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| 4 | I’m not gonna ask on relationship advice subs to get gaslit, I’ll ask here if allowed. Do you think I should leave because he didn’t stand up for me, or is it trauma?From my own experience, this is the type of issue that is going to lead to so much (justified) resentment on your part if you continue the relationship. My ex had a difficult family…his mother in law was pushy, argumentative and loved to provoke people. When I was over at their home for dinner (with my ex), his mother made a comment about how many female assault victims were “asking for it” or otherwise did something to lead the man on (how she was acting, her clothing) and I could not hold my t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:09 PM |
| 10 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!This is great advice. I haven’t had the greatest role models when it comes to relationships in my life and this really resonates with me. I do feel like there were likely signs of her future husband’s apathy towards her at some point during the relationship prior to marriage. But I think we often try to wish these red flags away (at least I have). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 05:20 PM |
| 91 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!I wonder how we can ensure we don’t wind up like this woman. Are there any proven strategies to determine if a man has lingering feelings for an ex? Because this sounds like a heartbreaking nightmare for this woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 02:09 PM |
| 78 | Why he will punish you for giving him second chancesI hate this kind of taunting some men do. An exbf of mine would use my desire to get married to get me to accept his poor behavior. “Well I had been thinking of proposing but I really don’t like what I’m seeing.” It’s gross how much I put up with and I want to give early 20s me a good shake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 07:42 PM |
| 7 | Why he will punish you for giving him second chancesI initially came to this sub because of some other subs openly mocking it and thought it would be entertaining. But what I actually found is good, consistent advice and a focus on maintaining boundaries. So I really don’t get all the hate focused here. I’ve been lurking for awhile and have liked what I’ve seen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 07:41 PM |
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