howtobehandsome Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	First first date tonight in over a year. Help needed.		howtobehandsome	/r/seduction	26/09/13 06:19 PM

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1	Any active Austin folk out there looking to go out? Not at all. I've defeated my approach anxiety and my neediness and cultivated a great state and persona, but I haven't translated it into any hard-mode SNLs. Mostly just number closes, social circle game, and a lot of fun on 6th.	/r/seduction	06/10/13 06:57 PM
1	Any active Austin folk out there looking to go out? 21 year old UT super senior here. My game is limited to weekends since I have to study a lot, but I'm always up for sarging.	/r/seduction	01/10/13 04:24 PM
1	Anyone ever like the music so much that they don't even want to grind on a girl? The whole point of this is to have fun. If you weren't feeling it, you weren't feeling it. If the actuality of the situation is that you wanted to approach but were anxious and used your just-having-fun mindset as an excuse, that'd be different. But if you were being honest with yourself and didn't care, then you were in the right. Don't fall prey to the whole "what if I'm missing out on something great" mentality. Women love to pull that on me, but you just have to do what you want when you wan…	/r/seduction	26/09/13 06:23 PM
2	What do you say to "my eyes up here"? Golden. Likely to get a rejection but if executed correctly under the right circumstances, this is cocky-funny money in the bank.	/r/seduction	26/09/13 03:09 AM
3	What's your routine once you brought the girl home? Someone downvoted this, but I think it's important. You want to be able to change your routine for different circumstances. Yes, ideally, she's already primed for the f-close. Come back from the bar at 3am, lock the door, gently throw her up against it, get the kiss, get started. However, sometimes the false pretense can be important, depending on the girl. If you told her you want to show her your record collection after dinner at 8:30, she might actually want to see them first as an ASD, and i…	/r/seduction	26/09/13 03:07 AM
5	Ways to turn down sex while remaining dominant? Make her want it even more. Basically, just be a huge tease. I've used this one with my FWB before, particularly after she got a big head: get her hot. Get her ready. Wait until she's literally asking you for it. Then get up and leave, playfully/cockily saying you just don't feel like it. This puts you in control. You don't have to do it right then and it will leave her wondering what she did wrong. An obvious caveat here is that the sexual interest has to be very high, and she has to be on the …	/r/seduction	09/09/13 12:03 AM
3	Why am I attractive to women when I am sweaty, gross, and wearing skintight shorts? Don't overlook the power that physical activity can have as a demonstration of high value. Perfect physique or not, it shows that you have an interest in something outside of your apartment and that you actively pursue it, be it as a means of self-improvement or just as a means of having fun.	/r/seduction	07/09/13 05:11 AM
1	Amendment to Field Reports: List your HB rating? You are the prize. In any field report where the author knows how or what he's doing, he'll list himself as an HB10. That's not cockiness, that's placing value on yourself and operating in state.	/r/seduction	04/09/13 11:07 PM
1	Dominant Guy Vs. Submissive Guy I'm going to throw in a quick two cents: I agree with a lot of what you say here, but I'm gonna add that the sexual dynamic and relationship dynamic are not always equivalent. This is anecdotal, but I think I'm a good example of this. I've always been very dominant, assertive, and intense in the bedroom. I thought I was very much a "dominant" guy. But there for a few years, when the clothes came back on, it was obvious that I was needy and not invested in myself at all. It's important to respect…	/r/seduction	03/09/13 09:51 PM
1	Sexual flirting? I guess this is something that comes naturally to me, but I'm going to try to intellectualize it to communicate it better. When a girl that you have established rapport with tells you that she is horny, that's a signal. Women don't walk around telling everyone how horny they are. She's telling you for a reason. If this happened to me over text, I'd see it for what it is: an opportunity to increase your sexuality in her eyes. Start with a playful question. Something as simple as "Oh really?" or "…	/r/seduction	03/09/13 09:46 PM
2	Difficulty meeting girl, should I ask her mom? If you're aware of the daughter through more than pictures, then you should be able to meet her without using the mom. Under no circumstances should you do this. In the best case, the mom agrees and the girl is resistant to dating someone handpicked by her mother. In the worst case, one or both of them is incredibly creeped out, as they perceive your behavior as needy, which it is.	/r/seduction	03/09/13 09:35 PM
3	[FR] What you can accomplish in just a week when you're starting out might amaze you This was really great to read. It's amazing how many behaviors you can change as soon as you're cognizant of them. It sounds like you've already learned a lot. I'm curious, what books were part of your preliminary reading?	/r/seduction	03/09/13 09:32 PM
2	I have gone from medium to mild acne over my teens and now I have both mild acne and medium scars. What do? Yeah, no problem dude. With just about any flaw or hangup you have about yourself, it's highly likely that you are acutely more aware of it than others are. But people can sniff out those insecurities, and that is what actually turns those little things from minor flaws to big unattractive ones.	/r/seduction	02/09/13 05:45 PM
4	What are some things that make you feel confident before you go out? I like to look good. I have a few outfits that I've carefully thought out that I think I look best in. Not so much peacocking or dressing loudly, just the right look to get into state so I can look in the mirror, smirk, and just KNOW I'm gonna have a good night. I am not a modest man... on weekends, anyway.	/r/seduction	02/09/13 05:11 PM
2	Really bad at the dance part? This should be in the sidebar, haha	/r/seduction	02/09/13 05:00 PM
3	I have gone from medium to mild acne over my teens and now I have both mild acne and medium scars. What do? Check out /r/malegrooming and /r/skincareaddiction. They can probably help you out with actual acne treatment advice better than we can here. As far as the implications it has for building attraction, you just have to own it. I have less-than-perfect teeth that I used to be really insecure about, but I realized that, at least in the immediate sense, I'm not going to change that. So instead I just forget it's even a thing and run game like I don't even know about it. Game would be easy for everyo…	/r/seduction	02/09/13 04:43 PM