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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:06 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP01/02/18 11:51 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/MGTOW27/12/18 12:29 AM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP06/02/18 07:21 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/MGTOW26/11/17 10:57 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP10/07/19 11:40 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP03/12/18 01:41 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP03/08/19 08:17 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/MGTOW22/12/18 03:17 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:51 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/MGTOW03/08/19 10:57 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:14 AM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/MGTOW11/12/18 10:01 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP13/07/19 07:05 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/MGTOW16/03/18 11:06 AM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP05/12/17 05:22 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP23/05/19 10:21 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP03/09/19 11:43 AM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP11/07/19 01:37 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP03/08/19 08:46 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP07/07/18 08:54 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:39 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:32 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP20/12/17 10:49 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP07/07/19 01:47 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP19/08/19 08:54 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/MGTOW29/03/19 10:28 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:59 AM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:12 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:39 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:31 AM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/MGTOW12/07/19 09:37 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/MGTOW22/02/19 08:59 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP08/09/18 01:38 AM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP17/07/19 07:20 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP15/10/18 05:20 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/seduction06/09/19 10:07 PM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/MGTOW11/10/19 12:18 AM
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howdoistopobsessing/r/askTRP05/01/18 08:35 PM
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In the average LTR, the woman is not primarily with the man because of attraction. Then what's she with him for? I doubt that men in most non-married LTRs pay much for their girlfriends; maybe the occasional treat like a restaurant meal or a movie, and even then the girl "should" return the favor and whatnot. Even if she doesn't, he's spending at most what, $50 a month? What am I missing, exactly?
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:17 PM
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That's definitely what I have to do and what I will do; I just have to figure out when to start (numerical OCD; it's in other posts).
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 02:47 AM
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I know that they (probably) don't care but for some reason it feels "less unnatural". It's scarce because of both, but more because of current lifestyle and mental state. I (my mom) has a dog but as cold/psychopathic as it sounds, I don't care about him at all. I basically never even greet him or anything. I just find him to be annoying but he's emotionally useful to my mom, of course.
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 02:46 AM
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Then how do you explain the billions of women daily telling their SOs (ones they aren't getting beta bux from) that they love them, miss them, become clingy, etc.
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 02:00 AM
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I actually want to eat meat again but I'm afraid of the possibility of negative karmic effects, if Hinduism is even true. Also they say that meat reduces your energy levels and stuff. Also I don't enjoy any sport.
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 01:57 AM
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I haven't discounted the idea that if you have average and above looks and not fat, and have acceptable social skills, then if you just make an effort to improve yourself, (many) women will like you for who you are physically and personality-wise.
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 01:54 AM
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I'm already on Wellbutrin and Fluvoxamine.
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 01:51 AM
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I actually somewhat stopped jerking off because every time I think about this one specific recent rejection I got and what she said, it just kills me and I lose the desire so I don't even bother. Also I have little libido due to the meds.
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 01:51 AM
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I theoretically have enough red-pill knowledge to not dedicate my life to a single oneities, but as long as I have access to someone attractive to do stuff with, whether the specific person is temporary or not, I don't care, as long as I always have access to someone.
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 01:49 AM
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I know; in some aspects, women get paid just to exist and feel pleasure.
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 01:48 AM
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I know. The thing is I have little libido so there's no point in paying for sex. I do need help, and that's why I'm getting a therapist.
/r/seduction06/09/19 10:19 PM
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I'm 24 and probably have Asperger's. Would it become a non-problem if I practiced a lot?
/r/seduction06/09/19 10:17 PM
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Well, I hope I'm not as dumb in real life as I make myself be online. I simply saw another perspective criticizing cold-approach and thought it was interesting. That's all.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:48 PM
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I've been diagnosed with Asperger's, psychosis/schizoaffective disorder, and OCD. No idea what I really have. My mind is very weird.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:34 AM
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I know. I'm seeing my psychologist soon to see what to do. He's a guy.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 11:23 PM
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I have no wit though so I never know what funny thing to say. Should I memorize as many shit test replies as I can from some post on here?
/r/askTRP19/08/19 10:35 PM
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Man, I have so much to learn. I've never really done this stuff in my whole life. I did suggest a public setting though.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:57 PM
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Hey, I was put on antipsychotics too but not for schizophrenia but because I had a bizarre irrational fear and couldn't function properly. I have other fears now but I can live with them. I switched to another psych and he says I have OCD/Asperger's and I'm getting on a new antidepressant. I know this isn't the usual way to make good friends but you can PM me and we chat. I'm going to make an effort to change my life because I'm sick of it.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:55 PM
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The place I suggested is public.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:39 PM
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I just googled it.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 12:47 AM
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I find the free pdf on Google.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 11:38 PM
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Don't get addicted to this site like I and many others do/did! Get the gold and then get off. I'm going to quit completely in a bit.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 07:51 PM
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I'm starting with the assumption that the average TRP-unaware man wants a girlfriend so I'm trying to put myself in their shoes. I've been trying (sort of) to not make women my mission but it's very hard. Biological urges are very strong in me (and of course most others).
/r/askTRP17/07/19 08:24 PM
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Interesting. Out of curiosity, I googled "how to get a girlfriend" to see how bluepill the replies are, and IMO they're somewhat mixed but not so bad. There's this Wikihow https://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Girlfriend which has a two-star rating (unsurprisingly I guess) and it's written by a woman which is a red flag, but none if it tells guys anything related to "worshipping" women, aside from suggestion that you help one if she needs help.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 08:15 PM
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You're right. I'm curious, though, why don't we hear more about men complaining about not getting girls? Or more shootings? I don't at all wish for more shootings but I'd expect that if all this brainwashing results in sexless men then I'd feel like there'd me major upheaval. Almost, I'm not intending to criticize anyone but more understand how most guys think regarding getting girls, since not everyone outside of TRP is sexless.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 07:37 PM
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Ugh. Man, all I want is to make out and fuck. Is it that so much of hassle today? Fuck this. I mean, there's escorts but I want it for free.
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 04:16 PM
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What about him? Did he get a false rape accusation?
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 04:12 PM
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Good-enough for me.
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 03:38 AM
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Check edit.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:34 AM
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Aren't they at least less obese? Although honestly when I was in the U.S. I rarely saw fat people at all.
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 02:28 AM
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Jesus chill. I just read the Rational Male and have all this stuff in my head.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 12:15 AM
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Don't women love "opportunistically" so they don't really love at all?
/r/askTRP13/07/19 10:01 PM
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Got paranoid; thought I'd end up in a psych ward/in the news/run over by a car/miss my flight the next day/go crazy.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 08:58 PM
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Wellbutrin and Risperidone. I don't want to do drugs ever again after my last weed experience.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 12:59 AM
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I'm already on medication and I think it's causing a lot of this. Too much antipsychotics (for germophobia; shouldn't even be on this shit).
/r/askTRP11/07/19 01:46 PM
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How do I have a "good time"? I feel very autistic asking that and I was diagnosed with it when I was little but anyways, I guess I'm a huge introvert. I never have fun in social situations.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 11:55 PM
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Is it better than the stronglifts website?
/r/askTRP07/07/19 08:11 PM
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I don't want to worship them anymore but it's in my (and everyone's) genes. I'm not sticking with them because I have no one and I hate going out. They're just always in my head.
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 05:38 PM
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I'm just a worry-wort in general. I'm in my head way too much (I don't study or have a job so there's that. I'm working on getting over my work anxiety).
/r/askTRP26/06/19 03:45 AM
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Would it also work to just message as bunch of chicks on dating sites asking if they want to get paid to kiss me?
/r/MGTOW05/05/19 04:44 PM
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How do I make it so that she goes for the kiss?
/r/MGTOW05/05/19 04:04 PM
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She can still reject me though.
/r/MGTOW01/05/19 08:23 PM
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The thing is that I'm going back "home" to a Central American country and I probably shouldn't hook up with meth addicts over there.
/r/MGTOW01/05/19 07:54 PM
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Why does she look much older than the man?
/r/MGTOW27/04/19 12:05 AM
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I haven't read the sidebar since last year but I browse occasionally. Thanks for the head's up though. Also I'm not married; too young for that.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:09 AM
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Because you have to financially maintain the woman and the kids, unless the woman works and you split everything, but I thought women are supposed to be homemakers as in tradition.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:04 AM
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How long is longer?
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 11:54 PM
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Ha!
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 11:41 PM
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White or Latin or both.
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 10:40 PM
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Great question. Maybe because from middle school to the end of high I had no friends at that school. The problem though is that I find kissing and sex to feel so damn nice like it's the best feeling for me ever.
/r/MGTOW26/02/19 12:44 PM
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Does that book apply for anxiety and OCD too?
/r/askTRP24/01/19 01:48 PM
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What's the alternative?
/r/askTRP18/01/19 04:59 PM
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Is this in Panama?
/r/MGTOW29/12/18 02:39 PM
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Is it hard for an American get into an English-instruction bachelor's program somewhere in Eastern Europe (Slovenia, Serbia (although I'm skeptical of the political situation)), for business/economics/computer science? I have a high school diploma and an Associate of the Arts. Just in case you know.
/r/MGTOW27/12/18 01:40 AM
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Have Fun?
/r/askTRP27/12/18 01:23 AM
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Do you recommend following the Nomad Capitalist's blog (getting multiple passports) and Singledudetravel's advice to establish residency, businesses, real estate, income, etc. all in different countries?
/r/askTRP25/12/18 10:23 PM
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It got removed. Is there an archive?
/r/MGTOW24/12/18 02:55 AM
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What if it's a woman I meet during daygame and whose number I block afterwards (so not from school or work)?
/r/MGTOW23/12/18 01:43 PM
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I feel like moving there :D
/r/MGTOW14/12/18 05:28 PM
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How long did it take to get to that point? Also I imagine you have to be really socially smart.
/r/MGTOW12/12/18 11:04 PM
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Eh, not the case.
/r/MGTOW12/12/18 09:18 PM
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Where is this? Serbia?
/r/MGTOW12/12/18 09:13 PM
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How did you get started with that?
/r/MGTOW12/12/18 09:12 PM
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Did you fuck her? Asking because I'm thinking of only getting as far as making out in order to avoid false accusations but don't know if that'd work.
/r/MGTOW12/12/18 09:02 PM
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I've considered MMA. What turns me off about it is broken noses. Should I be concerned with that or do it anyways?
/r/MGTOW12/12/18 08:50 PM
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There isn't really anything I love to do :/. My thoughts are full of complaining and negativity. I take meds so I don't freak out all the time and I have a shrink too but we're not progressing quickly because I'm supposed to talk to girls and haven't been out of fear. I often fantasize about being "normal", confident and happy. Thanks for your suggestions though. Do you have any other?
/r/MGTOW11/12/18 10:29 PM
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How do I respect myself and stop being afraid of everything? How do I force passion?
/r/MGTOW11/12/18 10:15 PM
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Maybe what you really want is hookups, since romantic love is kind of bullshit. Start with getting with some less-attractive girls (preferably don't validate fat girls).
/r/MGTOW09/12/18 12:21 PM
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Go to a Latin American or European country where it's legal unless you don't want to stay for a while. https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9i26ss/comment/e6l7cu3
/r/MGTOW04/11/18 10:59 PM
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I'm going to abstain from PMO, limit unproductive internet use by using the Pomodoro technique and stop eating added sugar. Everyday I'll either run two miles or go to the gym, or both.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 10:37 PM
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How do you game without giving them attention? You have to approach.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:58 PM
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I did (didn't like either) but I have to stick to one of them.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 01:21 AM
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Which of the two? And u/Nib-q
/r/askTRP09/09/18 01:04 AM
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Wait, so is or no? I see from the glossary that beta means providing resources/validation to others, but does that include getting something in return from giving your resources, or just not getting anything in return? Pardon me, I'm a bit slow.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:19 PM
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And avoid sitting with a wrong posture all day, please. I'm super guilty of that. It's supposed to be but all the way to the back of the chair and back straight, right?
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:49 PM
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Yes but I see that I'm wrong.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 09:28 PM
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Eh, that doesn't sound right to me but it could be. So, alpha bux?
/r/askTRP07/07/18 09:14 PM
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means of production How long does this take? Are you talking about ten years (or however long) of buying dividend stocks? How did/do you do it?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 10:09 PM
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Thanks but I couldn't find my part.
/r/MGTOW21/03/18 11:19 AM
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Doesn't that stuff not happen if you follow TRP?
/r/MGTOW16/03/18 03:37 PM
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Does this mean I should be doing HIIT instead of long cardio for losing weight while I lift?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 12:01 PM
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How old are you now?
/r/askTRP21/12/17 11:30 PM
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What type? What the Art of Living teaches, mindfulness or what? Headspace?
/r/askTRP20/12/17 11:21 PM
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I've been alone for a while and am an introvert, I guess.
/r/MGTOW27/11/17 09:42 PM
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Doesn't seem like anyone even wants to marry me.
/r/MGTOW27/11/17 09:42 PM
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20-25.
/r/MGTOW27/11/17 01:28 AM
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20-25.
/r/MGTOW27/11/17 01:28 AM
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It's that I had some relationships in the past but I have this paranoia now that I'm not in control of my own destiny and some greater power is. I fear that power.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 11:53 PM
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What age range is younger fella?
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 11:41 PM
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An aspie?
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 11:35 PM
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Like, why did I wait until now to ask?
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 11:32 PM
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I want to follow red pill theory and become Chad (so no being a bluepill bitch) but I don't know how it's possible without being happy with myself first.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 11:14 PM
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I've always wanted a girl to desire me. I feel worthless and that God doesn't like me or something. Don't really have friends either. Is the problem genetic? Maybe. I'm pretty much always alone. I've gone out a few times and talked to people but I always feel like they don't give a single shit about me and never will, no matter how much effort I make. My psychiatrist says I have psychotic depression which may be true. I go to the gym and have a trainer. Running hasn't helped my mood. I'm vegetar…
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 11:04 PM
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