howmanydingas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
20	What to bring to the table when you feel broken	LTR/MARRIAGE	howmanydingas	/r/RedPillWomen	22/04/20 01:37 PM
1	Unsure of my role living with SO and his family	ADVICE	howmanydingas	/r/RedPillWomen	01/06/20 04:31 AM

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6	Where to start? Hey! So I'm quite new to this sub as well, but firstly I'd say start implementing self-care stuff into your daily routine. This will not only help you in the long run, but it definitely makes me feel more feminine and pretty :) I'm sure my SO also appreciates me looking after myself and I'd imagine your future partner will too. - Get a suitable skincare regime down. Sunscreen is a great place to start! - Learn life skills like cooking, DIY, etc - Acquire hobbies and strive to learn more (for me …	/r/RedPillWomen	24/05/20 12:39 AM
3	How do I progress? Work on yourself. Don’t focus on dating too much, and just put your energy into bettering yourself. Also, what was a green light for me is my SO never asked about how many I’ve slept with before him. I think a quality man won’t interrogate you on that. They will be more concerned with other stuff like how driven your are or kind. And watching my other friends, don’t screw around on the first dates of course. Two of my friends do this and never can find a serious partner	/r/RedPillWomen	23/05/20 01:27 AM
3	Mental Illness and RPW Hello! I’m sorry to hear. It can be really, really rough and isolating feeling this way, and exhausting too. To answer your question - I guess I’m lucky in the sense that I have a supportive partner that also pushes me. I really hated him pushing me but if he never did I wouldn’t leave bed to be honest. Over time I think that combined with therapy has taught me to get up and get things done. And having a routine of some sort. Although it’s still very difficult a lot of the time because I don’t ‘…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/05/20 01:03 AM
8	Mental Illness and RPW Hi! I don’t have any formal diagnosis, but I do experience depression and anxiety, and a whole lot of flow on effects - stemming from childhood trauma. I also have health issues from scoliosis to flat feet, and potential endometriosis. Bipolar runs in my family and so does breast cancer. Even though these can be seen as weaknesses in the gene pool or faults, I believe if we are able to strive to better ourselves in all aspects, whether that be mental and physical health, in our ability to resolv…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/05/20 07:18 AM
1	Advice on maintaining a long term relationship from a young age Examine your values, as someone else said also make sure yours on the same page. For us it’s about having similar life goals (furthering our education, getting a property, not allowing opposite sex friends to get in the way of our relationship), and a lot of it is being willing to grow together and work through things when they don’t feel so great. For me, the growth looked like getting jobs, supporting as well as pushing each other through hard times, learning to better oneself as an individual…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/05/20 03:44 AM
2	You women are NOT crazy and I used to be what y'all call a plate. Here's my story with a side of rant. This is beautiful...	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/20 04:11 AM
2	I hate my own cooking Budgetbytes recipes! Sorry about your family btw.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/05/20 03:26 AM
2	Is it a normal occurrence for women, for your male friends to suddenly suggest having sex? At some point it’ll probably head towards sex (usually from the male). Whether that’s jokes, small compliments or even just being downright creepy, it’s really hard to have genuine male friends because generally for one side they could see it as more than a friend. Most guys are happy to just stay in the friendzone and hope for an opening (excuse the pun). I no longer have male friends because of this, except for 1, who is possibly asexual. Either way, it’s human nature at work.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/05/20 03:23 AM
1	What to bring to the table when you feel broken You speak the truth	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/20 12:27 PM
2	What to bring to the table when you feel broken She would love this!	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/20 12:27 PM
1	What to bring to the table when you feel broken Thank you for the input! You make an interesting point about intellect - I can imagine if I was 'smarter' perhaps it would be a huge threat. Also, I'll have a look at Delia Smith. I do have some favourite recipe sites I can pull up! Haha love that tea and biscuit thing... I don't turn it down too much, because like you said there's definitely stuff he does to keep me happy and sex is way more important to him. No starfishing here! :) Thanks again!	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/20 12:27 PM
1	What to bring to the table when you feel broken This one hit home hard but you're right. Appreciate your input, thanks!	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/20 12:22 PM
1	What to bring to the table when you feel broken This was really nice to reply to read and reminder. Thank you.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/20 12:21 PM
1	What to bring to the table when you feel broken I ended up asking him what he enjoys the most and getting a few things out of him. Not the same as values but it's a start. Deifnitely have a lot to learn from RPW, cooking is just one I'd like to get better at. Thank you for the tips as well. I do agree especially with 2.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/20 12:20 PM
2	What to bring to the table when you feel broken Sorry to hear about your family dynamic! And congrats on estrangement - painful, but liberating no doubt! Thanks for recommending! I have posted in RBN before, particularly through difficult times. I've been estranged from my mother about 2 years! Honestly, I have a whole mental list of things her behaviour has instilled in me. I think the most is distrust for myself and others. I cannot trust people have pure intentions on maybe an unconscious level, just because my mother was a massive liar an…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/20 12:14 PM
2	What to bring to the table when you feel broken Interesting to have a male perspective here. You make some really good points, straightforward. About intelligence - I completely understand... that's why my SO and I could never work together. He enjoys problem-solving and is logical, and I am not. Gives me some stuff to think about overall... Thanks so much for your input!	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/20 12:09 PM
2	What to bring to the table when you feel broken Wow, a lot of suggestions here too! I'm happy that RPW has been so generous with info. Thankfully I can cook some basic stuff and follow recipes but I have no memory of recipes etched into my brain or skills prepping food. I used to use Budget Bytes which was super easy and cheap to follow. I think a part of my apprehension is knowing SO's mother is dominant in the kitchen and excellent at what she does. Definitely your post and others have made me question things... I guess like you said it's t…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/20 11:30 AM
3	What to bring to the table when you feel broken This is really helpful and I'm taking a look at the channels now. Sounds like you'd know what it takes seeing as you were thrust in the deep end living alone! Thank you for your suggestions and kind words! I particularly agree with it being useful to keep up to date with news and invest in interesting topics. Also, I know my SO's mother is definitely on board with teaching me how to cook - she helped me tweak a soup today that I didn't get quite right and actually offered to help me learn which …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/20 11:22 AM