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I asked her where would she like to go, and she said "hotel". I guess she really wants that BWC. It's just a little strange going out with a woman old enough to be my mother
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:17 AM
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She's been very forward with me, it kind of surprised me. It's really refreshing when a girl doesn't play those stupid games
/r/askTRP15/06/21 09:47 PM
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I'd say the latter. At first, I didn't really have any expectations, and I thought there's absolutely no way this could work, considering the age gap but here I am lol. Though I've already passed the 'are you a player' and 'how old are you' shit tests
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:13 PM
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https://ourworldindata.org/human-height#how-tall-are-men-across-the-world
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:01 AM
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I'll probably be downvoted by all the shortcels lurking asktrp, but 5 foot 6 isn't THAT short. That's one inch below global average, you're still taller than most girls and only a little shorter than most guys. Just embrace it since there's fuckall you can do about it. Don't let it phase you; girls can smell your insecurities from a mile away. Also since you have a smaller frame, you don't need as much muscle mass to look jacked. Use that to your advantage.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 08:23 AM
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I hate being the ackchyually guy but very, very few people have a truly 'slow metabolism'. There definitely are differences, although it's only around 250 cals difference for the 'slow metabolism' person.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 07:19 AM
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Fasting after a binge can help, but don't do it for more than a couple of days and don't make it a regular thing! That's how you'll develop an eating disorder. The weight you gained is not all fat, but even if it was, would you just stop dieting? The only way to lose it again is by creating a deficit and sticking to it. As for the binges, if you're having a hard time controlling it, throw away all the junk food, all the high calorie food, everything you've binged on/feel like you could binge on.…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 07:16 AM
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19, not by choice though - got kicked out. It sucked ass at first, not having a microwave, fridge, a washing machine... It really helped me mature, but I wouldn't recommend it to anyone
/r/askTRP02/03/21 10:26 AM
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You might have undiagnosed ADHD. Either way, try out Pomodoro (25mins work, 5 mins break). Also, when you notice your mind starts to wander off, quiz yourself about the content and imagine you're explaining what the book is about to someone else. At least that's what works for me.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 02:20 PM
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Huh? On Saturday? I thought you had a date scheduled. I scheduled a Saturday date on Tuesday (right after I got her number), but she kept messaging me and on late Wednesday, she asked if I wanted to go on a walk with her. I though if she's sending me that at 11PM, she must be really horny and I don't have anything to lose. Thought you’ve been red pilled for like 5 years. The fuck is this response? She was turned on by your forwardness and wanted to fuck. She tested to see if you were THAT guy. F…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 11:22 PM
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I left out some bits and the post is a little sloppy, but I've noticed IOIs almost immediately. She would also text me out of the blue, things like 'Good afternoon :-) how's it going?' and Goodnight etc... before we even met. So yeah, I knew from the start she was at least a little into me, didn't know exactly how much though.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 02:40 PM
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Maybe it's a little too early to call myself a late bloomer, but that 23 could easily turn into 33
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 12:30 PM
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You'll get used to it, my maintenance is 2300 and sometimes I go up to 1800 when I feel like I need more energy.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 12:22 PM
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I didn't track my measurements before, but I was 92kg at my heaviest. Now I'm 75kg and want to get down to 68ish. 168cm/5ft6
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 12:20 PM
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I know I should follow your advice but god damn!!!! I'm so tempted! BTW I'm from EU, and fortunately over here fake rape/assault accusations are nowhere near as common as in the US.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 07:52 AM
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I never thought about that, but you're probably right. I'll make sure to read Models, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 07:49 AM
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Now that you mention it... We'll see in two weeks haha!
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 05:08 AM
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Just one, left nipple. Tbh, I think it's kinda hot
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 05:05 AM
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I know right? I think our brain subconsciously knows girls like that are an easy lay.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 05:04 AM
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When I started dieting, at first I was eating 2000 calories/day. Junk, clean, sodas, didn't matter but it had to be under 2000. I kept lowering the daily calories as my weight went down. After 4 months or so, I started counting protein as well (100g). Now I'm eating 1500 calories, 150g of protein and I watch my carbs and fats.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 05:02 AM
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I've already implied I'm looking for a FWB and she said she's looking for an LTR. Assuming I want this chick to be my GF, what should I do next? As I've said, I've never had a GF and I'd like to know what it's like, learn some things. But I'm having mixed feelings about being in a relationship with someone who has so many red flags! But I live in a small town and meeting hotties is really hard here. Maybe I should just keep my hand on the stove until I get burned
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 01:22 AM
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It's in Kilograms. I'll convert it to pounds just for you. Squat 210 OHP 125 DL 255 Bench 175 Row 130
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 01:07 AM
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Life's just SOOO much easier when you're attractive. Why did I not realize that sooner? I wish I could go back in time and slap my 15y/o self
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 12:53 AM
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I agree, face genetics probably played a huge part here, but she was hugging my arm like a fucking teddy bear haha. She said she loves my forearms and broad shoulders, I know I'm still at the start of my journey, and I have a loooong way to go, but I feel like I'm already way ahead of the average BP soyboy. And it can only get better!
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 12:38 AM
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Been lifting on and off since the beginning of 2019, like 3 months regular schedule, then 3 months of sitting on my ass... I've been taking the gym more seriously since May 2020. I started dieting in October 2019, lost 15kg, still another 10 or so to go. Basically a noob. I'm not jacked or anything, but I look like I work out and sometimes, I guess that's good enough.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 12:28 AM
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I totally feel you man, sometimes you're just not in the mood, feeling blue, you just want to lay in your bed and stare at the ceiling while listening to Avril Lavigne. But!!! The hardest part is getting of your ass and going. Once you've managed that, it's pretty easy. The habit of going to the gym regularly is 1000x more important than whatever you do there. Even if you totally don't feel like it - your boss just scolded you in front of the entire office, your dog died and your LTR cheated on …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 12:23 AM
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True, getting in is the easy part, but even that would be a huge win for me
/r/askTRP31/07/20 02:20 PM
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You know what? I'm done fucking whining. One year from now, I will DM you my university admission certificate. RemindMe! 1 year “send a PM”
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:52 PM
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Why do you think BA/Economics would be better for me? Studies would be math focused in all three, but CS is one of the most demanded and best paid careers here, and IMO it's a very flexible choice. Also it would allow me to freelance/work from home. BA/Economics doesn't really appeal to me, though I've never though about it
/r/askTRP30/07/20 10:15 AM
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Oof, this one really hurts to read but you're right
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:04 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:00 PM
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Hey man, how's it going?
/r/askTRP29/07/20 10:51 AM
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My worst enemy is me. It's time to get off my ass and finally start moving forward
/r/askTRP29/07/20 10:41 AM
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How was your freshman experience? Anything in particular you struggled with?
/r/askTRP28/07/20 08:32 PM
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I have some interesting hobbies (learning languages, photography, fire dancing), but I've never managed to convert that into any lasting social interaction. Come to think of it, since I dropped out I haven't really interacted with people other than my coworkers. I don't drink and my night game is weak. Meeting others with similar interests in a small city is not easy.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 08:09 PM
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I'm going to look into meds; never took them, so I'm wondering what it's like. Hope it helps somewhat
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:56 PM
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Yes, I realize I have to do a total 180 to get out of this shitty situation. It'll be hard work but it must be done. My biggest struggle is staying consistent - I'll get the ball rolling, only to burn out a couple days later.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:49 PM
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Hi, it was ČVUT, Fakulta Informačních Technologií. I looked around for other universities, and this one is the best regarded for CS, also it's in the capital city so more opportunities to network + higher chance of getting a job.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:40 PM
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Well, I cruised through high school, never really studied unless there was a fire lit under my ass, so I never learned how to 'learn'. Also, I have ADHD, which makes it difficult to sit down, I get easily distracted and can't focus for long. I tried pomodoro, but the best I can do is two or three 25 min sessions a day, and even that is a huge accomplishment for me.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:24 PM
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You're right, I don't necessarily need school, but I want to attend because: I want to prove to myself that I can do it. I want to be around people my age. Degree + networking will make getting a job easier. And I just like the idea of being a student
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:15 PM
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You nailed it. On one hand, I'm still young but on the other hand I realize I'm not a little boy anymore. I don't want to end up as a 30-year-old man working alongside guys ten years younger, doing the same job for the same pay and if I don't get my shit together, It might just happen.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:12 PM
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I already wasted 4 years, so if I'm going to waste another 4, I might as well have a CS degree to show for it. I'm just not where I want to be, I have no education and no relevant work experience. So my options are either uni or unskilled labor for the next 40 years. I could try starting a side business, but IMO that's a huge gamble, especially now. I'd rather work on having a safety net.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:07 PM
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Alright, I'll get some wireless headphones, that should do the trick
/r/askTRP10/01/20 08:08 PM
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Pretty sure it was aimed at me lol. He was talking to another gymbro and said something like 'this guy who just walked past is an idiot'. IDK though, I always put my weights back and wipe my sweat
/r/askTRP10/01/20 07:49 PM
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Right now I'm about halfway through Dumbbell stopgap, I plan on starting with gym when I finish it in a few weeks
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:52 PM
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That's really insightful. Thanks a lot
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:34 PM
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Yea, If I could choose I would be 5 to 6 inches taller but I can't really do that so I just try not to worry about it too much
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:32 PM
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I'm 5 foot 7
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:08 PM
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Could you elaborate?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:03 AM
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