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Escalation & Calibrationhowtobemisha/r/seduction18/04/26 03:26 AM
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/r/seduction23/06/26 03:45 PM
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Inspiring bro, keep it up. I am also going to New Delhi soon, do you have some advise on locations? (if you want, you can dm)
/r/seduction23/06/26 11:46 AM
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do not beat yourself up, you can develop a disease bro
/r/seduction05/06/26 08:06 AM
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people with acne can be super-attractive tbh
/r/seduction05/06/26 04:31 AM
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but not “privet babushka” 😁
/r/seduction03/06/26 04:49 AM
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learn some russian words
/r/seduction01/06/26 07:20 AM
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Not in 2026
/r/seduction28/05/26 03:13 PM
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The same bro. I started fwb relationships previous year, but I constantly getting hints from her she wants long term
/r/seduction28/05/26 11:04 AM
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I see, I was just wondering that after a certain number of approaches it disappears. I have done around 100, but still get that feeling
/r/seduction26/05/26 03:09 AM
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good job, so you don’t feel that hearbeat feeling at all before approaches now?
/r/seduction25/05/26 12:18 PM
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why it is the opposite in my case since day 1 😭
/r/seduction25/05/26 03:13 AM
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the same, with my prev gf we continued in 10 min, but with some girls you don’t even want to think about it till the next day…
/r/seduction23/05/26 09:26 AM
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Actually, I approached a girl saying the lamest “you’re cure” stuff last week and we went on an insta date. So, I think it may depend on a country, a girl, etc. When you just starting out, it may be difficult to improvise around at first. At least to do an approach is already something for some guys Of, course, when 80+ approaches came to nothibg it is also not cool (in a previous post) and we need somw confirmation bias here or rewards So, it depends. Maybe go to another country and start pract…
/r/seduction20/05/26 09:54 PM
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I have a friend in Dubai, and we both had the same female friend there. And once he said to me, that she is a 10. But she is not an actress, basically he was wrong? In my opinion, the is objectively beautiful (not a dubai-style beautiful, but really 😁), plus, we have like this chemistly when touching and stuff. but I don't really enjoy her smile (a 7 for the smile) and really don't like her voice (a 1 for voice). How should I calculate it? and what about personality, we don't count it here, righ…
/r/seduction18/05/26 05:40 PM
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what is the difference between 9 and 10? or 7 and 10? can someone explain me the concept please
/r/seduction18/05/26 03:12 PM
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“just don’t have her showing up to my door or we’re gonna have a problem” your dream definitely lacks something😁
/r/seduction14/05/26 05:07 AM
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girls don’t read words very well, if you don’t want to be friends, you need to try to push through emotions/touches – does she respond? If no, just distance yourself from her and try again a year later. As simple as that. Actually every time I tried to say a former female friend that I want more than friends it turned out total bs. Only non-verbal here
/r/seduction14/05/26 04:16 AM
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I have a friend in another city and every time I met with him, 98% of the dialog he talks about women. It is super annoying 😁
/r/seduction09/05/26 10:35 AM
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I had a female friend who happens to be a model. And she said that in Italy whilw she was waiting for the green traffic light, I guy just come to her and kissed in the lips 😄
/r/seduction09/05/26 10:15 AM
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it is called scarcity mentality bro
/r/seduction01/05/26 07:34 PM
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Oh I just noticed that I am 9 years older. Even at 30 I thought female friends are aweeesomeee
/r/seduction01/05/26 07:05 PM
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I think everyonw decides for himself. Maybe I just didn’t get lucky with that, but I will explain At one point of my life I thought it is so cool to have female friends. There is even one time was a decision in my life when I broke up with my gurfriend because I thought that the communication with her is not as smooth and nice as with my two female friends (which I eventually stopped any communication naturally, one got married, another one just started demanding full-boyfriend service from me e…
/r/seduction01/05/26 07:01 PM
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There is actually one thing I would recommend to do in the first place. If you have a woman in your life who is seeing you just as a friend and you’re 100% sure that there is nothing else in her emotions – cut her off asap. I actually realized it quite late. Having this kind of relationships in your life reduces your masculinity and chances for something normal with women. If you want female friends that badly – you need them as FWB.
/r/seduction01/05/26 06:15 PM
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I would agree there is 1% of girls who go into a relationship after friendship everyone else is a waste of time and energy and emotions
/r/seduction30/04/26 03:35 AM
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the long story short, she avoided any contacts and when she unfollowed me on insta (!) I recorded her a voice 😁 she said, that I travel a lot and we don't match because of that. one of the weirdest things I ever heard. someone just triggered by my travels. though, it is not like a necessary thing in my life lol
/r/seduction29/04/26 03:28 PM
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Just curious, which country she is from?
/r/seduction27/04/26 01:52 PM
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yes absolutely the same in business, you can create 100 projects/startups and got like 100$ MRR, or just 1-2 projects and become a millinaire honestly, idk how to deal with it, yet related to dating: a couple of years ago I did dating apps a lot. If we speak in terms of 10-scale, there are no 10s right? However, there was a moment when I traveled with my friend to the mountains riding snowboard and also had a cool trip to moscow, after that I met a 10 in tinder, and we started dating, it was ama…
/r/seduction26/04/26 05:31 AM
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It is kind of not simple questions. Feeling of being behind is just a feeling and it has nothing to do with real things. For example, I am 35, I was married and had two girfriends, I broke up with the previous one 4 years ago, and these years I spent building my bussinesses. Every time I meet with my friends who either have a wife or a nice gf – I feel behind. Every time the sales to not go well with the business – I feel behind a lot. Good news, as others said in the comments, 30s is OK. For me…
/r/seduction25/04/26 03:48 PM
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probably depends on a country. I can not say that I have insane amount of matches, but I got some quality ones and went on dates. I use travel mode often (Europe/Asia), for example, most overweight women I found in India… (bumble)
/r/seduction24/04/26 12:16 PM
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Exactly that😄 but I think she was not vietnamese
/r/seduction23/04/26 10:51 AM
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Bro, I recently got into a similar situation, I liked the girl, she seemed very interested in me. But there is this ghosted thing which freaks me out. Another story if she didn’t seem interested, then tbh I didn’t even texted her in the first place. But when this ghosting happens when everything seems to be perfect, that’s kind of weird to my logical mind. I hope I will find an explanation to this
/r/seduction22/04/26 07:55 AM
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how to become 6,3?
/r/seduction22/04/26 12:21 AM
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I approached a girl in Saigon and I made it kind of by surprise (plus, it was evening time) she was super-scared and I felt bad till the end of the day
/r/seduction21/04/26 09:21 AM
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There is a lot of girls like this in nothern russian cities like Murmansk/St Petersburg and in Siberia. I dated one from Murmansk years ago
/r/seduction20/04/26 01:19 PM
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for me talk is talk is the same, no matter to whom…
/r/seduction20/04/26 12:49 PM
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I am getting too emotionally involved and I want to figure it out
/r/seduction20/04/26 06:19 AM
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how?
/r/seduction20/04/26 05:01 AM
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yeah, too bad if that’s the case, because I am geniunly interested, not just for intimacy, will try to follow up
/r/seduction19/04/26 11:00 AM
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Yes, I also had these thoughts, we’ll see how it’ll go
/r/seduction19/04/26 09:36 AM
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haha man, i hope not
/r/seduction18/04/26 03:16 PM
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Well, probably. That moment was in a bit of a hurry and caught me by surprise. And it is my first time dating an armenian girl, I didn't know what to expect (excuses, yes) 🙂
/r/seduction18/04/26 03:16 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate your reply! I will definitely try that
/r/seduction18/04/26 12:16 PM
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what is the difference between 4s and 5s in particular?
/r/seduction29/03/26 06:47 PM
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