Dude, get some of that low hanging fruit.... | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | The real reason why dating in America is more difficult than other countriesIs dating in America really more difficult than in other countries?? | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Would smiling at women be effective?How attractive are you? | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 05:33 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Lots of smiling and a little cleavage go a LONG way. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 04:23 PM |
| 4 | Do anyone else see being a male cockblocking friend a dick move?One could argue that its an anti-dick move. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 01:47 PM |
| 7 | Should I Schedule 2 Dates on the Same Day In Case One Flakes?Dont double book. How you want to handle that is up to you but the last thing you want to happen is to be on the hook for two dates at the same time. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 03:37 PM |
| 7 | Ghosted after sleeping at her placeI would have called her about mid week. I would have reiterated that I had a good time on our last date and that I am looking forward to our next. A phone call is more personal and lets you gauge their interest and vice versa better than just texts. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 06:32 PM |
| 0 | Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate?You mean other than breaking out the duct tape and chloroform? | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?No one said you had to marry em. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?Source? Your mom | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 01:31 PM |
| 32 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?Past your prime bud | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 11:28 PM |
| 386 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?I would say early 30's. Still young enough to attract college age women, you should have a little money to take them out, a job and some potential security to offer them. You also are in the age range were you can attract first time divorcees especially ones with young kids. And you are still young enough to attract older women trying to relive their youth if only for a few weeks or months. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 09:39 PM |
| 25 | What would you do if you’re at a bar and a girl approaches you and asks if she can buy you a drink?I would be more than happy to accept the drink, I would be a little suspicious when she asked for my number, I would be scared if she offered to drive me home.....but I aint got nothing else to do so we will see where this thing goes. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 02:57 PM |
| 44 | Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals???Like a twitchy eye? | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 03:25 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]When she texts you, you text her back. Be friendly, funny, engaging just like you would if she was still in town. Dont text her first, dont text her multiple times between replies. If she goes 3 days between texts dont ask questions, act happy to hear from her and engage her in conversation. Thats about it. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:24 PM |
| 0 | I get the girls I don't want / I don't get the girls I wantI dont get either..... | /r/seduction | 24/06/21 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Places to meet women as a college dropout?My hobbies are fishing, hunting and fucking.....and so far non of them seem to be hobbies with women involved. | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 08:54 PM |
| 1 | An Introduction to Salt DatingAre the mods allowing this advice? Just down vote....don't get those goobs involved. | /r/seduction | 02/03/21 09:35 PM |
| 3 | An Introduction to Salt Datingr/thathappened | /r/seduction | 02/03/21 08:50 PM |
| 8 | Stop Putting Sex On A PetastalDont tell me what to do! | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 08:11 PM |
| 7 | How can a Woman be more attractive?Smile, be friendly, be nice. | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it OK to flirt with friends of a girl who friend zoned me?Yes, its perfectly ok. | /r/seduction | 19/10/20 09:26 PM |
| 2 | This guy here was 70 years old . His name is Aristotle Onassis and was a billionaire shipping tycoon. Conclusions are yours . As far as what women want and when I say seduction tips and pick up lines I just lmao!NOW YOU TELL ME! | /r/seduction | 14/10/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Need a perfume that men find attractiveI doubt you are going to get a consensus for what perfume most guys like, most of us don't even know the names of the perfumes we like. But there is no substitute for smelling clean with just a hint of perfume. | /r/seduction | 26/08/20 05:49 PM |
| 4 | Cold approach has changed my life in every way possibleand I’m still in the top 5% in terms of salary there. Enough said. | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 05:54 PM |
| -6 | Leonardo DiCaprio Dating BoundariesI bet hes a real douche... | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Got number after failed kiss attempt, not sure what to doI agree, move on, shes already admitted her love life is complicated and you dont need that shit. No need in even starting down that road. If you were to bump into her again and she asks why you never called just tell her you are not into "just friends" and that you prefer your love life to be less complicated, if she backtracks on those two points you might consider giving her another chance. | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 01:06 PM |
| 5 | You are better looking than you thinkYou are better looking than you think Are you sure about that? | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 11:20 PM |
| 6 | How to have an AWESOME night outI dont have that much to say to anyone, Im just here hoping to get laid by someone else who doesn't have that much to say, then afterward we wont have to discuss it. | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 01:40 PM |
| 2 | 5 exercises that will make you attractive to the women you wantI read the title as "5 excuses" and thought FINALLY someone has something that will help me out! | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | What a good job to fake having?Then tell them you are a lawyer. | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Virgins are demonised, yet apparently most men can't get laid?Demonized?? Really? I might could go with ridiculed but mocked would be the word I would have used. | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 07:48 PM |
| 4 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.Do you have class with any girls you might be interested in? If so, just introduce yourself. The earlier in the semester you do it the easier it is, but just saying Hi, Im lilajstyles, is all you need to do. After that say hi to them and call them by name every day. Hi, Mary. Hi Mary, did you get your homework done? Hi, Mary, got any big plans for the weekend? Hi, Mary, how do you think you did on yesterdays test? Judging by their reaction you can then move on to asking them if they want to stud… | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with petty Women?I try and out petty them. Treat it like its a petty competition till you rum them off and declare yourself the winner! | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 07:27 PM |
| 7 | Ahh! Guys i did it im dating the coolest sexiest chick I've met!!If your dating a super hot chick thats super cool then you should be careful | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 07:34 PM |
| 4 | How do I casually flirt with my girlfriends mom?Start off with small compliments and don't lay them on thick, you don't want to make it too obvious and never do it in front of anyone. Notice her perfume and say something like, wow, you smell great. Compliment a new hair do by saying it looks nice, or her shoes, a dress. Don't do it too often, don't lay it on too thick and watch for her reaction. If you compliment her a couple of times and she doesnt seem to enjoy it then stop immediately. If she does enjoy the compliments then you might proce… | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 08:59 PM |
| 0 | Should women still play ‘hard to get’ when you finally do make it to the bedroom?Are you literally giving a guy mixed signals in bed? Yes and it happens all the time when you are dating and with all age groups. | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Should I keep trying to win my ex over a misunderstanding?Hey Ross, cut your losses, Rachel is mental. | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 06:55 PM |
| 2 | How long can you hold a conversation with someone you barely know?We are done now....nice talk. | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 06:40 PM |
| 0 | How often should you have sex according to your age (chart)Thanks kind stranger! | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Tell the truth, I don’t even deserve to get anyEven though none of those things have anything to do with the real me I would disagree. Those things are the real you. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Do men actually peak at age 31?I have never peaked......just a flatline from the time I can remember till now. | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 10:36 PM |
| 11 | If your goal is to hook up with hot girls and have a great sex life, your hobbies must take that into account.Going to strip clubs as a hobby seems to fit... | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 06:17 PM |
| 21 | If your goal is to hook up with hot girls and have a great sex life, your hobbies must take that into account.I have been told by a dance instructor that you should take up salsa dancing....or maybe any kind of dancing.....take classes until you are good enough to teach classes and then get ready to have your dick bronzed. Im not gonna put out that much effort, but he says it works. | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 06:16 PM |
| 42 | If your goal is to hook up with hot girls and have a great sex life, your hobbies must take that into account.So sitting at home alone drinking whisky and listening to Pink Floyd is never gonna get me laid? | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 06:14 PM |
| 4 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.No one is saying being hot works every single time on every single person, but if you are a good looking person and shy or socially awkward or not good at making the first move, you will still get laid because some women will make the first move and it will just be up to you not to fuck it up. | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 03:49 PM |
| 129 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.If you are attractive enough, other people will do what it takes to make things happen. You would have to be Rain Man special for it not to happen, provided you are really good looking. | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 01:42 PM |
| 0 | How do you get girls to hit you up?Get rich. | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 06:47 PM |
| 17 | Best guide on how to eat pussy...PERIODFirst a man has to find the clit. Ok....so where to start in my search? Tinder, OKcupid, church.....I will finish reading when I have completed step one. Should be back in a few months. | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 02:49 PM |
| 1 | When you match on Tinder with someone less than 1Km from you...Maybe try 7PM on a Friday? | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 05:50 PM |
| 15 | Trouble converting a hangout to something moreYou cant just sit on the futon all evening and don't just watch Netflix all night. Get up, pop some popcorn or grab something to drink, change locations in the house/apartment a few times, make it so you have to kind of bump into each other a little. Provide a little entertainment. Have a stupid magic trick or a card trick you can impress her with. Get one or two of those stupid bent nail puzzles and put them on the coffee table or nearby so she will grab them and start fiddling with them. Just … | /r/seduction | 23/07/18 01:55 PM |
| 0 | Do men like being asked out or pursued by women?well look how it worked out for them before. You do have some control over that. | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 09:04 PM |
| 0 | Do men like being asked out or pursued by women?You don't want to date women that fuck? Ok then... | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Do men like being asked out or pursued by women?Also many feel in our culture that of a person is a single parent that they made some poor life choices I mean in this instance its a woman hitting on you, the fact that she makes poor life choices is already evident, so make the best of it and have a little fun. She already has a kid so you know she does the grown up. Bring on the single moms, the more the merrier as far as I am concerned. | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 08:48 PM |
| 9 | Do men like being asked out or pursued by women?is the single mom really part of the equation? | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 05:35 PM |
| 3 | 5 Keys To Be Amazing In Bed - More Guys Need To Know ThisIm not even going to bother watching because I am still working on perfecting the first two keys to successful dating 1. be attractive 2. dont be unattractive. Once I get that perfected I might move on to a 5 key video about how to be good in bed. | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Virgin, no erection at first try, should I go meds?I would guess, from a non-medical background, that was your problem and that you don't need meds. What you need to do is ease into sex at a slightly slower pace. Make out, feel her up, let her feel you up, relax, have fun with it. Just let sex happen when you are both ready. It may take several dates, but don't try too hard to force it. Small confession here, I occasionally have "trouble" with really pretty women because I get nervous. If shes just average I rarely have that problem because I do… | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Virgin, no erection at first try, should I go meds?were you nervous? | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 07:49 PM |
| 3 | (FR) Shortest “date” of my lifeYou will be alright. At least now you know and you can move on without thinking "what if". For me a clean break is always better because it allows you to move on easier. | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 01:27 PM |
| 0 | Is it too early in friendship/relationship to ask girl to go on a vacation with me?Whats your relationship goal? Are you wanting a long term relationship or are you just looking for some fun and see where things go? Personally I am not long term goal oriented and I would just casually mention that I am going to FL in two weeks and ask her if she wanted to go. If she says no, its no big deal, if she says yes it could be a fun trip. If she goes and you find out y'all don't click then better sooner than later if you ask me. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 05:30 PM |
| 7 | 2 Cold Approaches Back to BackI now have 4 propositions that I could get out on a date by the end of the school year. End of the school year? Why not end of the week? | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 01:13 PM |
| 61 | Woman who hit police officer during Saturday’s Miami-Virginia Tech football game now facing felony charge.Unless she has sex with some dude, then hes responsible for raping her. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/11/17 10:28 PM |
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